Podcast Summary
Offset opens up on Call Her Daddy: Offset discussed his childhood, marriage, fatherhood, and shared insights on relationships, fashion, and self-confidence.
Offset, a Grammy-nominated musician and new album release, joined Alex Cooper on Call Her Daddy for a chaotic yet entertaining episode. He opened up about his childhood, marriage with Cardi B, fatherhood, and answered some unfiltered questions about relationships and sex. The episode was sponsored by David's Bridal, COSIS, and Shopify, with discussions on the importance of finding the perfect fit, high-quality makeup, and growing an online business. Offset shared his fashion sense, expressing the importance of stepping out of the box and not relying solely on mannequin looks. He emphasized the need for self-confidence and individuality in fashion.
Expressing personal style through clothing: Fashion is about expressing individuality and feeling comfortable, not just following trends or wearing expensive brands.
Fashion is about personal expression and comfort, not just brand names or trends. The speaker shares his opinions on various clothing items, from Gucci tracksuits with excessive logos to khakis on men and dirty sneakers. He emphasizes the importance of subtlety and confidence in fashion choices. The speaker also reflects on his childhood, sharing that he wasn't always confident with his clothing during elementary school due to financial constraints but became more self-assured during middle and high school. Ultimately, fashion is a means of expressing one's personality and individuality.
Perceptions from youth don't define us: Our past experiences and perceptions don't dictate our future success or identity. Embrace your unique self and find joy in personal and career growth.
People's perceptions and expectations of us during our formative years may not accurately reflect who we become later in life. The speaker shares how they felt overshadowed by popular peers in high school, but have since surpassed them. They also reflect on how teachers and authority figures who were once critical have had a profound impact on their self-perception. The speaker's personality is described as confident, creative, and serious, and they've found joy and fulfillment in their career and personal growth after experiencing loss. Ultimately, the speaker encourages embracing one's identity and enjoying life, rather than letting external validation define success.
Finding Inspiration in Unexpected Places: Experiencing hardships or traumatic events can help us find new perspectives and appreciate life more fully. Staying grounded and finding inspiration in unexpected places is crucial for personal growth.
Success can lead to repetition, but experiencing hardships or traumatic events can help us find new perspectives and appreciate life more fully. For example, Offset from Migos didn't fully realize the success of his music until he was in jail and heard Drake singing his song. This unexpected experience made him more present and determined to make the most of his opportunities. It's important to not take life for granted and find positives even in difficult situations. Offset's story highlights the importance of staying grounded and finding inspiration in unexpected places.
Lessons from Ghost's experiences in hip hop: Ghost's experiences in hip hop, including time in jail, shaped his focus and determination. He values the influence of his brother Raekwon and learned from past relationship challenges.
The experiences, both good and bad, have shaped Ghost's journey in hip hop and have made him appreciate the importance of staying focused and determined. One of his most formative experiences was being in jail while gaining popularity, which made him realize the importance of having something to look forward to and getting his life on track. He is most proud of the time he spent with his brother, Raekwon, and the influence they had on hip hop and music. Regarding relationships, he shared a wild story about coming home to find all his clothes in the pool, but declined to name the ex-girlfriend involved. Overall, Ghost's experiences have taught him the value of determination, focus, and the power of influence.
Speaker's past relationships and current one with Cardi B: The speaker values determination and resilience in relationships, inspired by his past experiences and Cardi B's focus and confidence.
Determination and resilience in the face of adversity were key factors in the speaker's past relationships and his current relationship with Cardi B. The speaker shared a past experience of discovering his ex-girlfriend had cheated on him, which left him feeling sick and confused. He then met Cardi B, who he admired for her raw confidence and determination to provide for her family. The speaker was drawn to her focus and determination, which reminded him of his own upbringing and values. Now, as a couple, they prioritize quality time together at home with their children, appreciating the importance of building a strong foundation for their family.
Valuing and respecting family and personal relationships: Despite external negativity, prioritize and focus on strengthening family and personal relationships. Dedication, respect, and moving past mistakes can help rebuild trust.
Family and personal relationships should be valued and respected, despite any challenges or negativity that may come from outside sources. Offset, a rapper, emphasized the importance of being a good father and husband, and the impact of negative public opinion on relationships. He shared his experiences of going through marital issues and the destructive nature of online hate and judgment. He urged people to focus on their own lives and relationships rather than interfering in others. To rebuild trust in a relationship, Offset suggested being dedicated, respecting each other's positions, and moving past mistakes.
Express feelings openly, be understanding, and put needs of others first: Effective communication is essential for maintaining relationships. Share feelings, be supportive, and prioritize others' needs to build stronger, healthier bonds.
