Get Balanced With Dr Marissa Pei

So you want some free business advice? Are you a sports fan? Performance coach, author, business executive and humanitarian David Meltzer comes to the studio and shares his own journey from unhappy multi-millionaire to happy humanitarian and millionaire after finding meaning and purpose in his life only after losing it all. David is the CEO of Sports 1 Marketing, a firm which he co-founded with Hall of Fame Quarterback Warren Moon. Featured by Forbes as a Top 10 Keynote Speaker, named by Entrepreneur as a Top 5 Entrepreneurial Speaker, and recognized for his philanthropic work as Variety Magazine’s “Sports Humanitarian of the Year” David advises listeners who are stuck in a high-paying job to see it not as a sentence but an opportunity. Dr. Marissa chimes in and preaches to the choir around the "soft skills" like gratitude and appreciation which are high vibrations that are like magnets that draw great things into our life. David inspires an educational discussion around why and how we can use energy to our greater good for ourselves and others, and how money is a good thing that helps fund the work that we do to help others, and the power of happiness once he realized what purpose and meaning were in his life. He explains why so many are unfulfilled and gives Life tools like answering the simple question of "What makes you happy" and using two words "Thank You" to make a change in your life for the better. Asian Oprah giveaway is a free E-Book www.MeltzerMission/ctg Episode sponsored by www.4Balance.org

Dr. Marissa's former personal relationship therapist, who is on the top therapist list with Dr. Phil returns to the studio to talk about how people can improve the quality of their orgasms. From finding remedies for premature ejaculation for men to helping women stay out of their analytical head (sorry pun intended), Todd helps us understand the physical and psychological components of pleasure. Todd also helps find balance in gender differences… For example, men get turned on like a microwave whereas women get turned on like a crock pot, so skill will and timing become equally important variables in the bedroom. The statistic that up to 75% of women rarely or never experience vaginal orgasms comforts Dr. Marissa. Bottom line (sorry) is that everyone deserves to have pleasurable experiences in life…you are worthy enough to communicate and find all your pleasure spots that make you happy! Asian Oprah Giveaway is unlimited tips from www.toddcreager.com/sexandpersonalgrowth

So why should we care about the homelessness situation in LA County? There more than 47,000 people right now who don't have a home and want to get off the streets. Chairman Mark Ridley-Thomas talks about a systemic solution to a complex multi-faceted problem where a third of the homeless are now women and children, that one in three people are only a few paychecks away from being homeless, and that we are out of Band-Aid approaches. He has a balanced perspective on why the situation is important for everyone… that it's about Human Dignity for all…for those on the streets, and those of us watching it happen. By voting YES on the H measure www.VoteYesonH.com everyone will be able to participate in the solution and feel good about themselves. The harsh reality of the hopelessness that is currently here for veterans who did so much for our country and are now living on the streets, for those addicted to drugs because they have no hope, to women who are raped, attacked and stolen from... it's a situation that cannot be summarized as "just get a job"! Whatever your political orientation is this is one thing that we can all help resolve and remedy so that homelessness will never be a problem in LA County or anywhere again! Episode sponsored by http://4balance.org/product/balance-on-the-beach-workshop/

4-time Oprah and 6-time Asian Oprah guest Dr. Pat Allen returns to rake Dr. Marissa through the romance coals and explains why she is celebrating SAD Single Awareness Day one more time! Dr. Pat Allen describes how chemistry and compatibility and communication are the fundamental building blocks for a good relationship. She also answers why women over 50 can have casual sex like men, and why men need to be trained in order to fulfill women's desires for stability and monogamy. Dr. Marissa beats herself up...literally...for the inability to practice with Dr. Pat preaches! Episode sponsored by www.Ramonabuildsbridges.com

Dr. Linell King is an Amazon best-selling author, physician, international speaker, health recovery and weight loss specialist who combines science, behavioral health, and spirituality to transform your life. Dr. Marissa has been a client since the New Year and has successfully released 6 pounds 9 inches largely because of Dr. Lionel's non-pressure approach with her knowing that she's a brat... and doesn't do well when someone tells her what to do! Dr. Lionel explains how "eat less work out more" has it backwards and how to begin the process by undoing belief systems that got us to the way we are now. A renowned internist featured on ABC, NBC, and FOX Dr. King completed his residency at Johns Hopkins University and Sinai Hospital and has been awarded “Most Wellness Focuses Physician” and an Expy Writers award for his #1 Best Selling Mastering Vitality. Dr. King believes the solution to preventing illness is empowering each of us to take responsibility for our own health. The Asian Oprah Giveaway is a free copy of www.MasteringVitalityBook.com. Episode sponsored by www.4Balance.org and the 21 Day Fast from Complaining with Dr. Marissa!

