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    We Met on Instagram: The Story Behind Midlife Mommas

    en-usJuly 11, 2021
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    About this Episode

    BONUS EPISODE ALERT!

    We get this question all the time, 'How did the 2 of you meet?'

    I know; it sounds like a silly line from a Rom-Com but people really want to know. Cam and Amelia have amazing 'on-mic' chemistry, so we're here to tell you our story.

    It might not be as glamorous or as crazy as you think. We're just 2 women trying to help other women through this crazy space called midlife.

    Maybe it's our parallel upbringings. Maybe it's our 'recovering' perfectionism. Maybe it's that we are both ex-athletes in extreme sports.

    Hear it all from the beginning: from the first Instagram live, to what we've become today. We're the Midlife Mommas!

    If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening and post it to your Instagram stories, and tag us, @thehelpfulplate, @heymomma_cam, @midlife.mommas.

    Join us on the midlife journey!
    Websites: www.camoyler.com and www.thehelpfulplate.com
    Instagram: www.Instagram.com/midlife.mommas

    Stay Connected!
    Amelia

    Cam

    Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/

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    Our favorite Protein-rich snacks! (but don't forget eggs, cottage cheese, and tuna packets!)
    Meat Sticks
    www.chomps.com
    www.paleovalley.com

    Protein shakes
    www.truvani.com
    www.fairlife.com

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    Stay Connected!
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    Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/

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    Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/

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    Please share, rate, and review the podcast. We appreciate you! ❤️