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    Why we procrastinate and what to do about it, with Fuschia Sirois, PhD

    enOctober 12, 2022
    What is the definition of procrastination according to Sirwah?
    How does procrastination affect mental and physical health?
    What role does emotion regulation play in procrastination?
    Can you name some famous chronic procrastinators?
    How do social media and devices contribute to procrastination?

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding Procrastination: Beyond DelayEffective emotion management can help overcome procrastination by recognizing the voluntary and unnecessary nature of the behavior and changing mindset and environment.

      Procrastination is more than just delaying tasks. It's a voluntary and unnecessary form of delay on tasks we intend to do, despite knowing the negative consequences. According to psychologist Fuchsia Sirwah, procrastination is driven by emotions and can lead to guilt, shame, and negative impacts on mental and physical health. Sirwah, a professor at Durham University and author of "Procrastination: What It Is, Why It's a Problem, and What You Can Do About It," believes effective emotion management can help overcome procrastination. Understanding the difference between procrastination and delay is crucial as we all occasionally procrastinate, but chronic procrastination can have significant consequences. By recognizing the voluntary and unnecessary nature of procrastination, we can take steps to change our mindset and environment to help us tackle tasks and reduce the negative impact on our lives.

    • Understanding Procrastination as an Emotion Regulation IssueProcrastination is not just about poor time management or laziness, but a coping mechanism for dealing with unpleasant tasks and negative emotions. Effective emotion regulation skills can help reduce the need to procrastinate.

      Procrastination is not primarily an issue of laziness or poor time management, but rather a problem of emotion regulation. The tasks we tend to procrastinate on are those we find unpleasant, aversive, and even gut-wrenching. Procrastination is a way to cope with the negative emotions associated with these tasks, especially for individuals who may lack effective emotion regulation skills or are dealing with multiple stressors. Procrastination provides a quick fix, offering immediate relief from the negative mood and emotions, making it a common and understandable response. According to the research, chronic procrastination affects a significant portion of the population, with estimates suggesting that up to 50% of college students and 15-25% of adults engage in chronic procrastination. Therefore, addressing the root cause of procrastination - emotion regulation - can be more effective than focusing on time management or self-control alone.

    • Managing emotions to overcome procrastinationSimple techniques like self-forgiveness and self-compassion can help reduce negative emotions and make it easier to start tasks, improving mental and physical well-being.

      Procrastination is often driven by emotions and the way we interact with tasks, rather than the tasks themselves being inherently unpleasant. This means that to combat procrastination, it's essential to focus on managing emotions first. Simple techniques such as self-forgiveness and self-compassion can help reduce the intensity of negative emotions and make it easier to start working on tasks. Chronic procrastination can have negative effects on both mental and physical well-being, so it's crucial to break the cycle and find effective ways to manage emotions and get things done.

    • Procrastination's Impact on Mental and Physical HealthRegular procrastination increases risk of depression, anxiety, stress, poor health behaviors, and heart disease

      Procrastination not only affects productivity and performance, but it also has significant negative impacts on both mental and physical health. Chronic procrastination is linked to higher rates of depression, anxiety, and stress, as well as poor health behaviors. The cumulative effect of these factors can lead to serious health issues, such as heart disease. Research shows that individuals who procrastinate regularly are more likely to have poor heart health, increasing their risk by 63% when other factors are controlled for. Therefore, addressing procrastination is crucial not only for improving productivity and performance but also for maintaining good health.

    • The Impact of Stress and Unhealthy Habits on ProcrastinationStress, poor diet, and lack of exercise can lead to health issues and contribute to procrastination. Procrastination can stem from various distractions, including digital media, cleaning, or baking, and is rooted in emotion regulation issues.

      Stress and unhealthy behaviors, such as lack of exercise and poor diet, can lead to both short-term and long-term health issues. Additionally, the ubiquity of social media and electronic devices can contribute to procrastination, making it easier for some individuals to put things off. Procrastination, however, is not limited to digital distractions. People engage in various activities to avoid tasks, whether it's cleaning, reading, or baking. The emotion regulation issue is at the core of procrastination. While digital media might make it easier for some generations to procrastinate, other generations may find other forms of distraction. Famous procrastinators throughout history, such as the Dalai Lama, Frank Lloyd Wright, Herman Melville, and Leonardo da Vinci, demonstrate that it is possible to be a chronic procrastinator but also extremely productive.

