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    The Cost of Surrogacy Pt 2: The Surrogate

    enJuly 01, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring Financial Opportunities in the Sharing Economy and SurrogacyIndividuals can earn money through side hustles like Airbnb hosting and unexpected market impacts, while surrogates can earn significant compensation with potential additional benefits.

      The sharing economy offers accessible side hustles, such as becoming an Airbnb host, which can help individuals monetize their existing resources without significant startup costs. Meanwhile, in the world of finance, the unexpected rise of companies like GameStop has shown that even individuals can impact larger markets. In the realm of surrogacy, Growing Generations reported that first-time surrogates are typically paid between $50,000 and $60,000, with variations depending on location. Compensation for surrogates in sought-after states like California can be significantly higher. Additionally, financial implications for surrogates include potential additional compensation in case of complications during pregnancy. These conversations highlight the potential for personal growth and financial opportunities in various aspects of life.

    • Costs of Surrogacy and Side HustlesSurrogacy involves substantial costs, including new surrogate screening and related expenses, which can add up to $20,000 to $70,000. Side hustles like hosting on Airbnb can help offset these costs.

      Surrogacy involves various costs that can add up significantly, especially in case of multiple attempts or complications. While some costs, like the agency fees, are one-time fees, others, such as new surrogate screening and related expenses, can add up to an additional $20,000 to $70,000. Surrogates are not employees or contractors of the agency, but rather individuals who choose to carry a pregnancy for intended parents. They can continue working while pregnant, but will take time off when advised by their doctor. Another way to earn extra income is by hosting on Airbnb, which can help monetize existing assets. This can be a valuable side hustle, especially for those considering the costs of surrogacy.

    • Airbnb helps reduce travel costs, surrogacy relationships varyAirbnb hosting can make vacations affordable, surrogate relationships can range from distant to close, creating open communication fosters healthy emotional bonds

      Hosting on Airbnb can help offset the cost of travel and make vacations more affordable. The speaker shares her personal experience of feeling guilty about traveling due to expenses but now feels no stress since her Airbnb guests help cover the costs. Additionally, in the context of surrogacy, relationships between surrogates and intended parents can vary greatly. While some intended parents prefer a close relationship, others may not be sure. However, many intended parents end up developing a close bond with their surrogate, leading to ongoing communication and even vacations together. The surrogate's role is celebrated in the family, and creating an open and honest "creation story" can help build healthy emotional relationships between the child and the surrogate.

    • Open communication is crucial when discussing surrogacy with childrenCommunicate openly about surrogacy with children to avoid confusion, facilitate the process with agencies like Tio, and establish clear expectations and roles beforehand.

      Open communication is key when it comes to discussing surrogacy with children. Withholding information can lead them to seek answers elsewhere, potentially causing confusion. Regarding surrogacy with known individuals, agencies like Tio can facilitate the process as long as the surrogate passes all necessary criteria. It's essential to establish clear expectations and have open conversations about roles and relationships beforehand. When considering surrogacy, intended parents should communicate their goals and timeline to their agency, which can help guide them through the process. Ultimately, the priority is to provide as much information as possible to help individuals make informed decisions about their surrogacy journey.

    • Understanding the Surrogacy Journey: Motivations and ResourcesSurrogacy is a selfless act driven by a desire to help others and personal ability. Resources are available to help with financial aspects.

      Considering surrogacy is a significant decision that requires introspection and altruism. Many people dismiss the idea without giving it a thought. However, for those who do consider it, their motivations often stem from a desire to help others and a personal ability to carry a pregnancy. It's essential to hear these stories and understand the thought process behind such a selfless act. Furthermore, there are resources available to help with the financial aspect of surrogacy. For those exploring this option, it's crucial to educate yourself and utilize the resources at your disposal. Remember, the gift of surrogacy can be a blessing for intended parents and a rewarding experience for the surrogate.

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