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    Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinger Podcast

    Embark on your adventures in swinging with Swinger University, the premier podcast that equips you with the knowledge and tools to succeed. We help you explore your sexual boundaries with confidence, allowing you to grow as a couple and as an individual.

     

    Join Ed and Phoebe as they share over 10 years of personal stories, expert advice, and insightful discussions, transforming your swinger experience into a fulfilling and enriching adventure.

     

    Whether you're a curious newcomer or a seasoned lifestyler, Swinger University caters to every stage of your swinger journey:

     

    • Swinger Newbies: Discover the essential steps to embark on your swinger adventure, from exploring your desires to setting boundaries and navigating the swinger scene.

     

    • Swinger Vacation: Plan the ultimate swinger getaway with expert tips on selecting the perfect destination, navigating etiquette, and maximizing your enjoyment.

     

    • Swinger Communication: Master the art of open and honest communication, the cornerstone of successful swinging relationships.

     

    • Swinger Tips: Unleash a treasure trove of practical tips and insights to enhance your swinger experiences, from setting the mood to maintaining a healthy relationship, overcoming jealousy, and managing expectations.

     

    • Sexual Health: Prioritize your well-being with expert guidance on sexual health practices, safe sex practices, and navigating STI prevention.

     

    • Sex Positive: Embrace a sex-positive mindset, fostering self-acceptance, exploring your desires, and celebrating diverse sexualities.

     

    • Swinger Struggles: Find support and guidance as you navigate the ups and downs of the swinger lifestyle.

     

    • Swinger Lifestyle: Delve into the intricacies of the swinger lifestyle, exploring its nuances, challenges, and rewards.

     

    Why Swinger University?

     

    • Unwavering Focus: We stay on topic, providing in-depth exploration of each subject.

     

    • Concise and Engaging: We avoid rambling off-topic, ensuring each episode is packed with valuable insights without wasting your time.

     

    • Thorough Research: We meticulously research every topic, delivering accurate and up-to-date information.

     

    • High-Quality Production: We pride ourselves on delivering exceptional audio and video quality for an immersive listening and watching experience.

     

    Join the Swinger University Community

     

    We've had the privilege of interviewing esteemed guests such as Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K.,  and Curious Girl's Diaries, to name a few, gaining valuable perspectives from industry experts. Our comprehensive topics cover getting started, sexual health, sex lubes, swinger clothes, sex therapy, kink, lifestyle cruises, destination vacations, and much more.

     

    Swinger University is recognized as one of the top-rated swinger podcasts, and has received 5 fan-nominated ASN award nominations in 2023.

     

    Subscribe Today and Elevate Your Swinger Experience

     

    Tune in to Swinger University and embark on a journey of self-discovery, fulfillment, and unparalleled pleasure. Learn from the community's favorite swingers, Ed and Phoebe Swinger, as they guide you through the exciting world of swinging.

     

    Be sure to join our growing Patreon community, and gain access to behind-the-scenes, and extra-sexy content.

     

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    Breaking Free from the Pink Box: Challenging Society's Beauty Standards

    Breaking Free from the Pink Box: Challenging Society's Beauty Standards

    Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception.

    Discover the variety of colors that vulvas come in and the factors, from genetics to hormones, influencing their appearance. Ed, a seasoned swinger, shares insights on the diversity he has encountered in the lifestyle. The hosts address common concerns and insecurities, providing information on why labia may appear darker and the potential risks associated with attempting to alter their natural color.

    Uncover the truth about beauty standards and learn to love your body as it is. Ed and Phoebe discuss the importance of embracing uniqueness, challenging societal expectations, and appreciating the beauty of all vulvas, regardless of color or shape.
    Highlights:

    1. The Pink Standard: Explore the origins of the pink vulva standard and its prevalence in media, from porn to magazines.
    2. Diversity in the Lifestyle: Ed shares his experiences as a swinger, highlighting the range of vulva colors and shapes he has encountered.
    3. Factors Influencing Color: Learn about the various factors, including genetics, hormones, and age, that contribute to the coloration of the vulva.
    4. Insecurities and Social Media: Discuss the impact of social media on body image and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards.
    5. Risks of Altering Appearance: Delve into the potential risks and dangers associated with using creams, chemicals, and surgeries to change vulva appearance.
    6. Natural Solutions: Explore safer alternatives, such as lifestyle changes and laser treatments, for those who wish to address concerns about vulva color.
    7. Self-Love and Acceptance: Emphasize the importance of loving and accepting your body as it is, challenging societal norms, and celebrating the uniqueness of every vulva.

