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    Two Steps To Stop Stressing and Worrying

    en-usDecember 09, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding and Breaking Free from Stress and WorryIdentify stress sources, acknowledge them, and take action to address them to save mental energy for positive thoughts.

      Stress and worry can consume valuable mental energy, but with the right tools, you can break free from them. As the host of the Mindset Mentor Podcast, Rob Dial, shared in the episode, even someone like him, who is known for his positive mindset, can experience stress. He used the analogy of a phone battery to illustrate how we have a limited amount of mental energy each day. When we spend it on stress and worry, we deplete it faster. Rob suggested two steps to help get out of these negative thought patterns: first, acknowledge the stress and identify its source; second, take action to address it. By using these steps, we can save our mental energy for more productive and positive thoughts. Remember, don't let stress and worry live rent-free in your mind. Instead, take control and use your mental energy wisely.

    • The Significance of Unnecessary WorryingPeople spend 12.5% of their day worrying, but 97% of those worries are unnecessary or exaggerated. To make the most of our time, we should recognize when we're worrying and redirect our energy towards positive actions.

      We waste a significant amount of mental energy on worrying, and a large portion of those worries never materialize or turn out as badly as we imagine. Psychologists estimate that people spend around 12.5% of their day worrying, but as much as 97% of those worries are either unnecessary or exaggerated. By recognizing when we're worrying and using that mental energy more productively, we can make the most of our time and create the lives we desire. While worrying is a natural response, as adults, we have the power to manage it and redirect our energy towards positive actions.

    • Gaining Perspective by Understanding Our Place in the UniverseRecognizing the insignificance of our problems in the universe helps save mental energy and manage stress effectively. Watching videos or researching the size of the universe can provide perspective.

      It's essential to put things into perspective when feeling overwhelmed by worries and stress. By recognizing the insignificance of our problems in the grand scheme of the universe, we can save mental energy and focus on more important matters. The speaker suggests watching videos or researching the size of the universe to help gain perspective. Remember, if you won't remember an issue in five years, it's not worth spending more than five minutes worrying about it. We are all just tiny specks on a small planet that is spinning around a relatively average-sized star in the vast universe. Keeping this perspective in mind can help us manage stress and anxiety more effectively.

    • The universe's vastness puts our problems in perspectiveThe universe's vastness can help put our problems into perspective, with the largest star known being much larger than our solar system and the sun burning out eventually.

      Despite our daily concerns and stressors, the universe is vast and our problems are insignificant in comparison. The largest star we know of, UY Scuti, is 4,900 light years away and if placed in our solar system, would fill it beyond the orbit of Saturn. Our sun, which we rely on, will burn out in 7.5 billion years, leaving no record of our existence. This perspective can help put things in context and ease worries that may seem overwhelming. Additionally, Zokdok is a free app that can help find patient-reviewed doctors who take your insurance and are available when you need them, making healthcare access easier.

    • Find a top-rated doctor through Zocdoc for improved wellbeingConnecting with a top-rated doctor and writing down worries can reduce stress and improve overall wellbeing

      We often underappreciate the quality of our own lives and the small worries that consume us can seem insignificant when put into perspective. A practical solution to reduce stress is to find and connect with a top-rated doctor through Zocdoc, a free app or website. This simple action can help improve your overall wellbeing and provide peace of mind. Another effective strategy is to put your thoughts and worries on paper, as thinking too much can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. By acknowledging the amazing aspects of our lives and taking action to address our concerns, we can live more fulfilling and less stressed lives. Additionally, remembering that our lives are better than many throughout history can provide valuable perspective and help us appreciate the present moment.

    • Writing down complex problems helps clarify thoughtsPutting thoughts and emotions down on paper can help alleviate stress and provide clarity when dealing with intricate issues in life

      While some mathematical problems can be solved mentally, complex issues in life are best addressed by writing them down. The human brain can only handle a certain amount of complexity at a time. Trying to solve intricate problems in our heads can lead to stress and confusion. By putting thoughts and emotions down on paper, we can gain clarity and make sense of the chaos. This can apply to personal or professional situations, allowing us to journal and work through complexities more effectively. The fear of others discovering our thoughts should not prevent us from using this method. If necessary, we can destroy the evidence once we have gained insight. The act of writing down complexities can help alleviate stress and provide a clearer path forward.

    • Gain Perspective and Clarify Complex ProblemsWhen overwhelmed, reflect on life's blessings and write down complex problems to gain clarity and move forward.

      When faced with stress and worry, it's important to put things into perspective. First, consider the blessings in your life and how small your problems are compared to the vastness of the universe. Second, write down the complex problem you're facing to help clarify the solution. By gaining perspective and putting your thoughts on paper, you'll feel less paralyzed and more able to move forward. Remember, everything is solvable with time, perspective, and energy. Share this message on social media and follow the Mindset Mentor Podcast for more inspiring content. Make it your mission to make someone else's day better.

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