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    Recalibrate, Part 4: Perseverance, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO117

    enJanuary 03, 2017

    Podcast Summary

    • Be the CEO of Your Own LifeEmbrace challenges, use unique skills, and approach life with resilience and determination for growth and success in 2017

      Instead of letting life's challenges bring us down, we should strive to be the CEO of our own lives. We all have unique skills and talents, but societal pressures can make us doubt ourselves. This podcast aims to provide practical business knowledge and self-help advice to help listeners turn the tables and face life's challenges head-on. The speaker encourages listeners not to whine or expect life to conform to their idealized version, but to deal with reality and navigate it effectively. The upcoming year, 2017, presents opportunities for growth and success, and it's essential to approach it with a mindset of resilience and determination.

    • Embracing Success and Fulfilling Potential with the MFCEO ProjectThe MFCEO project is a community that encourages individuals to overcome negative attitudes, work hard, and embrace success, emphasizing the importance of continuous learning and growth.

      The MFCEO project is a community of individuals who are tired of the negative attitudes and are focused on winning, being successful, and fulfilling their potential. The speakers express excitement about the movement's growth and the desire to help others, contrasting it with the mentality of those who are content with staying stagnant. They believe that success is something to be proud of and that it takes hard work and dedication to achieve it. The fear of being successful is seen as a weak mentality, and those who hold such fears are encouraged to either embrace success or retire and be content with their current situation. The speakers emphasize the importance of learning and growing every day, and the idea that success is a journey, not a destination.

    • Fear of success and changeDon't let fear of criticism hold you back, focus on supportive relationships and embrace change to reach your full potential.

      Fear of success is often rooted in the fear of criticism and change. People may be hesitant to advance in life due to the discomfort of leaving old relationships behind or facing potential criticism. However, as the speaker has discovered, new relationships and experiences can bring greater happiness and productivity. The fear of being criticized is a common affliction, but it's important to remember that not everyone's opinion matters and to focus on those who support and uplift us. Ultimately, the speaker encourages embracing change and not letting fear hold us back from reaching our full potential.

    • Presenting yourself positively attracts partnersFocus on personal growth, stay positive, and persevere through challenges to attract partners and achieve success.

      The way we present ourselves and our mindset plays a significant role in our success, especially in relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of acting confidently and positively, rather than whining and complaining, to attract potential partners. Additionally, the speaker highlights the importance of witnessing the process of success and understanding that it often requires long-term effort and dedication. Society's portrayal of success can set unrealistic expectations, leading people to give up when faced with challenges. Overall, the key takeaway is to focus on personal growth, stay positive, and persevere through the ups and downs of life.

    • The journey to success is often hiddenSuccess is a result of hard work and dedication, not a predestined trait. Trust the process and have faith in the journey.

      The public often only sees the end result of successful individuals, leading people to believe that success is a predestined trait rather than a result of hard work and dedication. The process of becoming successful is often hidden from view, making it difficult for individuals to fully understand that it's within their reach. The Chinese bamboo tree analogy illustrates this concept well - for five years, the tree requires constant care without any visible growth, but once it sprouts, it grows rapidly. Similarly, the first few years of building a successful business or career may be unproductive, but the hard work lays the foundation for future success. Trusting that the process will pay off and having faith in the journey are essential components of achieving one's goals.

    • Consistent effort and skill sharpening lead to successSuccess is not magic, it's the result of consistent effort and continuously sharpening your skills

      Success is not magic, but rather the result of consistent effort and the willingness to sharpen your skills over time. Some people may quit when they encounter challenges or realize the amount of work required, using the excuse that success is out of their hands. Others may become complacent and stop sharpening their skills, leading to frustration and potential failure. It's important to be honest with oneself about the level of commitment required for success and to continuously work on improving. The analogy of an axe swinging at a tree can be used to illustrate this concept - the axe represents one's skills, and consistent effort is necessary to make progress, but the blade must also remain sharp.

    • Recognize the need for learning and adaptabilityHumility and self-awareness are vital for overcoming obstacles and making progress. They allow us to view conflict as an opportunity for growth and remember that setbacks are not failures but opportunities for learning and progress.

      Humility and self-awareness are crucial for overcoming obstacles and making progress. Humility allows us to recognize when we need to learn and adapt, while viewing conflict as an opportunity for growth rather than a sign of failure. Business success is a constant process of moving forward and taking steps back, and natural ability alone is not enough to overcome barriers. It's essential to be willing to learn and adapt to new situations. Additionally, it's important to remember that setbacks are not necessarily signs of doom, but rather opportunities for growth and progress.

