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    Co-Parent Dilemmas

    There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.
    en-usDiane Dierks & Rick Voyles142 Episodes

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    S3.E22. Don't Be Ridiculous!

    S3.E22. Don't Be Ridiculous!

    Diane & Rick explore how some impossible co-parents interpret what is NOT in the parenting plan to exercise control and manipulation. They discuss examples they have had in their careers as well as read a Facebook post from listener Monique about phone calls with her child. 

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    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

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    S3.E21. The Distress Call from Your Child: Ignore or Rescue?

    S3.E21. The Distress Call from Your Child: Ignore or Rescue?

    Diane & Rick explore the subject of what to do when a child calls from the other home, complaining about your co-parent and seems distressed. How do you determine if it is serious or just venting? Do you stop answering after more than one call? Do you rescue your child or just validate their experience? The hosts break down this complicated issue into practical advice.

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    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent
    Support the show

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    S3.E20. What Will the GAL Think of Me?

    S3.E20. What Will the GAL Think of Me?

    A Reddit listener poses a common question about how to spend their first hour with a guardian ad litem in order to make a good impression. Diane & Rick discuss the weight of that responsibility and how stressful it can be. They pose several questions parents can ask of all court-ordered professionals that will guide them toward a productive relationship.

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    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

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    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

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    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

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    S3.E19. Do We Have to Be on the Same Page?

    S3.E19. Do We Have to Be on the Same Page?

    Diane & Rick address listener James’ question about the extremes his children experience between him and their mom. He is the relaxed parent and she is very rigid. Does it harm children to have such different parents? Do they need to be on the same page in a practical sense or is it good for the kids to experience the differences?

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
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    Join one of our Reddit groups at:
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    DON’T FORGET!

    The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is a great holiday gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!

    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
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    Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink
    . For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.

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    S3.E18. Should I Tell My Kids the “Truth”?

    S3.E18. Should I Tell My Kids the “Truth”?

    Heather wonders how to talk to her 11-year-old son about her co-parent’s marijuana use. He’s asking a lot of detailed questions, and she wants him to be able to trust his instincts. Are there times when telling the truth is beneficial to your child? If so, what’s the best way to do it? Diane & Rick break it down.

    To learn more about the Center for Navigating Family Change, go to www.CNFC.org.

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    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
    • Think you might want to start a podcast?
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
    www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma

    Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink
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    S3.E17. When You Can’t Convince Your Co-Parent to Be a Parent

    S3.E17. When You Can’t Convince Your Co-Parent to Be a Parent

    Listener Brittany writes to share her experience of using our DRAGON method to solve her childcare issue, rather than trying to convince her co-parent to help out. Diane & Rick discuss the value and emotional freedom of finding a Plan B.  Diane shares her personal stories of struggling with resolving her own co-parent dilemmas back in the day.

    To find out more about Care.com, as mentioned in the show,  go to www.care.com.

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    The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is a great holiday gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!

    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
    • Think you might want to start a po
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
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    S3.E16. How Did I End Up with a Control Freak?

    S3.E16. How Did I End Up with a Control Freak?

    Diane & Rick explore the characteristics of “good” people who fall prey to coercively controlling partners. They discuss the need to emotionally manage the reaction of their partners, to be a good co-parent, and to be fully understood as the traps that are exploited by a narcissistic ex.  They also role play a toxic interchange to explore how to shut down an unwanted conversation.

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    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
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    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
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    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
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    S3.E15. Can’t Beat ‘Em? Join ‘Em!

    S3.E15. Can’t Beat ‘Em? Join ‘Em!

    Diane &Rick answer Jennifer’s question about her co-parent letting the children watch rated “R” horror movies. They discuss the importance of not fighting against what is out of her control, but finding a way to show interest with the kids to start a meaningful conversation. Also discussed is how the anxious parent can be interpreted as controlling and their co-parent rebelling instead of using good common sense. 

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

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    The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is a great holiday gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!

    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
    • Think you might want to start a podcast?
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
    www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma

    Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink
    . For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.

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    S3. E14. Breaking Dependence on Your Co-Parent

    S3. E14. Breaking Dependence on Your Co-Parent

    Todd emails a question about convincing the court to order a communication protocol or app. He wonders if he should fight for it or let it go. And by the way, he says his co-parent is a narcissist! Diane & Rick talk about the fallacy of thinking there is a way for anyone (including the court) to make a difficult co-parent do anything he/she doesn’t want to do. Instead, Todd needs to think about how to not be so dependent on what his co-parent chooses to do.

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    BECOME a Patreon VIP and get special discounts on upcoming workshops and merchandise.
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    DON’T FORGET!

    The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is a great holiday gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!

    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
    • Think you might want to start a podcast?
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
    www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma

    Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink
    . For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.

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    S3.E13. Playing Nice with Your Co-Parent after an Affair: Not!

    S3.E13. Playing Nice with Your Co-Parent after an Affair: Not!

    Diane & Rick welcome podcaster Karen McMahon on this episode to discuss Lauren’s email about co-parenting with her cheating ex.  What is the expectation when you have been betrayed? How do you help your children who also may feel angry about it? Also discussed is the difference between a therapist and a coach. The three hosts discuss how to find good professionals in the midst of betrayal.

