Savvy Girl's Guide to Heartbreak Survival Episode Seven
This episode discusses how betrayal can hollow us out, make us feel empty, lost and without a role to play, or anyway, without the role we used to play as beloved partner. Savvy Girl compares the journey to expanding or relaxing into her new life with the journey Shirley Valentine (1989 film) goes through when discovering that her life has become so small.
This episode discusses themes that occur later in the healing process. Stage I is full of panic, shock, grief and disbelief. Stage II brings acute, steady pain and rage. Stage III, the stage this episode speaks to, allows an exhale, and sees a Savvy Girl, while still scared and hurt, willing to glance out her window to begin dreaming of a life larger than the reductive: Savvy Girl who has been betrayed.