    • Embrace the process of long-term successSuccess is a journey, not an overnight achievement. Love the process, ignore external influences, and stay dedicated to your goals.

      Success is a long-term journey, not an overnight achievement. It requires perseverance, ignoring external influences, and a strong belief in oneself. The speaker emphasizes that success is not for those who want it easy, but for those who love the process and are dedicated to their goals. Despite the challenges, the speaker remains confident in his own path and encourages others to do the same. He believes that most people doubt themselves and believe that life is supposed to be hard, but those who embrace the process and love to work and create will ultimately succeed.

    • Discovering the Fulfillment in Surviving and Hard WorkHard work and surviving don't have to be negative experiences. By focusing on meeting basic needs and finding ways to increase resources, we can find fulfillment and meaning in these challenges.

      Success and hard work are often perceived negatively, but they don't have to be. During a conversation, the speaker asked a friend if he could be homeless for a month and be content with just surviving. The friend replied that he could, but the speaker was curious about what he would do all day. They discussed the idea that it doesn't take all day to survive, and the friend mentioned that he would focus on meeting his basic needs and finding ways to turn small amounts of money into more. The speaker reflected on how people often view hard work as a negative, but it doesn't have to be. He shared an example of his brother's perspective on marriage being hard, but not bad. The speaker concluded that success and hard work can be fulfilling and meaningful, and it's important to reframe the way we think about them.

    • The rewards of overcoming challenges on the path to successSuccessful people have faced challenges and setbacks, but they've also experienced the joy of accomplishment. Entrepreneurship brings satisfaction, and the focus should be on continuous improvement, not just monetary gains. Success takes time and dedication, so stay committed and remember that every step brings you closer to your goals.

      The journey towards success, whether it's in business or personal growth, can be filled with challenges and setbacks, but the rewarding experiences and feelings of accomplishment make it all worthwhile. Successful people, who may seem unapproachable or unrelatable, have gone through similar struggles and have tasted the joy of overcoming obstacles. Entrepreneurship, for instance, can bring immense satisfaction, from the first sale to helping customers solve their problems. The process itself becomes an addiction, and the focus should be on continuous improvement rather than just the monetary gains. However, it's essential to understand that success takes time and dedication, and quitting too soon is a common mistake. The underestimation of the time and effort required is a significant reason why people give up. So, stay committed, keep pushing forward, and remember that every step brings you closer to your goals.

    • Knowing when to quit is as important as perseveranceSelf-awareness, determination, and adaptability are crucial for entrepreneurial success. Recognize personal response to external factors and adapt accordingly.

      Perseverance is crucial in entrepreneurship, but knowing when to quit is equally important. Self-awareness plays a key role in deciding whether to continue or not. Surrounding oneself with positive influences can help in staying the course, but ultimately, personal responsibility and determination are essential for success. The people around us may influence us, but our response to negativity is a personal choice. Some individuals thrive on criticism and use it as motivation, while others may be derailed by it. It's essential to recognize one's unique response to external factors and adapt accordingly. In the end, success in entrepreneurship is a combination of self-awareness, determination, and adaptability.

    • Understanding Motivational NeedsRecognize individual differences in handling criticism and motivation. Surround yourself with supportive people and situations to foster growth.

      People have different ways of handling criticism and motivation. Some individuals, like the speaker, prefer to rely on their own self-reinforcement and don't require external validation to persevere. However, most people need positive reinforcement to keep going. The speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing this difference and cutting out dead weight, whether it's negative influences or people who don't believe in you. The speaker's experiences have shown him that some people cannot handle negativity and need constant validation to succeed. Ultimately, it's essential to understand your unique motivational needs and surround yourself with people and situations that support your growth.

    • Surrounding yourself with successful peers can boost motivation and learningSurround yourself with successful peers, have open conversations about aspirations, believe in your abilities, and commit to continuous growth to overcome obstacles and achieve success.

      The drive to succeed largely depends on an individual's determination and desire for their goals. Surrounding oneself with successful peers can provide valuable knowledge and motivation, leading to a more effective learning process. It's essential to have open conversations about aspirations without fear of judgment or bragging, as these discussions can lead to innovative ideas and solutions. Additionally, having faith that one's efforts will yield results and recognizing that small successes can pave the way for larger accomplishments is crucial for perseverance. Ultimately, the belief in one's abilities and the commitment to continuing growth are the keys to overcoming obstacles and achieving success.