    To listen to Karen’s podcast, go to www.journeybeyonddivorce.com.  She also facilitates a high-conflict divorce support group. For more info, go to https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg

    To learn about the International Coaching Federation mentioned on this episode, go to
    https://coachingfederation.org/

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    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. F
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

    Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas

    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
    LinkedIn group.

    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
    Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!

    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
    www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma

    Dealing with alcohol addiction in your co-parent relationship? Explore peace of mind with SoberLink
    . For a discount on your device, CLICK HERE.

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    S3.E12. The Ultimate Boundary for the Narcissist

    S3.E12. The Ultimate Boundary for the Narcissist

    Jenny shares her frustration with her narcissistic co-parent, who would rather she disappear than exercise her parenting time. But Jenny isn’t giving up, despite her physical limitations due to a brain injury. Diane & Rick share powerful words of encouragement for Jenny and anyone who is willing to think of what children need instead of how to combat the narcissism. They remind listeners that custody does not equal good parenting. The ultimate boundary for Jenny has already been achieved.

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    The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle version is $2.99). This is a great holiday gift for those in your life who are seeking co-parenting peace. ORDER YOURS NOW!

    CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email
    1234Dilemma@gmail.com or access us on our  NON-Impossibles Facebook group.

    Our podcast exists because of the support of listeners like you.  Here are ways you can offer your continued support:

    • SOBERLINK is an ongoing sponsor of Co-Parent Dilemmas. If you are concerned about substance abuse issues with your co-parent, Soberlink can help. Follow this LINK to get a $50 discount on Soberlink products. 
    • To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp,  visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma
    • Think you might w
    Support the show

    Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group

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    If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our
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    Interested in Individual Co-Parent Communication Coaching?
    Click Here!

    Have a co-parent dilemma? Email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com

    Become a
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    To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit
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    S3.E11. But Things Were Going So Well! Enter the girlfriend…

    S3.E11. But Things Were Going So Well! Enter the girlfriend…

    Chris writes in and says things were going very well for him and his co-parent until he started dating seriously after several years post divorce. He did everything right, but now things have gone horribly wrong. What is happening to his co-parent relationship? Diane & Rick break it down.

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    S3.E10. Help! I’m Stuck Between a Borderline Co-Parent and an Enraged Spouse

    S3.E10. Help! I’m Stuck Between a Borderline Co-Parent and an Enraged Spouse

    Diane & Rick address John’s email about how to help his 16-year-old son when he and the son are stuck between mom and step-mom’s conflict. Discussed in this episode are ways to build a relationship with a teen who isolates to avoid conflict and the importance of strengthening the marital bond to deal with the stresses of a blended family.

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    S3.E9. Is it Worth Going to Court?

    S3.E9. Is it Worth Going to Court?

    How do you know when it’s a good idea to seek the court’s help with co-parenting issues? Diane & Rick discuss four things to consider as they process listener Jess’s questions about her uncooperative co-parent. She was hoping he would be more agreeable after divorce, but is finding that he shuts down every request, including moving from homeschooling to public education for their young daughter.

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    S3.E8. What to Do with All That Anger! Putting your narcissistic co-parent in perspective

    S3.E8. What to Do with All That Anger! Putting your narcissistic co-parent in perspective

    Kelvin rants about how his narcissistic co-parent steals his credit as a parent and is constantly inserting herself into his life. He asks what he should do with all of his anger. Diane & Rick explore managing expectations, finding humor in the narcissist personality, and visualization techniques to manage negative emotions in the present.

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    S3.E7. Romance and Co-Parenting: It’s Complicated!

    S3.E7. Romance and Co-Parenting: It’s Complicated!

    Eva emails the show and asks how to move forward with the love of her life and maintain both of their children’s school and activity schedules. The issue is, they live 90 minutes apart from one another. In order to move in together, they either must get their co-parents to agree to a custody change or put their dreams on hold. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of prioritizing children’s needs even if that means putting personal desires aside for a time.

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    S3.E6. The Impossible Dilemma

    S3.E6. The Impossible Dilemma

    Bethany calls in with a frustrating dilemma, and Jeff emails about a similar frustration. Diane & Rick discuss how difficult it is to be placed in a position of choosing your own peace vs. your child’s emotional welfare. This seemingly impossible dilemma is quite common among high conflict co-parents, and it requires a logical view of multiple variables to makes sense of what feels senseless.

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    S3.E5. My Dad’s Gonna Buy Me a Car!

    S3.E5. My Dad’s Gonna Buy Me a Car!

    Therapist Carol poses a question about a client’s narcissistic co-parent, who apparently wants to buy his 14-year-old’s love. Diane & Rick explore the complications of weaning from the parent/child bond in the teen years, as well as what to say to the teen, and maybe the other parent about this so-called promise.

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    S3.E4. She’s Moving in with Her Lover!

    S3.E4. She’s Moving in with Her Lover!

    Gary wonders what custody plan can work for his two young children, given that their mother plans to move in with someone she had an affair with, who is a foster parent to four children. Diane & Rick discuss how to manage living in the same house during an angry divorce process and what to do when you have no faith the other parent will step up and be responsible.

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    S3.E3. My Baby's Too Young for Sleepovers!

    S3.E3. My Baby's Too Young for Sleepovers!

    A listener wonders if an infant should have overnight visits with the father while she is breastfeeding. Diane and Rick explore this common concern and discuss what is important at this tender age of development.

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