[XO] Redefining Success Part 1

We've all been there, at the edge of a life-changing decision - maybe it’s moving across the world for love, changing careers, or even starting a family.   These choices can be exciting, they can be for people we love, they can be for something wonderful.  But they're also choices that bring change, and loss of an old life, a previous identity, something familiar.  This episode is about embracing the full spectrum of those choices, acknowledging the bittersweet farewells as much as the exciting hellos.

You’ll be inspired by change, and also you'll get strategies to honour both the gains and losses on your path. 

This isn’t just about making decisions; it’s about making peace with them.

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Ever feel like your gratitude practice is just another thing on your never-ending to-do list? You're not alone. This week, your host, Dr. Rishma Walji, discusses the not-so-perfect journey of finding true gratitude amidst life's messes.

This episode isn't about the picture-perfect moments of thankfulness we see plastered on social media. It's about the gritty, real-life stuff. It's about turning "gratitude" from a buzzword into a lifeline, discovering joy in the mundane, and learning how to see the silver lining even when it feels like life is just a series of clouds.

Dr. Walji doesn't just share her story; she dives into the why and how, blending science with actionable tips that go beyond the journal. Think gratitude through laughter, tears, and those in-between moments. 

Why listen? Because life's too short for superficial gratitude. Join us for real talk, genuine stories, and science-backed insights that promise to breathe new life into your daily grind. Let's get messy, let's get real, and let's find joy together.

About Your Host: Dr. Rishma Walji is your guide on this journey of self-discovery and intentional living. With a background in naturopathy and a PhD, she's spent over 20 years helping people navigate the ups and downs of life with grace, empathy, and science. When she's not podcasting, you can find her globe-trotting, dancing, or sipping on a warm cup of chai, with a smile and an open heart.

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Whether you're a parent stretched thin by the demands of family life, a professional struggling to find work-life balance, or anyone in between, you'll find valuable lessons and relatable stories in this episode. 

We'll tackle the hard questions: 

- Why is setting boundaries so hard? 

- How can we do it without feeling selfish? 

- And what real-world steps can we take to make a lasting change?

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Have you ever had that awkward moment  when you have something on your mind, you’re pouring out your heart to someone, and they say ALL the wrong things? 

 In this episode, we talk about steering conversations to get the advice you really need. Discover how to frame your talks, ask the right questions, and express your emotions for better understanding. 

Whether it's with family, friends, or colleagues, learn to communicate in a way that leaves you feeling heard and supported. Tune in and transform your day-to-day conversations into meaningful exchanges.
 

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Have you ever felt confined by a label, whether self-imposed or given by others? Do terms like 'introvert,' 'perfectionist,' or even 'successful' resonate with you, but also feel limiting at times? We dissect how these labels, while sometimes validating, can also create unnecessary boundaries that restrict our growth and potential.

Discover the impact of positive labeling and how embracing new identities can lead to significant life changes. We discuss the science behind labeling theory, the brain's remarkable ability to rewire itself, and how adopting empowering labels can alter our thought patterns and self-esteem. Learn how shifting from 'I have to' to 'I get to' can transform your daily routine from a chore to an eagerly anticipated activity.

This episode is full of personal journey as well as a thoughtful guide to understanding and harnessing the labels that define us. Whether you're looking to break free from stereotypes, seek motivation for a new endeavor, or simply gain insights into your own identity, this conversation is for you.

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Do you often find yourself following the crowd, making decisions based on what’s expected?

Have you ever wondered if there’s a more creative, intentional way to live your life?

Dr. Rishma Walji, a Naturopathic Doctor (retired) and PhD, shares a compelling story from her visit to Montreal that sparked a profound realization about life’s choices.

In today’s episode, Dr. Rishma discusses:

• The Montreal Story: A family trip experience that teaches us about challenging the status quo.
• Embracing Curiosity: Understanding how asking the right questions can lead to more fulfilling life choices.
• Redefining the Norm: Why actively participating in our decisions is crucial rather than just accepting societal expectations.
• Building Resilience: Strategies for adapting when plans don’t unfold as anticipated.

If you're looking to transform your decision-making process and step out of the average, join Dr. Rishma in her workshop on intentional decision-making. Discover how to navigate life’s challenges with creativity and intention.

For more details, visit: livingxo.com/workshop.

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In this episode, I share with you a story that’s close to my heart – a story about an accidental family heirloom that's much more than just a piece of jewelry.

Today is all about a special necklace that's woven through the generations of my family. A history that is interconnected with my own, and hopefully with future generations. It's a symbol of love, a bridge between past and present, and a reminder of the laughter, tears and love that binds us. 

This necklace isn’t just an accessory; it’s a storyteller, whispering tales of my family's love and strength and the bonds that have shaped who I am.

As you listen, think about the stories that live within your own family. Maybe it’s a recipe, a photograph, or an old letter. Like our necklace, these are more than objects; they’re the threads that connect us to our past and guide us into our future.

I hope this episode inspires you to explore the depths of your own family history and the beauty of living intentionally. It's about finding meaning in the little things and understanding how our roots influence our wings.

So grab a cozy spot and join me. Let's discover together how our families, in all their ups and downs, shape our paths and how we can honour their legacy in our daily lives. 

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How to do hard things: going from "I Can't" to "I'm Doing It"

Episode Description: Dive into this episode of the XO Conversations Podcast as Dr. Rishma Walji discusses the psychological and physical strategies behind conquering challenging endeavors. Whether it's tackling a new hobby, enhancing a skill, or mending a relationship, the techniques shared in this episode can guide you from fear and uncertainty to confidence and execution.

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Have you ever felt like the ground beneath you suddenly shifted? This isn’t about painting on a brave face; it’s about the deep work of understanding, leaning into self-love, and finding glimmers of hope even on the cloudiest days. Because sometimes, resilience is quietly whispered in the pauses between our challenges. Join us for an intimate conversation that reflects the shared journey of navigating life when the roadmap changes.
 

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Why do we sometimes make things harder for ourselves without even realizing it?  In this episode, we'll explore the ins and outs of why we sometimes make choices that make life harder and why we self-sabotage. We'll also talk through  how to swap negative reactions for a positive responses.

We'd love to hear from you!  Share your experiences with self-sabotage or let me know which strategies resonate with you. Connect through the website, livingxo.com

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