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    Connect with the Husband In Law crew: https://theboldlogic.com/boldetin Hey Friend! If you are new here, be sure to start with Episode One. This is not your typical podcast and you aren’t going to want to miss a thing! Jessica, Steve (her gay ex-husband) and Matt (her current husband) are sharing their stories of love, marriage, infidelity, divorce, coming out, remarriage and co-parenting to help others know they are not alone. This podcast is for those who are open-minded enough to let go of the religious and social norms we have been taught we should fit into and live a life that feels true and authentic to who they are. Steve, Jessica, and Matt are here to walk through the science of making relationsh!t successful. Steve and Jessica were happily married for 7 years until Steve came out as being gay which inevitably ended in divorce. Now, Matt and Jessica have been happily married for over 8 years. The crazy part is, Matt, Jessica, and Steve all get along, to the extent that Matt and Steve work together, every dang day… Don’t worry you will get all the details while you listen. Matt, Jessica, and Steve have a relationship that, by most standards, would be considered atypical. Sharing stories of love, marriage, children, divorce, the struggles of religious norms, homosexuality, and trying to be our best selves, this podcast holds nothing back and shares what most people are scared to talk about. Listen in as they take you on this journey of learning how to love and accept themselves enough to love and accept others for who they are during this experience called “Life”.
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    Loved Me For Me

    Loved Me For Me

    Marty and Brandi have been married for 12 years (15 years together), but what happens when his wife confronts him about whether he is still attracted to her? Doesn’t she remember that he “was gay” before they got married? His response was honest and changed the rest of their lives.

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6


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    Free Retreat Spot for YOU?!

    Free Retreat Spot for YOU?!

    You have probably heard me allude to it, but today, I am tackling it head-on. I have heard from women over and over again, "Jessica, I am feeling all the same things you are describing, but I didn't have a partner come out." Why is that? Is that weird? I am here to answer all your questions about why you are feeling all the same things. Let’s dive into how your experience may feel similar, even though it is different.

    It is time for intentional healing AND to figure out what you want when you “grow up” after betrayal… Which is really like a Glow Up! Come learn how to connect back to YOU at the FREE “What Now?!” Workshop on February 21, 2024. Claim your spot now! https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowworkshop

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6


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    Best Thing I Did As A Mother

    Best Thing I Did As A Mother

    After 28 years of marriage and trying all the things to make their marriage work, Britt and her Ex decided it was time to part ways. Britt has done a LOT of intentional healing and wants to share the beauty that has come out of this experience. She will be joining The BOLD Logic Coaching team in March to support you on a very sensitive part of your healing journey.

    It is time for intentional healing AND to figure out what you want when you “grow up” after betrayal… Which is really like a Glow Up! Come learn how to connect back to YOU at the FREE “What Now?!” Workshop on February 21, 2024. Claim your spot now! https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowworkshop

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6


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    Doing It For Me

    Doing It For Me

    With religious pressures dominating their mindsets, Jenica and her co-parent did the right thing and “followed the path,” hoping it would bring the peace and joy they were looking for… but what happens when it doesn’t?

    Jenica met her co-parent in high school and was turned off by what she determined was his “need for attention.” But after a couple of years, he came back around, and the “cool kid” started to get more interesting. Eventually, he was there every day, filling her days.

    Ready to leave perfect partner syndrome behind by connecting back to YOU?! Join us for the FREE “What Now?!” Workshop on February 21, 2024. You can get on the waitlist now and be the first to claim your spot. You will not want to miss this FREE Workshop that only happens once this spring! (https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowworkshop)

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6


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    I Had Locks On My Closet

    I Had Locks On My Closet

    When Bri started to notice her clothing and shoes were stretched out, she thought her mom must be sneaking into her closet. When she went to confront her mom, the unexpected happened.

    Bri did all the things right. And then she went even harder to guarantee she was doing enough to have the perfect life she had been promised. She figured if putting “one dollar of effort” into the vending machine would get her the perfect husband, family, and life, then putting $100 would leave nothing to chance. She didn’t want there to be any “skeletons in the closet.” But then God laughed because he had His own plans for her. Just like you can’t pray the gay away, you can’t “buy” the perfect life.