     #LoveYourVulva #BodyPositivity #SwingerUniversity #EmbraceDiversity #SelfLove #swingerpodcast #Podcast #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy 

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    Dreaming in Ecstasy: The Fascinating World of Nocturnal Female Orgasms

    Dreaming in Ecstasy: The Fascinating World of Nocturnal Female Orgasms

    🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨

    🛌 In this episode, the hosts of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe, dive into the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. Grab your pillows and join the conversation as they explore the intriguing topic of female sleep orgasms.

    💭 Discover the unique experiences of nocturnal pleasures, the causes behind them, and how they vary from person to person. From hormone fluctuations to relaxation during REM sleep, Ed and Phoebe leave no aspect untouched.

    📈 Key Topics Discussed:

    1. Definition of Female Sleep Orgasms
    2. Causes and Triggers
    3. Frequency and Normalcy
    4. Signs and Indicators
    5. Influence of Sexual Activity
    6. Tips for Enhancing Nocturnal Orgasms

    🕐 Timestamps for Important Moments:

    • 05:42: Exploring the uniqueness of female sleep orgasms
    • 12:18: Factors influencing the frequency and experiences
    • 22:36: Understanding signs and indicators of nocturnal pleasures
    • 31:09: The role of sexual activity in enhancing sleep orgasms
    • 40:15: Tips for those wanting to experience or enhance their nocturnal delights

    🌟 Call-to-Action:
    Ready to explore the world of slumber sensations? Hit the like button, subscribe for more intriguing discussions, and share this episode with your friends. Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments below. Sweet dreams, pleasure seekers! 🌙💤✨

    🔗 Connect with Swinger University:
    Leave a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit swingernuniversity.com to stay connected with our community. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy.

    #MidnightDelights #SleepOrgasms #SwingerUniversity #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy #DreamyAdventure #NocturnalPleasures #SexEducation #LikeSubscribeShare

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    Taking One for the Team - Do You Compromise?

    Taking One for the Team - Do You Compromise?

    Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community.

     Key Topics:

    • Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of saying 'no' confidently.
    • Team 'Yes': Embracing enthusiastic and lukewarm yeses, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the flexibility of boundaries.
    • Keeping Score: The controversial practice of tallying encounters, the potential pitfalls, and ways to navigate this delicate territory.
    • IOUs and Obligations: Exploring the thin line between consent and obligation, the impact on relationships, and the importance of open communication.
    • Respect and Guilt: Unpacking feelings of resentment, guilt, and the role of respect in the self, relationships, and with play partners.

     

    Call-to-Action:

    Explore the nuances of the swinging lifestyle with us! Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. What are your experiences with Team 'No' and Team 'Yes'? Let's continue this conversation and build a community where open communication and respect thrive.

     

    #SwingingLifestyle #ConsentInSwinging #OpenCommunication #RelationshipAgreements #PodcastDiscussion

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    Swinger Lifestyle Exposed: 10 Things That Suck about the Lifestyle

    Swinger Lifestyle Exposed: 10 Things That Suck about the Lifestyle

    There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable experience.

    Highlights: 

    1. Balancing "vanilla life" with Swinger adventures.
    2. Coping with career demands and unconventional work schedules.
    3. Managing hormonal fluctuations and periods in the Swinger world.
    4. Unprogramming social conditioning to embrace non-monogamous relationships.
    5. Adapting to changing desires and boundaries in your Swinger journey.
    6. Escaping the endless cycle of online profiles and connecting in real life.
    7. Handling disrespectful behavior and setting boundaries during play.
    8. Recognizing when it's time to take a break and reassess your Swinger journey.

     Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to spread the knowledge and join our Patreon community for exclusive content. For questions or comments, leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit our website at SwingerUniversity.com to connect with us.

     Explore the world of ethical non-monogamy with Swinger University and get ready to conquer the challenges of the Swinger lifestyle!

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    30 Days in a Cage - The LOCKtober Challenge

    30 Days in a Cage - The LOCKtober Challenge

    Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in Locktober. We discuss its fascinating impact on his relationship and his personal experiences.