Ryan Long, Founder and Executive Producer of the City Summit & Gala, introduce Dr. Marissa to an annual speaker summit and fundraising event held on the weekend of the Grammy Awards. During the Summit, influential individuals share their stories on overcoming adversity and inspiration. At the gala the ceremony honors the most successful cynosures in various industries, including science, entertainment, business, and philanthropy. Last year the event was held at the Hughes Mansion and included a keynote from Sir Richard Branson, and honored guests Jane Seymour, Charlize Theron, Halle Barry and many others. This year City Gala is pleased to present its 2017 Lifetime Achievement Award to legendary producer, entertainer and philanthropist Quincy Jones. This year's repeat MC will be Jeff Timmons, an American pop singer and producer and founding member of the Grammy-nominated pop group 98 Degrees. Both guests find common ground in Self Development teachers concepts and practices, and react to the recent ban on counties by the 45th president. Dr. Marissa gives a formula for dealing with current fear and outrage including staying solution based in word and action without stooping to hate. The Asian Oprah Giveaway reaches a new high of 2 VIP tickets to the Gala valued at $20,000!! Episode sponsored by www.4Balance.org and the 21 Day Fast from Complaining with Dr. Marissa!

Traversing the changes in the publishing industry has brought good news for the little guy who has a book that he or she wants to write. Large publishing houses no longer have the market on what is or is not a bestseller… The bad news is many new writers have gotten caught in the self publishing jungle and lost much of their money trying to sell a book that has not passed the rigors of the new realities of the industry. Karen Stuth, owner of award-winning Satiama Publishing and Satiama Writers Resource gives Dr. Marissa listeners real experience advice on the process...from what to submit, what is considered marketable, what to expect when and why it's important to write no matter what. Episode sponsored by www.SatiamaWritersResource.com

Did you know that Dr. King's "I have a dream" speech was actually built from his American dream speech? Did you know that the man behind the historic march was actually a visionary who was black gay and a quaker who was not allowed to be the "front man" for the event? Did you know that Dr. King's words are almost prophetic for what we are going through now in this world and election? Gerald C. Rivers, speaker, orator, voice over artist and resonator of Dr. King's words and principles sheds many insights into the man and his message. Dr. Marissa also asks Gerald to share his own story and his message, earning him Dr. Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award. His words that ring true bring tears to eyes and break open the heart to know that it is our time to continue Dr. King's Peace through Non-Violence work! Episode sponsored by www.LongevityPureMedicine.com and www.HealthyPostureNow.com

Laila Ali, world-class athlete, fitness & wellness expert, TV host, cooking enthusiast, founder of the Laila Ali Lifestyle Brand, mother of two and the daughter of late beloved global icon and humanitarian Muhammad Ali comes to the studio live to share the greatness and the humanness of her father. Layla puts the moose on the table around her own journey as the youngest daughter and her two of a kind relationship with Muhammed Ali. Dr. Marissa asks her about the danger of boxing, her father's Parkinson's, his reaction to her decision to box and her own four-time undefeated boxing world champion titles. Laila shares her newest projects including her season with Celebrity Apprentice that just started last night, her blog and health and fitness group, her book and her cookbook that's coming out this fall. Dr. Marissa is delighted to get even more details than she bargained for about her marriage to NFL Great Curtis Conway! For all of the plethora of ways in which she is moving in this world, and her personal tips for Feeling Good and Looking Good Naked, Laila is awarded Dr. Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award! Episode sponsored by www.EACLOpp.com

Returning co-host Dr. Robin Milhausen, Canadian professor and international sex educator who helped launch the Sexual Healing with Dr.Marissa, the new Asian Dr. Ruth series, shares new research from a recent Trojan sponsored sex and pleasure study on 2400 midlife Canadians about the importance of post intercourse snuggling (the 6 minute rule), oral sex and sex toys. Both put the moose on the table about the importance of self pleasuring and practical communication tips on how to make your sex life better in an out of the bedroom. Episode sponsored by the 21 Day Fast from Complaining with Dr. Marissa APP www.4Balance.org

