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    Relationship Recovery: How to Survive a Breakup

    enJuly 05, 2016
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    • Emily shares her experiences and insights on relationships and podcastsListeners encouraged to subscribe, sign up for newsletter, and follow on social media. Emily discusses overcoming fears and her excitement about her upcoming child.

      Emily, the host of the Sex with Emily podcast, shared her personal experiences and insights about relationships, subscribing to podcasts, overcoming fears, and pregnancy. She also mentioned her excitement about her upcoming child and her past experiences working with Loveline. Throughout the conversation, she encouraged listeners to subscribe to the podcast, sign up for the newsletter, and follow them on social media. Emily also shared her past fear of accidentally hurting pregnant women, but she has since overcome it. She expressed her gratitude for her listeners and her wife's pregnancy, which is six months along. Overall, the conversation was lighthearted and covered various topics related to relationships and personal growth.

    • The impact of our experiences and words on othersCommunication's power to influence and move forward after a breakup, setting clear goals for positive change.

      Our experiences, whether it's a breakup or an encounter at a club, can have a profound impact on others. In the discussion, the speakers shared stories about how their actions and words influenced people in unexpected ways. They also talked about the importance of moving on and getting over past relationships. Additionally, they highlighted the power of communication and how it can lead to unexpected outcomes. For instance, a fan approached one of the speakers and shared how his breakup advice helped her end a toxic relationship, ultimately leading to her meeting someone new. Furthermore, the speakers emphasized the importance of setting goals and having a clear vision of what you want in life, especially when it comes to relationships. They advised listeners to identify their desired outcomes and work towards achieving them, rather than getting stuck in the past. In summary, the key takeaway from the discussion is the power of communication and the importance of moving forward after a breakup. By setting clear goals and focusing on what you want, you can make positive changes in your life and potentially help others in the process.

    • Men prioritize attraction over safety when using condomsStudy reveals men use condoms primarily for partner's attractiveness, contradicting fear of STIs

      Men prioritize physical attraction over safety when it comes to using condoms during sexual encounters. A study conducted in Britain revealed that the primary motivation for men to wear condoms is based on the attractiveness of their partners, rather than the risk of sexually transmitted infections. This finding contradicts another study that showed men's greatest fear during sex is the possibility of their partner having an STI. The speakers discuss the implications of these contradictory findings and speculate on why men might prioritize attraction over safety.

    • Having the condom talk before intimacyCommunicate openly about sexual health before intimacy to protect both partners and consider potential risks, avoiding assumptions about each other's sexual health.

      Having a conversation about using condoms during intimate moments can be challenging due to the pressure of the situation and the influence of attraction. The speaker suggests that it's best to have the conversation beforehand, rather than in the heat of the moment. He also emphasizes the importance of considering potential risks and not making assumptions about a person's sexual health. The speaker acknowledges that men may be more likely to rationalize taking risks during casual encounters, but emphasizes that the potential consequences, such as contracting an STD, can be serious and long-lasting. Overall, the speaker encourages open and honest communication about sexual health to protect both partners.

    • Effective Communication and Preparation for Satisfying Sexual ExperiencesCommunicate openly, prepare with safety in mind, and consider both partners' desires and comfort levels for a satisfying sexual experience. Consider using sex toys like the LayOn Vibrator for added enjoyment and convenience.

      Effective communication and preparation are key elements in a satisfying sexual experience. The speaker shares an experience of being prepared with a condom already in place, emphasizing safety and readiness. However, she also discusses the importance of considering both partners' desires and comfort levels after the encounter. This led to a story about an embarrassing experience involving a friend and an older woman who peed on a couch, highlighting the importance of having a plan. The conversation then shifted to the topic of sex toys, specifically the LayOn Vibrator, which offers the advantage of not getting jealous or requiring a break, making it a valuable addition to a sexual repertoire. Overall, the conversation underscores the importance of open communication, preparation, and considering both partners' needs for a successful and enjoyable sexual experience.

    • Leon Vibrator's Unique Design for Intense Sensations and Minimized Hand NumbnessThe Leon Vibrator offers a unique design with independent motor-powered ears for whisper-quiet vibrations, vibration isolation, and a body-safe, easy-to-use design with a 5-year warranty. A potential innovation suggested was a sex toy with a programmable voice for dirty talk.

      The Leon vibrator, produced by Rabbit Company, offers a unique and ergonomic design that focuses on providing intense sensations while minimizing hand numbness. Its independent motor-powered ears provide whisper-quiet vibrations, and its built-in vibration isolation keeps the motion in the ears, not the handle. The toy is also body-safe, easy to use, and comes with a 5-year warranty. Additionally, the idea of a sex toy with a programmable voice for dirty talk was suggested as a potential innovation. Cowan also shared his upcoming project, a movie titled "Groupers," which explores themes of sexuality, homosexuality, and societal pressures. If you're interested in being part of the campaign for the movie, you can send your email to andersoncowan.com.

    • Creating a Documentary and Supporting a CauseSpeaker shares his experience creating a documentary about Insane Clown Posse event and selling it to support the cause. Discusses statistics on breakups and admires women's sensitivity to relationship issues.

      The speaker, a podcast creator, shares his experience of creating a documentary about the Insane Clown Posse event and selling it to support the cause. He also discusses statistics about breakups and his perspective on why women are more likely to initiate them. The speaker expresses his admiration for women's sensitivity to relationship issues and their value of communication. He also mentions his own experience with breakups and finds it relatable to both men and women. Additionally, he invites the listener to check out his podcast and website for more content.

    • Men and women process breakups differentlyMen may initially hide feelings, but they still mourn, while women tend to feel more pain and express it openly

      Men and women handle breakups differently. While women tend to experience more pain, both mentally and physically, men often mask their feelings and try to move on quickly. Some men even act as if nothing has changed after a breakup, going out partying with friends or keeping the separation a secret. This behavior is often an attempt to get back at their ex or to avoid the pain of the breakup. However, research shows that men take longer to mourn the loss of a relationship and may repress their feelings until they can no longer ignore them. It's important to remember that everyone handles breakups differently, and it's essential to be understanding and supportive of each other's unique experiences.

    • Handling Breakups Differently: Women vs MenConsider a digital detox, cutting off contact, and avoiding breakup sex to help heal after a breakup. Everyone heals differently, and it's important to acknowledge past mistakes and learn from them.

      Women and men handle breakups differently due to the emotional intimacy women build with their friends and the longer it takes for men to build emotional intimacy. Men may find it harder to start over after a breakup and may struggle with admitting pain. For post-breakup tips, consider a digital detox, cutting off contact, and avoiding breakup sex. It's important to remember everyone handles breakups differently and there's no right or wrong way to heal. If you've caused pain in a past relationship, it's essential to acknowledge and learn from your mistakes. A digital detox, such as blocking their number and social media, can help you move on by eliminating constant reminders. Remember, it may be tough at first, but it's necessary for healing and growth.

    • Taking a digital detox from your exCommit to avoiding contact with your ex digitally to help heal and find happiness in a new relationship

      Going through a breakup and trying to move on involves more than just avoiding your ex in person. It also means disconnecting digitally and giving yourself time to process the emotions that come with the end of a relationship. Back in the day, before social media, people would go to great lengths to avoid running into their exes at the bar or other places. Now, with the digital age, it can be even harder to completely detach. But making a commitment to yourself, even with the help of a friend, to take a digital detox and avoid contact with your ex for an extended period can help you heal and eventually find happiness with someone new. It's important to remember that people don't change significantly in a short period of time and that the euphoric recall we have of past relationships can be misleading. So, take the time to go through the sadness, anger, and pain, and give yourself the best chance at finding a healthier and happier relationship in the future.

    • Healing after a breakup: Essential for personal growthTake time to heal, focus on self-care, avoid toxic influences, and consider significant changes for personal growth after a breakup.

      Taking time to heal after a breakup is essential for personal growth. It's important to remember that everyone heals at their own pace, and there's no need to rush. While it's okay to cry and feel pain, it's also crucial to avoid toxic friends, drinking, and partying excessively. Instead, focus on self-care, such as exercising, hanging out with positive influences, and engaging in activities that bring joy. Making a significant change, like a new job, car, or living situation, can also help facilitate the healing process. Rebound sex can be tempting, but it's essential to consider the emotional implications for both parties involved. Ultimately, taking the time to heal and focus on personal growth is a valuable reset button for moving forward in life.

    • Rebound sex as a wake-up callHeal from past relationships before jumping into a new one, focus on self-improvement during this time, and aim for a relationship where all aspects are better than the previous one.

      Rebound sex can serve as a wake-up call to move on from past relationships, but it often leaves both parties feeling empty and potentially even more attached to their exes. It's essential to take the time to heal and get to know oneself as a single person before jumping into a new relationship. Healing from past relationships tends to happen in the current one, so it's crucial to be mindful of this and not settle for less. Instead, aim for a relationship where all aspects are better than the previous one. Rebound sex can also highlight the differences between partners, which can be jarring. Overall, it's essential to approach dating casually and focus on self-improvement during this time.

