Well-meaning teachings on divorce have left some abuse victims unsure of what to do about their situations.  Yet the Word of God gives us insight into the hearts of people who abuse behind the scenes, and what God’s heart is on the matter.

Narcissists love to enlist Flying Monkeys to abuse their victims by proxy.  Today’s message defines what Flying Monkeys are and how to avoid being used by a narcissist in this manner. 

Are You a Narcissist's Flying Monkey?

The Narcissist's Playbook: Smear Campaigns and Stalking

Narcissists and Antisocial personality-disordered people are often the tares that the enemy sows among the wheat at church.  Yet, we can identify them by their patterns.  Today’s message discusses three of these patterns and the gift of discernment that is available to us through the Holy Spirit.

We are under the curse when we are under the law and this is true in the family unit as well.  Today’s message discusses three ways that the curse might show up in family relationships and contrasts it with the freedom that is now available to us in Christ Jesus.  

Intergenerational trauma is often accepted as part of a culture without an investigation into the source of it.  Yet, living from trauma does not produce healthy and thriving families.  Today’s message identifies examples of intergenerational trauma present in families and gives steps toward freedom from its effects.

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/trauma-impact-relationships-psychology-love-communication/

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/Understanding_Intergenerational_Trauma

https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2019/07/parents-emotional-trauma-may-change-their-children-s-biology-studies-mice-show-how

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190326-what-is-epigenetics

Transactional intimacy is at the core of many dysfunctional relationships. It comes from the human desire to replace God with what we can receive from other people.  Today’s message focuses on how to achieve freedom from this relationship trap and to walk according to the Spirit instead.

Personality disorders have the potential to wreak havoc on a marriage due to the lack of empathy that accompanies them.  We must think differently about submission in cases like this because it could be unwise or even dangerous.  Today’s message offers insight and strategies when faced with this situation.

Psychology Today Article

Laurie Hollman Article

Submission is a teaching that has been abused in the Body of Christ and has therefore led to abuse.  Not much guidance is given to women expected to submit to men who are impaired in their ability to lead.  Today’s message offers hope and encouragement for those in this situation. 

Married with Undiagnosed ASD: Why Women Who Leave Lose Twice

What Does Autism Spectrum Disorder Look Like in Adults?

Could it be Bipolar Disorder? 14 Signs to Look For

Fear-based parenting is rampant in some cultures.  While the goal is to curb undesirable behaviors, it can later interfere with walking by faith.  We’ll explore how to lead our kids in the right direction without resorting to intimidation.

Dysfunctional families select scapegoats to avoid the acknowledgement of any sinful or toxic dynamics.  Scapegoats often shoulder this undeserved blame well into adulthood.  Today’s message uncovers why this dynamic occurs and highlights steps toward freedom from the false label.