Reinvented After 40

If, like me, you’re in a season of saying big, hearty yeses to your dreams and goals, welcoming and befriending anxiety is a vital skill you must cultivate. The great news is that the presence of anxiety isn’t a problem. It’s just a sign that you’re living a big life, and I’m showing you how to take charge of your anxiety in this episode. 

I show you why anxiety isn’t a problem and how I choose to navigate my anxiety. I’m sharing what happens when we feel our feelings instead of pushing them away, how I’ve learned to address the fears my brain offers me, and how you too can acknowledge, respect, and respond to your anxiety.

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If you’re a woman in the second half of life who struggles with chronic self-doubt, indecision, or overwhelm, chances are you’re listening to the lies your brain is telling you. If you find yourself on the cusp of a big leap, only to back paddle or quit out of fear, this episode is for you.

Learn what happens when you keep going and never quit on yourself. I’m showing you what it looks like to set yourself free from everything holding you back in the second half of life, and how to become aware of the noise your brain offers so you never let it talk you out of anything you want. 

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One of the most enjoyable additions to my well-being in the second half of life has been my decision to become a rule-breaker instead of a rule-keeper. I spent my whole life dedicated to being a “good” Christian, mom, wife, friend, and daughter... until I realized these self-imposed rules were keeping me stuck and resentful.

Hear why you must question the rules you no longer want to live your life by and the freedom that’s available to you when you decide to let them go. I’m sharing my experience of breaking rules in my life, what happens when you stop confining yourself to arbitrary rules, and why self-love is key as you change the agreements you hold yourself to.

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Learning how to show up and keep showing up for myself has been the secret to becoming the version of myself I am today, and in this episode, I’m guiding you through practicing this for yourself. Showing up for my own sake has given me the dreamy life experience I could only imagine for the longest time, and you’re worthy of it too.

Discover why I believe showing up for yourself is the answer to everything in life, and how to become the version of you who trusts yourself more than anyone else. I’m sharing the benefits I’ve experienced that have come from learning to live in this way, and what you might have to let go of to be the ultimate shower-upper in your own life. 

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Have you found yourself with less energy lately? It could be that you’re spending way too much time focused on other people's business, which is why this episode is all about staying out of other people's relationships. It’s a big step towards creating a simpler, happier, more streamlined life for yourself!

Learn how you may unknowingly be involved in other people’s relationships, as well as how to stop gossiping and, instead, foster meaningful conversations en route to a more emotionally mature, vibrant, and happy you.

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Everything we truly desire in the second half of life is scary. It feels scary to want it, to say it out loud, and to stay committed until we achieve it. If you’re tired of quitting on yourself out of fear and instead are ready to become the boss of your own life, who goes after everything you want as if your life depends on it, you’re in the right place.

Learn three ways to get what you want. Hear why fearless decision-making is a superpower, how to create a consistent plan that sets you up for success, the importance of breaking free from codependency and people pleasing, and some of the amazing things I’ve created from unwavering self-trust. 

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Our brains are programmed to fixate on all our ‘problems,’ and I’m here to tell you that there’s more available to you than your brain is letting you believe. Focusing on and dramatizing your so-called problems is a huge energy leak that’s taking you in the wrong direction, whereas thinking bigger gives you a dreamy life you’re obsessed with.

Learn what thinking bigger means, and how this practice feeds your goals, wants, and dreams in a way that makes your life experience amazing. Hear what happens when you stop feeding your brain problems and how I’m practicing thinking bigger in my own life every single day.

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I’m convinced that being chic and stylish in the second half of life will up-level every single thing about you and how you feel every day. I have found a style that is totally me, and it’s stopped me from feeling stuck, frustrated, and even stressed about how I want to dress.

Discover how embracing style in the second half of life changes everything. I’m showing you how to start considering your own individual style, and you’ll learn to start curating your closet with clothes that represent the woman you’re becoming, not the woman that you once were.

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If you want to let go of worrying and stop going there, the first thing you need to do is practice thinking less worrying thoughts. This principle is super simple and you can apply it to anything you want to create. If you’re ready to start being obsessed with your life, this episode is for you.

Tune in this week to train your brain so you can create a life you’re truly obsessed with. I’m showing you why your brain thinks worrying and creating negative energy is useful, why these kinds of thought patterns never serve you, and learn why you’re capable of figuring everything out as you go along.

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In 2024, you’re going to be mentally, emotionally, and physically stronger. In 12 months, you’re going to look back on the best year of your life. We start right now, the first week of January, it’s our year, and I’m giving you some ideas to make sure you make the most of this opportunity to start again with a clean slate.

