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    Lexi explains that she has relatively little experience in the BDSM world. She asks “how can I push this along better?”. We discussed a wide variety of topics, such as toxic masculinity, role playing abusive situations, punishment versus "funishment", behavioral modification, power exchange, agency, holding a container for power exchange, safe words, what a Munch is, self collaring, FetLife, how to avoid creeps on FetLife, what a BDSM party looks like, understanding risk, we roll played negotiation, Daddy Dom / little girl, her wanting to get in trouble, service topping and service bottoming, the Upper Floor, play polyamory, deroll end epilogue and more.

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