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    A Man's Journey Through Divorce

    “A Man’s Journey Through Divorce” Podcast studies various aspects of divorce, the common challenges and pitfalls, and shares tools and strategies to help divorcees achieve the best possible outcome. Hosted by Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach® and Financial Advisor, the podcast shares insights from someone whose been there.

    New Episodes air every Monday
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    Episodes (111)

    Ep. 111 Setting Aspirations

    Ep. 111 Setting Aspirations
    Listen to Steve talk about the three stages of personal transition, and the transition a couple makes as they divorce. Steve talks about the importance of setting aspirations for each type of transition - personal and relationship.

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    Ep 110 Alternative Divorce Options

    Ep 110 Alternative Divorce Options
    The way to a final divorce decree can follow several paths. The traditional, or socially branded, path is the path of litigation. Many have found litigation not the right fit and even have regrets with the outcome it produced. Alternative divorce methods, like mediation, pro-se (or kitchen table), and arbitration, are becoming more prevalent. In this episode, Steve compares the traditional and alternative paths, and shares both benefits and weaknesses of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

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    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep. 109 Why is this so Friggin' Hard?

    Ep. 109 Why is this so Friggin' Hard?
    You ask, “Why is this so friggin’ hard?” Is it? Arguing against the truth is hard. Resisting things that you wish were different is hard. Becoming aware of how you create self-imposed suffering is simple. In this episode, Steve talks about struggle and its purpose and brings to light the lessons inside the toxic dance within a couple.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep 108 Can You Make Forgiveness Your Resolution?

    Ep 108 Can You Make Forgiveness Your Resolution?
    Setting a resolution to forgive may seem daunting. In this episode, Steve simplifies the process of forgiveness and explains how it can be a resolution capable of meeting.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

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    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep 107 The Devil in Divorce

    Ep 107 The Devil in Divorce
    It’s easy to drift into the negative energy of divorce. Fear, doubt, worry, resentment, vengeance, and other trappings fuel the devil within. It’s these emotions that are very much in our control. Yet so many fail to properly manage them. In this episode, I share a poem titled “A Man’s Heart” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep 106 Finding Peace Now

    Ep 106 Finding Peace Now
    The holidays are a time of gathering, joy, and peace. Those finding it hard to connect with these important parts may find that their chance for peace is being stolen. In this episode, I speak about how we allow self-imposed chaos, or suffering, to steal our chance for peace this instant. I share a poem is titled “Peace Instant” which you can find in my book Spirit Poems.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep. 104 Cultivate the Hidden Miracle

    Ep. 104 Cultivate the Hidden Miracle
    In this episode, I share a true story about my hidden miracle as an example of how you might be hiding your own miracle cultivation. I also share the poem “Cultivate Miracles” from my book Spirit Poems.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

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    Ep 103 The Worst Possible Outcome Happened

    Ep 103 The Worst Possible Outcome Happened
    In the episode, I speak to the recent event where a family court judge tragically lost his life, and highlight the dire importance of revamping the way couples divorce.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep 102 Rock Bottom

    Ep 102 Rock Bottom
    In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process. Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing. Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    Ep. 101: Cherish Thorns

    Ep. 101: Cherish Thorns
    In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process. Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing. Today’s poem, “Cherish Thorns,” speaks to embracing the thorns so your garden from here forth can produce beautiful fruit.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

    Visit to learn more about Prosperity Coaching.

    "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutreecoaching.com%2Fsupport-tools%2F&utm_medium=widget

    Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream

    Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream
    The “divorce of the dream” is a process divorcees move through. However, it’s not just the couple who faces the loss of dreams. So to do children. In this episode, I speak to the importance of practicing patience as children move through the family’s changing dynamic.

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    Ep 99 Things Don't Turn Out Like You Expect...So What?

    Ep 99 Things Don't Turn Out Like You Expect...So What?
    When things don’t turn out as we expect, we can either speak a version of “poor me,” or we can say a more freeing “so what?”. In this episode, I talk describe the shift to so what, irrespective of the expectation that didn’t unfold like we wanted.

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    Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power

    Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power
    In this episode, I cover how we can easily give away our energy, otherwise known as our power, when we allow the “divorce process,” and the players within, to have power over us.

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    Ep. 97 Deserving Success

    Ep. 97 Deserving Success
    "Insuring success" is not something we can control. Living in accordance with virtues positions us to deserve success. In this episode, I provide examples of how people look to take what we own, and in doing so steal our ability to live a life aligned with our virtues.

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    Ep. 96 We Are What We Repeatedly Do

    Ep. 96 We Are What We Repeatedly Do
    Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.” In this episode, I share a story that will help you realize how easy it is to get trapped through interactions with your ex-spouse, and how to use these events as opportunities to instill the proper habits that lead you to who you want to be and how you want to show up.

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    Ep. 95 Why Is Important to Separate Your Transition from the Case (Five Real Life Stories)

    Ep. 95 Why Is Important to Separate Your Transition from the Case (Five Real Life Stories)
    In this episode, I share five stories that occurred just this past week to show the divergence around what happens with divorce. They highlight the pandemic of divorce and why it is important to separate your life transition from the case itself so you can drive towards the best outcome.

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    Ep 94 The Spiritual Flow of Money

    Ep 94 The Spiritual Flow of Money
    In this episode, Steve talks about the spiritual flow of money, and how we can unintentionally block this through our thinking and actions around divorce.

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    Ep. 93 How to Move Foward After Unfairness Hits

    Ep. 93 How to Move Foward After Unfairness Hits
    When unfairness hits it steals your inheritance, or your inheritance of having peace right now. Court decisions can be, and are for many, unfair. In this episode, Steve talks about unfairness and how to respond by setting intentions across the 5-F model. He explains how to not let unfairness continue its power over you and your ability to move on in a healthy way.

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    Ep. 92 Your Intention & A Must Hear Case Recap

    Ep. 92 Your Intention & A Must Hear Case Recap
    Listen to a recap of a judge’s final verdict, which affirms the importance of keeping your case out of court. Then, hear my take on recent headline stories regarding Jonah Hill's and Goldie Hawn’s relationship intentions. I use these examples to illustrate the importance of being truthful to yourself and others as you move towards another relationship.

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