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    The Lie of Finding Your Passion

    en-usOctober 09, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding everyone's purpose is uniqueFocus on what brings joy and fulfillment, not grand or profitable goals, in finding your purpose in life.

      Finding your purpose in life doesn't have to be a source of stress or anxiety. Instead, it's important to understand that everyone's purpose looks different and that's okay. Some people may find their purpose in a career or a specific goal, while others may find it in small moments of joy or fulfillment. It's also important to remember that your purpose doesn't have to be something grand or profitable. There are "hummingbirds" in the world, people who find happiness and fulfillment in the simple things. And there are fewer "Jack Hammers," those who find their purpose in something big and impactful. The key is to focus on what brings you joy and fulfillment, rather than what you think your purpose should be. So take the time to explore your interests, try new things, and don't be too hard on yourself if you don't find your purpose right away. It's a journey, not a destination.

    • Discovering Passion and Purpose: Like a Jackhammer or a HummingbirdEveryone can discover their passion and purpose, regardless of the length of time spent on it. Keep exploring and learning to evolve and grow as individuals.

      Everyone has the capacity to discover their passion and purpose in life, but the way we pursue it may differ. Some people, like the speaker, may find their passion early on and dedicate their lives to it, much like a jackhammer relentlessly breaks through obstacles to reach its goal. Others, however, may have multiple passions and explore them for varying lengths of time, similar to a hummingbird moving from flower to flower. Both approaches are valid, and it's essential to recognize that the length of time spent on a passion does not diminish its importance. Ultimately, the key is to keep exploring and learning, allowing ourselves to evolve and grow as individuals.

    • Embrace the hummingbird lifestyleIt's okay to have multiple passions, but focus fully on one. Move from passion to passion, giving each one your full energy before moving on.

      It's okay to have multiple passions and not to limit yourself to one specific interest or goal. Comparing oneself to a hummingbird can be a helpful metaphor in understanding this concept. A hummingbird moves from flower to flower, putting all its energy into each one before moving on to the next. Similarly, individuals can fully commit to their current passion or interest before exploring another one. However, it's crucial not to divide one's focus between multiple passions, as this can hinder progress. Instead, individuals should give their full effort to the passion they're currently pursuing before moving on to the next. This approach allows for continuous growth and exploration while ensuring that each passion is given the attention it deserves.

    • Commit to a passion and invest energyFind what resonates and immerse yourself in it, even if it doesn't generate income directly

      It's important to fully commit to a passion rather than jumping from one thing to another. Find something you're deeply in love with and invest all your energy into it. Don't feel pressured to make money off your passion right away or even at all. Your passion might not be profitable, but it's the thing that brings you joy. Your job or business should provide the financial stability that allows you the freedom to dedicate time to your passion. For instance, if you're passionate about horses, pursue that passion wholeheartedly, even if it doesn't generate income directly. Remember, the goal is to find what resonates with you and immerse yourself in it.

    • Identify if you're a hummingbird or jackhammerDetermine your lifestyle preference and find a career that aligns with it for financial stability, leaving room for passion as a hobby

      It's important to understand that making a living off of your passion, such as horses, is not a requirement for happiness. Instead, it's essential to determine whether you are a hummingbird or a jackhammer - someone who prefers a varied, flexible lifestyle or someone who thrives on consistency and stability. Once you've identified which type you are, you can then focus on finding a career that aligns with your personality and provides financial stability, leaving you free to pursue your passion as a hobby. It's crucial to remember that making money from your passion is a bonus, not a necessity. Instead, consider using the financial security and freedom gained from your career to fuel your passion. Don't compare yourself to others on social media who seem to have it all - everyone's journey is unique, and it's essential to find what works best for you.

    • Spreading kindness and inspiring othersEvery act of kindness, no matter how small, can make a difference in someone's life. Share your stories of good deeds to inspire even more acts of kindness.

      Making a positive impact on someone else's day is a simple yet powerful way to spread happiness and inspire others to do the same. The speaker encourages listeners to share their own stories of good deeds, no matter how small, and he will share them to inspire even more acts of kindness. By making it a mission to make someone else's day better, we can create a ripple effect of positivity in our communities. So, whether it's buying coffee for the person behind you in line or sending a kind message to a friend, remember that every act of kindness matters and can make a difference in someone's life. And if you're inspired by someone else's story, share it with the speaker at RobDile.com to inspire even more acts of kindness.

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