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    The Best Oral Sex Tips You’ve Never Heard

    enOctober 24, 2014

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    • Exploring the Iconic Magic Wand Vibrator and Enhancing Sexual ExperiencesDiscover the iconic Magic Wand vibrator for deep, powerful orgasms and full-body massages. Enhance experiences with Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel.

      The Magic Wand vibrator, often referred to as the "Cadillac of vibrators," is a cultural icon and symbol of unconditional pleasure. First introduced decades ago, it has earned accolades such as "vibrator of the year" and has been praised in Time Magazine. Its powerful rumble resonates deep within, making it a trusted confidant for achieving orgasms and giving full-body massages. Now, there are multiple iterations of the Magic Wand, including the rechargeable, mini, micro, and plush versions, all retaining the original's powerful rumble. Meanwhile, Promescent offers pleasure-enhancing products like delay spray and warming arousal gel to help individuals last longer and heighten sensations during summer, the sexiest season. By exploring these products at sexwithemily.com/magicwand and promessence.com/emily, you can enhance your sexual experiences and join the legions of satisfied customers.

    • Exploring Sex and Relationships with Emily and AndyLearn about common mistakes in bed, enhance sexual experiences, and improve relationships through open communication and personal growth. Check out sexwithemily.com and iTunes for more resources.

      The discussion revolved around various aspects of sex and relationships, with the hosts sharing personal experiences and offering advice. They also mentioned the availability of their podcasts and reports on sexwithemily.com and iTunes, which provide insights into common mistakes in bed for both men and women. The hosts expressed excitement about their upcoming live streaming shows and shared positive experiences about their haircuts and the stylists who provided them. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of open communication and learning from one another in enhancing sexual experiences and relationships.

    • Clear communication is crucial for effective adviceFocus on the real issue, get to the point, and attend the upcoming workshop for a discount.

      Effective communication is key when it comes to providing advice or assistance. The speaker emphasized the importance of getting to the point and focusing on the real question or issue at hand, rather than providing excessive background information. Additionally, the speaker mentioned her upcoming event in San Diego, where she will be teaching a workshop on enhancing sexual experiences. She encouraged listeners to attend and mentioned that those who do so will receive a discount at the Hustler Hollywood store. The speaker also mentioned her recent meditation practice and the challenges she faces in integrating it into her daily life. Overall, the conversation touched on various topics, but the importance of clear communication and attending the upcoming event were the main takeaways.

    • Regular meditation leads to personal transformationMeditation, even for a few minutes a day, can lead to significant personal growth and improved mental well-being. Find a practice that fits your schedule and stick with it for noticeable results.

      Meditation, practiced regularly and consistently, even for just a few minutes at a time, can lead to significant personal transformation and improved mental well-being. The speaker shared her experience of meditating twice a day for 20 minutes each, and feeling a noticeable calmness and clarity as a result. She emphasized that it's important to find a meditation practice that fits into one's schedule and lifestyle, rather than feeling like a failure for not being able to commit to longer sessions. The speaker also expressed her belief that meditation could help reduce anxiety and improve society as a whole if more people practiced it regularly. She announced her role as a keynote speaker and ticket giveaway for the Sexual Health Expo, encouraging listeners to share their compelling reasons for wanting to attend.

    • Approaching new people at barsSeizing opportunities and practicing confidence can lead to positive interactions with new people, even attractive women.

      Approaching new people, especially attractive women, can be a daunting task, but with practice and confidence, it becomes easier. Rune, a podcast host and social media expert, shared his experience of approaching two women in a bar after being motivated by a friend's comment about how attractive women are rarely approached. Despite feeling uncomfortable and unsure, he seized the opportunity when he saw two empty tables and asked the women if they would like to sit closer. They did, and they stayed for about three quarters of the game before leaving due to a blowout. Rune did not get their numbers but felt that they would return. The experience reinforced the idea that practice makes perfect and that observing opportunities and seizing them can lead to positive interactions. The conversation also highlighted the importance of confidence and not being afraid to approach new people.

    • Approaching Women: Confidence and Initiative MatterConfidence and initiative are essential when approaching women. Start conversations based on shared interests or observations, avoid yes or no questions, and don't let fear hold you back.