Can you imagine being barred from seeing your own father whose health is in decline and is suffering alone? Kerri Kasem tells the incredible true life story about her radio icon father Casey Kasem, who is best known for his American Top 40 Countdown as well as being the voice of Shaggy on Scooby Doo. The contrast of his glory days to the horrific circumstances of his death bring both Carrie and Dr. Marissa to tears. Kerri receives Dr. Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award for her work of alchemizing her personal pain of not being able to comfort her father in his last days, to fuel her healing Campaign to change legislation in all of the 52 states so that no one else has to suffer the kind of elder abuse and neglect that her father did. She has already done so in eight states in the last two years since her father's death, and even though her stepmother buried him in Norway where no one knows who he is, she is not wasting any more negative energy, only focusing on changing laws. We can all help her by following the work at www.KasemCares.com and using all of the materials that we now have available at www.Youthforhumanrights.org to teach children and adults everywhere that they do have rights! Episode sponsored by www.TimelessTreasuresBoutiques.com

Another second week of the month Call-in Show where Dr. Marissa helps Balance your life tires and Smog-check your stinking thinking that keeps you stuck and unhappy. Returning caller Lisa from San Diego returns to update Dr. Marissa on the status of her relationship that was plagued with a giant dog and unpleasant weather with a positive outcome after she loved herself enough to express her desires. Her question today asks "what is my purpose in life" as she watches her parents age towards death. Dr. Marissa describes her "better feeling" beliefs about being spiritual beings having a human experience that is expansive and full of the diversity in thoughts feelings and emotions that is not accessible on the other side. It's a conscious choice born out of being tired of feeling like a victim of a dysfunctional home and never good enough. Lisa is validated on her own unique gift and talent expressed as kindness and reframes the way she sees her current situation. Dana from New York finds a way out of being stuck between knowing her passion as a career and having too many possible paths to take which overwhelm her to the point of being broke and frustrated. Dr. Marissa talks about the balance between throwing the baby out with the bathwater from past work experience and natural gifts expressed in a corporate setting and the importance of business communication to share what your calling is...you can be the best at what you do but if you don't know how to offer it up, it's wasted. Dr. Marissa gives her Google homework and advice that she actually does use volunteering to get more experience to bolster her confidence. Episode sponsored by www.GoFundMe.com/hraxlo

Are you tired of watching your kids waste their life playing computer games? Are you tired of getting yelled at for playing computer games? Well If you can't beat them, join them! Lila Manyweather the COO of (EACL) Esports Amateur Competitors League introduces Dr. Marissa to a company that not only offers a gaming platform to amateurs, it helps the gamers turn their activity into a money making venture, earning money for their own educational scholarships and also for non-profit organizations. It is also is an investment opportunity for individuals in communities that want to buy into an industry that is growing at an exploding rate from a million to a billion dollar industry. The father daughter owner team Michael and Mi-chael Reddick also breaks the traditional stereotype of waiting till retirement to pass on family businesses to kids...allowing father-daughter (the 16-year old Math major college sophomore in this case) to provide a one of a kind company that is win win all the way around. , because, it is the ultimate solution to an apprentice gamers dream and their parents! It's a social entrepreneural opportunity and platform that gives back to nonprofit organizations... a one-of-a-kind business not being offered anywhere else in the world. Dr. Marissa presents all 3 with her Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award for their creative venture where give back is built in! Episode sponsored by www.theEACLopp.com">_tmp_url_1_.theEACLopp.com

So are you ready to get back on the dating saddle? Or are you wondering if it's a total waste of make-up? This month's guest is the author of The Flirting Bible?, Fran Greene, a licensed clinical social worker specializing as a Flirting, Dating and Relationship Coach. Fran was the former Director of Flirting, advice columnist, and spokesperson for Match.com. Yes I'm ready to put my toe back in the dating pool and my lifeguard Fran gives Dr. Marissa good advice on how to flirt with her best openers. Fran also reframes rejection, and recommends tools like "It's Just a Date" and how to manage the deep end of online dating by avoiding pseudo intimacy. Dr. Marissa lets go of negative thinking around dating and puts the "moose on the table" about the complexity of who picks up the check at the end of dinner. This episode of Sexual Healing with Dr. Marissa, the new Asian Dr. Ruth who is determined to make Pleasure a G-Rated Topic is sponsored by www.AuLac.com Restaurant and the 21 Day Fast from Complaining with Dr. Marissa https://youtu.be/zasBAH9jlxA

