I Think I Love My Wife

In this episode (Sometimes you just have to listen), I continue my conversation with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. We discuss vulnerability and the importance of listening. We examine the psyche of a black man and how compartmentalizing is a survival tool. We talk about the pressure men feel to solve and fix, while highlighting the differences in how we think of support and resolution compared to women. We dive deep on the cancel-culture and why women are quick to dead things sometimes. We spend time on the topic of honesty and debate the difference between omission or telling the truth. We also double down on the need to ask the right questions.

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In this episode (So ready to be washed), I continue my conversation with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. We spend some time on the need to have trust in a relationship and discuss the value of companionship. We talk about the struggles of dating especially as it pertains to using the dating apps. We go deep on why guys give the illusion of interest. I’m also prodded by Brittney to understand what I’m looking for in my future wife.

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In this episode (So ready to be washed), I continue my conversation with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. We spend some time on the need to have trust in a relationship and discuss the value of companionship. We talk about the struggles of dating especially as it pertains to using the dating apps. We go deep on why guys give the illusion of interest. I’m also prodded by Brittney to understand what I’m looking for in my future wife.

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In this episode (You’re going to take some Ls), I continue my conversation with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. We talk about daddy issues versus abandonment issues. We discuss knowing to pick your battles and the importance of valuing the process as much as the results. We take a look at the phrase “happy wife, happy life” to determine whether it’s true or not. We also highlight the differences between knowing someone and trusting someone as well as why the latter is what people should be striving for.

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In this episode (Let’s just learn each other), I continue my conversation with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. We talk about the boundaries and bets that people make in order to secure a relationship. We discuss the data points that men and women acquire as indicators. We highlight the ways that men and women think and feel differently as well as the luxury of operating based on how you feel. We dive deep on the considerations people should have when taking their relationship to the next level. We explain the differences between maturity, emotional maturity, being communicative. We also try to extract the impact father’s have on people, especially when it comes to dating.

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In this episode (You can’t microwave a relationship), I chat with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. I sit on the other side of the microphone as I answer her questions.  We talk about the importance of protecting your tank and the responsibility we have with other people’s feelings. She pushes me to learn about the times I've felt like I was in love. We discuss how some people try to rush through relationships, reconciling someone having a “clock” and someone wanting to go with the flow. We touch on what it looks like when women “pressure” guys to move the relationship forward. We also examine how sex can sometimes be leveraged in a relationship and the consequences of that connectivity.

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In this episode (It’s not just what you say), I chat with Brittney Gwynn, the host of a podcast called Girl Talk with Pops. I sit on the other side of the microphone as I answer her questions.  I describe my story in starting the podcast and share more of my personal background as well as my relationship history - highlighting ways they are intertwined. I explain how I try to foster an environment for vulnerability. I also give listeners what they have asked for, becoming more vulnerable with them on who I am and revealing whether starting the podcast helped or hurt my last relationship.

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In this episode (You are enough), I wrap up season 1 by completing my conversation with Anthony, Dorian, and Paul where we discuss more topics and questions from the listeners.

We talk about spirituality and religion – navigating the right time to bring that into the relationship as well as who should take the lead in that space. We discuss the decision to have more kids and aligning on a number of desired children. We dive deep on the lessons they have learned so far from being married. We also spend time highlighting things they believe are tripping people up in the dating world.

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In this episode (That’s the dilemma), I continue the conversation with Anthony, Dorian, and Paul from season one and we discuss topics and questions from the listeners.

We talk about how to determine someone’s value and when the relationship is worth it. They give me a hard time about some specific dating stories and try to school me on the appropriate time to text, call, and FaceTime. We dive deep on the difference between dating and courting as well as discuss the challenges that come with trying to be aligned with a potential partner. We also reach a critical AH-HA moment that helps makes sense of why men and women sometimes are not on the same page when it comes to dating. They also give their perspective on the important things to look for in a partner.

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In this episode (Everyone has a past), I bring Anthony, Dorian, and Paul back from season one and we discuss more topics and questions from the listeners. We also get their perspective after being on the podcast and what they have learned since we last spoke on air.

We answer questions about dating someone who has had sex with a friend. We give our perspective on the appropriate length of time to date and get to know someone before you make it official. We spend time talking about fatherhood, what that means, and how it changes your perspective. We also discuss how they navigate supporting their partner as a wife, a mother, and a professional.

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In this episode (It’s okay to be scared), I continue my recap with Brandon and Justin from season one and we discuss topics and questions from the listeners.

We talk about how women exclude guys from consideration who have dated their friends. We provide some insight as to why guys hesitate to approach women. We discuss the difference between dating and courting as well as break down what chivalry means and how it plays out in their marriages. I also get their perspective on dating women with children and what being the head of the household means.

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In this episode (Get over yourself), I bring Brandon and Justin back from season one and we discuss topics and questions from the listeners. We also get their perspective after being on the podcast and what they have learned since we last spoke on air.

