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    Taproot Therapy: A Mindful Moment

    Mindfulness only takes a moment – but that moment is a beautiful space to create balance, peace, and compassion. Erin Iwanusa, LCSW, CDWF, is a psychotherapist and social worker. She is the owner and founder of Taproot Therapy, LCSW, PLLC in New York City. Her practice focuses on mindfulness-based therapeutic modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. She is also a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator, a highly experiential methodology based on the work of Dr. Brené Brown. Mindfulness is a core component to any therapeutic practice, and this podcast is designed to support your own practice, by offering mindfulness and meditation exercises, lessons in mindfulness and our mental health, as well as interviews and talks with other experts in the mental health and wellness field.
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    Episodes (79)

    DBT Skill: Opposite Action to Emotion

    DBT Skill: Opposite Action to Emotion

    This episode explores the Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skill, Opposite Action to Emotion. This skill teaches us to actively behave in opposition to our unwanted emotions. For example, if you are feeling sad and want to stay on your couch all day, get up and move around. This can be a challenging skill to implement, and like all skills, it takes practice. You can also read about this skill, and many other DBT skills, on our DBT skills blog on our website: www.taproottherapynyc.com.

    If you have any questions, email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com.
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    Encore Episode: Wise Mind

    Encore Episode: Wise Mind
    Erin is on vacation this week, so we are re-releasing one of our more popular episodes, Wise Mind! Wise Mind is a mindfulness skill in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that helps us differentiate between our emotional mind and our rational mind. We need both in our lives! Our emotional mind helps us process emotions: we get passionate about causes, we fall in love, we snuggle with our pets. Our rational mind helps us process facts, think through problems, and solve problems. Both on their own can be problematic. When we are in challenging situations, we might tend to live in one mind or the other. Wise Mind, however, helps us integrate both our emotions and our rational thoughts to respond to challenging situations.
     
    Our 10-week DBT skills group starting 10/13 is full! But don't worry - we have another group starting in January, 2022. Please reach out to Erin if you are interested in joining that group.
     
    Rate us and leave us a review! For any questions, comments, or feedback, email Erin at Erin@taproottherapynyc.com. You can also follow us Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) or Facbook (@TaprootN).

    Spirituality and Psychotherapy with Jennifer Ciraulo, LMSW

    Spirituality and Psychotherapy with Jennifer Ciraulo, LMSW
    In today's episode, I speak with Jennifer Ciraulo, psychotherapist and co-founder of Sacred Spaces, a therapy practice in New York City and New Jersey that focuses on spirituality. Jennifer and I discuss how to integrate spirituality into your daily routine, the importance of having a spiritual practice, and how to integrate our wellness and psychotherapy journeys with spirituality. 
     
    To learn more, visit Sacred Spaces at https://www.sacredspacesnyc.com/
     
    If you want more information, have feedback, or just want to say hi, email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com.
     
    You can also find us on Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) or Facebook (@TaprootN). 

    Intimacy, Mindfulness, Anxiety and Sex with Kelli Morin, LCSW

    Intimacy, Mindfulness, Anxiety and Sex with Kelli Morin, LCSW

    In today’s episode, I speak with Kelli Morin, a sex and intimacy therapist in New York City and New Jersey. In this episode, we talk about the importance of sex therapy, and advocating to make it a part of our conversations and wellness. We address the importance of mindfulness in addressing intimacy, creating space for difficult conversations, and exploring our lifelong relationship with our bodies and our identities.

    Learn more about Kelli at her website: www.kellimorin.com.

    Tips for Surviving a Miscarriage Through the Lens of Shame and Vulnerability

    Tips for Surviving a Miscarriage Through the Lens of Shame and Vulnerability
    In today's episode, we continue our discussion on miscarriage and pregnancy loss. I cover helpful tools for navigating our emotions after a pregnancy loss, including honoring your grief, building your support circle, navigating feelings of shame, and self-care. I also review the themes covered in Dr. Brené Brown's book, Rising Strong, and how her research can be vital to our healing process.
    For more information on Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/
    You can follow our blog, for more information on supporting yourself through pregnancy loss. Check out our latest post: Tips for Surviving a Miscarriage (https://www.eriniwanusalcsw.com/blog-inspiration--resources/tips-for-surviving-a-miscarriage).
     
    If you are experiencing a pregnancy loss, and want support, trained therapists are there to help you! Use Postpartum Support International's directory to find a clinician near you: https://www.postpartum.net/get-help/provider-directory/
     
    Erin is also certified in perinatal mental health, with a specialization in recurrent pregnancy loss, stillbirth, miscarriage, and termination for medical reasons. Contact Erin at erin@taproottherapynyc.com, or visit our website: www.taproottherapynyc.com. You can also follow us on Instagram and Facebook!