     Join us as we explore the following topics:

    •  How Mr. Red got started in chastity and swinging
    • Stories from some of his experiences with the challenge
    • The mental and emotional aspects of chastity
    • The effect on intimacy and relationships
    • Expert insights into the world of Locktober

     Whether you're a seasoned Locktober participant or merely curious about the concept, this episode promises to provide valuable insights and ignite engaging conversations. Our special guest, Mr. Red, shares his own experiences and valuable perspective on the Locktober challenge.

     If you're looking to gain a deeper understanding of this captivating journey or simply interested in hearing some intriguing tales, don't miss this episode of Swinger University! Like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated with our latest content.

     Join us on this enlightening and exciting exploration of Locktober and discover what it truly means to embrace the challenge. Your key to unlocking this unique episode is just a click away!

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    Folsom Street Fair: A Liberating Experience

    Folsom Street Fair: A Liberating Experience

    🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sexual liberation and openness, where self-expression knows no bounds. From public displays of affection to kink demonstrations, this episode dives deep into the heart of one of the world's most unique events. Explore the no-judgment atmosphere, connect with fellow attendees, and learn how this experience can empower individuals to embrace their sexuality.

    📢 Discover personal accounts, witness extraordinary kinks, and gain insights from the diverse individuals Ed and Phoebe encounter. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode sheds light on the power of sexual freedom and self-discovery.

    Highlights:

    👉 00:00 - Introduction to Folsom Street Fair and hosts Ed and Phoebe.

    👉 05:45 - The unique and liberating atmosphere of Folsom Street Fair.

    👉 11:20 - Observing the spectrum of kinks and self-expression.

    👉 18:12 - Interviews with attendees sharing their thoughts on the fair.

    👉 25:36 - A look at public sex and its acceptance at the event.

    👉 30:55 - Meeting sex therapist Yub Kim and discussing shame and stigma.

    👉 36:40 - Listener questions on introducing swinging to a partner.

    👉 43:20 - Tips for starting a conversation about swinging with your partner.

    👉 49:10 - Exploring the Swinger University YouTube channel for more resources.

    Join Swinger University's open-minded community, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode. Your support helps us continue breaking down stigmas and promoting sexual positivity. Share your thoughts and experiences with us at swingeruniversity.com or by leaving a voicemail at 916-538-0482. Keep learning, growing, and embracing your sexual journey with Swinger University.

    👍 Like, ✅ Subscribe, and 📣 Share this eye-opening episode to celebrate sexual liberation and promote open conversation!

    Sources

    https://www.folsomstreet.org/

    https://www.thechaingang.com/blog/effective-ball-stretching-guide-for-beginners/

    https://getmegiddy.com/scrotum-stretching

    https://www.powerexchange.com/

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    Gossip and Bullying in the lifestyle - What should you do?

    Gossip and Bullying in the lifestyle - What should you do?

    Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Learn about the nuances of good and bad gossip, how to handle negativity and bullying, and discover the power of effective communication within the community.


    🔍 Key Topics & Timestamps:

    0:00 - Introduction: Ethical Non-Monogamy & Gossip

    1:34 - What is Gossip, and Why Do We Do It?

    7:12 - The Historical Significance of Gossip

    10:58 - Gossip as a Tool for Building Trust

    15:20 - The Importance of Social Skills

    19:03 - Strategies to Combat Negative Gossip

    22:41 - Real-Life Examples & Impact of Gossip

    27:09 - Speaking Up & Addressing Conflicts

    29:58 - Event Organizers' Role in Maintaining a Safe Community


    🗣️ Listener Engagement:

    Have you encountered good gossip or bullying in the lifestyle community? Share your experiences, thoughts, and insights in the comments below!

    Remember to like, subscribe, and share this episode to help us spread knowledge and foster a respectful and inclusive swinger community.

    ✨ Join our Patreon community for exclusive behind-the-scenes content and extra insights.

    📞 Leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 with your questions, comments, or suggestions.

    🌐 Visit our website at swingeryuniversity.com for more resources and contact information.

    Thank you for being a part of our community at Swinger University. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy!

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    Testosterone Replacement - Are You Sure It's Good for You?

    Testosterone Replacement - Are You Sure It's Good for You?