We answer questions about how someone’s upbringing can impact the relationship and the way they see things. We go deeper on mental health and the role therapy can play as well as debate whether it’s a red flag if you feel you and your partner needs counseling early on in the relationship. We discuss whether or not they could seriously date someone that has slept with one of their close friends. We also spend some time trying to understand the balance between taking L’s in a relationship on little things and when they can become big issues.

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In this episode (There’s always that pressure), I discuss family and preparing for a child while growing your relationship. I conclude my conversation with my friend from episode 10 and 11, who’s recently married, and further examine his journey towards as well as in marriage.

We talk about having a baby prior to marriage, the adjustments you have to make as well as the potential impact it may or may not have on your decision to get married. We share thoughts on living with your partner before proposing and what you can learn from it. We dive deep on navigating different cultural/family norms and how to incorporate that into your relationship. We also spend some time discussing what it really means to be a man.

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In this episode (Marriage is a choice), I discuss some of the choices and adjustments you have to make in marriage. I continue my conversation with my friend from episode 10, who’s recently married, and further examine his journey towards as well as in marriage.

We talk about the difference between being in love and being with the right person. We explain why marriage is a choice and the importance of taking the initiative early on to understand your partner’s perspective on marriage. We discuss the different meanings and levels to marriage. We uncover some of the potential complexities that stem from having a partner from a different culture. We also take a deeper dive into how to navigate conflict and the value of developing a healthy process to do so.

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In this episode (Proceed at your own risk), I discuss dating, long distance relationships, and demanding lifestyles. I talk to a friend, who’s recently married, and examine his journey towards as well as in marriage.

We talk about navigating long distance relationships, how to build a solid foundation and address conflict within one. We discuss the importance of asking a lot of questions upfront and supporting your partner’s unique interests. We uncover challenges that stem from juggling a demanding career or lifestyle while wanting to be available emotionally for your partner. We also explore the world of dating when one person isn’t looking for anything serious.

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In this episode (Prevention instead of mitigation), I discuss relationships and getting married after going through a divorce. I continue my conversation with my friend from episode 8, who’s been recently re-married, and examine his journey towards finding love again.

We discuss the value going to premarital counseling before getting engaged and the types of conversations it sparks. We talk about why it’s critical to find out what's important to your partner and resources that can help you determine where you both are aligned. We explain how essential it is to have your actions match your words. We highlight the benefits of proactively creating systems and processes to help you improve communication and maintain a healthy relationship. We also touch on reasons to do a destination wedding and how witnessing pregnancy can change your views on push gifts.

The book referenced in this episode is called Sacred Search by Gary Thomas. This book helps people understand relationship from a biblical standpoint in a way that can support couples in evaluating whether big rock issues exist or not.

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In this episode (It’s almost like death), I discuss the breakup from a divorce and rebuilding to find love again. I talk to a friend, who’s been recently married, and examine his journey towards getting marriage for a second time.

We examine the tough lessons and growth that come out of a divorce as well as the emotional toll it takes to separate from a long relationship. We discuss the thrills and struggles that are part of today’s dating scene. We explain the importance of being upfront about your intentions and truly paying attention to what your potential partner shows you about themselves.  We try to determine where responsibility lies in getting out of situations that you know aren’t going anywhere. We assess your ability to change someone’s mind about what they want in a relationship. We also talk about the value of dating reciprocity.

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In this episode (It’s a two way street), I discuss being a relationship with an alpha woman and how children can impact a marriage. I finish my conversation from episode 6 with a friend, who’s been married for almost 5 years, and examine his marriage thus far.

We discuss the importance of intimacy and issues that come from prioritizing sex in a relationship. We uncover the value of being vulnerable and transparent, as well as the importance of creating safe spaces for your partner. We talk about dealing with personalities that differ from yours and navigating the dynamics of being involved with an alpha woman. We also examine new relationship challenges that arise from having a child.

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In this episode (Some things are just a marathon), I discuss the enduring journey of marriage, the road to get there, and the critical considerations to keep in mind when selecting your partner. I talk to a friend, who’s been married for almost 5 years, and examine his journey towards as well as in marriage.

We explore some of the mental hurdles and personal obstacles that hold men back from popping the big question. We talk about the issues that come with searching for the “perfect” partner. We examine your ability to really change someone and the importance of really listening to what your potential partner tells you when dating. We highlight the commitment that comes with marriage and the “right now” mentality that cause some people to force things when dating. We also discuss the continual work it takes to keep a marriage going.

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In this episode (She completed me), I talk about the process of managing the business of a relationship and the work it takes to sustain a good relationship. I wrap up my conversation from episode 3 and 4 with a friend, who’s been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We discuss how the strengths and weaknesses of a partner impact the business of a relationship. We highlight the growth that occurs from both sides in a serious relationship. We examine how love languages affect the way we engage and receive love from our partner. We also uncover varying sentiments that stem from staying in touch with an ex or friends of the opposite sex, while talking through how to navigate through situations when its worth keeping those friendships.

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