    Encore Episode: Radical Acceptance

    Encore Episode: Radical Acceptance

    Erin is wrapping up her Labor Day vacation, so we will bring you one of our most listened to episodes on Radical Acceptance. Radical acceptance is a skill in Dialectical Behavior Therapy) that teaches us to fully accept our present feelings or situation without judgment. It is what allows us to experience pain, which is unavoidable, without suffering, which is optional. Radical acceptance does not mean we approve of unwanted behaviors or situations. Rather, it allows us to see things for exactly how they are, and once we can do that, we know where to make changes. A meditation practice starts at 6:57.

    Our practice has openings! If you are interested in DBT, or speaking with a therapist, reach out to us: www.taproottherapynyc.com. You can also email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com.

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    Supporting Trauma and Grief in Pregnancy Loss - A Conversation with Tracy Gilmour-Nimoy, LMFT

    Supporting Trauma and Grief in Pregnancy Loss - A Conversation with Tracy Gilmour-Nimoy, LMFT

    In this episode, I bring you a conversation I had with Tracy Gilmour-Nimoy, psychotherapist and owner of TGN Therapy in San Diego. Tracy is certified in perinatal Mental Health health, and specializes in working with individuals experiencing issues with fertility, high-risk pregnancies, traumatic deliveries, pregnancy terminations, pregnancy loss (miscarriage and stillbirth) and trauma related to these experiences. Tracy herself is a pregnancy loss survivor, and a fierce advocate for maternal mental health. Tracy can be found at www.tgntherapy.com.

    We at Taproot Therapy also specialize in pregnancy loss and perinatal mental health. If you have experienced a loss, traumatic delivery, or troubles with conceiving, help is available!

    Encore episode: Self-Compassion

    Encore episode: Self-Compassion
    Erin is on vacation this week, so we are rebooting our most downloaded episode!
    Self-Compassion is the act of caring for yourself the way you would a loved one. This episode explores practicing self-compassion, based on the research from Dr. Kristin Neff. Dr. Neff identifies three main components of self-compassion: self-kindness, mindfulness, and common humanity. We will explore these concepts, as well as ways we can practice self-compassion. 

    For more information on Kristin Neff - https://self-compassion.org
    To take her self-compassion scale, visit https://self-compassion.org/test-how-self-compassionate-you-are/.

    For more information on Brené Brown - https://brenebrown.com. Here you will find a link to her podcast, Unlocking Us, as well as information on all of her books.

    For more information on Emily Nagoski, - https://www.emilynagoski.com.

     

    Giving Ourselves What We Need

    Giving Ourselves What We Need

    How many times have we said to ourselves, “how do I know what to do when I’m feeling stressed/anxious/sad?” It can be hard to identify what we need in various moments. Today, we will explore a few ways we can check in with ourselves to identify what we need to support ourselves. We explore the states of acceptance and change, as well as giving ourselves validation, skill building, cheerleading, and time to process our emotions. We also explore the stages of change: precontemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, and maintenance.

    Follow us on Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) and Facebook (@TaprootN). Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com

    The Cognitive Triangle - Ways to Combat Anxiety

    The Cognitive Triangle - Ways to Combat Anxiety
    The cognitive triangle is a tool in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) that connects our thoughts, feelings and behaviors. If we change our thoughts or behaviors, then our feeling will change as well. This episode explores this skill and how we can apply it. We also explore anxiety when it is adaptive, and when it becomes maladaptive. 
     
    Read more about it on our blog on our website, www.taproottherapynyc.com. Follow us on Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) and Facebook (@TaprootN). Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com

    Wellness in a Post-Pandemic World

    Wellness in a Post-Pandemic World

    As we transition back to our lives as they were before COVID-19, it is important that we care for our wellness. Wellness is engaging in small acts and routines throughout the day that don’t just help us survive, but thrive. In this episode, we explore what we can do to care for ourselves as we potentially return to in-person work, begin seeing friends and family more frequently, and engage in activities we used to participate in. We explore the Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skill, PLEASE. We talk about the play research done by Stuart Brown. And, we present a wellness assessment that you can find on our blog (www.ErinIwanusalcsw.com).

    Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com to connect! Connect with us on Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) and Facebook (@taprootN).

    DBT Skill : Self-Soothing

    DBT Skill : Self-Soothing

    Dialectical Behavior Therapy’s distress tolerance skills are used to support us when we are feeling distressed or overwhelmed. Sometimes, when we feel our feelings, we can’t respond to them in the way we would like to - either because we are in a space where we can’t (like at a work meeting), or we are feeling our emotion very intensely. Self-soothing is a distress tolerance skill that uses our senses to soothe our distress. By finding soothing things we can see, hear, taste, touch, or smell, our emotions become soothed as well.

