Catholic Life coach for Men

We all know we're supposed to forgive. It should be simple, it should be straightforward. But the truth is it's not only complicated, but extremely difficult.

Often we don't even realize when we're failing to forgive.

Historians often say that those who do not study the past are doomed to repeat it. I would add that those who do not forgive past hurts are doomed to repeat them.

Join me in this episode as I walk through both the metaphysics of forgiveness and some practical ways to really strive towards a deeper forgiveness of others. If we do not forgive, we hurt ourselves - badly. Our Lord's words could not be more clear on this. 

It is one of the most powerful things you can do to transform your future - for you, your family, and your community.

Most of us already feel overwhelmed, like we cannot get everything done we need to. The thought of slowing down to do something else feels impossible. When God suggests a path that isn't already on our list - it's hard.

Yet often, when we surrender the first fruits of our time to God, He gives us far more in return.

Join me in this episode as Brandon Davis shares how God transformed his life. At the age of 18, Brandon put everything on hold to go into mission for 2 years. Although many things went wrong, more things went very right. God has blessed his life greatly though this obedience.

You can find out more about Brandon from his podcast Get Over Yourself. 

You can also find out more about his AI receptionist business at https://www.inter-val.ai/

Whether you're married or not, it's a safe assumption to say you've been confused by how women think. All men are, at least sometimes. But what if there were at least some guidelines to help you better understand her?

Join me in this episode as I offer you 10 different perspectives on specific ways that women think differently from men. I also offer you some specific tips and tricks to help you better understand and connect with a woman.

Both men and women are created in the image of God, with equal dignity. Sometimes, though, a better perspective offers better understanding of this truth.

We love the stories of the heroes, the underdogs, and the winners. We revel in the touchdown throw that wins the superbowl. We sometimes even cry as the hero in the movie sacrifices everything.

Yet we so often fail to live our potential in our own lives.

What if "taking radical responsibility," "extreme ownership," and "radical accountability" are actually very Catholic ideas, consistent with the teachings of the church?

Join me in this episode as I explore the idea that not only is taking responsibility (when done properly) a source of humility, it is even the source of our greatest fulfillment as men. God gave us talents that all too often we allow to stay buried. He's going to demand an accounting of them all one day! Taking responsibility is a powerful step to answering God's call.

It's always been hard to be a parent of a large family. It's even harder these days.

The entire culture often seems aligned against us. Even our own church members often seem upset with large families during mass. It's often lonely, isolating, and so frustrating.

But you're not alone.

Join me in this episode as Nancy Bandzuch talks about the new show put out by the Augustine Institute called "The Catholic Parent." It will help you feel like you're not alone and also help you to be a better parent at the same time. 

You can find this series on Formed. Most likely, your parish has already purchased access for you. If not, you can get a free trial at this link:

Surrender is a funny concept.

Sometimes we need to fight for what's right.

Sometimes we just need to surrender and accept what is.

Always, we are in a struggle to balance the two.

Join me in this episode as Daryl Dittmer and I discuss how to build a life that is fulfilling and purposeful. We all come from broken beginnings - some more broken than others. What we do what that makes the difference for where our lives go. When we surrender, stop fighting, and accept what actually works, our lives can get much better.

You can read more about Daryl on his website:

https://www.daryldittmer.com/

You can find his book here:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJWW8LDP

Are frustrated and unsure about how to really reach your teenage (or even 20's) son? 

Have you tried a lot, but they just don't seem interested?

Maybe your son isn't yet a teenager, but you're worried because other dads you know have shared some unsettling stories?

Join me in this episode as Ahmard Vital shares both his story, as well as practical lessons from his work with young men. It's hard to be a male of any age in our world right now, but particularly hard on the youth. Our only hope - at any age - is a strong connection with the Lord. But how do we fathers encourage our sons in this direction? Listen to find out more!

You can find out more about Ahmard on his website:

https://ahmardvital.com/

So many men are slowly dying inside as they choose comfort or convenience over the greater calling that God has placed within their lives.

Mostly because that battle is scary! It will cost you greatly.

The cost to inaction, however, is actually greater.

Join me in this episode as I talk about how it takes a balance of both humility and magnanimity to counter pride. It takes a willingness to embrace discomfort as part of the pursuit of adventure that God has planned for your life.

You were made for greatness. You were made for battle. You were not made to simply exist.

Choose life!

There's a number of times in life we come to a potential crossroads in our life. We can either stumble along on our own, or we can bring God into the process.

One of those works a whole lot better than others

Join me in this episode as I discuss how you can include God in your discernment process and make a decision that you will respect. To stand strong as a man and lead your marriage and family, you must be able to make a strong decision, aligned with God's will, and stand in confidence of that.

I'll help you do that.

It's not common for an event to take over your life. In that list is frozen main water supply during winter. That's the story that starts this podcast episode.

