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    You 2.0: Loss And Renewal

    enAugust 17, 2020

    Podcast Summary

    • A mother's determination leads daughter to JuilliardThrough determination and creativity, individuals can overcome adversity and achieve significant transformations in their lives

      Even in the face of adversity and limitations, individuals have the power to seek out opportunities for growth and reinvention. Maya Shankar, a passionate violinist, was given an old instrument by her mother and fell in love with it. She practiced relentlessly but lacked formal music education. In a bold move, her mother approached the Juilliard School and managed to secure a meeting with a renowned teacher for her daughter. This encounter led to Maya's acceptance into the prestigious institution, demonstrating that determination and creativity can lead to significant transformations in one's life. Despite the challenges and disruptions of 2020, individuals have the power to adapt and innovate, shifting their perception and response to change.

    • Embracing Passion and Dedication Leads to OpportunitiesPassion, natural talent, and a strong work ethic can lead to remarkable opportunities. Seek guidance from mentors to develop your talents.

      Passion, natural talent, and a strong work ethic can lead to remarkable opportunities. Maya Shankar's story showcases how her unwavering love for the violin and her dedication to perfecting her craft opened doors for her, including acceptance into Juilliard and mentorship from renowned violinist Izzak Perlman. Perlman recognized Maya's unique musicality and potential, despite her unconventional learning methods. He not only taught her the technical aspects of playing the violin but also instilled in her the ability to self-teach and improve her skills. This experience demonstrates the importance of embracing one's passion, believing in one's abilities, and seeking guidance from mentors who can help nurture and develop one's talents.

    • Adversity and loss can lead to growthEven when faced with a seemingly insurmountable obstacle, don't waste time, instead focus on improving other skills and discover new passions.

      Adversity and loss can lead to growth and renewal. Maya Shankar's story illustrates this idea beautifully. When she injured her left hand and was unable to play the violin, she was devastated. But instead of giving up, she chose to learn and adapt. Her teacher, Yitzhak Perlman, continued to teach her using only her bow arm, helping her to focus on producing a beautiful sound. This experience taught Maya the importance of perseverance and thinking for herself. Even when faced with a seemingly insurmountable obstacle, she refused to waste time and instead worked on improving her other skills. Ultimately, Maya discovered that her love for music could be expressed in new ways, and she went on to pursue a successful career in music production and composition. The unexpected loss of her ability to play the violin led Maya to renew her passion for music in a new form.

    • Bridging the gap between academia and policy makingApplying scientific knowledge to real-world issues can lead to significant positive changes in public policy. Persistence and determination are key in pursuing this goal.

      The complexities of the mind and the power of research insights from the behavioral sciences can lead to significant positive changes in public policy. Maya, inspired by her studies in cognitive science and her experiences, sought to bridge the gap between academia and policy making. She was moved by a simple reform in the US Department of Agriculture that automatically enrolled millions of students in the school lunch program using data matching. Realizing her passion, Maya reached out to Thomas Khalil in the Obama administration with ideas on how behavioral science could improve public policy outcomes. This story illustrates the potential impact of applying scientific knowledge to real-world issues and the importance of persistence and determination in pursuing one's goals.

    • Applying behavioral insights to public policy improves livesBy simplifying instructions, offering alternatives, and translating communications, public policy can increase participation and ease processes for families, bridging the gap between expected and actual human behavior.

      Applying behavioral insights from social science research to public policy can significantly improve people's lives and align actions with long-term goals or policy objectives. This was exemplified through a collaboration between the US Department of Agriculture and local school districts to simplify and streamline the verification process for families receiving benefits. By condensing complex instructions into easy-to-understand steps, translating communications into multiple languages, and offering alternative verification methods, the team was able to increase participation and ease the process for families. However, implementing such programs can be challenging due to the gap between how humans are expected to behave rationally and how they actually behave. The goal is to bridge this divide and make beneficial programs more accessible and appealing to the public.

    • Clear communication and simple interventions matterEight text messages to high school students led to a 9% increase in college enrollment and emphasizing passion and openness to new opportunities can positively impact people's lives.

      Effective communication from the government and simple interventions can have a significant impact on people's lives. For instance, sending eight text messages over the summer to high school students resulted in a 9% increase in college enrollment rates. This illustrates the importance of clear information and timely reminders. Additionally, Maya Shankar, a former senior advisor at the White House Office of Science and Technology Policy, emphasized the importance of staying passionate about helping people and being open to new opportunities and explorations in life. Her experience with the violin taught her the value of dedication and the belief that there are always new ways to positively impact people's lives. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of clear communication, simple interventions, and staying passionate about making a difference.

    • Embrace change and trust the art of losing isn't hard to masterChange is natural and opens up opportunities for growth and reinvention. Embrace it and trust in your ability to adapt.

      Life is full of change, and while it can be painful when chapters close, it also opens up opportunities for growth and reinvention. As Elizabeth Bishop's poem "One Art" reminds us, losing things, even significant ones, is a natural part of life and doesn't have to be a disaster. The human capacity to adapt to different conditions and reinvent ourselves is a remarkable ability that sets us apart from other species. It's essential to remember that closing doors pave the way for new opportunities. Paul Ginsburg, a longtime NPR supporter, exemplified this by encouraging the creation of Hidden Brain and continuing to support and advise the team. So, instead of fearing change, embrace it and trust that the art of losing isn't hard to master.

    • The power of perception in giving giftsEmpathy, understanding, and the ability to help others see themselves in a new light can make the most valuable gifts

      Paul, in giving a gift of insight, demonstrated that sometimes, the most meaningful gifts are not about time or money, but rather, the ability to help someone else. This idea aligns with the broader theme of the Hidden Brain series, which explores the hidden forces that shape our thoughts, actions, and relationships. By sharing these insights, Paul not only made a lasting impact on the speaker's life but also illustrates the importance of empathy, understanding, and the power of perception in our daily interactions. So, next time you consider giving a gift, remember that the most valuable gifts might be the ones that help others see themselves in a new light.

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