    As we've matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women's issues in a previous episode about hormone replacement for Women. Gentlemen, today it's your turn to get the low down on low Testosterone.
     OUTLINE: 
      I. Reasons:
       I. Symptoms/Benefits:
        I. Libido, body fat, muscle, mood, energy, bone density, and quality of erections
       II. Testosterone's purpose
        I. Hypogonadism
        II. Less indication for "healthy" men
        III. "May" prevent issues as we get older
       
      II. Methods:
       I. Pellets - painful, less fat, scars
       II. Injections - less painful
        I. 2 weeks - big dose, taper off over time, intramuscular
        II. 1 week - less highs/lows, easier to remember, traditionally intramuscular
        III. Daily - It's a routine, less painful, subcutaneous
      III. Testing
       I. If you have symptoms
       II. Before for baseline
       III. After a month or so to see your levels
       IV. Annual testing once the dose is sorted out
       V. It's complicated…
      IV. Side effects
       I. Acne, hair growth, sleep apnea
       II. Increased risk of Heart attacks, stroke
       III. Reduced sperm production
       IV. Estrogen, 
        I. 0.3% converted
        II. resulting in breast tissue, and prostate enlargement
        III. Testing for estrogen
        IV. Estrogen blocker - aromatase inhibitors (some doctors disagree with this approach)
      V. Cautions
       I. No long term testing - benefits / Risks
       II. "For those who have low testosterone levels but no symptoms, treatment isn't recommended. It's also not recommended for those whose levels are low because of aging."

    Sources:
    https://youtu.be/GNCpG1fkMBA?t=5514

     Testosterone calculator
     https://www.issam.ch/freetesto.htm
     
     https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/in-depth/testosterone-therapy/art-20045728
     
     https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/testosterone-replacement-therapy-is-it-right-for-you

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    Testosterone therapy for women. Is it safe for you?

    Testosterone therapy for women. Is it safe for you?

    In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as celebrity endorsements. The claims associated with this therapy are numerous, ranging from transforming libido to reducing brain fog, improving energy and mood, staving off dementia, enhancing bone strength, and maintaining muscle mass. However, it is essential to scrutinize these claims and evaluate the available scientific studies before considering testosterone therapy for women.

     OUTLINE: 

    • Media Dominance
    • Benefit Claims: fog, mood, energy, dementia, bones, muscle 
    • Medical Studies on Claims  
    • Women Exploited? 
    • Risks & Side Effects 
    • Testosterone Over A Woman’s Lifespan  
    • Where does Testosterone Come from? - Conversion 
    • Ovary Function - Menopause 
    • Reasons to Prescribe 
    • Clinical Trial Results 
    • 'T' Levels Don't Always Correlate With Symptoms
    • Reasons To Promote - Profit 
    • FOMO 

    All our links: https://SwingLinks.club

     SOURCES:

    Full sources are available on our website...

    Is the Male Sex Hormone Putting Mid-Life Women at Risk?

    Testosterone for peri- and postmenopausal women

    Yen & Jaffe's Reproductive Endocrinology - Physiology, Pathophysiology, and Clinical Management

    Androgen levels in adult females: changes with age, menopause, and oophorectomy

    Global Consensus Position Statement on the Use of Testosterone Therapy for Women

    International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health Clinical Practice Guideline for the Use of Systemic Testosterone for Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder in Women

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    Is Bioidentical Hormone Replacement (BHRT) Right for You?

    Is Bioidentical Hormone Replacement (BHRT) Right for You?

    Menopause is a phase in a woman's life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mass, fat distribution, libido, mood swings, cholesterol levels, and the risk of heart disease. However, the historical narrative surrounding Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) has created misconceptions and fear, largely influenced by the miscommunication of the findings from the WHI study in 2002, which reported an increased risk of breast cancer among HRT users. 

    This misrepresentation has persisted, limiting women's access to potentially beneficial treatment options. It is important to be cautious of false narratives propagated through social media and celebrities, seeking reliable information sources instead. Consulting healthcare professionals specializing in menopause, such as endocrinologists, is crucial when considering relief options. 

    Additionally, careful research should be conducted before using vitamins and supplements marketed for menopause management. Hormone therapy is not a quick fix, requiring patience and informed guidance from knowledgeable healthcare providers. By navigating menopause with the right information and support, women can improve their overall well-being.

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    SOURCES:

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    😯 The Condom Slipped Off! How To Have "THE" Conversation

    😯 The Condom Slipped Off! How To Have "THE" Conversation

    Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off?  How was it communicated to you?  What was your reaction?  Can you come back from this?

    Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent.  We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.

    OUTLINE: 

    What do you do when the condom slips off during play? 

    • Brush it off? 
    • Address it? 
    • Ghost the person?

    Who is at fault?

    • User?
    • Recipient?

    How does it happen?

