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    The B.i.G Podcast

    The B.i.G (Black is Gold) Podcast is a show based on real world conversations that a lot of us in the black community may not want to have. And before you think this is a bashing black folks podcast, the hosts are two young black professionals breaking into new spaces and seeing new things. Mindsets like that don't have conventional opinions, but if you gives us an episode of two, I'm pretty sure you'll rock with us. Enjoy!https://linktr.ee/thebigpodcast
    enMichael Clark, Ci'Tara Lloyd113 Episodes

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    This Probably Should've Been Scrapped

    This Probably Should've Been Scrapped

    Ever found yourself nursing a lump on the head after an unexpected nap-time tumble? I sure have, and it kicks off our latest episode where we reflect on the safety measures that sometimes get overlooked in the chaos of daily life. We'll share why our living room hoop dreams are benched for good and the daunting journey of dental woes that turned into an emergency room saga. It's a candid chat about the harrowing paths to pain management and how these personal upheavals can throw a wrench into the works of our everyday existence.

    The heart of our discussion beats with the pulse of family – those complex, sometimes strained webs we navigate as we evolve from children to adults. We invite you to listen in as we dissect the tough decisions surrounding family ties, and how the actions of one parent can shape a child's entire worldview. With our guest, we peel back the layers on generational challenges, examining the choices that ripple through time and how the specter of the criminal justice system looms over some far more than others. It's a dialogue that promises to navigate the murky waters of personal responsibility and societal expectation.

    We're switching gears to lighter yet equally provocative terrain, unwrapping the enigma of celebrity behaviors and the authenticity of holidays like Valentine's Day. Are we all just pawns in a commercial chess game, or is there room for genuine celebration? Alongside our guest, we scrutinize power structures and gender dynamics, unearthing stories of legal disparities that prompt us to question the scales of justice. From navigating encounters with law enforcement to celebrating the resilience of communities, this episode is a mosaic of laughter, introspection, and the unshakable human spirit. Join us for a journey that's as enlightening as it is entertaining.

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    enFebruary 12, 2024

    Unmasking Masculinity: Fostering Authenticity and Emotional Strength in Relationships

    Unmasking Masculinity: Fostering Authenticity and Emotional Strength in Relationships

    Have you ever witnessed the invisible barriers men face when it comes to showing their true emotions? Together with my insightful guests, we tackle these barriers, exploring the societal pressures that have long dictated a narrative of stoicism for men, and the profound impact this has on their relationships. Our candid conversation reveals that masculinity isn't about suppressing feelings; it's about the courage to be vulnerable and communicative with those we love.

    Navigating gender dynamics in relationships can be like walking through a minefield blindfolded. We open up about the challenges men encounter when attempting to express their emotions and the vital role their partners play in fostering a nurturing environment. By sharing personal experiences and examining societal misconceptions, we underscore the importance of mutual respect and understanding as the bedrock for any meaningful connection. It's a no-holds-barred discussion on the red flags and green lights on the road to emotional safety and personal growth within our relationships.

    Our journey doesn't stop there—we delve into the ripple effects of how we interact with our partners and how these behaviors transcend into the larger community. From the importance of gratitude in family dynamics to the transformative power of embracing one's identity, particularly within the black community, we leave no stone unturned. Our powerful exploration provides a beacon of hope for anyone seeking to build stronger, more authentic bonds rooted in respect, understanding, and love. Join us for an episode that promises to not only enlighten but also inspire a movement toward emotional honesty and integrity in the way we relate to each other.

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    enFebruary 09, 2024

    Spitter's Section Issue 1: Benny, Kevin Gates, Kota The Friend, & More!

    Spitter's Section Issue 1: Benny, Kevin Gates, Kota The Friend, & More!

    When life throws a curveball and leaves you short-staffed due to an ER scare, what do you do? You adapt and fly solo for the week, which is exactly what unfolded in our latest episode. Navigating the twists and turns of content creation, I share my unfiltered thoughts on tracks like "Hall and Nash 2" and "No Fairy Tales," while also riffing on my connection with the LA rap scene and the broader spectrum of hip-hop culture. The personal reflections on the genre's evolution serve as a backdrop to a candid discussion about staying true to your creative vision in a landscape that often favors the formulaic.