    Is it your time for healing? It is time to release the emotional heaviness and claim what is ahead for you. I have got you boo. Get on the waitlist for the FREE workshop happening in February (https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowwaitlist)

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

    Letting Go Of The Rope

    Letting Go Of The Rope

    Meike had just lost her first husband when she met Fletcher. He came into her life at just the right time to start making her laugh again. Fast forward 14 years into their relationship when no one was laughing… Fletcher was angry, and she couldn’t figure out what was going on. It all came to a head on a vacation in England when Meike told him she was done dealing with his anger and asked him to leave.

    Was this the beginning of the end or just the beginning?

    How do you feel when you wake up in the morning? Are you ready to wake up with a smile? Join us for the FREE “What Now?!” Workshop happening in February 2024. You can get on the waitlist now and be the first to claim your spot. You will not want to miss this FREE Workshop that only happens twice a year. You can be smiling again sooner than you think. (https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowwaitlist)

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Genuine Love

    Genuine Love

    When Kaylyn’s husband disclosed to her that he was gay, she felt hurt and betrayed and that she didn’t deserve this. Then this thought came to her, and it shifted how she was showing up to the relationship… Listen in to find out what thought helped her to show up in a way that felt more in alignment with who she is.

    While Kaylyn and her husband hoped to stay together, it became exhausting to carry the load of not being true to who they both were. She had the realization that in order to have the life she wanted, she had to give up the life she had envisioned.

    Ready to learn to trust again? Trust yourself and others? Searching for a support system but haven’t found one that gets it? I have got you boo. Get on the waitlist for the FREE workshop happening in February (https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowwaitlist), AND get on the Waitlist for the September Retreat (https://theboldlogic.com/retreatwaitlist). Early bird pricing is ONLY available January 28th - Feb. 4th!

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Forgot He Was Gay...

    Forgot He Was Gay...

    Brandi and Marty have been married for 12 years (15 years together), but what happens when Brandi confronts Marty about being attracted to her? His response triggers a truth she had pushed from her mind for many years. With his honest response came the realization that their relationship would never be the same. Listen in as they navigate through all the things. And remember - your story is your own. It gets to look and feel a way that is right for YOU with no apologies.

    Retreat Waitlist! https://theboldlogic.com/retreatwaitlist

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Are You Ready For This?

    Are You Ready For This?

    Join Jessica as she spills the tea! Here's what is coming to the podcast over the next four months. Plus a host of things you do NOT want to miss out on.

    What Now After Betrayal Workshop Waitlist! https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowwaitlist

    RETREAT!!! There is only ONE spot left, and doors are closing SOON! Does it have your name on it? Email Jessica@theboldlogic.com to claim it!

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    We All Failed HARD!

    We All Failed HARD!

    Have you ever failed? Are you in a season right now where you are failing? Then you do not want to miss this week's episode, where I am joined by AnaLee Hjelm and Sharon Costanzo, two amazing coaches who failed hard right alongside me.  We want you to know you are not alone in your season of failing. Let’s fail forward together.

    Get your SLC and BOISE Boldly You Experience Tickets today! Limited spots are available, and early bird pricing ends Dec 31, 2023. Utah BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/utahbye) Boise BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/boisebye)

    RETREAT!!! There is only ONE spot left, and doors are closing SOON! Does it have your name on it? theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

    How Do You Want To Feel?

    How Do You Want To Feel?

    I am done trying to be a better version of myself. I am done trying to be my best self. I want to simply be myself. Damn, that sounds magical. What if we tried a new approach to this new year? Do you want to join me as I focus on how I want to feel instead of what I want to do? This episode is about how I want to feel in 2024. I would love to hear how YOU want to FEEL.

    Get your SLC and BOISE Boldly You Experience Tickets today! Limited spots are available, and early bird pricing ends Dec 31, 2023. Utah BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/utahbye) Boise BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/boisebye)

    RETREAT!!! There is only ONE spot left, and doors are closing SOON! Does it have your name on it? theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

    Social Butterfly

    Social Butterfly

    Hear us screw up parenting (specifically co-parenting) in real-time... But for reals, we let the child do the communicating, we let a text influence a decision before talking about it, and we really screwed the pooch on this one.  

    Let this be your reminder that mistakes will be made. It is important to show grace for yourself and others when those mistakes are made. It will all be okay because, as Marie Forleo says, "Everything is Figure Outable." 

