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While the world has indeed shifted since Ginger and Ryanrecorded this meandering conversation about plans for 2020, the commitment to personal growth is as important as ever. Enjoy this second half of their deep and optimistic musings on one lovely Sunday afternoon.

It's a Sunday morning, well, afternoon actually after an especially adventurous night. Ginger and Ryan are lounging in the afterglow. The conversation then turns deep and introspective as they explore where their paths have taken them over the last year. From flogging to magic to future intentions, join Gin and Prof as they contemplate how they'll continue to push their edges in 2020.

Ginger and Ryan take you for another sail while they reflect on communication in relationships. Healthy and unhealthy, effective and ineffective, and strategies for moving through the simultaneity of emotion and challenging communication. In this longer episode the first fifteen minutes of the journey are breezier than usual, but hang with it, dear listeners, sailing season has come to an end. They play together with the concepts of intimacy and vulnerability and how to celebrate both in communication. Ginger and Ryan tell stories from life as examples of how to move toward the most loving and effective relationship communication and reflect on their meditation practice and how it relates.

Ginger and Ryan get frisky and talk orgasms while sailing. While orgasms obtained by any method are delightful, some climaxes create a little more toe curlin' than others. Ginger puts Ryan on the spot to name his top five ways to orgasm and she returns the favor. Come aboard! (Heh.) 

If there's one thing Ari Astor has demonstrated to us is that he's a master of creating films that demand to be talked about. Midsommer, one of the most fascinating and debateable films of the year continues the somewhat obscure genre of folk horror. Tonight we discuss it's double-feature worthy connection to one of the grand daddy's of folk horror, The Wicker Man.

Tonight's discussion features Cooper S. Beckett, Terry Mesnard, and Lara Unnerstall.

Ginger and Ryan invite you onto the deck in the sunshine as they opine about one of their favorite sex positions! Eventually they get to talking about different apps, media, and technology that cultivate intimacy between the two of them and also among their whole polycule. One part saucy storytelling, one part tech discussion, and one part exploring what creates intimacy; shaken, not stirred, then sipped while listening to the city and seascape in the background.

In the first ever episode with guests, Ginger and Ryan are joined by Dr. Dave and Dylan in a bedcast from our trip to Naughty in N'awlins after a stellar dinner and then a creative round one of sexy time. All manner of New Orleans reflection including delicious food, drinks, and desserts parlay back into round two of sexy time for the evening. Prepare to find yourselves hot and bothered not only by the spicy conversation, but also the incidental pleasure sounds from the stage bed in that Naughty in N’awlins penthouse. While this episode may still be considered intellectual, it is heavy on the foreplay, sapiosexuals. Prepare yourselves accordingly.

Ginger and Ryan dig deep into their own relationship, as well as their current and past poly relationships and explore what's worked for them and where they've fallen short. They call this process 'holding up the mirror' for each other to reflect back to each other the real thoughts and emotions they've experienced in their own relationship, as well as with their poly partners. Ginger courageously owns her own past mistakes around "re-entry" from when Ryan had sexual experiences that didn't include her.

Ginger and Ryan pickup from the story of his multiple strokes in Episode 14 and discuss how it's impacted their relationship and life perspectives. (Part 2 of 2)

Ginger and Ryan (aka Prof) reveal the story of Prof’s multiple strokes and the myriad ways that this near death experience has shifted both their perspectives and impacted their relationship. (Part 1 of 2)

Consultant in sexual health for the UN and free Union Square Park sex advisor, Francisco Ramirez, and online Domme and burlesque performer, Lulu Kramer, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on March 31st, 2018 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about the Walmart nude photo ban, eating Tide Pods, Medieval Times, SESTA/FOSTA, the fucked-up economy, threesomes, the Craigslist personals shutdown, banana dick, white privilege and polyamory, whipping jealousy in the butt, favorite sex toys, sex playlists, and first vibrators.

You can find Francisco Ramirez on Twitter @fransisconyc, and on his website Franciscoramirez.com. You can also find him giving out free sex advice in Union Square Park every weekend.

You can find Lulu Kramer on Twitter @lulukramersays, and on her Tumblr lulukramerkitten. You can also find her work under Lulu Kramer on Pornhub.

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com

Also a shout-out to the Effing Foundation for giving SEAGG a grant! You can find out more about the foundation on Twitter @effingfound, or on their website effing.org.

The trembling flower of submission and BDSM educator, Mollena Williams-Haas, and the beast of burlesque and sex worker rights advocate, Motherfuckin Akynos, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on October 28th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sex worker rights, libido changes, The Artist and The Pervert, fucking to forget assholes, healing dick, nutcrackers, stopping mediocre dick from ruining your life, Postmates, titen, merkins, the Condoms as Evidence bill, racism, beginning kink, pet play, and MDMA therapy.

You can find Mollena Williams-Hass on Twitter @mollena, or on her website mollena.com. Also check out her documentary The Artist and the Pervert.

You can find Akynos on Twitter @akynos, and on her website akynos.com.

Also check out her webseries Whore Logic on Youtube, as well as the following sex worker rights groups she endorses: Desiree Alliance, Sex Worker Film and Arts Festival, SWOP NYC, Best Practices Policies Project, We are Dancers, and the New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance.

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com

Expert bra fitter and body positive media content creator, Kimmay Caldwell, and the human tornado of burlesque and Switch and Play Drag collective member, Divina Gransparkle, joined Lola onstage for the first time at Otto’s Shrunken Head on September 30th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about popping cherries, Lola’s potential as a dominatrix coach, rollerblade blowjobs, the shits, prison, Martha Stewart porn, Lola’s first wax play experience, awkward makeout sessions, sexual report cards, Trump dick pillows, pussy sweat, measuring period blood, Dom dirty talk, the power of lipstick, peeing with Kegel balls in, nipple play, and beginner strap-on tips.

You can learn more about Kimmay Caldwell and her work by going to www.morethanmynumbers.com, or Hooraykimmay.com

You can find Divina Gransparkle on Instagram @divinagransparkle.

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com.

You can also find this episode’s sponsor, Njoy, at njoytoys.com