And So What?

the beach is probably one of my favorite places, but being sticky and sandy after isn't.

hey hey, we're back to short episodes this week. senior year is three days away and I'm feeling all sorts of ways. these past weeks have been so good, life is good. short little talk today and a quick life update like always. love youu

This was the most honest episode ever. Ana and I were both away from home for 3 weeks living with strangers and had completely different experiences, it was a crazy-lit movie. We really think we're germaphobes and people disgust us. It was an amazing experience, and crazy how we both lived this experience in different states at the same time. This is FRESH gossip mi genet FRESH GOSSIP.

We have a new guest party people wohooo it's Bri Bri Brianna !!!! This episode was so fun to record. We talked about everything from modern-day dating and dating stories to anxiety poops and periods and relationship advice. We're both at very different yet very similar points in our lives which made this episode super unique and just wow. Go ... go listen to it now ... like now go go.

My overall traveling thoughts and tips, from packing to picking a restaurant. Long vs. short flights, and whether I'm a casual traveler or dress to impress type at the airport. Let's talk about being barefoot through airport security... yeah that's a no.

What I've been up to these past two weeks and some quick off-track talk.

I would say go for it. What’s the worst that can happen?… it doesn’t work out, you have to start again, the list goes on. Stop caring so much and start doing what YOU want to do, as cringe as it sounds. Be mindful of who you surround yourself with, and become aware of what really deserves your energy. Seriously just go for it. It’s your life, if it makes you happy do it.

Probably the most chaotic episode so far. That's all I can say.

Carlota started making a pet peeves list and it kept going. This is probably the start of a new series.

Stress, fear of failure, and anxiety can lead us to lose focus on our end goal, and sometimes even convince us that we are not good enough. Carlota talks about how at the end of the day she’s 16, she’s young, and of course, it’s scary to take risks but she has time to fail. The first idea doesn’t always work, but you need to take the risk. She also talked about how she gets herself out of what she calls “pre-burnout,” and a few sidetracks that somehow related to the topic.

There’s a difference between motivation and discipline. Motivation isn’t real and only becomes real when there’s a clear end goal.

This week I talked about the whole process of getting your sh*t together. From finding hobbies and cutting off people and things that make you miserable to an analogy that changed my perspective on life. It's the longest episode I've recorded in a while, and I genuinely enjoyed this topic. There were lots of sidetracks but it somehow, hopefully, all made sense. Thank you for listening to this week's episode. Hope you have an amazing week.

My thoughts on "That Girl" and that whole lifestyle.

I don't consider myself a materialistic person but also not a minimalist. I'm somewhere in the middle leaning more towards minimalist, but there's still random stuff I don't think I could live without. When I say random, I mean random like that stain remover pen or my AirPods.

Let's talk about being single on Valentine's Day.

This week Carlota has a special guest, Diego, her younger brother. They talk about the expectations set by older siblings, if they have ever felt like they have disappointed their parents, and much more.

Carlota talks about how we go through all of these steps and “unhappy” times not necessarily all but a good amount, to get to be “happy”. And she says "happy” because there seems to always be something that once you reach what you thought would make you happy, it really doesn't.

This week Carlota did somewhat of a Sh*t Talks with herself, mainly talking about how December was different this year along with other random topics that came up.

The last episode of the year, that's crazy. This is the time of the year where people start talking about everything they’re going to do next year their goals and plans and also start to do this thing where we put things off till next year. I don’t really do New Year's resolutions, but this year I decided I'm going to because I feel like it can help us achieve things we’ve been wanting to do and work on.

This week Carlota talks about self-growth and how we need to stop romanticizing it.