    • Improve yourself for healthy relationshipsTo build healthy relationships, work on self-improvement, identify preferences, have mental strength, and remember there are plenty of potential partners.

      Working on oneself is crucial for building healthy relationships. This involves getting to know oneself, identifying personal preferences and requirements in a partner, and having the mental strength to move on from unhealthy relationships. Visualizing a future partner and imagining their disappointment in one's current state can also provide motivation to improve. It's important to remember that there are countless potential partners out there, and one's fear of being alone should not prevent them from moving forward. Additionally, the Sex with Emily podcast encourages listeners to submit questions and voice messages for the show, and soon, calls will be accepted as well.

    • Expressing a desire for more quality timeInitiate plans, communicate openly to strengthen a relationship when feeling underappreciated for time spent together.

      Communication and making plans are key in a relationship when one partner feels they're not spending enough quality time together. The person expressing this concern may be overthinking the situation, as they have already established a public relationship status and have met each other's parents. However, if they feel the need for more time, they should initiate making plans and ask their partner what they're doing on days they don't usually see each other. It's important not to come across as pushy or demanding, but rather expressing a desire to spend more time together. If the partner continues to only be available for certain days, the person may need to consider if this is enough for them in a relationship. Overall, taking the initiative and having open communication can help address this issue and strengthen the relationship.

    • Exploring Sexual Pleasure: A Personal JourneyOrgasms can vary greatly and it's important to explore different techniques and be comfortable with one's body to find what feels good.

      Exploring sexual pleasure and discovering new ways to experience orgasms is a personal journey that requires patience, experimentation, and open-mindedness. The speaker shares her experience of discovering her G-spot and potentially squirting for the first time, expressing uncertainty about whether she had an orgasm or not. The discussion highlights that orgasms can vary greatly from person to person and that comparing them may not be helpful. The speaker suggests trying different techniques, such as starting with clitoral stimulation before exploring the G-spot, and experimenting with different types of toys. She emphasizes the importance of being comfortable with one's body and continuing to explore and learn about sexual pleasure. Ultimately, the goal is to find what feels good and enjoyable for each individual.

    • Discovering Connection Through Disney Cartoons in 'Life Animated'An autistic adult finds solace and connection through Disney cartoons, inspiring us to explore unique ways to understand and relate to others.

      The podcast "Sex with Emily" discusses various movies, both well-known and lesser-known, and the hosts shared their appreciation for "Life Animated," a film about an autistic adult finding connection through Disney cartoons. Emily, the host, also encourages listeners to engage with her on social media and introduced a new sexy photo on Instagram. Additionally, Emily promoted the Fleshlight, a masturbation sleeve for men, and its new addition, the QuickShot, which offers a more convenient and less messy experience. Overall, the podcast combines entertainment, education, and promotion of products to engage and satisfy its audience.

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    No, it’s not an ad for hot local babes, although Emily and Menace do talk about live webcam girls today. More realistically, learn how to get your partner to have more sex, find out why your man might not want sex, and how to deal with marriage counseling and intimacy issues. Emily finally gets cable and shows off her FyreTV porn box, and Menace recaps a wild weekend after drunk tweeting. In the wide world of sex, a woman sues for sexless marriage, and a sperm donor has 150 kids. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    E505 Ask Nick - You Don’t Need to be Happy for Them

    E505 Ask Nick - You Don’t Need to be Happy for Them

    Welcome back to another juicy and exciting episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back again to bring on our callers and help them navigate the world of dating. Before getting to our callers, the group talks about avoiding burnout, Ali shares about her first date, and Amanda announces this week’s break-up song, with a couple of honorable mentions in preparation for the upcoming Turkey Dump. We then get into it, welcoming our first caller, who is planning to visit a hook-up overseas. She wants to have fun and keep it casual while also getting to know the deal on if things will be moving to the next level. Is it worth having the awkward conversation and possibly ruining the vacation? Next, our next caller needs advice on how to get over a secret situationship from within her friend group that has recently ended, after the guy started dating his ex, who is still in this group. With nobody in the group knowing about the previous situationship, our caller wonders if she should feel pressured to keep the secret and how she can properly move on. Lastly, we speak with a caller who decided she wanted more from a guy she thought she was casually dating. When she told him she’d been dating other people but wanted to be exclusive with him, he responded by acting confused and not knowing if he wanted to commit or not. Is there such a thing as the right guy at the wrong time, or are they simply just not communicating expectations effectively? 

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