Family Wisdom's Way

We are back again with another special episode with friends!  Faith, Emmanuel and Jonathan have joined us again for a discussion on creating a culture of family in community. Todays topics are on the cycle of codependence an independence and later we dive into the impact of multi generational interdependence in the midst of community. Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The culture of family in community
• The codependent and independent cycle
• Multi Generational interdependence
• Working together to create a synergy of wisdom and strength.

We have another special episode for you this week!  Faith, Emmanuel and Jonathan have joined us again for a part 2 of questions and answers. Todays questions were on: how to honor parents or friends who are not walking in the role or lifestyle that they should be. Later we take a look at the fruit that comes from honoring each others gifts in the midst of community.  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• What honor looks like in community.
• Honoring those who are not walking in the way that they should be.
• Creating a culture of showing up big for each other
• The fruit that can come from honoring each other in community.

We have a special episode for you this week.  Hannah and I sat down with some friends from our community and went over some of the questions that they had about doing family within community. Some of the top questions were: How do you love someone who is in a wounded place without getting sucked into the Drama Triangle and what does restoration look like in community. Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Learning to love people where they are at
• What even is a drama triangle
• How to step out of the drama triangle
• Walking out restoration in the midst of community
• Counting the cost for restoration

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the intro into becoming a Peacemaker and the 4 G's to peace making.  Learn about the difference between a Peacebraker, a Peacekeeper and a Peacemaker, so that you can begin to move towards becoming a Peacemaker in your home.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to to become a Peacemaker. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The intro into becoming a Peacemaker
• Why we applied it to our family
• God being the ultimate example for Peacemaking
• The 4 G's of Peacemaking 

Reflect and Remember! Evaluate Relationship and Responsibilities! Cast Vision to see Provision!  These are three stepping stones to help your family transition into the NEW as a family.  God actually tells us to remember His faithfulness.  What are practical tools and tips to do that?  How do we evaluate the people to have in our circle and the responsibilities for the coming season?  How do we plan but let the Lord direct our steps?  What are some practical tools to use for our family to gain vision for the NEW?

Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Reflect and remember family meeting
• Tools to use to create ways to capture the memories
• Transition: How to evaluate relationships and responsibilities
• Casting Vision to see provision of those dreams and desires
• Where do we get vision from?
• How do we have balance and know what areas to focus on?
• A word, song or verse for the year
• Ways to document so it is in front of us to see
• Making time for family fun

We have another special episode for you this week.  Hannah and I sat down with my oldest daughter, our special guest, Mary Grace and we continue our conversation.  We reflected back about some of their lessons learned while growing up. How has the freedom of exploration of your identity impacted you? How does learning the skill of taking personal responsibility and self management serve you today?  What about time management are you still learning to use in your life now?  How does the skill of doing what you are doing even if no one is looking help you?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Welcome our special guest Mary Grace
• Freedom to explore identity and personality
• Personal responsibility
• Self management
• Time management
• Doing what you do even if no one is looking

We have a special episode for you this week.  Hannah and I sat down with my oldest daughter, our special guest, Mary Grace.  We remenised about some of their lessons learned while growing up.  How do you pray/read Scripture?  What does it mean to love His word and truth so much that you let go of old beliefs to grab hold of the truth being revealed?    How do you transition them from obeying your voice to obeying Him ie. "Yes, Mom" to "Yes, Lord"?  What does it look like to cultivate a culture in your home a heart of worship?  How do you learn to pray in the midst of worship?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating these lessons in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Introduce our special guest Mary Grace
• Pray/Read Scripture
• Love the Word and Truth
• Let go and grab hold
• Yes, Mom to Yes, Lord
• Cultivate a heart of worship
• Praying in the midst of worship

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the last of the five apology languages, which is Requesting Forgiveness. Learn about what it means to Request Forgiveness and find out if this is actually your apology language.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to apologize. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The definition of what it means to request forgiveness
• Learn what it looks like to give space for forgiveness
• Scenarios of when to use this apology language
• Discover if this is your apology language.

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the fourth of the five apology languages, which is Genuinely Repenting. Learn about what it means to Genuinely Repent and find out if this is actually your apology language.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to apologize. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The definition of what it means to Genuinely Repent
• Learn what it looks like to walk out repentance
• Scenarios of when to use this apology language
• Discover if this is your apology language.

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the third of the five apology languages, which is Making Restitution. Learn about what it means to Make Restitution and find out if this is actually your apology language.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to apologize. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The definition of what it means to make restitution
• Learn what it looks like to restore with someone
• Scenarios of when to use this apology language
• Discover if this is your apology language.

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the second of the five apology languages, which is Accepting Responsibility. Learn about what it means to Accept Responsibility and find out if this is actually your apology language.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to apologize. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• The definition of what it means to accept responsibility.
• Learn to take ownership of your actions.
• Scenarios  to use it in.
• Discover if this is your apology language.