    • Understanding Deliberate Delay vs. Chronic ProcrastinationWhile some delay actions might be deliberate, chronic procrastination can negatively impact careers and personal life. Cultural factors can influence procrastination, but focusing on goals and understanding root causes is key.

      While some people may appear to be procrastinators, they might actually be engaging in deliberate delay due to the need for essential information or other reasons. This distinction between delay and procrastination is crucial. Chronic procrastination can lead to significant career and personal issues, but the evidence suggests only a small difference between men and women when it comes to procrastination. Cultural factors can also influence procrastination, with some cultures valuing efficiency and productivity more than others. Ultimately, it's essential to understand the root causes of our behaviors and focus on reaching our goals rather than getting bogged down in productivity norms.

    • Cultural differences in procrastination and perfectionismPerception of procrastination and perfectionism varies across cultures. In some countries, procrastination is accepted, while in others, it's discouraged. Perfectionism also has different dimensions, and some perfectionists may procrastinate, while others may not.

      The acceptance and tolerance for procrastination vary greatly across different cultural contexts. For instance, in some countries like Peru, there's a more relaxed attitude towards procrastination due to the observation of managers and bosses engaging in it. In contrast, in Germany, the culture is known for its efficiency and low tolerance for procrastination. Furthermore, perfectionism, another topic we've discussed, is a complex construct with various dimensions. While some perfectionists may procrastinate due to their high standards and fear of failure, others may be less likely to procrastinate due to their strong drive to meet those standards. Overall, understanding these cultural nuances and the complex relationship between perfectionism and procrastination can provide valuable insights into human behavior.

    • Perfectionism and Procrastination ConnectionSelf-critical perfectionism is linked to chronic procrastination, causing individuals to fear not meeting external standards and giving up when faced with problems.

      Perfectionism and procrastination are linked, but not in a simple way. There are two types of perfectionism: self-critical, where individuals' self-worth depends on meeting external standards, and self-driven, where individuals strive for their own high internal standards. Research shows that self-critical perfectionism is linked to chronic procrastination. People with this mindset may not start tasks due to fear of not meeting expectations, or give up when they encounter problems. It's challenging to study procrastination in a lab, so most research focuses on individuals who chronically procrastinate. They provide valuable insights into the thoughts and consequences of procrastination.

    • Exploring the emotional roots of procrastinationResearch suggests people who procrastinate overestimate task difficulty and duration due to ineffective forecasting. Studies examine health effects and test self-compassion as potential interventions.

      Understanding procrastination involves examining its emotional roots. Researchers are exploring how individuals tend to exaggerate the difficulty and duration of tasks, leading to procrastination. This misperception of tasks stems from our inability to accurately predict future emotional states, a concept known as "ineffective forecasting." To investigate this further, researchers are conducting experiments to determine if people who chronically procrastinate indeed overestimate task difficulty and duration. Additionally, they are examining the health effects of procrastination using objective measures like smartwatches to track physical activity. Another area of research is using self-compassion as a potential intervention to address procrastination. Preliminary findings suggest that self-compassion increases intentions to start tasks and reduce procrastination. However, more research is needed to confirm these findings. Overall, the focus is on understanding the emotional factors contributing to procrastination and developing effective interventions.

    • Overcoming Procrastination with Self-Compassionate ReframingSelf-compassionate reframing can help individuals acknowledge procrastination as a common experience, reducing guilt and shame, and motivating action.

      Self-compassionate reframing can help individuals overcome procrastination. During the discussion, Dr. Serwa suggested that if someone recalls a time when they've procrastinated, they should remind themselves that they're not alone in this experience. By acknowledging that procrastination is a common phenomenon, individuals can move past the guilt and shame associated with it and focus on taking action. This simple yet effective strategy can help individuals get started on tasks and feel better about themselves in the process. So, if you're a procrastinator, remember that you're not alone, and just doing the task at hand can lead to a sense of relief and accomplishment. Don't put off important discussions or tasks, like listening to this podcast, as you might miss out on valuable insights and growth opportunities. If you have thoughts or ideas for future episodes, feel free to email us at speakingofpsychology@apa.org. Speaking of Psychology is produced by Lee Winerman and our sound editor is Chris Kundian. Thank you for tuning in!

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