S4-E34: The Author of Confusion

Is it the end of the road? Is this season of life coming to an end? In today's episode, Coach Suzette elaborates on endings and how to recognize them. She shares the ways Life informs you of endings, the role of your intuition and resistance. She offers:

--ways to distinguish whether resistance is because you've come to an ending or whether it is a necessary part of your journey for you to overcome.

--Circumstances where Life requires you to earn your way out.

To keep you from unnecessary suffering and confusion, she shares signs she's learned to recognize.

If after listening to this episode, you want guidance in evaluating whether something happening in your life is an ending, contact Coach Suzette at:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
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If you are seeking a community where you are welcomed and supported, check out her Love On Your Terms Group at https://facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms .

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Goodbye until Season 5!!

In a recent interview with Oprah, Quinta Brunson, the brains behind the popular television series, "Abbott Elementary", described something that every lightworker woman I know wants in her romantic relationship. One where she doesn't have to dim her light. Coach Suzette expounds on that very thing by talking about a love where you are welcomed.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about how Coach Suzette works with women to courageously be their true selves in their romantic relationships, contact her at:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

If you are seeking a community where you are welcomed and supported, check out her Love On Your Terms Group at https://facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms .

There are two things that you need to "fall out of love with" in order to really open up to real love: your pain and your fantasy. In today's episode, Coach Suzette talks about these two barriers to experiencing love and what you have to do if you want to experience fulfilling love.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, contact her Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms .

Inspired by the Netflix social experiment, Married At First Sight, Suzette talks about a defense mechanism that she fondly termed, "psychodistancing". Basically, it is talking in circles yet trying to make it sound enlightened. The problem however is nobody understands what the heck you're saying. Listen as she explores this further and what might be at the root of it.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, contact her Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Is it normal for romantic relationships to leave you confused? I honestly don't think so. Yet, confusion has been normalized to the point that it is the exception not the rule. In this episode, Coach Suzette sheds light on the whole confusion thing and probes even deeper into some long-held spiritual beliefs about who the author of confusion is. What she comes up with is unconventional yet very practical and always liberating. So check out this episode and tell us what you think.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, contact her Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Learn more/register for her Love On Your Terms Masterclass coming in November at suzettesolutions.com. It starts tomorrow, November 7th !

What is your definition for available? When you say you want a man who is available, what does it mean? And even more important, what does it mean when he says it? This is so key. And in today's episode, Coach Suzette talks about Ava Duvernay's anthology series, CHERISH THE DAY where two high school sweethearts, Sunday and Ellis, get a second chance at love. Right out the gate, however, they come face to face with availability.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, contact me Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Learn more/register for her Love On Your Terms Masterclass coming in November at suzettesolutions.com.

Is your mind playing tricks on you? In this episode, Coach Suzette shares 12 signs. Ideologies that have been adopted, often quoted and rigorously shared by countless women that have distracted them from taking responsibility for their love lives and owning their power to have the love they desire. Exposing the lies often believed, Suzette exposes the mindset traps that keep women intimidated by love and stuck in a cycle of failed relationships.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, reach out. Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Learn more/register for her Love On Your Terms Masterclass coming in November at suzettesolutions.com.

Why do you settle? Is it because you don't know that you deserve better? Or is it that you think that by settling, you'll get something in return?

In this episode, Suzette exposes the convincing argument that settling makes but never delivers on.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how working with Coach Suzette can help, reach out. Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group at facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Learn more/register for her Love On Your Terms Masterclass coming in November at suzettesolutions.com.

A woman of 50 plus years revealed that she had not been in a relationship for some 10 years. And her next three words were quite telling. "Love scares me," she said. Truth be told, it is believed to be the reason why modern women have abandoned it to pursue other goals and ambitions. And sadly, why many women have convinced themselves that to choose love is to betray themselves.

That's why this episode isn't full of fanciful anecdotes or passed-down pejoratives. But rather, Coach Suzette draws a distinction between what is really motivated by love and what is not. For when you know the difference, you realize that it is the absence of love that is scary. Not love itself.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to talk further about your relationship challenges and how Coach Suzette helps women over 40 overcome the mental and emotional blocks preventing them from experiencing the love they desire, reach out. Here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Join her Facebook Group? Go to facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

Attend her Love On Your Terms Masterclass in November? Go to suzettesolutions.com.

When I was growing up, my parents both agreed on one thing. You can't be friends with a man because sex will always get in the way. So, the only thing I could base love on was physical attraction. You hoped that the man you were attracted to was attracted to you too. And if he was, maybe just maybe it would lead to happily ever after.

With age - and a few hard knocks - Suzette has gotten wiser. And it is that wisdom that she brings to whether physical attraction or friendship is more important in a relationship.

If after listening to this episode, you wish to reach out to Suzette, here are some ways:

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon

Want to join her Facebook Group? Go to facebook.com/groups/loveonyourterms.

If you missed her Love On Your Terms Masterclass, she's hosting an ENCORE in November. Check https://suzettesolutions.com for details.