Join us this week as we continue the journey of Restoration! In this weeks episode, we will be discussing the first of the five apology languages, which is Expressing Regret. Learn about what it means to express regret and find out if this is actually your apology language.  Continue this journey with us and discover what it really means to apologize. Plus, gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Restoration defined.
• The 5 Apology Languages.
• Understanding what it means to express regret.
• Discover if this is your apology language.

Restoration is key to creating a healthy culture in family.  Conflicts happen in a family.  We bump into each other accidentally and intentionally.  What do we do when we do?  How do we know if we are trying to be right or be in right relationship with others?  When do we say "I'm sorry!" and when do we say "Please forgive me?"?   How do we posture our heart to listen to understand and not listen to defend ourselves?  What does it mean to own your own issues and responsibilities in a disagreement?   What are practical ways to use "I" statements?  What is the difference between facts and feelings and how do you express them both?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Being right vs being in right relationship with others
• When to say "I'm sorry!" and when to say "Please forgive me?"
• Active listening to understand vs listening to defend yourself 
• Owning your own issues and responsibilities
• Using "I" statements
• Distinguishing between facts and feelings 
• How to express facts and feelings

Restoration is to return a relationship to its original intent.  It goes beyond forgiveness and reconciliation.  How do you do that?  The Love and Honor pillars are key to creating an culture that helps make restoration possible.  What does it mean to be a Peace Keeper, Peace Breaker or Peace Maker?   What happens when you are triggered?  How do you detect if you or someone else in your family is triggered and know when to have conversations for restoration?   Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of restoration in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Definition of Restoration
• Key role of the pillars of Love and Honor
• Difference between Peace Keeper, Peace Breaker and Peace Maker
• Being triggered in conflicts
• Tools and Tips for restoration outcomes

Honoring someone's way of processing is important to create an environment for others to grow.  Have you ever wondered why someone in your family gets quiet when they are thinking and another person talks there way through to a conclusion?  What does it mean to talk to think and think to talk?  How can you show up for an external processor and give space to an internal processor?  What kinds of questions help during this process? What is important to each of these kind of processors?  How can you not judge them if they aren't ready to share or not judge them for what they are sharing because they are thinking out loud?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of honor in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Types of processors ie Internal and External
• Definition ie talk to think and think to talk
• Ways to honor each type
• Tools to use with Internal and External processors

Active Listening is an intentional relationship building opportunity to honor others.  What is the definition of Active Listening?  How do we cultivate the skills of Active Listening in our family?  What is the impact that this tool can have in the practical aspects of relationships?  What are some questions to use to help clarify and paraphrase to utilize this skill?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of honoring through Active Listening skills in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Definition of Active Listening
• What skills are needed
• Practical paraphrasing questions to use
• Practical clarifying questions to use

Honoring peoples resources, shows that you value them and things that are important to them. It allows them to grow in trust with you because you are actively acknowledging their value. Learn to ask permission, show value, communicate love and understand that time is an asset are just a few of things that we share with you in our latest episode on honor. Join us as we explore honor when it comes to what people value and gain practical tools to help you walk deeper into honor!

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Learn to ask permission 
• Value time as an asset 
• Communicate love through honoring other people's time
• Show value to what isn't yours
• Develop trust through validating the value in other people's time and things.

Honor means to have regard or great respect and esteem for someone.  You celebrate them.  What does it mean to honor their Dominion Sensor?  What is a Dominion Sensor?  Where did we get it and why do we have it?   Why is asking permission a key part in this process?  What are the benefits of honoring in this way?  What happens when we force verses asking or inviting?  Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of honoring someone's Dominion Sensor in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Definition of Dominion Sensor
• Where did we get it?
• Why do we have it?
• What areas of life does it come into play?
• Asking permission
• Why is it important to ask permission?
• What are the benefits of honoring the Dominion Sensor?
• Forcing verses asking or inviting

Honor means to have regard or great respect and esteem for someone.  You celebrate them.  What does it mean to honor their heart?  How do you honor someone even in the midst of their immaturity?  How can you recognize triggers and what part of the heart someone is living in? Recognizing someone's intentions and seeing what their heart is trying to convey helps you not be easily offended or triggered. What is capacity and how do you grow it?    Join us on the journey to discover the answers to these questions and gain the tips, tools and insights you need to start cultivating an atmosphere of honoring someone's heart in your family.

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Definition of honor
• Honoring even when there are immaturities
• What part of the heart someone is living in
• Honoring who they are and not just what you see now
• Triggers and how to stay connected
• Seeing someone's intentions and the heart of what they are trying to communicate
• What is capacity?
• How do you grow capacity?

What are your strengths and how do you best use them to your advantage? What happens when you overextend a strength and how can you get help to balance each other out? You were given specific strength to fill roles and bring solutions that others can't fill. What would it be like if you understood where you best fit on a team and knew how to own that position?  Dive into the answers to these questions and more on our latest episode of Family Wisdom's Way!

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QUICK EPISODE SUMMARY

• Learning about your strengths
• CARE profile and how things overlap
• Putting people in the right position on a team
• Active listening for Internal and external processors