    • Dark room
    • Sex position

    Our story: 

    • Type of friendship
    • Length of friendship
    • The situation
    • Lack of disclosure

    How to have the conversation:

    • Tell them what happened ahead of time
    • Don't blindside them
    • Express you aren't ready to talk about it
    • Set a date
    • Gives them time to process also 

    Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is Broken

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    Negative Swinger Reactions to the No Kissing Rule

    Negative Swinger Reactions to the No Kissing Rule

    We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle.

    To shed light on the matter, we combed through a survey involving 386 individuals, and the results were nothing short of intriguing. We discovered a wide range of opinions, showcasing both the positive and negative aspects of kissing. 

    So, if you'd like to understand more and have an inclusive attitude towards swingers who have this rule, we take you through the psychology, biology, cultural influences, and personal experiences surrounding kissing. 

    Whether you're a passionate pucker-upper or someone who prefers to express affection through alternative means, join us on this hilarious and informative journey as we navigate the world of kissing with compassion, understanding, and a healthy dose of humor.

    Warning: Listening to this podcast may cause an irresistible urge to lock lips with someone nearby….or NOT! Kiss responsibly!

    1. "NO Kissing" Rule:
      • Reasons and perspectives.
      • Psychological factors, personal experiences, and misconceptions.
      • Balancing boundaries and intimacy.
    2. The Impact of Kissing on Emotional Connection and Relationship Satisfaction:
      • Emotional bonding and attachment.
      • Oxytocin and neurochemical effects.
      • Correlation and communication.
    3. Navigating Diverse Preferences and Negotiating Consent:
      • Personal Boundaries and Preferences
      • Negotiating Consent
    4. Respecting Others' Choices:
    5. Non-judgmental attitude and empathy.
    6. Conclusion
      •  Embracing Diversity and Personal Freedom
      • No universal approach.
      • Respecting desires and choices.
      • Nurturing Healthy Connections:
      • Consent, communication, and respect.
      • Emotional satisfaction.
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    Costa Rica 2023 - Days 5-7

    Costa Rica 2023 - Days 5-7

    In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe recap the past few days of their vacation. They discuss their excursions to the waterfall and the fun they had taking sexy photos near the banyan trees. They also talk about the pole dance night at the resort, where they participated in a competition and Ed ended up winning. They share details about the routines and costumes, including Phoebe's revealing outfit. The hosts also mention the body shot roulette and their time in the hot tub with other couples. They emphasize the intimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacation, where they've had the chance to connect with everyone. The episode ends with their relaxing free day and a dinner outing with friends in town.

    Highlights:

    • Excursion to the waterfall and sexy photos near the banyan trees
    • Pole dance night competition and Ed winning
    • Phoebe's revealing outfit and fun routines
    • Body shot roulette and time in the hot tub with other couples
    • Intimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacation
    • Relaxing free day and dinner outing with friends
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    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 4

    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 4

    Welcome to day four of Ed and Phoebe's trip to Costa Rica. They are currently at Hotel Jaco in Jako, sitting outside the bar on a picnic table with a view of the ocean. They're enjoying their vacation and feeling relaxed. They talk about the previous day, which was a free day for the guests to do their own excursions. Many people went on a chocolate tour, where they learned about the process of making chocolate from cacao beans. Ed and Phoebe found it more interesting than expected. After the tour, they enjoyed some pool time, and things got frisky with great conversations and bonding among the guests. They mention the strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple who brought their toys and implements. Some people participated while others relaxed in the pool. The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples.

     

    Highlights:

    • Ed and Phoebe are enjoying their vacation in Costa Rica at Hotel Jaco.
    • Guests had a free day and went on a chocolate tour, which was more interesting than expected.
    • Pool time was filled with great conversations and bonding among the guests.
    • There was a strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple with a fully equipped playroom.
    • The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples.
    • Guests have the freedom to choose their level of participation during the trip.
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    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 3

    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 3

    In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, including pool games like a unique ring toss game involving a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings. They discuss the poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent, sharing insights on how to make consent sexy and navigate its nuances. They mention the evening's fancy, not formal theme and the lingerie party with a toy demo, including various types of toys and a Sybian demonstration. They end the episode by mentioning their plans for the following day, which include a chocolate factory tour and various excursions.