    • From humble beginnings to business successStarting small and learning the ropes through hard work is essential for future business growth. Embrace challenges and learn from them to overcome fear and uncertainty, leading to successful ventures.

      Success in business, no matter the size or industry, relies on the same fundamental skills and mindset. The speaker emphasizes that starting small and learning the ropes through hard work is crucial for future growth. He shares personal experiences of starting from the bottom, from cutting grass to paving roads, and how these skills translated into larger ventures. The fear of scaling and uncertainty often holds people back, but with determination and a willingness to learn, anyone can overcome these obstacles and build a successful business. The speaker encourages embracing hard work and learning from it, rather than avoiding it, to gain valuable experience and avoid repeating the same mistakes.

    • Learn from failures and take risksEmbrace failures as opportunities to learn, take calculated risks, and surround yourself with supportive people for growth

      Life is about taking action and learning from experiences. According to the speakers, it's essential to go out and try new things, even if it means failing. Through the process of elimination, one can figure out what works and what doesn't, leading to success. They also emphasized the importance of being surrounded by like-minded individuals who support and encourage each other, rather than critics who discourage. The speakers expressed gratitude for their listeners' support and shared success, which has contributed significantly to the growth of their podcast. In essence, the message is to not be afraid to take risks, learn from failures, and surround oneself with positive influences.

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    Key Takeaways

    How has the attack defined you and your work now? There are so many things that have defined me. I am a different person now to the woman I was in my 20s. I always think that there is a good thing around the corner even when the shit really hits the fan. I’ve always been self-employed and know the stress and excitement of being self-employed. I trained as a beauty therapist, and worked harder and harder, longer hours to make a bit more money. The attack changed me in a second, but the stress I experienced before prepared me to become more resilient

     

    What does your week look like? No day is the same, which is why I want this path. I thought I was stupid at school, but I realised I just wasn’t academic. When I was childless and single I said yes to everything and that has led to burnout. But nowadays I say no to more things, and I do work for free doing things. I’m a massive believer in creating passive income, and I want to spend more time with my kids. My charitable things have helped my commercial ventures as well.

     

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    Katie was a stage name. Before I got attacked I wanted to have a stage name. In the hospital, I saw a psychologist every day and they asked me to write things down. This helped me process those deep and dark thoughts. I decided to put these together in a manuscript and sent it off to publishers. I was rejected for one year. I would post it off every Friday and got rejected a lot. After my documentary, I gained a platform and was able to gain a publishing contract for my autobiography. I’ve been writing ever since.

     

    How do you become more confident? I don’t think it is a fixed thing. I’m confident in some areas of my life, and not so much in others. A lot of people want to have consistency in confidence. Confidence is often associated with appearance a lot of the time but this can sometimes be momentary and not sustained. Confidence is about acceptance about how the world is. You should always try and learn more things and gain confidence that way. In the modern world with social media, it can be easy to end up envying others, and believing in a facade.

     

    I want to show my kids what the world is really like. I’m really honest with my kids about stuff and treat her like an edited adult. I like people to treat me honestly in life, and it’s easier to deal with rejection that way. If we stop talking about these things then they become a negative bigger thing.

     

    Getting things done has real satisfaction. This changes when you have staff though. I went through a period with my business where we had people leaving all the time. Not everyone works in that way, and it can be difficult. It’s hard to understand when everyone doesn’t want to get stuff done in your way. You have to realise that you need different skills in a team, and you need people different from you.

     

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    What does disruptive mean to you? It’s about being unapologetically you. When I was younger people put limits on what I can do. I would put a picture of myself without make-up one but a lot of people will not like that. That might not always turn out well, but that doesn’t matter what people think. It’s about being accepting of who you are.

     

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    About the Guest

    Katie Piper is a best-selling international author, inspirational speaker, TV presenter and charity campaigner. Katie made the decision to share her story in a remarkable film for the Cutting Edge strand on Channel 4 called ‘Katie: My Beautiful Face’ which was watched by over 3.5million viewers and nominated for Best Single Documentary at the BAFTA Television Awards in 2010.

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    Website: https://www.katiepiperandyou.co.uk

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