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    Why ADHD Makes You Feel Broken

    en-usJuly 26, 2024
    What role does societal conditioning play in ADHD self-blame?
    How can ADHD lead to feelings of depression?
    Why are girls diagnosed with ADHD less frequently than boys?
    What impact does a confusing upbringing have on individuals?
    How can misdiagnosis of ADHD affect a child's development?

    Podcast Summary

    • ADHD and DepressionPeople with ADHD often blame themselves for their struggles, leading to feelings of depression. It's crucial to understand that ADHD is a neurological condition that increases the risk for depression and seek proper diagnosis and treatment.

      People with ADHD often blame themselves for their struggles instead of acknowledging the role of their condition, due to societal conditioning and their own self-perception. This can lead to feelings of depression, especially during adolescence and young adulthood. However, it's essential to understand that ADHD is a neurological condition that increases the risk for depression, and it's not entirely our fault. A review paper examines the cognitive mechanisms underlying depressive disorders in ADHD and suggests that people with ADHD may not recognize their symptoms as being related to their condition. Therefore, it's crucial to challenge the self-blame narrative and seek proper diagnosis and treatment for ADHD to improve overall well-being.

    • ADHD Diagnosis in ChildrenUndiagnosed ADHD in children can lead to feelings of underperformance, low self-esteem, and even depression in adulthood. Proper diagnosis and understanding is crucial to prevent these negative outcomes.

      Undiagnosed ADHD in children can lead to feelings of underperformance and low self-esteem, despite having similar intelligence levels to their peers. Children can often identify intellectual differences among their classmates, and when a child with ADHD underperforms academically, it can lead to misunderstandings about their abilities. Research shows that there is a strong correlation between ADHD in childhood and depression in adulthood. Furthermore, ADHD is both under and over diagnosed, particularly in girls, who are diagnosed at a rate of 1 to 3 compared to boys. This discrepancy persists even when comparing women to men, where the diagnosis rate is equal. These statistics highlight the importance of proper diagnosis and understanding of ADHD in children to prevent potential negative consequences in adulthood.

    • Gender differences in ADHD diagnosisGirls' frontal lobe development is ahead of boys', resulting in fewer hyperactivity symptoms and later diagnosis of ADHD. During puberty, girls' dopamine circuitry changes, leading to increased impulsivity and dopamine-seeking behavior. Misdiagnosis can be damaging, especially in cases of abuse, and it's crucial to recognize and understand gender differences in ADHD.

      The development of the frontal lobe in girls is about a year ahead of boys, leading to girls being diagnosed with ADHD less frequently than boys due to girls exhibiting fewer symptoms of hyperactivity. Additionally, during puberty, girls experience an increase in estrogen which alters their dopaminergic circuitry, resulting in increased impulsivity and dopamine-seeking behavior. This discrepancy in diagnosis can lead to significant frustration for children who recognize their intellectual equality but struggle with performance. The most damaging outcome of this misdiagnosis is when individuals are told they are doing something correctly when in fact, they are not. This can be especially damaging in cases of abuse, where children may be trying their best to please their parents but are instead being criticized and told to try harder. Ultimately, it is crucial to recognize and understand the unique challenges faced by girls in the diagnostic process for ADHD and to avoid perpetuating harmful misconceptions.

    • Confusing right and wrongGrowing up in an environment where right is perceived as wrong can negatively impact an individual's ability to distinguish truth from falsehood, leading to challenges in various aspects of their lives

      Growing up in an environment where right is perceived as wrong, whether it's due to alcoholic parents or abusive relationships, can have detrimental effects on an individual's ability to navigate life. This confusion can lead to learned helplessness and a distorted perception of reality. A simple example of this is when someone is repeatedly told that 2 + 2 equals 5, they begin to believe it. This concept was depicted in an episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation, where Captain Picard was tortured until he lied about the number of lights in a room. However, unlike Picard, children with ADHD lack the internal fortitude to resist such mental manipulation. This can result in significant challenges in various aspects of their lives, including finance, mathematics, and relationships.

    • ADHD self-blameADHD self-blame can lead to depression and a sense of being broken, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy, despite being a neurological condition, not a lack of effort

      People with ADHD often internalize a belief of shame and self-blame due to external messages that they are not trying hard enough, despite having neurological differences. This belief can contribute to depression and a sense of being fundamentally broken. The mathematical equation of perceived effort versus outcome can lead individuals with ADHD to conclude they have a large negative deficit, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy. This belief, though not based on truth, can persist and lead to a pervasive sense of personal responsibility for life's failures, further exacerbating negative emotions. The lack of acknowledgement and understanding of ADHD as a neurological condition can contribute to this self-blame, making it crucial for awareness and education around the condition.

    • ADHD self-blameMisunderstanding and lack of acknowledgement of ADHD can lead to self-blame, internalized feelings of inadequacy, and unnecessary suffering. It's essential to approach ADHD as a neurodiversity issue and seek proper diagnosis and support.

      The lack of understanding and acknowledgement of ADHD in children can lead to a complex of self-blame and internalized feelings of inadequacy. The environment, including the absence of a proper diagnosis and the absence of validation, can interact with the genetic predisposition to manifest the symptoms of ADHD. The belief that one's personal flaws are the root cause of their struggles is a common thought process that develops due to societal messages encouraging self-reliance and the absence of proper support. This can result in unnecessary suffering and missed opportunities for effective treatment. It's crucial to remember that ADHD is a neurodiversity issue, and it's important to approach it with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to explore potential solutions.

    • ADHD and DepressionThough comorbidity exists, most with ADHD don't develop depression; shame and reluctance common, medication can provide relief but responses vary, women may differ from men, seek professional evaluation for potential benefits

      While there is a significant comorbidity between ADHD and depression, approximately 70% of people with ADHD do not develop depression. However, the experience of shame and reluctance to accept a diagnosis is common among those with ADHD symptoms. Medication for ADHD can be effective for some individuals, providing instant relief from symptoms and improving mood, but its impact can vary greatly. Women may experience different responses to ADHD medication than men, and a single daily dose of methylphenidate may not be optimal for girls with ADHD. Ultimately, it's essential to seek a clinical evaluation if you suspect you have ADHD, as the benefits of proper diagnosis and treatment can significantly improve your quality of life.

    • ADHD medication and girlsStimulant medications are less effective for girls with ADHD due to their lower hyperactivity levels. Non-stimulant medication like Atomoxetine may be a better alternative for girls and women with ADHD.

      While stimulant medications have been effective in treating hyperactivity, which is a primary symptom associated with ADHD diagnosis, they were not specifically developed for this purpose. As a result, the efficacy of these medications varies significantly for girls with ADHD, who exhibit less hyperactivity on average compared to boys. Atomoxetine, a non-stimulant medication, may be a promising alternative for girls and women with ADHD due to its ability to address other symptoms of the condition. The development of ADHD medications primarily focused on reducing hyperactivity, making stimulants more effective for boys, leaving a gap in treatment options for girls.

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