It's funny how God takes away anything we choose over Him. While often extremely painful, it is effective at pointing out our entitlements.

Join me in this episode as I share how a really horrible week allowed me to improve my gratitude and humility. God's plans are sometimes painful, but to trust in Him is always the invitation.

Plus this is a pretty funny story.

Deep inside every man is a boy desiring to become a hero. So often this boy gets stomped, beaten down, and stuffed into the corner of the needs of the world.

Yet he's still there, in each of us men - longing for greatness. Longing to finally find and slay the dragon.

Longing to be accepted and welcomed by the Father.

Join me in this episode as David Ask and I have an amazing conversation about the inner call and journey of manhood. Where are we going, what's important, and how do we be true to ourselves on the journey.

David shares powerful parts of his own story that will help guide as all.

You can read more about David at www.davidask.com or find out more about his company at www.statguardplus.com

Most men would acknowledge they should keep their word - but so many of us really don't make it a priority. If our wife gets upset, or if the kids are worked up, or maybe even if I just don't feel great; I'm all too ready to bail on a commitment.

What if our failure to honor our word is actually a far bigger deal than we want to admit?

Join me in this episode as I discuss why your word is so critical to your identity and strength as a man. I also discuss some practical ways to improve your strength in this critical characteristic!

To say that we don't really see a lot of great masculine examples is an understatement. Even the idea of a "Strong man" sounds scary to a lot of people.

But what if men are supposed to be strong? Competent? Dangerous, even?

Join me in this episode as former Navy Seal and police officer Jason Perry shares his journey into the faith and authentic masculinity. Men are supposed to be powerful and dangerous. Yet so few of us live into that potential.

You can read more about Jason on his website:

https://christianwarriormission.org/

I have a confession to make. Don't tell - at least not too many.

Most of us Catholics aren't very good at praying for (and expecting!) really big miracles. We tend to get lost in repetitive prayer (which is good) and forget that Christ gave the power for miracles to us too - not just to Protestants.

Join me in this podcast as Dr. David Chotka shares some powerful stories - both about prayer and mentorship in his life and healing prayer in general. He has powerful stories about the miraculous way God can act in anyone's life.

Now get busy praying!

You can find more about David and his book at his website: https://www.spiritequip.com/

I bet you're a pretty good dad, right? You provide and shelter. You do your best to engage. You try to keep them safe.

But what if there's a lurking problem that you aren't addressing? 

What if the problem is inside of you?

Join me in this episode as I explore how critically important it is for us men to engage in self work. The problems in ourselves that we allow to remain will be transmitted on to our children and even our grandchildren. 

The devil is motivated to keep you complacent. You were not born for this - you were born to slay a dragon.

And you need good Christian men to help you do it.

There's a lot of self-help advice out there today. A lot of quick fixes and cures that will solve any problem!

Yet all the ones that actually work come down to the same basic premise: Are you willing to actually look inside at the parts of yourself that are less flattering, accept they are there, and work on them?

Join me in this episode as fellow Executive and Life Coach Eric Sardina shares his story and his perspective on what's going on with men right now. We talk about some real practical ways to embrace discomfort and really grow. We also talk about how to know if you need a coach in your life.

You can find out more about Eric at his website: https://www.ericsardina.com/

Society's plan for men doesn't work. This should not be a surprise to any of us.

But what do we do about it?

How are Christian men supposed to lead in our current world?

Join me in this episode as Nico Lagan and I open up what it means to be a man of radical responsibility, purpose, and fulfillment. He shares his story of how he found Christ, and what effect that has had on his life.

We men need to lean into our strengths and take responsibility. The only thing worse is to not do it.

You can read more about Nico on his website: https://nicolagan.com/

Families are suffering - this is not a novel claim, but one we aren't discussing much. 

We are more isolated than ever. Lonely, overwhelmed, and stressed out; parents of young families are suffering.

But what do we do?

Join me in this episode as I explore this issue. It is a nearly universal problem in our ultra-mobile world. How do we help our family to thrive despite such a hostile environment?

It's up to us husbands to lead. We have to step up our game. Now, more than ever.

Ever notice how great men and women can say more with their presence that some can with many words?

While we all know that actions speak louder than words, what happens when our actions and words speak the same?

Join me in this episode as I explore the idea of Authenticity. What does it mean to be authentic, and why is it important? How do we remain authentic knowing that we also sin? What do we do when we do fail?

These are hard questions that must be worked through with faith and humility.

This is almost a two-part episode. There are two great conversations here - don't miss it.

Why would anyone be Catholic after the revelation of the terrible scandals?

How do parents deal with special needs children?

Join me in this episode as Rob Ralston and I explore these two issues. They are not simple or safe, but they are important. 

You can find out more about Rob Ralston at: https://www.icf-coaching.org/lifecoachingforspecialneedsfamilies-com/profile/