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    This week, Matt, Steve, and Jessica discuss some of the trials that can come up with co-parenting.

    Matt and Jessica share their experience helping Ann move out and get an apartment for herself and the kids. They describe their hopes that showing support would help strengthen their relationship with her. 

    And for a while, it did until miscommunication got in the way and disrupted the progress they were making. Jessica explains the catalyst of that divide, and the three of them talk about trying to figure out better ways to communicate in a co-parenting situation. 

    Highlights of the discussion: 

    • Steve’s stinky weekend (03:05)
    • Matt’s birthday weekend (08:30)
    • Jessica and Matt’s fence drama (13:30)
    • Helping Ann move out (19:35)
    • Penny and Sarah’s miscommunication (25:30)
    • One of Matt’s realizations from this encounter (31:00)
    • Trying to figure out better ways to communicate (36:15)

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