Break Time on Westside

After a video of a woman advising women to use contraceptives to deter men from infidelity goes viral, a recent problem re-emerges. There's a wave of women on TikTok giving tactics on bagging and retaining men as well as deterring them from infidelity. 

The tactics range from weird to downright devious and evil yet most of these troubles could be avoided with a bit of TLC. 
Which kind? Let me tell you...

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In an episode defending Kenyan men, I take a swing at the idea that besides money and marriage, Kenyan men have nothing more to offer. Of course it's true (ha ha), but is that such a bad thing? 
I bet I can explain why that's the case and why they deserve a pass for it. Just give me 15 minutes...

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Having a positive mindset on marriage has been easy (for the most part) and there hasn't been much that's been beyond debatable... until recently. A tweet which sparked stories far and wide among Kenyans re-ignited the marriage debate, this time with some married men speaking against it using experience. 

Well, this is going to be hard...

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After a bit of observation and a deep dive using the Instagram algorithm, I realized that there's been an uptick in young men's interest in older women (cougars) that felt unexplained. 
Then I saw some stats and did some soul-searching. I think I might have just figured it all out...

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It's the end of a season but there's a relaxed vibe to this episode as things kick off with a look at women proposing during leap years, a supposed Irish tradition. The patriarchy is under siege by none other than the man himself and there's an interesting addiction that's been spotted with the women that's caused various behaviour changes with men. 

From there, the logic behind hitting on women is questioned, revealing its irrationality. There's a case against deadbeats that needs to be handled too and we ask a question that men never think to ask themselves...

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In a self-contradicting way, this episode is bound to choose companionship. A pornstar and her lover break up after 24hrs, and the reason is... attention? 
There's a scary statistic on young girls that reveals something terribly wrong with being young girls today.  

From there, a public question forces different foresight as men and women are left wondering how long the pursuit should be before lack of interest and leaving...

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Love was in the air this week (Valentine's) but not in this episode. The Men's Conference got constitutional approval to exist and the men were happy. Then man nearly died because of love (or lack thereof) and help was needed. 

From there, a man's desire for younger women makes him make a costly error. The concept of betatization is discussed before the request for PUA tactics' comeback is made in light of men not knowing when to take 'No' for an answer...

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In an episode full of times, Gen Zs and interesting developments, a question of culture looms. There's a Chinese company that claims to have made a battery that lasts 50 years, but we don't want it. A young socialite decides post a rate card online, except that the rate is for her privates. 

From there coming off a discussion with a colleague, the talk of why Nigerian men are loved by many women across the region spins into a question of what makes Kenyan men attractive as dating options. A dive into the Nigerian dating culture proves a new challenge as I try to unearth if there is a Kenyan dating culture...

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In an episode chock full of misunderstandings, there's something in the air as the season of love brings with it new ways to appease yourself using your ex. A man's man tries to create a 'gaydar' to identify closeted men but fails when put to the test. 

When the tweets come, there's a justification on why drug dealers deserve more respect than hoes, why tribe/culture matters and whether arranged marriages need to come back...

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It's an episode on Double D's as we bring the topic of dates up and say what needs to be said with our chest (pun intended). Things start with a new story which utilizes an old rumour before it turns to deliberating whether being a good planner can make you seem like a good boyfriend. 

Eventually, we switch gears to the topic of dates today and why going on them is so appalling. Women today do have genuine problems with this, but so do men. I try to look at both sides and see if there's a nice middle ground there somewhere...

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It's another one of those seemingly relaxed yet wild episodes that kicks off with a resurrection and a marketing plan for hookers. The sentiments made by an artist question a growing national concern and it's all just wrong. 

After all that, a man fulfils every man's dream, a woman seeks clarity on men committing and another man tells men that moaning is a shit test...

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The many changes for different people are making them go wild in this episode. A first-time flier's request falls on deaf ears as his doubly nice request gets doubly destroyed. A woman's attempt at a shotgun wedding also puts me in a less than jovial state on the entire thing. 

From there, a post questioning why men expect women to change sparks the discussion on whether today's women are built to change, and why them not doing it might be a bad thing...

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In a mix of facts, jokes and spirits, this episode came bearing different goods. A new French Prime Minister is appointed and his youth isn't the only standout thing about him. There's a pastor who knows how to rid people of soul ties... Or does he? 

That aside, there's a mix of dating strategies for women as well as a new way to look at small arguments in relationships and the reasons why men work hard to flourish today...

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It's all about the streets and how people need to be resourceful on this episode. The first bit highlights how Gen Zs have decided to take dating out of the office and into LinkedIn, and how weird it might be. There's more talk on simping later on and why people seem to get the idea wrong sometimes. 

From there, a Reddit post speaks on women spending 50/50 with their partners today and I have a chance to support it fully. That was until I saw a comment on why it's so hard for women to share financially today, which may have shifted my perspective...

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In a swift return to the realm of love, sex and relationships, this episode shows how Japanese women seem to find big black things nearly irresistible under the right circumstances. 
A recent study on women in relationships shows a glaring problem that's been hiding in plain sight, and I've got some insights on that too. 

From there, it's a question of whether love has been monetized before today, why men don't do foreplay, and whether post-nut clarity is a bad thing...

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On this episode, relationships aren't in discussion. It's a rarity but why not try it for once and break from the status quo a bit? 
I explore the intricacies of dealing with Hyenas as per the Wildlife people, and question why it is Kenyans (secretly) like pornography and why people just like to bring down famous people. 

Once done, I ask a question debated all too often. I throw responsibility in a few directions and I try to figure out where we need to make the changes for the better...

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It's time to dive into the crazies in this episode which starts off with a teacher-student affair and how the father was an actor in it. From there, due to algorithms and coincidence galore, there's something in the air... witchcraft. 

At that point everything tries to find sanity as we explore being single at an advanced age, partner compromises and why women should struggle with their man on his way to success.

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It's an episode full of facts and assumptions that kicks off with a look at Samoan law and how it favours men with good memories. After that, a critique of the Epstein list leaves more question than answers as a lot of names remain unmentioned and there's a conspiracy behind it. 

From there, based on different platforms creating expectations for the year in their particular fields, it only felt right that we'd have to discuss what to expect this year on our end too. 

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It's a new dive into the world of politics as a look at North Korea's population situation brings tears to its leader. A Kenyan doctor also goes to court for more taxes, yet we should probably support him. 
From there, it's a question on why some men have the wrong idea on masculinity, why smart people aren't getting married and why big ass is still failing to secure the billionaire crowd...

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Happy New Year! It's a new year and the effects of 2023 are still felt as Tinder's new feature still begs more questions than answers. A Nigerian woman's date highlights how dating older makes for an interesting experience. 
A recent Reddit post on body shaming sparks a talk on the idea of being bigger today: where it came from, why it exists and if it can be changed. Then a suggestion based on a conversation begs a wild idea...

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