      Approaching women requires confidence and initiative, even if the circumstances seem challenging. Rune shared his experience of feeling powerless without a table at a bar, but he emphasized the importance of just starting a conversation. He hadn't done this in eight years, but after some liquid courage, he was able to successfully engage with women. The key is to observe something you both can talk about and then start a conversation based on that. It's important not to ask yes or no questions, as this can limit the conversation. The speaker also shared an example of a friend who struggled with approaching women due to nervousness, and offered advice on how to start conversations based on shared interests or observations. Overall, the takeaway is that confidence and initiative are crucial when it comes to approaching women, and that everyone can benefit from practicing these skills.

    • Men Prefer iPhone 6 Over Girlfriends: A Surprising FindMen value technology connections and lifestyle over real-life relationships, but constant engagement can hinder forming meaningful connections, so balance is key.

      According to a recent survey, one in five single men would rather have an iPhone 6 than a girlfriend. This finding may seem alarming, but it's important to remember that the attachment to technology goes beyond just the device itself. Men are expressing a desire for the connections, social media, and overall lifestyle that comes with owning the latest technology. However, this constant connection to technology can be detrimental to forming real-life relationships. The constant pursuit of the newest gadget can make it difficult for individuals to fully engage with the world around them and meet new people. Therefore, it's crucial to find a balance between staying connected and being present in the moment. Put down the phone and engage with the world around you to increase your chances of forming meaningful connections.

    • The Impact of Technology on Experiencing MomentsBe present and mindful in experiences, technology can distract us from fully appreciating moments, focusing on pleasing partner during refractory period can help maintain connection during sex.

      Our connection to technology, specifically our phones, can often distract us from fully experiencing and appreciating the beauty and moments around us. The speaker shared an observation of three teenagers taking selfies with their backs to a stunning view, missing out on the experience. The speaker also reflected on their own phone usage and the addictive nature of it. Additionally, during the Q&A segment, a listener reached out for advice on maintaining an erection during round two of sex. The speaker suggested focusing on pleasing their partner during the refractory period, using foreplay and communication to build excitement again. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of being present and mindful in our experiences, and the potential impact of technology on our ability to do so.

    • Improve ejaculatory control and penile strength with Kegel exercisesMen and women can enhance their sexual health through Kegel exercises, which strengthen pelvic floor muscles, and consider using apps like Kegelcamp for guidance. Men dealing with premature ejaculation may benefit from FDA-approved treatments like Promescent. Dating multiple people can provide valuable insights and lead to a more satisfying relationship.

      Practicing Kegel exercises can help improve ejaculatory control and penile strength for both men and women. These exercises involve contracting and relaxing the pelvic floor muscles, which can be done discreetly anywhere, including with the help of an app like Kegelcamp. For men who struggle with premature ejaculation, the FDA-approved treatment Promescent may also be effective. When it comes to dating, it's common for people to explore multiple options before settling down. While being upfront about seeing other people can be important, it's also a good idea to take the time to get to know each person individually and discover what makes them unique. By dating around, you can learn more about yourself and ultimately find a more fulfilling relationship.

    • Learning from Dating: Understanding Yourself and OthersWait until things get serious to discuss past relationships, be honest but not premature, protect yourself, and make a decision based on feelings and unique qualities.

      Dating allows individuals to learn more about themselves and their preferences in relationships. Regarding disclosing past or current relationships, it's generally recommended to wait until things get serious. Women often bring up the topic more frequently than men. It's essential to be honest but not prematurely. Protect yourself with proper precautions during sexual encounters, and use your judgment to determine the right time to discuss your dating status. It's natural to feel attracted to multiple people, but ultimately, you must make a decision based on your feelings and the unique qualities each person brings to the table. Remember, no one is perfect, and everyone comes with their flaws. Choose the person whose flaws you can accept and live with.

    • Choose a partner who challenges you to growDon't settle for a comfortable partner, seek one who encourages personal growth. Consider products like No No Hair Removal System and Fleshlight for self-care.

