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Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas, got together in Toronto, Ontario, CA for Playground 2018 and put together a panel on Mortality. They talk about their experiences losing intimate partners... and how unprepared they were.

• Outro Music: Tails - Ghosted (feat. Pauline Herr)

Dylan Thomas

 

Dr. Liz Powell

Tonight the social club hosts our second takeover by Sex Educator and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Dirty Lola, and by the creator of Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind, Kevin Patterson. They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code switch or watch your tone, a space where you can be unequivocally and magically black. A space, they call, The Blackout.

Sex educator of “Bex Talks Sex”, Bex Caputo, and go-go dancer and stage kitten, Vera Safire, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this special episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew celebrate NYC Pride. The Pussy Posse talks about using the word “queer”, roleplay for beginners, keeping it sexy in a long-term relationship, Lola’s experience fucking in an igloo, afternoon delights, self-care, chipwiches, sexual identity, sexy punishments, and sex hangovers.

You can find Bex Caputo’s blog online, bextalkssex.com and listen to them online at The Dildorks Podcast.

You can Vera Safire on Twitter and Instagram, @verasafire.

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com.

You can visit this episode’s sponsor, Shag, on 108 Roebling St. in Brooklyn, or visit them online at weloveshag.com.

Recorded Live at Playground 2018: Come Together

Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas discuss mortality: an issue no one cares to address, but everyone eventually must face. Over the course of the discussion they discuss the stories of their loss, the things they weren't prepared for, the emotions death brought up, the things they wish they'd known, the things they wished they'd done, what they did to cope, and they offer tips on how to prepare for death; both yours and others'.

You can find discussion and the panel live tweets at #PGConfMortality.

You can find the resources referenced in this panel at Bit.ly/pgconfmortality.

Shira B. Katz has a brand new podcast called Cosmic Crush! Cosmic Crush is about all sorts of existential stuff - meditation, philosophy, magic, psychedelics, and all the stuff Shira promised never to talk to you about on Pedestrian Polyamory!  Wanna Join Shira during her existential freakout? Subscribe today on iTunes or whatever app you listen to podcasts on.

Sex educators Luna Matatas of Peg the Patriarchy fame and Taylor J. Mace of Feisty Fox Films and burlesque performer / producer, Zyra Lee Vanity, join Lola onstage at the Playground Conference on February 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

This episode was so good that it skipped the line so excuse us for bringing things to you out of order.

On this special episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, WE’RE IN CANADA!!!!!!!! Lola and her all Canadian crew brought the magic to the Playground Conference in Toronto. They chat about international Tinder adventures, conference sexy times, funniest oral sex moments, making that queer femme for femme connection, cute mugs, finding your sex positive self in a sex negative environment and how to deal with unwanted amorous attention.

You can find out more about Luna on Twitter @LunaMatatas and on LunaMatatas.com.

You can find Taylor J Mace on Twitter @TaylorJMace and TaylorJMace.com.

You can find Zyra Lee Vanity on Twitter @ZyraLeeVanity

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com.

Today, the club's taken over by none other than its host, Dylan Thomas, as he tells a story about a wonderful, intense, and surprisingly complex surprise experience he had recently with someone he never expected to connect with on an intimate level again. He talks dating, divorce, disappointment, reclamation, redemption, self-reflection, self-worth, the enormous value of both giving and taking true gratitude.

All this was recorded at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and with Dylan at @DylanTheThomas on Twitter, or on Facebook or Fetlife. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to dylan@lifeontheswingset.com. If you enjoy listening, toss a dollar into the tip jar at tip.gentleperverts.com.

• Outro Music: Mr. FijiWiji & Direct - Tomorrow (feat. Mat Van & Holly Drummond)

Freelance writer and cohost of podcast “The Jheri Curl Chronicles”, Mike Joseph, and the tiny dancer of burlesque and creator of YouTube series “Superboob”, Tiny D, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on May 27th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about poly love, the next sexual revolution, poly rights, front closed bras for big boobs, Lola’s teenage Greyhound adventures, Grandma’s bra pockets, sexual fantasies, being a responsible and respectful confidant, outsourcing blowjobs, singing to dicks, penis top hats, deep-throating tips, rimming for days, pampered period sex, Lola’s first prostate massage, fisting at the movie theater, and balancing kinks in the bedroom.

You can listen to Mike Joseph’s “The Jheri Curl Chronicles” on Radio Free Brooklyn Wednesday 10PM-12AM and online at Blerd Radio.

You can find Tiny D on Twitter and Instagram, @tinydburlesque and her web series “Superboob” on YouTube.

You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com.

You can find this episode’s sponsor, Jerome Stuart Nichols and the Butters, online at jeromestuartnichols.com/thebutters for handmade vegan and organic products.

This one's for you y'all.

- Dylan

Using a predictive text bot, Botnik Studios created a brand new, and VERY compelling chapter in the Harry Potter Saga.

Cooper puts his unique spin on it here.

We didn't create this text, we hold no claim, JK Rowling is the queen, of course.

Boudoir photographer and costar of “Sex Talk with Kenyon and Chris”, Chris Comfort, and the Grace Jones of burlesque, Sweet Lorraine, joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on July 22^nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go.

On this episode of special birthday edition of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sexy birthday presents, erotic photography, Lorraine’s encounters with fake Doms, Chris’ sexy lessons with a virgin, ass play, Lola getting geeky and freaky in the woods, being topless in NYC, Sara Karola’s pussy mugs, face fucking, sex toys, kegels, and Lola peeing on Trump. Again.

You can find Chris Comfort’s photography online chriscomfortphotography.com and stolensexuality.com, and his web series online kenyonandchris.com.

You can find Sweet Lorraine on Twitter and Instagram, @sweetlorraineny and online sweetlorraineny.com.

You can also find Sara Karola’s sexy dishes on Etsy at HerDirtyDishes, and on Instagram @herdirtydishes.

Tonight the social club hosts a takeover by Sex Educator, and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Dirty Lola, and creator of Poly Role Models, Kevin Patterson. They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code switch or watch your tone, a space where you can be unequivocally and magically black. A space, they call...

The BlackOut. 

Remember, you can always find and discuss episodes of the gentleperverts social club at www.gentleperverts.com, and you can find me on all social media @dylanthethomas. If you want to take over the club, even for a few minutes, drop me a line at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com, and remember…

We’re all perverts here.

Today's outro music was a track by Televisor titled Break Loose (Volant Remix), featuring Splitbreed.

Manic Panic is a short, dramatically produced story that takes place between A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity.