Past Chaos

Our lives are so chaotic that even this episode was unplanned!  The topic we were supposed to discuss got lost in the mess.  However, you are in for a treat.  You're invited to listen in on one of our regular, day to day conversations.  

April admits that she actually does need help in one area of her life, after Loren calls her all the way out.  Listen to the embarrassing event that took place in their neighborhood - as if they need to give the neighbors another reason to dislike them.

Loren tells us about her google search history.  She found out that she's not as kinky as she thought.  Loren also gives us an update on her trip to introduce her girlfriend to her family.

The ladies realize how much they downplay the uniqueness of their relationship and just how special it really is.  

Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

After a couple of hectic weeks, the ladies are getting back to their routine.  All the house guests have left the building, which means it is back to business as usual.
This week, the women answer the age old question..."Where do you see yourself in five years?"
The ladies also talk about what they feel is one of the more difficult aspects of blended families - getting the children back on a schedule after visits with the other parents.
In true April and Loren fashion, keeping it on the fun side, the women discuss age gaps in relationships.  How big is too big...of an age gap.

Don't forget you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+.

It's been a long week! From surviving another week of school, to remaining calm amidst the slew of house guests we've had, it is amazing they are still somewhat sane.  In this episode, April and Loren discuss giving unsolicited mom advice.  They are all for accepting help, especially from good, seasoned moms.  The issue is getting unwanted wisdom from the not so wise.
The ladies talk about their night on the town, how important cleanliness is in their world, and speaking of unsolicited advice - April received some words of discouragement about her sex life.  Ready for a shocker and a laugh - listen til the end to find out Loren's reaction to someone getting a little too excited about April's Facebook picture.

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, and My Ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode April and Loren share an exciting goal they reached together.  The women survived another week of school, but which one of their children decided to raise Hell?
The ladies talk about having tact and agree on the one that has a tad more tact than the other.  The big discussion this week is breaking old relationship habits before getting into a new one.
Listen to their opinions on being independent versus being in a co-dependent relationship.  

Also, April and Loren express their concerns on being understood about their stance on sex.  Is one woman right and the other wrong, or is it just up to personal preference?  Hear what they have to say about the topic.

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+. 

In this episode, April and Loren discuss the first week of back to school for their kids.
They also talk about whether or not they would recycle a previous romantic partner.
The women dive deep into the topic of open relationships.  Have they ever been in one?  Would they ever be in one?  Are there rules or boundaries?  
Also, is a "vanilla" sex life ok?   Hear what the ladies have to say about this and so much more!

Find out what happened this week that lead to April's question for Loren at the end of the episode!

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode, April and Loren discuss several topics in motherhood and coparenting.
There's a lot of chatter in Hollywood surrounding coparenting.  What do the ladies have to say about that?
Do you think it is ok for someone to call out your child on social media or a public forum?  Hear what the women have to say about a situation that recently happened in their neighborhood.
A listener wrote in for advice on her coparenting situation.  Since it was a scenario they are very familiar with, they decided to answer the question during this week's episode.
Finally, April asks Loren a very tough question about motherhood.

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode, April and Loren finally discuss Loren's most recent breakup.  
After giving a brief update on what's been going on in their lives, the women realize they left out a big chapter of their story.  So, April put Loren in the hot seat and asked very personal questions about the relationship and why it ended.  Listen as Loren shares very intimate and personal details of her breakup.
Since Loren seems to be such a professional at ending things, April requests her help in how to let men down easy.

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "you, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode, April and Loren give an update on what's been going on this summer.  They have a lot to catch up on after their "mental vacation".  The ladies will answer some burning questions.  Also find out why they have been causing such a stir on TikTok.

The big secret...Loren updates us on her dating life.  Who, What, When, Where, and Why is she dating!

The second most asked question - are April and John still married?  Listen now to find out this and so much more!

Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery +. 

In this episode, April and Loren interview a very special guest.  Sarah and her husband made a big decision to go against the grain.  After her husband's retirement from the military, Sarah  decided they should purchase a giant RV and take their 3 daughters and pet children on the road for a year.  Listen to the interesting details of her travels and how she stays sane during her journey of life on the road.
Can you guess the "spicy" question April and Loren are dying to know from Sarah?
Also, find out how Loren was recently interrogated on her parenting style.

If you want to hear more about Sarah and her family or just follow along on their journey, check out her website:  www.threegirlsandagoose.com

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

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In this episode, April and Loren unpack A LOT!
School is out for the summer, and the ladies contemplate whether or not they are bad moms because summer with a house full of boys is maddening!
Also, would they choose their moms all over again, given the chance?  Find out what "wild" thing each of the women did when they first left home.
The women discuss their custody battle and how important it is that you do not put your kids in the middle.  They also discuss different ways they parent in order to protect the innocence of their children.
Lastly, what is their take on parents and friends approving of the person they date or marry?

Don't forget, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

A big THANK YOU to That's It. fruit bars for sponsoring this episode of Past Chaos.
Head over to thatsitfuit.com/chaos and use the code CHAOS at checkout to enjoy 20% off your order.