      When it comes to relationships, it's important not to settle for the easy choice or the most comfortable partner, but rather someone who challenges you to grow as a person. The speaker warns against choosing someone who enables your bad habits or lets you get away with things, as this may not lead to a healthy and fulfilling long-term partnership. Instead, consider someone who is emotionally evolved and can provide a healthy balance in your life. Additionally, the speaker shared some product recommendations, including No No Hair Removal System and Fleshlight, which offer long-lasting and convenient solutions for unwanted body hair and male masturbation, respectively. While these may not be directly related to relationships, they can contribute to personal happiness and self-care. So, whether you're looking for a new partner or just want to improve your self-care routine, remember to prioritize growth and challenge yourself to try new things. And don't forget to check out No No Emily.com and SexWithEmily.com for some helpful tools and products!

    • Oral sex is important for female satisfactionEffective oral sex involves teasing, focusing on the clitoris, using rhythm and incorporating fingers for added stimulation. Communication and patience are essential for every woman's unique needs.

      Oral sex skills are crucial for satisfying a sexual partner. According to Ron Jeremy, a famous porn star, more women have climaxed from his tongue than his penis. Foreplay, including oral sex, is essential for women to get aroused and should not be skipped. Teasing and building anticipation are important parts of the process. Once a woman is ready, focus on the clitoris, using a combination of wide and small licks, and incorporate fingers for added stimulation. The use of rhythm and finding the g-spot can lead to intense pleasure. Remember, every woman is different, so communication and patience are key.

    • Effective Communication and Lubricant for Female Orgasm during Oral SexUsing lubricant and effective communication can increase comfort, pleasure, and the likelihood of female orgasm during oral sex. Understanding the clitoris and becoming 'clitterate' can also help men better please their partners.

      Effective communication and the use of lubricant are key to helping a woman achieve orgasm and potentially multiple orgasms during oral sex. Ron Jeremy, a well-known figure in the adult entertainment industry, shared his experience and asked for Emily's advice on the topic. Emily emphasized the importance of using lube, as it can make sex more comfortable and increase the likelihood of female orgasm. She also highlighted the importance of understanding the clitoris, as it has a greater number of nerve endings compared to the penis. By becoming "clitterate," men can better please their partners and help them reach orgasm. Additionally, communication and feedback are essential for ensuring a satisfying sexual experience for both parties.

    • Understanding Female Sexual ResponseEffective female pleasure requires patience, focus on sensitive areas, communication, and gentle touch during foreplay.

      Satisfying a woman requires more time and consideration compared to men due to the differences in sexual response. Lorena Bobbitt's story serves as a reminder of the importance of waiting for a woman to finish before moving on to your own pleasure. The inner two-thirds of the vagina are the most sensitive areas for women, and focusing on these areas, as well as using manual stimulation and talking dirty, can lead to more intense orgasms. Additionally, men are often more focused on penetrative sex, but gentle touch and foreplay can be more effective in pleasuring women. Remember, communication and patience are key in creating a fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.

    • Exploring Intimacy Through Words and TouchEffective communication, patience, and experimentation are crucial in sexual experiences. Women may enjoy finger stimulation, G-spot exploration, and being on top for control. In-person experiences may not always meet expectations set by words.

      Words and touch can be powerful tools in intimacy and sexual experiences. The way someone communicates through writing or speech can turn us on, but it's important to remember that in-person experiences may not always live up to expectations. During sexual encounters, using fingers to gently rub the vaginal entrance, exploring the G-spot, and employing a flat tongue with varying speeds and techniques can lead to greater pleasure for women. Additionally, allowing the partner to take control and grind against the tongue can also be effective. The position of a woman on top is often beneficial for her achieving orgasm due to the ability to control depth, motion, and speed. Communication, patience, and experimentation are key to understanding each partner's unique preferences.

    • Exploring new ways to enhance experiencesExplore sensual massages with massage candles or use smart shopping tools like TrueCar for hassle-free experiences and deeper connections

      Creating an intimate and relaxing atmosphere can enhance sexual experiences. Emily mentioned using massage candles that transform into oil for sensual massages, leading to amazing sex and deepening connections. Additionally, she shared her experience of using TrueCar for car buying to avoid haggling and save money. The key takeaway is to explore new ways to enhance experiences, whether it's through sensual massages or smart shopping tools, to make everyday moments more enjoyable and meaningful. Try Emily and Tony's massage candles at emilyandtony.com with the coupon code "emily" for 20% off, and visit truecar.com for hassle-free car buying.

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