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    When Silence Hides Violence

    en-usJuly 01, 2021
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    About this Episode

    In this month's episode of Into You, I speak to TEDx speaker Andrew Pain, a male victim of domestic violence. Andrew shares his story of hiding the emotional and physical abuse he was facing at the hands of his ex-wife, how he believed he needed to "man up," and why he feared leaving the relationship may mean losing his children. Andrew highlights the importance of boundaries in a relationship, and why having people you trust who can offer you an outside perspective can be crucial. He also speaks of the stigma and shame surrounding being a male victim of domestic abuse. Follow Andrew's journey and find out what he learned along the way about romantic relationships and about himself. Andrew's TEDx Talk

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