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    The Ups and Downs of TikTok Fame w/ Charli D’Amelio

    enDecember 21, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • The GaryVee Challenge and TikTok Success Story of Charli's FamilyGary Vaynerchuk's challenge inspires content creation at scale on TikTok, while Charli's family shares insights on social media success, creativity, and handling hate.

      Gary Vaynerchuk, in his podcast, introduced the "GaryVee challenge" encouraging his audience to create content at scale using the hashtag #GaryVeeChallenge across various social media platforms. He aims to pick winners in January who have made significant content. The podcast also featured an interview with Charli and her family, who gained popularity on TikTok. Charli shared that she had deleted her Musical.ly account after posting a few videos, but later found success on TikTok. The family's experiences and insights on social media, creativity, and dealing with hate can inspire creators, parents, and executives trying to understand the dynamics of social networks. Gary believes that there's a significant opportunity on TikTok due to the attention it receives compared to the amount of content produced.

    • Unexpected virality from small-scale content creationSharing content online, even with a small audience, can lead to virality and unexpected growth, impacting creators emotionally.

      Creating content and sharing it online, even when an audience is small, can lead to unexpected growth and virality. The speaker, who was just 15 years old at the time, shared dance videos with her friends, who encouraged her to post them on TikTok. For the first 14 videos, she had only a small following of friends. But one simple dance video went viral, gaining over 1 million views and 200,000 likes. The speaker was surprised and unsure of what to do next, but ultimately continued creating content, fascinated by the shift in her audience size and the impact it had on her psyche. This experience highlights the potential for small-scale creators to reach larger audiences and the emotional response that can come with that unexpected success.

    • The fear of judgment can impact content creationDespite the potential for viral success, the fear of judgment can cause creators to take breaks or downplay their involvement in social media trends. Staying authentic and adaptable can help creators overcome these fears and find success.

      The fear of judgment can significantly impact one's content creation and even lead to viral success. The interviewee shared her personal experience of feeling immense pressure after her first viral video on TikTok, which resulted in a 2-day break from posting. At the time, TikTok was not yet widely accepted among older teenagers and young adults, and the interviewee downplayed her involvement in it. However, after her initial success, she began receiving opportunities and making money, which alleviated her concerns about judgment. It's important to remember that everyone faces the fear of judgment, even those who eventually achieve viral success. It's essential to focus on creating authentic content rather than worrying about what others may think. The interviewee's experience also highlights how social media trends and perceptions can change rapidly, making it crucial to stay adaptable and open-minded.

    • Cultural shifts in social media acceptanceUnderstand and adapt to rapid cultural shifts in social media platforms like TikTok for business opportunities and individual social acceptance.

      The cultural impact and acceptance of social media platforms like TikTok can drastically change within a short period of time. This was evident in the shift from online dating stigma in the late 1990s to its widespread acceptance by the late 2000s. The same phenomenon is happening with TikTok, where teenagers' association with the platform can go from being a hidden activity to a source of pride and desire among their peers in a matter of months. Entrepreneurs and businesses need to be aware of these cultural shifts and adapt quickly to capitalize on new opportunities. For individuals, it's essential to embrace new technologies and trends while understanding the potential implications and reactions from their social circles. The speed and extent of cultural shifts can be surprising, and staying informed and adaptable is crucial.

    • A young TikTok star shares her experiences of fame and connecting with fansMeeting fans in person highlights the impact of social media content and the importance of staying grounded in the face of fame.

      Becoming popular on social media, especially at a young age, can be both surreal and humbling. Charli, a TikTok star with over 10 million followers, shared her experiences of meeting fans and the impact her content has had on their lives. She acknowledged the difference between knowing she has a large following and the reality of connecting with fans in person. Charli also reflected on the importance of staying grounded and not letting fame get to her head. The rapid growth of social media fame is a relatively new phenomenon, and Charli is one of the few who has experienced this level of recognition. Comparisons can be drawn to early adopters of other social media platforms like Twitter and Snapchat. However, the fleeting nature of internet fame means that it moves quickly, and Charli is likely already past the peak of this experience. Overall, Charli's journey serves as a reminder of the power of social media to connect people and the importance of staying true to oneself in the face of fame.

    • The Excitement and Challenges of Going Viral on Social MediaGoing viral on social media can lead to opportunities and growth, but the attention span of the audience and culture can shift quickly. Seize opportunities when they arise, such as collaborating with influencers or building relationships.

      Joining a popular social media trend early can lead to significant growth and opportunities, but the attention span of the audience and the culture can shift quickly. This was evident in the discussion about a girl named Charlie who gained massive popularity on TikTok, leading to family dinners and interactions with famous people. The speakers shared their experiences of being followed by influencers and feeling overwhelmed by the sudden attention. They also mentioned how important it is to seize opportunities when they arise, such as collaborating with influencers or building relationships. Overall, the conversation highlighted the excitement and challenges of being part of a viral trend on social media.

    • Leveraging Social Media for Growth: A Personal ExperienceCollaborating with popular influencers and adapting to social media trends can lead to significant growth, but it's important to consider potential downsides and maintain a balance between personal growth and online presence.