    Highlights:

    • Pool time with socializing, friskiness, and pool games
    • Unique ring toss game with a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings
    • Poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent
    • Fancy, not formal theme for the evening with a lingerie party and toy demo
    • Excursions planned for the following day, including a chocolate factory tour and crocodile tours
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    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 2

    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 2

    In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, Ed and Phoebe share their experiences on day 1 of their Costa Rica Takeover. They talk about the orientation day, a unique speed dating event where participants match nuts and bolts, and their delicious dinner. They also discuss their bar-hopping adventure in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin. The hosts mention the lively atmosphere, dancing, and even their encounter with the local sex work industry. They conclude with a mention of pool time, including the inflatable bull ride competition.

     

    Highlights:

    • Orientation day and speed dating with nuts and bolts matching
    • Delicious dinner with fish, rice, beans, and plantains
    • Bar-hopping in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin
    • Lively atmosphere, dancing, and TikTok videos
    • Observing the local sex work industry and the unique dynamics in Costa Rica
    • Pool time, including the inflatable bull ride competition
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    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 1

    Costa Rica 2023 - Day 1

    Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University podcast, are in Costa Rica to celebrate their anniversary. They talk about their experiences in Costa Rica, including their visit to Arenal Volcano and the hot springs, excursions to waterfalls, and exploring the town of Jaco. They mention the affordable prices, family-friendly resorts, and the fun they had with a group of friends. They also tease some spicy details from a card game they played but mention that those details can only be found on their Patreon episode.

    Highlights:

    • Ed and Phoebe celebrate their anniversary in Costa Rica.
    • They explore Arenal Volcano and enjoy the hot springs.
    • They visit waterfalls and take excursions with a tour guide.
    • They have fun in Jaco, enjoying seafood restaurants and beach views.
    • Ed and Phoebe's group hijacks a taxi and has an adventurous ride home.
    • They play a card game involving truth or dare, leading to some spicy moments.
    • They mention the upcoming activities, including a meet and greet, dinner, and a tour of the town.
    • Prostitution is legal in Costa Rica, and they talk about the Cocal hotel.
    • They express excitement about the upcoming playroom activities and the expectations of the group.

     #swingerpodcast #resorttakeover #swingervacation #costarica

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    Is a Prince Albert Piercing Sexually Satisfying?

    Is a Prince Albert Piercing Sexually Satisfying?

    In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision?

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    What is a Prince Alert or PA?

    • Genital piercings
    • Describe the PA
    • Origin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) 
    • Most popular origin

    Benefits

    • Stimulation for both partners
    • Certain position work better
    • Reverse PA for other positions
    • Mileage may vary
    • Visually appealing, if your into it
    • Rings and bent barbells for interesting looks
    • Wands - for sounding! 
    • Party trick - Happy to show
    • Phoebe’s experience

    Healing

    • Pretty quick 2-4 weeks Sometimes longer (6-8)
    • No sex while healing
    • Clean and care - talk to piercer
    • I started with a 10 gauge, stretched to a 6 gauge
    • Thicker jewelry usually migrates less

    Downsides

    • Some partners don’t even notice, or worse, it annoys them
    • Teeth and jewelry painful
    • Painful to get
    • Nerve damage
    • Increased risk of infections
    • Condom breakage
    • Irritation of urethra and piercing site
    • UTIs
    • Rejection
    • Jewelry collisions (ouch) and entanglements
    • Ed’s #1 - peeing is weird

    Ask Your Piercer

    • Interview them 
      • how long in business
      • Reputation online
      • Shop conditions - cleanliness
    • Get their run down on 
      • Cost
      • Healing
      • After care
      • Size of jewelry to start with
      • Recommended final size


    REFERENCES: 

    How Does A Prince Albert Work?

    Prince Albert Piercings

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    'Cunt' to Waxing: A Hairy Journey Through Time

    'Cunt' to Waxing: A Hairy Journey Through Time

    We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck "cunt" is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there!  So get ready for a deep dive as we shed some light on their history and cultural significance. 

    SOURCES

    A Brief History Of The C-Word

    Cultural History of Pubic Hair

    How Hair Removal Becam A Beauty Standard

    History of Sex & Sexuality

    What's So Bad About the C-Word?

    When Did Women Start Shaving?

    The History of Female Hair Removal

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    Moaning In The Bedroom - You Should Do It

    Moaning In The Bedroom - You Should Do It

    In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.

    • Sound = Important Role in Life
    • Form of communication
    • Faking = wrong road map!
    • Tips for those feeling self-conscious
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