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    Tea With GaryVee #2 | How to Manage Negative People in Your Life

    enMarch 26, 2020

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    • Learning from Door-to-Door Sales for EntrepreneurshipDoor-to-door sales experience can provide valuable skills for entrepreneurship, including sales, leadership, and people skills. Understand your entrepreneurship goals and if sales aligns, embrace the challenge.

      Selling, particularly door-to-door, can be valuable experience for aspiring entrepreneurs. Gary Vee acknowledged the challenges of door-to-door sales but emphasized that the skills gained, such as sales, leadership, and people skills, are essential for entrepreneurship. He also emphasized the importance of understanding why one wants to be an entrepreneur, and if the desired freedom and excitement from sales aligns with entrepreneurship goals, then the experience could be beneficial. Additionally, Gary encouraged listeners to keep washing their hands and continue supporting the Monday to Monday playlist.

    • Selling and generating revenue are crucial for entrepreneurship survival and growthDetermine if you're a salesperson or owner operator, focus on what makes you happy, and strive for authentic entrepreneurship

      While management skills are important in entrepreneurship, the ability to sell and generate revenue is crucial for the survival and growth of a business. It's essential to determine if you're cut out for being a salesperson or an owner operator. Entrepreneurship may be trendy now, but it comes with significant pressure and financial risks. To test the waters, consider starting small by selling products on platforms like Amazon and eBay or learning about supply and demand. Remember, it's essential to focus on what makes you happy and not get swayed by the hype. Don't overlook the value of sales experience or exploit people's fears to make a profit. Instead, strive for authentic entrepreneurship. If you're a junior in high school like Alex, this advice is particularly relevant as you explore potential career paths.

    • Exploring Music Performance Against Parental OppositionDespite financial limitations and opposition, pursuing a passion for music performance can be achieved through trickery, debt, or a side job, and can lead to success in various fields.

      Even when faced with difficult decisions or situations, there are usually multiple options to consider. In the discussed scenario, a high school student is considering pursuing a major in music performance against his mother's wishes and financial limitations. The speaker suggests three potential solutions: tricking her into allowing the major, taking on debt or a side job to pay for it, or giving it a try with her preferred major. While acknowledging the challenges, the speaker emphasizes the importance of following one's passion and offers reassurance that all three paths can lead to success. Additionally, the conversation highlights the evolving nature of education and career paths, with opportunities for growth and success outside of traditional routes.

    • Finding Balance: An Animator's Struggle with ProductivityEffective time management and a clear plan can help individuals make the most of their time and resources to achieve their goals.

      Staying focused and achieving overall success may not be a matter of lacking passion, but rather a lack of structure and time management. The interviewee, an animator at Nickelodeon, shared that he loves his job but struggles with productivity after work due to long commutes and limited time. He expressed a desire to work on personal projects and find a balance between productivity and leisure time. The suggestion was made to consider living closer to work or restructuring his schedule to make the most of his time. The interviewee acknowledged the difficulty of balancing work, family, and personal projects, but remained determined to find a solution. In essence, the key takeaway is that having a clear plan and effective time management can help individuals make the most of their time and resources to achieve their goals.

    • Appreciate the present and live in the momentEmbrace the present, enjoy relationships, and be thoughtful about finances while maintaining balance and working towards goals.

      It's important to appreciate the present and not be overly hard on oneself for not achieving certain goals at a young age. The speaker emphasized the importance of living in the moment, enjoying relationships, and being thoughtful about finances. He encouraged the listener to have patience and perspective, recognizing that ambition can sometimes lead to anxiety and negativity. The speaker also suggested that productivity doesn't always have to come in the form of a business output, but can also be productive for one's soul and relationships. Additionally, he suggested finding time for productivity on weekends, even if it means sacrificing some time with a girlfriend. Overall, the message was to find balance and appreciate the present while continuing to work towards goals.

    • Focus on what you truly want and take small steps towards itFocus on your passions, prioritize, and make time for what matters while balancing responsibilities and self-care.

      It's important to recognize the difference between wanting to do something and being ready to take action. The speaker encourages not to beat oneself up for not being motivated or productive all the time. Instead, he suggests focusing on what one truly wants and is passionate about, and taking small steps towards it. He recommends starting with TikTok as a platform to reach a large audience and help people, using one's own experiences to connect with others. Balancing fun, school, and work can be challenging, but it's essential to prioritize and make time for what truly matters. The speaker's brother also wanted to know how to balance these responsibilities, and the answer is to prioritize and make time for what's important while also taking care of oneself. Overall, the key takeaway is to focus on what one truly wants and is passionate about, and take small steps towards it, while also balancing responsibilities and taking care of oneself.

    • Focus on the customer and their needsEntrepreneurs should prioritize their customers and their needs, enjoy what they do, and trust in their abilities to overcome challenges, while having a support system and finding freedom in entrepreneurship.

      Focusing on the customer and their needs should be the top priority for any entrepreneur, regardless of external factors or self-doubt. The conversation touched on the importance of judgment and risk-taking, and how overthinking and comparing oneself to others can be a waste of time. Ashley shared her experience of questioning her suitability for entrepreneurship but ultimately deciding to focus on her customers and their needs. The speaker emphasized that if one truly enjoys what they're doing, they are already winning, and success will follow. The conversation also touched on the importance of having a support system and finding freedom in entrepreneurship. Overall, the message was to focus on the present and the customer, and not get bogged down by external factors or self-doubt.