    Get your SLC and BOISE Boldly You Experience Tickets today! Limited spots are available, and early bird pricing ends Dec 31, 2023. Utah BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/utahbye) Boise BOLDly You! (theboldlogic.com/boisebye

    RETREAT!!! There are only two spots left, and doors are closing SOON! Does one of those spots have your name on it? theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Get your FREE call with Jessica today, and let's get you feeling like YOU again! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Your But Is The Issue

    Your But Is The Issue

    Has your but, not to be confused with your butt 🍑, ever gotten in the way of you living your best life? Well today spicy Jess is coming out to talk all about your but. This is going to be interactive. So grab a pen and paper, get settled in and ready to dig deep. 

    Ready to stop letting your but get in the way? Get your FREE call with Jessica today and let's get you started! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Gift Card Chubby

    Gift Card Chubby

    As promised, today we are answering one of your questions. We share what our relationships are like with our now ex in laws and extended families as well as what it has taken for us to get here 12 years post divorce. 

    Early Bird pricing has ended, but you can still get your spot at the boldly you retreat! Give yourself the ultimate gift this holiday season by claiming your spot to the BOLDly You Retreat today!! https://theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Schedule your free call with Jessica today! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    One Thing To Do Now For Next Year

    One Thing To Do Now For Next Year

    Jessica here. I have been drifting this last 6 weeks. We have had a LOT going on, but I have been unable to figure out what I wanted to do when things settled. Then things settled, and I was not myself. I felt I was forcing something but also doing nothing... Weird dynamic to be in. Maybe you are in that now or have felt that way before. If so, I am dropping my best advice in today's episode. Let me know what you think!

    SHHH! Don't tell... I extended early bird pricing just for you! Claim your spot at the next BOLDLy You Retreat before they are gone, and start this year off right! https://theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Schedule your free call with Jessica today! https://theboldlogic.com/call

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/pPGHz9QxcFEgiz9B6

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    Rough Start

    Rough Start

    Steve, Matt and Jess sit down with the most recent participants of the Boldly You Retreat to share 3 things that have made their relationship work. The the open up the floor for a Q&A. What will they ask the retreat attendees ask? Who gets put on the spot? Tune in to find out! 

    Get in the room with other women who "get it"!  Claim your spot at the next BOLDLy You Retreat before they are gone! https://theboldlogic.com/januaryretreat

    Ready to let go of the story in your head that is keeping you stuck? Schedule a call with


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    The Story In My Head

    The Story In My Head

    Jessica, Matt and Steve take on NYC!  Matt and Steve are pissed at Jessica for it. Plus Steve gets hit by a car! Listen in to get the full story. 

    Watch us on Tamron Hall! https://youtu.be/hCziaKoiVdI

    Ready to let go of the story in your head that is keeping you stuck? Schedule a call with Jessica here. OR pick up your free workbook by clicking here

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. 

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    Sneak Peak

    Sneak Peak

    Sneak peak in to what is going on in the Husband In Law Family right now...  Don't worry we will be back with a full episode soon!!! 

    Want to see us on Tamron Hall?!  Click here to tune in now!  

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. 

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    The Stress Nanny

    The Stress Nanny

    Because we worry about our kids so dang much and want to do right by them… We are back talking about how to support them as they navigate their own emotional health and anxieties. This conversation the Lindsay Miller, the Stress Nanny, is one not to be missed. Lindsay helps kids transform stress into success using mindfulness, self-awareness, emotional regulation, resilience, and empathy.

    You can connect with Lindsay on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/thestressnanny/

    You can find all the resources she has to offer at https://linktr.ee/Thestressnanny

    This won’t happen again until next year!  Claim your peace and your voice NOW! Find Group Coaching Info HERE -> https://theboldlogic.com/boldlyyouintensive

     

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. 

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    Do It BOLDly

    Do It BOLDly

    There is a war going on in the comment section of our Instagram, and here is what I have learned from it. I hope it will resonate with you too... And always remember you, my friend, are a badass.

    Find Group Coaching Info HERE -> https://theboldlogic.com/boldlyyouintensive

    Have a question for Steve, Matt, or Jessica? Ask it here, and we will be sure to answer it in an upcoming episode. https://forms.gle/KnWXmfzkQcv5fj9bA


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