This episode is for anyone who's Red angry or Blue sad about the election… Finding balance in the aftermath is addressed by 2 guests from organizations who are committed to being the change they want to see. Sande Hart from Compassionate California and Kira Carrillo Corser from Posts for Peace and Justice talk candidly about their own reactions to the election. Kira shares her pain around electing a president after her personal experiences with rape and provides a realistic backdrop to the struggle that comes to the minds and hearts of people adjusting to this new presidency. The relief that some people can find through artistic expression in bringing people together and find a common bond helps… Especially with our youth. Sandy preaches to the choir around all of us being members of the human family and at the same time having to stand strong so that our values around equality, freedom, and against discrimination and bias prevail. Dr. Marissa continues to splatter hope and happiness trying to encourage people not to marinade in sadness or anger as it is not helpful to their Cellular functioning ... and for the sake of our health find a way to have compassion even for the new president balanced by standing firm in what is good. As Cara quotes Dr. Martin Luther King: Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Listeners are encouraged to join organizations who are working against racism and violence against women, and transmute their energy to focus on a common vision, which is to make this country about peace and prosperity. Both guests are awarded Dr. Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award for their work in creating more love and more peace in the world.

It's another great Call-in episode when Dr. Marissa becomes the 'kinder gentler Dr. Laura'! Rebecca from LA calls to ask Dr. Marissa about her relationship of six-months and if it's okay to be upset about not meeting her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend now best friend. Dr. Marissa changes the focus and asks Rebecca to look at her own ability to ask for what she needs, her own point of attraction and if the relationship is balanced if she's the only one being criticized to grow. Rebecca validates Dr. Marissa's Incubation Theory of Relationships and Smog Check's her thinking around what dating and relationships are in shopping for partners in the marketplace, as per teacher and past guest Don Miguel Ruiz (Mastery of Love textbook). The second caller is Chris from Houston Texas, a truck driver with a catastrophic past who now has a choice about his work and money. Using Abraham Hicks principles, Dr. Marissa affirms the good that is Chris and the good in his life and encourages him to open a space to a 3rd possibility beyond the 2 that he is choosing between...to focus on counting his blessing so that he is taking care of his own stress-related illness so that he can open even more choices in his life! Episode sponsored by the 21 Day Fast from Complaining APP with Dr. Marissa www.4Balance.org

Broadcasting Live on Election Day, Dr. Marissa wanted to mark the day not convincing you who the better candidate is...even though Love does Trump Hate ;) sorry...but to talk about the aftermath...that whatever the result is today, we are going to have to come together and find a way to overcome all of the angry divisive hate themed talk that we have been subjected to and involved in and indignant about and hurt by. So I invited 2 powerful women to join me who know first hand what it is like to be hated and how to rise above and also teach others to collaborate across differences...Soraya Deen is a Lawyer, Author, Communications Strategist, Peace Activist and Interfaith Consultant and her Jewish BF Philippa Sklaar...an author, speaker and advocate born and raised in South Africa during Apartheid and knows first hand about division and discrimination as her father, the mayor of Johannesburg fought to eliminate racism. She is the co-founder with Soraya of The Women’s Voice Project whose mission is to reduce violence and end bullying by educating and empowering women and all victims of abuse. Moose on the Table questions are asked about Islamophobia, the truth about Muslims, and practical answers to questions like: What do you do when you can't agree? How do you make peace with others? How do you make peace with yourself? How do you respect someone you don't like? How do you go along with something or someone you don't agree with? Episode sponsored by www.4Balance.org and www.ModernDayMillionaire.com.

Almost a hundred years ago the world celebrated peace as a universal principal. The first World War had just ended and nations mourning their dead collectively called for an end to all wars. Armistice Day was born and was designated as “a day to be dedicated to the cause of world peace and to be thereafter celebrated." After World War II, the U.S. Congress decided to rebrand November 11 as Veterans Day. Honoring the warrior quickly morphed into honoring the military and glorifying war. Veterans For Peace has taken the lead in lifting up the original intention of November 11th – as a day for peace. As veterans we know that a day that celebrates peace, not war, is the best way to honor the sacrifices of veterans. We want generations after us to never know the destruction war has wrought on people and the earth. AND that is why I had to invite Executive Director of Veterans for Peace Michael McPherson on the show...because I want to help return Veteren's Day into a worldwide call for peace that was originally spurred by universal revulsion at the huge slaughter of World War One. Michael educated Dr. Marissa on both the severity of the negative impact of war and killing on the individuals who serve, who will never be the same no matter how 'justified' the killings are, and the systemic issues that come with being a "presence" in other countries...how we contribute to the wars we participate in. That those who serve, including himself and his son, have the most to give and the least to receive. Dr. Marissa then "puts the moose on the table" about the problems we still have from the Civil War, black and white, rich and poor, have and have nots which fuel the rising unrest in America. His "Big Picture" view as well as proposed solutions earn him Dr. Marissa's Beneficial Presence on the Planet Award! Episode sponsored by www.ModernDayMillionaire.com