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    One Problem With New Year's Resolutions

    en-usDecember 19, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Focus on mindset instead of New Year's resolutionsInstead of setting external goals for New Year's, focus on personal growth and self-improvement for sustainable progress

      Instead of focusing on setting New Year's resolutions, we should focus on ourselves and our mindset. Rob Dial, the host of the Mindset Mentor podcast, argues that many people fail to achieve their New Year's goals more often than they succeed. He encourages listeners to be honest with themselves about this pattern and to consider a different approach. According to Rob, the issue isn't with setting goals or New Year's resolutions themselves, but rather with our mindset and approach to achieving them. He emphasizes that we should focus on personal growth and self-improvement, rather than just setting and striving for external goals. By shifting our focus to ourselves and our mindset, we are more likely to make sustainable progress towards our goals throughout the year.

    • Assessing patterns for goal achievementTo hit goals, need a solid plan, consistent action, and persistence. Regularly remind yourself of goals to avoid forgetting them.

      If you're consistently not hitting your goals, it's not the goals that need to change, but rather your approach to achieving them. Einstein famously said that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is insanity. If you've been setting the same New Year's resolutions year after year without success, it might be time to assess your patterns and make some changes. To hit your goals, you need a solid plan, consistent action, and the willingness to be persistent. Forgetting about your goals is a common pitfall, so make sure to regularly remind yourself of what you're working towards. In essence, if you want to achieve different results, you must be willing to change and approach your goals with a new mindset and strategy.

    • Setting New Year's resolutions seriouslyDecide on resolutions with clarity, plan, act, and be consistent to achieve them. Write down and review daily for focus and accountability.

      Setting New Year's resolutions without clear planning and consistency can lead to forgetting about them altogether. A friend's experience of sharing her goals on New Year's Eve but later forgetting them a month later, highlights the importance of taking goal-setting seriously. To effectively achieve your resolutions, you need to first decide on them with clarity, plan out how to accomplish them, take action, and be consistent in your efforts. Writing down your goals and reviewing them daily can help keep you focused and accountable. Don't let your resolutions fade away like my friend's did - make a solid plan and stick to it!

    • Writing down goals increases success rate3% of graduates wrote down goals, yet they were more successful than 97% who didn't, daily reminders help keep focus and motivation

      Setting and writing down clear, specific goals is a powerful tool for achieving success. According to a study conducted by Harvard University, only 3% of graduates took the time to write down their goals, yet those individuals were more successful than the other 97% combined ten years later. The reason for this is that regularly reminding yourself of your goals helps keep you focused and motivated, preventing you from forgetting about them or straying off course. To effectively use this strategy, identify the aspects of yourself that need to change to reach your goals, write them down, and remind yourself of them daily. By doing so, you'll be more likely to make progress towards your desired outcomes and ultimately achieve greater success.

    • Examine past failures and learn from themWrite down your goals, understand past mistakes, and create a plan to change for success in the new year

      Setting goals is essential, but the key to achieving them lies in introspection and self-improvement. Most people don't write down their goals, keeping them abstract and difficult to attain. However, when we put pen to paper, we give our goals substance and focus. It's not enough to simply set goals; we must also examine our past failures and learn from them. By understanding what we need to change about ourselves, we can create a plan to overcome our obstacles and reach new heights. As Albert Einstein wisely noted, doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is insanity. To achieve our goals in the new year and decade, we must approach things differently and be willing to change ourselves.

    • Embrace growth and transformation for a better new yearFocus on personal growth and spreading positivity to make the most of each year and approach it with a fresh perspective

      Despite the similarities between each year, it's essential to push yourself and challenge yourself to change in order to be a different person going into the new year. The speaker emphasizes that you are the same person year after year, and if you want to make the most of your life and make 2020 exceptional, you need to be open to growth and transformation. This message was the focus of the speaker's episode, and for those interested in taking on this challenge, they can visit ironmind60.com for more information. Ultimately, the speaker encourages listeners to make it their mission to not only better themselves but to make someone else's day better as well. By focusing on personal growth and spreading positivity, we can make the most of each year and approach it with a fresh perspective.

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