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    UM 066: The Freeing Power of the Eisenhower Matrix

    en-usMay 11, 2023
    Untaming Masculinity
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    Prioritization – the action or process of deciding the relative importance or urgency of a thing or things.

    Life is busy. We find ourselves being hit from multiple angles with various tasks with varying degrees of urgency. Keeping all of these tasks organized and prioritized can be a challenge. While many tools and resources have been developed to help us stay on task, few are more well-known than the Eisenhower Matrix.

    The Eisenhower Matrix is a tool that originated with President Dwight D. Eisenhower, which he designed to help him prioritize and deal with the many issues he dealt with as an Army general, the commander of NATO, and ultimately, as President of the United States. It’s a simple matrix with importance on the y-axis and urgency on the x-axis, yielding powerful results.

    In this episode of Untaming Masculinity, Dan and Brad discuss how utilizing the Eisenhower matrix has helped them stay on top of tasks and commitments. They also talk about how you can distinguish between what is urgent and important and why learning to see the bigger picture is critical when handling what comes next. They share examples and tactics to help you personally and professionally and explain why the secret to success stems from learning how to delegate.

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    UM 084: Raising Your Standard

    Standard – a level of quality or attainment.

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    UM 083: The Power of Premptiveness

    Preemptive – serving or intended to preempt or forestall something, especially to prevent attack by disabling the enemy.

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    UM 082: Taking Pride In Your Appearance

    Appearance – the way that someone or something looks

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    UM 081: Finding Joy In The Journey

    Something that can be challenging for a man is to find joy in the mundane or in the routine. Life has a few peaks and many valleys, so a lot of the time we find ourselves on the grind.

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    We all want to win. Not only that, but we want to win big. The reality is that we very rarely win big, and there are days when we must do everything in our power just to cross the finish line.

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    UM 079: The Masks We Wear As Men

    Mask – a covering for all or part of the face, worn as a disguise, or to amuse or terrify other people

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    UM 078: AMA - August 2023

    Ask – Say something in order to obtain an answer or some information.

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    UM 076: REPLAY - Victor Over Victim - A Conversation With Ben Kjar

    This week we revisit one of our favorite episodes – a deep, insightful conversation with our friend Ben Kjar where we discuss overcoming adversity and the power of a positive mindset. We hope you enjoy it and look forward to new episodes next week!

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    UM 075: Failure Is Necessary

    We all have failed at something. We have failed at a lot of things. We fail constantly. Regardless of our circumstances, we all can look back at a history of failure.

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