Effective communication is crucial in maintaining relationships, especially during challenging times. The speaker emphasizes the importance of expressing feelings and concerns openly, rather than letting issues build up. He also stresses the importance of being understanding and supportive during difficult situations, and putting the needs of others before one's own. The speaker's personal experience with infidelity and the impact it had on his family highlights the far-reaching consequences of poor communication and selfish behavior. Ultimately, the speaker encourages open and honest dialogue as a means of building stronger, healthier relationships. Additionally, the speaker promotes the use of self-care and selflessness, particularly for those with children, to ensure the well-being of all parties involved.
Understanding and Building Trust in Relationships: Approach potential issues with care, openness, and understanding. Focus on improving the relationship and communication instead of competition or revenge. Take responsibility for actions and sincerely apologize.
Trust and communication are key in any relationship. Snooping through a partner's browser history can lead to mistrust and violation, potentially causing more harm than good. If you suspect your partner may have an addiction to pornography, it's important to approach the situation with care and openness. Instead of confronting them with accusations, try to understand their perspective and explore any underlying issues. It's also crucial to focus on improving the relationship and intimacy in your own way, rather than trying to compete or seek revenge. As for recovering from a night of drunk texting, it's essential to take responsibility for your actions and apologize sincerely. Be prepared for the possibility of damage to the relationship and work on rebuilding trust and communication. Ultimately, trust is a two-way street, and both partners must be committed to maintaining it.
Open and honest communication in sexual relationships: Respect each other's boundaries, prioritize partner's pleasure, and communicate openly about desires and comfort levels.
Communication and consideration are key in sexual encounters. The man's behavior of tying up his partner and leaving her with a hangover the next morning without checking on her is not acceptable. Women should never feel the need to go all out and men should make an effort to make their partners feel good. Unsolicited nudes can be appreciated but should be handled with care and respect. The conversation also touched on the topic of receiving and sending nudes, with the speaker expressing that he would still give a thumbs up even if the picture was not perfect. However, it's important to remember that everyone's comfort levels are different and consent is crucial. The speaker also shared her frustration with her boyfriend's lack of ability to give her pleasure through oral sex, but acknowledged the importance of not making him feel insecure about it. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of open and honest communication in sexual relationships.
Effective oral sex for women: Focus on clitoris with gentle touch, prioritize partner's pleasure, avoid teeth and loud noises, use saliva for moisture, communicate effectively.
Effective oral sex for women requires sensitivity, finesse, and focus on the clitoris. Men need to be taught how to be gentle and not rough, and to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own ego. It's important to remember that oral sex is not just about the giver, but about creating an enjoyable experience for the receiver. Avoid using teeth, sucking too hard, or making loud noises. Instead, use a light touch, focus on the clitoris, and incorporate saliva for added moisture. Communication is also key, as women may need to guide their partners on what feels good for them. Overall, oral sex is about pleasing your partner and creating an intimate connection.
Being sensitive and attentive during intimate moments: Avoid rug burn and excessive force during oral sex. Focus on a slippery, flowing motion for pleasure and comfort. Communicate, consent, and respect each other's needs.
During intimate moments, it's essential to be sensitive and attentive to your partner's needs and preferences. The speaker emphasizes the importance of avoiding rug burn and using excessive force during oral sex. Instead, one should aim for a slippery, flowing motion that allows for pleasure and comfort. The speaker also shares a personal experience of feeling disrespected when someone rushed the experience without considering her needs. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of communication, consent, and mutual respect in sexual encounters. Additionally, the speaker discusses the release of their new album, which they describe as fun and reflective of their personality.
Offset's artistic endeavors: creativity, control, and authenticity: Offset values control in his projects, is passionate about film, and wants fans to know him beyond the music.
Offset values creativity, control, and authenticity in his artistic endeavors. He enjoys working with his wife and being hands-on in every aspect of his projects. The most rewarding part of crafting his own image and creative vision is the control he has over his team and his work. Offset is passionate about film and directs and shoots all of his music videos himself. He wants fans to get to know him as a person beyond the music, and he values the support of women in the music industry. Overall, Offset comes across as a cool, fun, and authentic person who is passionate about his art and appreciates the details in life.
Appreciating fans and encouraging engagement: Artist expresses gratitude for fan support and encourages them to engage with his music in various ways, including listening, dancing, and sharing on social media. He also personally engages with fans online and collaborates with female artists to empower women.
The artist is expressing his appreciation for his fans and encouraging them to engage with his music in various ways. He values their support and wants them to feel included, whether that's through listening to his music, dancing to it, or sharing it on social media. The artist is also hands-on and personally engages with his fans on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram. He has included several female artists on his album to represent and empower women, and he hopes that his music can be a part of their daily routines, such as doing makeup or dancing. Overall, the artist's message is one of inclusivity, appreciation, and engagement with his fans.