Everything is possible for you this year. We can excel at anything we want when we train, so tune in this week to start your rigorous training for 2024. I’m showing you how to recognize the ways your brain tries to keep you stuck, and I’m giving you some new thoughts to try on so you can achieve anything you want with clarity and consistency this year.

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This is the perfect episode for you to hear before you set your New Year’s resolutions and start working towards your 2024 goals. Whether you want to become healthier, revitalize your marriage, learn a new skill, or find peace in your relationship with your kids, the wanting part is easy. The achieving of it, on the other hand, requires more of you.

Tune in this week as I share the secrets to reaching your goals, no matter what life throws your way. Hear how to turn your goals from something you envision into reality, and my top tips for making your goals inevitable in 2024. 

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2023 has been my favorite year by far, and I believe it’s the story I tell about this year that has made it amazing. I’m grateful for the people in my life, the decisions I’ve made, my business, and my mindset. I’ve discovered what I’m truly capable of this year, and to celebrate the close of 2023, I’m sharing a few of my favorite things. 

Join me this week to hear why 2023 has been my favorite year by far and a few highlights that have made it incredible. I’m sharing the goals I’m pursuing in 2024, why it’s always your choice to create the experience you want, and how to launch the life that you’re only dreaming of right now in 2024.

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If you’re waiting for the love of your life to come along, you don’t have to wait any longer. The truth is, you are the love of your life. Showing up for yourself with that level of intention, endearment, and commitment will change everything for you.

Tune in this week to discover why you are the love of your life. Learn why you need to start showing up as the love of our life, how to be both the writer and the hero of your own story, and I’m sharing an example of somebody who is truly the love of their own life.

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A year can make a big difference in who you want to be as a woman in the second half of life, and what I’m sharing with you today is going to get you started. Everything changed for me when I decided to lovingly detach myself from everything outside of me and lovingly attach to myself instead, and I’m showing you how on this episode. 

Listen in this week to learn what it means to be lovingly unattached to anything external to you, and lovingly attached to you and the thoughts that keep you growing towards the dream life you want. Hear how everything you truly desire is always an inside job, and why doing the work will guarantee a different woman at the end of 2024. 

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Do you find that your emotions run high during the holidays? You don’t want people to feel like they have to walk on eggshells around you, and you don't want to be emotionally reactive or volatile. Instead, this week I’m showing you how to show up as your best self during the holidays.

Learn my four-step process for not only having happy holidays but an extremely happy life. Hear how to gain awareness of and override the thoughts that aren’t serving you, some of my favorite go-to thoughts that keep me calm, steady, and sure, and how to be in charge of your brain and nervous system at all times.

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There is no one like you on this planet, and there never will be. You lack nothing because you are everything. Realizing how magical and amazing you are is truly life-changing, and I’m inviting you to start seeing yourself this way.

Hear how being a witness to your own greatness is the path to creating your dream life. I’m showing you the power of believing you are everything, what happens when you truly feel loved by yourself, and how to start pulling yourself out of the ho-hummery you’ve been spiraling in.

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The unknown is probably the biggest thing our brains are afraid of in the second half of life. We all want to feel safe and secure, which means knowing exactly what to expect. However, what I’m selling you on this week is that the great unknown is so much more fun and thrilling than attempting to have control. 

Join me this week to hear how I like thinking about the great unknown. I’m showing you the benefit of believing the universe is always conspiring in your favor, even if you can’t see a clear path right now, and why opening your arms to the unknown is the secret to living the life of your dreams.

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If you’re stuck in the same old routines and you’re not growing or really experiencing any joy in your life, magical thinking is the answer. You might think there’s no way out of your ho-hum life, but you actually have limitless potential, and magical thinking is the way to realize it.

Discover how you’re creating your own experience of the second half of your life and why magical thinking is your ticket to creating a joyous, impressive, and optimistic experience. I’m showing you how to embody positive energy every day, and see how your life will change as a direct result of magical thinking.

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I believe that the secret to getting everything we want in the second half of life comes from being gritty, resourceful, resilient, and unstoppable as a result. We have so much more power to not only create our dream lives, but to touch the lives of those around us when we believe we’re unstoppable.

Join me on this episode to hear what being unstoppable as women in the second half of life means to me. I’m sharing the work we have to commit to if we want to become unstoppable, and some simple exercises you can practice to grow your capacity for resourcefulness and resiliency.

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Dropping into fearful energy is something we’re so practiced at as women in this phase of life. We make excuses for every obstacle we face and believe the self-doubting thoughts our brains offer us, and as a result, sabotage the growth that’s available to us. However, you can rise above all of it by deciding you are awesome.

Discover how you can overcome everything that comes your way as long as you stop making excuses. Hear why embracing your greatness will always pay off, how truly nothing ever has to be a problem, and why you’re in the perfect place right now to start living into your awesomeness.

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