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    New Year, New Personality: Science-Backed Tips to Actually Change Yourself

    enJanuary 18, 2024

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      There are cost-effective alternatives to expensive wireless services and products. Consumer Cellular offers reliable coverage at up to half the cost of leading carriers. Clorox Scentiva provides a cost-effective way to enhance cleaning routines with its powerful scents. Additionally, AT&T's In Car WiFi allows for high-speed internet connectivity on the go, saving money on data plans. In the personal development sphere, the "fresh start effect" can motivate individuals to set important goals, but it's essential to remember that personal growth requires consistent effort and dedication, even with the motivation of a new year. Lastly, Iheartradio, as the number one podcast network, and Scott's newfound determination to speak his truth, promise exciting changes for podcast listeners.

    • Personality is not static, it's a work in progressPersonality traits fluctuate but individual differences shape thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. They can change with intentional effort and habitual adjustments.

      While our personality traits fluctuate in response to different contexts, there are consistent individual differences that shape our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. These traits, influenced by both genetics and environment, can change over time with intentional effort and habitual adjustments. Research shows that personality traits are not set in stone, but rather, we are who we repeatedly are. The good news is that a vast body of research supports the possibility of intentional personality change. Whether through therapy, relationships, or personal intentions, our personality is not static, but rather, a work in progress.

    • Consistent effort leads to lasting personality changesRegularly working towards aligning actions with desired traits is crucial for long-term personality growth.

      Making temporary changes in your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can lead to long-lasting personality traits, but it requires consistent effort and follow-through over an extended period. A study led by psychologist Nathan Hudson demonstrated this by asking participants to select personality traits they wanted to change and providing them with specific challenges to complete each week. The researchers found that completing these challenges regularly led to significant personality growth. However, merely desiring change and making plans without following through actually hindered progress. This might be because people who fail to complete challenges may conclude they are less capable of change, or because announcing an intention to change can give a false sense of accomplishment, reducing motivation. Therefore, the latest research suggests that to cause lasting changes to your personality, you must consistently work towards aligning your actions with your desired traits.

    • Psychologically validated techniques for personality changeImplementation intentions, self reflection, cognitive behavioral therapy, and behavioral activation can cause personality change for anyone, not just those in therapy. Start by deciding on a new chapter in life and focusing on one or two traits to change through goal setting.

      There are psychologically validated techniques, such as implementation intentions, self reflection, cognitive behavioral therapy, and behavioral activation, which can cause personality change for everyone, not just those in therapy. These methods have been proven effective through scientific research. Meanwhile, in a different context, Ted from Consumer Cellular encourages listeners to save money on wireless service by switching to his company, which offers the same fast, reliable coverage as leading carriers for less. New customers can even get their second month free by signing up and using the promo code "month free" by May 31st. Additionally, Clorox Scentiva offers a way to upgrade cleaning products, providing powerful clean and a tropical island retreat feeling through its coconut scent. JCPenney, on the other hand, offers a fresh spring wardrobe for all shapes, sizes, and colors, with brands that prioritize style and comfort. To apply the personality change techniques, start by deciding on a new chapter in life and focusing on one or two traits to change through goal setting. These practical steps can help you begin your journey towards becoming a new you.

    • Focus on a few manageable personality traits for self-improvementIdentify specific personality traits to modify, prioritize based on personal needs, and commit to small, consistent steps for self-improvement

      Instead of trying to change every aspect of our personality, we should focus on a few manageable traits that we truly want to modify. The five major personality traits - extroversion, conscientiousness, neuroticism, agreeableness, and openness to experience - can serve as a guide for self-reflection. For instance, if you're an introvert and want to be more sociable, focusing on extroversion might be beneficial. If you're anxious and emotionally unstable, addressing neuroticism could be your priority. Remember, self-reflection is crucial, but avoid announcing your intentions publicly as it might lead to a false sense of accomplishment and prevent you from actually putting in the effort to change. Instead, make a personal commitment to yourself and take small, consistent steps towards your goal.

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      Spring is a time for fresh starts and updates, whether it's a new wardrobe or hiring new employees. For fashion, JCPenney offers stylish and comfortable options for all shapes, sizes, and colors, making it a go-to destination for spring shopping. With brands like Worthington, Liz Claiborne, Stafford, and Mutual Weave, everyone can find clothes that fit their personal style and feel good. Regarding hiring, Snagajob is an all-in-one solution for businesses looking to fill available positions quickly and efficiently. With access to over 6,000,000 active hourly workers, Snagajob offers a wide range of qualified candidates for various positions, from warehouse workers to fitness trainers. By using implementation intentions, individuals and businesses can create plans to automatically respond to specific situations, increasing productivity and efficiency. For example, setting an intention to go to the gym when there are no meetings before 1 PM or switching into "flight mode" when working over a concentrated period of time. By practicing mindfulness and intentional behavior, individuals and businesses can make the most of the spring season and beyond.

    • Exploring the process of changing your personalityChanging personality requires action, patience, and consistent effort. Find resources, set goals, and be critical of quick-fix solutions.

      Changing your personality involves taking action, choosing relevant challenges, and being patient with the process. You can find resources to help you identify and work on these challenges through the links provided in the show notes or by subscribing to the Beautiful Minds newsletter. Gamifying your personality change journey by setting goals and competing with friends can make the process more enjoyable. Keep in mind that personality change takes time and effort, and it's important to be critical of any self-help books or courses that promise instant results. The latest research suggests that state-level changes that are maintained over time have the potential to lead to trait changes. So, focus on making consistent improvements rather than looking for quick fixes. And once you've made significant progress, feel free to share your journey with others to inspire and motivate them. Remember, there are no shortcuts when it comes to causing long-lasting changes to your personality.

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