In this episode, April and Loren discuss authentic friendships, and the undying love they have for their true friendship.
The ladies are also joined by one of their very best friends, Heather.  
Heather has recently celebrated a very important anniversary - she has gone an entire year without sex!  Loren is baffled, and April is perplexed.  
The women also discuss how to define where a relationship is going, and if or how you decide to place a label on your relationship.

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In this episode, April and Loren discuss the behaviors of their children and ponder the question...is it a reflection of their parenting?
April talks about an incident with Tanner on the soccer field that opened her eyes to a different perspective.  Loren reveals a parenting mishap with Jagger and how she stuck with her consequences for his negative behavior.
The women also make a big confession about their relationship - do they ever argue with each other?

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Head over to thatsitfuit.com/chaos and use the code CHAOS at checkout to enjoy 20% off your order.

In this episode, April and Loren discuss what's been going on lately.  They took a hiatus; they were on a break!  But why?  Don't worry, they always kiss and tell!  
The women give a bird mom update.  You will also hear some really exciting news that involves a new family member.

Which child has been giving them a run for their money lately?  Also, find out what happened recently that made the women question what is and isn't being taught to their children in school.

April asks Loren if she thinks their relationship is "too close".  As always, the ladies wrap up with an update on Loren's dating life.  Spoiler alert - you'll find our whose bed she slept in!

In this episode, April and Loren discuss taking accountability.  Both women recall the time in their lives when they began taking accountability for their actions, behaviors, and choices.
Sadly, some people never learn this art or do it far too late in life – which causes their ability to have healthy relationships nearly impossible.
Hear the women's advice on how to take accountability, in order to live a more productive and peaceful life.
Also, listen to the update on Loren's dating life.  This one is a real doozie - you will NOT want to miss it!

Don't forget - you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode, April and Loren discuss living a fulfilling life.  However, this is not what they were supposed to be discussing this week.  This was supposed to be a break-up episode, but that is a tale to tell for another time.
Are you fulfilled?  Listen to what the ladies have to say about their lives and where they find fulfillment.  Also, get an update on the sugar daddy search.  Loren ends the episode with a dating life update.  Hear the deep question she has for April.

Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

A big THANK YOU to Kindred Bravely for sponsoring this episode.  Visit them online at kindredbravely.com - and be sure to use our code "20CHAOS" at checkout for 20% off your order!

In this episode, April and Loren discuss relationship cons.  It's like being catfished, but worse!  Both women admit to their biggest relationship con.  They also reveal who they feel was the one man that brought the biggest con to them.
Loren announces a major scare she recently had.  She brings us up to speed on her dating life, while reminding us to stay off the internet when drinking wine.
April confesses to an awkward internet search.  Ironically, this episode also contains a lot of embarrassing boob talk.

Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

A big THANK YOU to Kindred Bravely for sponsoring this episode.  Visit them online at kindredbravely.com - and be sure to use our code "20CHAOS" at checkout for 20% off your order!

In this episode, April and Loren discuss self-destructive behaviors.  The ladies are vulnerable as they divulge their individual patterns they experienced when going through their divorces.  April opens up about her vices while attempting to heal from heartache.  Loren talks about the scary truth behind her healing from the pain of her divorce.

Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

A big THANK YOU to Kindred Bravely for sponsoring this episode.  Visit them online at kindredbravely.com, and be sure to use our code "20CHAOS" at checkout for 20% off your order!

In this episode, April and Loren talk about birthing stories.  Loren goes into detail about all 3 of her births, including the shocking conception of her first child.  Hear the scary details of her second and the almost home birth of her third.
April tells us all about her first teen pregnancy, and if that wasn't enough, she manages to do it all again...still as a teen!  Her third and final was full of delivery room surprises.  Listen to find out what happened that kept her from sending our birth announcements for the last baby.

Also, Loren has some BIG dating plans coming up soon.  How big?  Well, you'll have to stay tuned to find out!
Remember,  you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+.

A big THANK YOU to Kindred Bravely for sponsoring this episode.  Visit them online at kindredbravely.com, and be sure to use our code "20CHAOS" at checkout for 20% off your order!

In this episode, April and Loren discuss what they think women really want.
What do they want out of life, relationships, or just for themselves?
You are sure to learn a lot,  and you are sure to relate a lot. 
April reveals that she had a procedure done this week and gives a PSA on what lead to the decision.  Loren gives an update on her dating life. 
Listen to hear all this and so much more.

You can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.

In this episode, April and Loren discuss how to survive raising teenagers.  They have six children, they have successfully raised two teen daughters, but will they survive these boys?
April confesses something that she is sure she will be mom-shamed for.  Loren divulges a secret from her childhood that she feels bad about now.

In this week's dating escapades, April reveals that she had a date!  Loren also tells us that she was just invited on an out of town date.  How does April feel about that?  Listen to find out all about this and so much more!

Also, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.