      Social media can bring unexpected challenges and opportunities. The speaker shares an experience of using social media to engage with a popular influencer, Dixie D'Amelio, to boost their own following. They adopted a strategy of "clout chasing" and collaborating with her, which led to significant growth. However, the speaker acknowledges the potential downsides, such as the constant pressure to maintain a presence and the potential for negative attention. The speaker also highlights the importance of adapting to changes in social media platforms and considering long-term goals. Ultimately, the speaker sees this experience as a learning opportunity and a reminder to keep a balance between personal growth and online presence.

    • The power of gratitude and empathy in dealing with negativityGratitude and empathy can help transform negative experiences into opportunities for growth. Stay grounded, focus on the positive, and use empathy to connect with others.

      The power of gratitude and empathy can help navigate through negative experiences and transform them into opportunities for growth. The discussion revolves around a 15-year-old girl who faced hate and criticism but chose to respond with gratitude and understanding. This approach not only helped her deal with the situation but also inspired others to adopt a similar perspective. The conversation also touched upon the idea that as we age, our past accomplishments and experiences shape our identity, and the ability to adapt and evolve is essential. The creators in the discussion shared their experiences of dealing with criticism and hate, and how they learned to use it as fuel for their creativity rather than letting it hold them back. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of staying grounded, focusing on the positive, and using empathy to connect with others.

    • Girl's victory in dance competition challenges cultural normsA young girl's refusal to conform to excessive sexification in a dance competition inspires girls to reconsider their actions and empowers them to challenge cultural norms.

      The discussion revolves around the importance of perspective and the impact of a young girl's victory in a dance competition on girls and the culture at large. The speaker emphasizes that the girl, Charlie, stood out because she didn't conform to the excessive sexification trend and instead showed that girls don't need to expose themselves to gain attention. The speaker believes that Charlie's win was a countermove to this trend and a significant moment for young girls, inspiring them to reconsider their actions and beliefs. The speaker also reflects on the power of perspective and the ripple effect of actions, both in their personal lives and in broader culture.

    • Meeting fans at old dance studioUnexpected encounters can lead to deeper connections and positive outcomes, even if initially awkward or cringe

      Unexpected opportunities can lead to meaningful experiences, even if they initially seem cringe or awkward. The speaker, who is a social media influencer, was invited to meet with some of her fans at her old dance studio. At first, she was hesitant and felt it would be a cringe experience, but eventually agreed. The event ended up drawing a large crowd, and the speaker was able to connect with her fans in a deeper way than she had anticipated. Additionally, the studio used the opportunity to turn the event into a fundraiser for a family in need, demonstrating how unexpected events can lead to positive outcomes for all involved. It's important to remember that stepping out of our comfort zone and embracing new experiences, even if they seem strange at first, can lead to unexpected and rewarding outcomes.

    • Misunderstood Charity Event and Negative Public PerceptionClear and transparent communication is crucial for charitable events and public engagements to prevent misunderstandings and negative publicity

      Inexperience and poor execution can lead to misunderstandings and negative public perception, even during a fundraiser event. The speakers discussed their experience with a charity event that went awry due to a misunderstood Eventbrite post and the ensuing public reaction. They acknowledged that the event was initially intended for charity, but the execution and resulting headlines gave a different impression. The speakers also touched on their experiences with social media and the importance of being mindful of how events and interactions are perceived and presented online. In conclusion, it's essential to be clear and transparent when communicating about charitable events or any public engagements to avoid misunderstandings and negative publicity.

    • Exploring the Unique Purposes of Social Media PlatformsSocial media use brings unexpected opportunities, experiences, and connections through various platforms like Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, and Ijimoo. Adapting to each platform's unique purpose allows individuals to express their personality and grow.

      Social media use varies greatly among individuals, and it can bring unexpected opportunities and experiences. The speaker shares her experiences using platforms like Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, and Ijimoo, each with its unique purpose. She values the spontaneous nature of her family's life and the support from her father, who encourages her to explore new opportunities. The speaker acknowledges the challenges of adapting to different social media platforms but appreciates the ability to express her personality and connect with others. Overall, social media use is an essential part of their daily lives, bringing joy, excitement, and growth.

    • The Importance of Optionality and Personal BrandingUnderstanding optionality and personal branding are essential for individuals, especially parents, to navigate unconventional paths and seize opportunities in the digital age. Embrace new possibilities, but also maintain balance and practicality.

      The power of options and personal branding in today's digital age is crucial for individuals, especially for parents and their children navigating unconventional paths. Gary Vaynerchuk emphasized the importance of understanding the value of optionality and how it played a significant role in his own success. He also highlighted the challenges parents face in supporting their children's unique opportunities and the need for open-mindedness and self-confidence. The conversation underscored the significance of embracing the digital era and its potential to transform everyday lives, as well as the importance of maintaining balance and practicality in the face of new opportunities.

    • The importance of friendship and family during challenging timesFriendships and family provide crucial support and grounding during difficult moments. Everyone needs empathy and respect, regardless of status.

      The importance of friendship and family, especially during challenging times, shines brightly. Dixie's experience serves as a reminder that humility and support from loved ones are crucial. Friends ground us and help us navigate through difficult moments, while siblings can provide a unique bond that lasts a lifetime. It's essential to remember that everyone, regardless of their following or status, needs to respect rules and show empathy towards each other. So, cherish your friendships and family relationships, and don't hesitate to lean on them during your ups and downs.

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