    For more information on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), visit our blog on our website: www.taproottherapynyc.com, and click on the “Blogs” tab.

    Reach out to our practice with any questions or feedback! Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com.

    Our practice is accepting new clients! If you’re interested in starting therapy, our team is ready to work with you. Email us to schedule your free 15-minute consultation.

    Vulnerability, Connection, and Love

    Vulnerability, Connection, and Love

    These are BIG words! But what do each of them mean? In this episode, we explore how validation, connection and love help us come closer together, and become closer with ourselves.
    We love your feedback! And we love connecting with you! Rate us or leave us a review. Follow us on Instagram (@taproottherapynyc) or Facebook (@TaprootN). Send me an email at erin@taproottherapynyc.com.

    How to Practice Empathy

    How to Practice Empathy
    Empathy is a skill and a choice we make. Empathy is not something we do naturally, and we have to practice it. In this episode, we talk about the steps to practice empathy, and why practicing empathy is one of the most vulnerable things we do. 
    Visit our website for more show notes (www.taproottherapynyc.com)
    Reach out with any questions, comments, or ideas for future episodes at erin@taproottherapynyc.com!
     
    On the episode, I reference Brené Brown speaking on empathy. You can watch it here: https://brenebrown.com/videos/rsa-short-empathy/

    Comparative Suffering

    Comparative Suffering
    As we are emerging out of this pandemic, it is important to be mindful of comparative suffering. Comparative suffering is the ranking and ordering of pain - both our pain and others’ pain. Doing this leads to disconnection, lack of empathy, and a decrease in self-compassion. 
    Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com. Visit our website at www.taproottherapynyc.com.
     Our practice is open and is accepting new clients! Our team is ready to work with you. Reach out to schedule your free 15-minute consultation!

    Welcome to Season 2! Riding the Wave of Emotion

    Welcome to Season 2! Riding the Wave of Emotion
    Welcome to Season 2 of A Mindful Moment! 
    In this episode, we talk about a DBT skill, Riding the Wave of Emotion. Our emotions rise and fall naturally. In fact, the intensity of our emotions only last for approximately 90 seconds. This skill helps us ride out those 90 seconds, and also helps us mindfully track the wave of our emotion. 
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    ACCEPTS - a DBT skill for navigating challenging emotions

    ACCEPTS - a DBT skill for navigating challenging emotions
    In this episode, we review another skill from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): ACCEPTS. ACCEPTS is an acronym we can use when we are experiencing challenging emotions. ACCEPTS stands for Activities, Contribution, Comparison, Emotions (or Opposite Emotion), Pushing Away, Thoughts, and Sensations. Listen and learn how to use this skill!
     
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    DBT Challenge Day 4: Emotion Regulation

    DBT Challenge Day 4: Emotion Regulation
    Welcome to the final day of the DBT challenge! Today, we talk about emotion regulation, and how to recognize positive experiences in your day. Practicing emotion regulation is a preventative measure to support our emotional wellbeing. If you want to learn more about DBT, join our upcoming therapy groups on 4/19!
    Check out our website for more information :
     
     
    Follow us on Facebook (@TaprootN) and Instagram (@taproottherapynyc). 

     

    DBT Challenge Day 3: Interpersonal Effectiveness

    DBT Challenge Day 3: Interpersonal Effectiveness
    Listen to Day 3 of our DBT Challenge! Today, we talk about interpersonal effectiveness skills. Interpersonal effectiveness skills help us when we struggle to navigate our relationships when we are feeling anxious or depressed. In this episode, we talk about the skill FAST. It is an acronym for how to take care of ourselves while we interact with others. Join us for day 3 of our DBT challenge!
     
    Email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com and let me know how the challenge is going for you!
     
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    DBT Challenge Day 2: Distress Tolerance

    DBT Challenge Day 2: Distress Tolerance
    For Day 2 of our challenge, we are focusing on Distress Tolerance. Distress Tolerance is one of the skill modules in DBT, and it provides tools for how to cope when we are in distressing situations. This episode explores the distress tolerance skill of distraction. We talk about the big difference between distraction (which is helpful!) and avoidance (which is not helpful!). We also talk about three ways we can effectively practice distraction techniques. Listen to the end to hear your challenge assignment for the day. And, join me tomorrow for day 3 of our DBT challenge, when we will talk about interpersonal effectiveness skills.
     
    Follow us on Facebook (@TaprootN) and Instagram (@taproottherapynyc). If you like what you hear, or have questions, comments, feedback, or anything else, email me at erin@taproottherapynyc.com. Let us know how you're doing with the DBT challenge! Reach out with any questions about your challenge assignments.