    • Authentic personal branding through videos during challenging timesDuring tough times, create and share authentic videos about yourself to build a personal brand, attract new customers, and grow your business.

      During challenging times like the current coronavirus pandemic, small business owners need to adapt their marketing strategies and focus on building their personal brand. Ashley from Ignite Nutrition was advised to create and share videos about herself and her story on various social media platforms, such as Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. These videos should be authentic and resonate with her audience. By putting herself out there and making content consistently, Ashley can attract new customers and grow her business despite the current situation. It's essential to embrace the situation and take action, rather than dwelling on the negatives. Additionally, dealing with negative friends can be similar to dealing with the coronavirus - limiting interaction and being upfront about the situation while maintaining a positive relationship.

    • Maintaining a positive connection during tough timesExpressing love and support with honesty can help strengthen relationships and inspire positive change during difficult times

      Maintaining a positive connection with someone, even during difficult times, can be beneficial not only for the relationship but also for the children involved. Compassion and candor are essential when communicating with a friend who may be going through a tough time. By expressing love and support while being honest about concerns, one can offer a helping hand and potentially inspire positive change. It's essential to remember that everyone is dealing with their own struggles, and focusing on the positive can help us all get through challenging times. When in doubt, approach the situation with compassion and candor, ensuring that you've done your best to help and support your friend.

    • Provide free value to attract customersOffering high-quality content for free builds trust, attracts potential customers, and can lead to paid opportunities.

      Providing free content and building a genuine connection with your audience can be a powerful way to build trust and grow your business. However, it's important to understand that the true value you're offering goes beyond the content itself. By giving away high-quality content for free, you can attract and engage potential customers, ultimately leading them to seek out access to more in-depth information or personalized guidance from you. This approach allows you to build a loyal following while also generating revenue to support your business and your family. Remember, the key is to focus on intent and providing value, rather than manipulating people into paying for content they could get elsewhere.

    • Balancing work and education during unprecedented timesPrioritize, find balance, engage children in technology, foster creativity, view technology as a tool, remember unique situations, stay flexible and open-minded

      During these unprecedented times when many parents are juggling their professional responsibilities with their children's education, it's essential to prioritize and find a balance. While the curriculum is important, it's not the only thing that matters. Engaging children in exploring technology, developing unique interests, and fostering their creativity can lead to valuable learning experiences. Parents should not demonize the use of technology but instead view it as a tool for education and growth. It's crucial to remember that each family's situation is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to managing work and education. So, take a deep breath, and approach this new reality with a flexible and open mind.

    • Be true to yourself and create authentic contentCreating authentic content aligns with passions, grows you, and has 80% support from loved ones, despite potential ostracism from 36%.

      It's important to be true to yourself and create content that aligns with your passions, even if it may potentially ostracize some people in your life. The people who truly care about you will support and appreciate your authenticity. Additionally, creating content can help you grow and become accountable for your actions. Remember, 80% of your friends and family will step up and love you for your true self. Don't underestimate their support. And if the 36% who don't, they will eventually get over it. So, be yourself, create content, and let your true colors shine through.

    • Embrace change and view setbacks as opportunities for growthDespite initial concerns, loved ones' support often outweighs disapproval. Embrace change, view setbacks as stepping stones, and push past comfort zones for personal growth and new opportunities.

      While it's natural to worry about the reactions of loved ones to our decisions, especially during challenging times, it's important to remember that their love and support will often outweigh any initial embarrassment or disapproval. Gary Vaynerchuk emphasized this during a podcast episode, sharing his belief that the pandemic presents an opportunity for personal growth and development. He encouraged listeners to embrace change and view setbacks as stepping stones towards better jobs, businesses, and financial literacy. Additionally, he expressed gratitude for listener reviews and feedback, which help spread awareness of the podcast and provide valuable context for potential listeners. Jason Cutter's review was highlighted as an example of the impactful and honest nature of the show. Overall, the message was one of resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of pushing past comfort zones to discover new opportunities and growth.

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    Tracy explains that if you want to be successful in launching a podcast, it is important to have an email list, social media following, and something to sell from day one. Without these things, it will be difficult to get people to listen to your podcast and you will likely end up spending more money than you make.

     

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    HIGHLIGHTS

    Interview some big shots in your niche, even go outside of your niche, but somehow relates to the theme of your course, of your podcast. I've had folks from way outside the entrepreneurial, the podcasting, and the online course realm, right? But I was always able to take their knowledge and relate it back.

     

    You need to choose to be a celebrity from day one, all right? You need to choose to be someone who is bigger than you are in real life, someone with a memorable name and a personality.

     

    What that means is whatever money you're spending on ads and the costs it takes to get a prospect turned into a paying customer, at the end of the day, the cost of the course pays for that ad.

     

    You'll be investing your time to create your episodes, to create your lessons, and to edit those episodes and added those lessons into marketing and finding people to come in and talk, doing everything else that needs to be done or you'll be hiring someone to do it.

     

    You're going to send your subscribers and your social media friends to your podcast to get that critical mass, that boost as soon as you hit itunes, to jump you up in the lists so that you can grab more listeners and more subscribers and then really start to build your email list.