    You might be wondering how an episode can weave from the raw authenticity of 21 Savage and Lil Durk to the complexities of supporting artists with controversial backgrounds. Well, this episode does just that, with a critique of the fast-food-like music industry and a dip into the intricacies of fandom. Balancing the serious with the celebratory, I spotlight the artistry of hip-hop acts like Kota the Friend and their uplifting narratives, offering a counterpoint to the more troubling issues that plague the genre. It's a journey through the beats and bars, and the far-reaching impacts of artists' actions offstage.

    Join me as I unpack the trials and triumphs of forging a path as a content creator without the usual roadmap—highlighting the importance of experience and the unique voice each of us brings to the mic. I express gratitude for the support of loyal listeners and the silent strength of my partner, CT, whose support is felt even when she's not in the spotlight. Tune in for a mix of introspection, cultural critique, and an undying passion for the music that moves us.

    Episode 159: Many Men

    Episode 159: Many Men

    Ever had one of those days when even your bed gives up on you? That's what kickstarted my weight loss journey, and I'm sharing the laughs and struggles along the way, all while juggling the tangled wires of family life, including our daughter Nila's health battles. Then, the holiday spirit brings its own set of surprises, like an unanticipated guest who quite literally overstayed their welcome, teaching us a thing or two about patience and the unexpected joys (and trials) of family gatherings.

    Navigating the choppy waters of family dynamics and the ripple effects of our actions, we dissect the complexities of relationships and the impact they have on the generations to come. From the art of gift-giving to the pitfalls of avoidance and misinformation, this discussion sheds light on how our personal accountability, or lack thereof, shapes the future of our children's interpersonal skills. Plus, we don't shy away from the controversies in the entertainment world, touching on the Joe Budden saga, and offering a candid take on the challenges of standing by your values in the face of adversity.

    The streets have their own language, and sometimes it's a language of violence. Reflecting on the sobering realities of feuds within street culture, we dissect the tensions between Yo Gotti and Young Dolph, and the broader implications of street violence on communities. Moving beyond the music, we explore the harrowing impacts of toxic relationships and the importance of maintaining one's integrity, both in the public eye and in personal encounters. So whether you're here for the real talk on business ethics, or personal tales of overcoming life's hurdles, this episode offers a raw and honest look at life's intricate mosaic.

    Taking Account of Integrity Amidst the Wealth Chase

    Taking Account of Integrity Amidst the Wealth Chase

    Money has been exalted to a deity in modern society, but at what cost to our personal values and happiness? As I reflect on my own path from poverty to financial awareness, we confront the stark realities and illusions of wealth within our communities. This episode isn't just about my journey, but a candid exploration of the societal pressures that warp our perception of success. We probe into the financial disparities within the black community and challenge the notion that income level is synonymous with true prosperity. Join me in a conversation that peels back the layers of capitalism and underscores the urgent need for financial literacy, while celebrating the intrinsic values of joy, family, and security.

    The moral compass often wavers in the pursuit of financial gain, and it's a battle I've faced head-on. My personal encounters with intellectual theft and the struggle to maintain integrity in a world that rewards the opposite are testament to the complexities of trust and accountability we all navigate. This discussion is an intimate look at the ethical dilemmas that come with wealth accumulation and the pervasive culture of dishonesty and quick success. We dive into the necessity of critical thinking and hard work, sharing stories that will resonate with anyone who has ever questioned what it truly means to be successful.

    In our final moments together, we touch on deeply personal decisions like marriage and cohabitation, examining the influence of societal haste on these life-changing choices. I open up about the realities of parenting against challenging family dynamics, the importance of financial stability for pursuing dreams, and the empowering journey to business analysis. We confront the delicate balance of forgiveness and protection, particularly when family ties are involved, ultimately affirming the strength found in setting boundaries for the safety of our loved ones. Listen to a heartfelt narrative that reaffirms our worth and the profound beauty of our heritage.

    Episode 158: Flagrant

    Episode 158: Flagrant

    Picture a wild party, a confrontation gone wrong, and a group of dangerous riders rushing in. Sounds like a scene from a movie, right? Well, this was reality for us back in 2015 and served as a wake-up call about the rampant aggression and violence that pervades our society. From the perilous outcomes of unchecked ego and alcohol to the gritty underbelly of street life, we take you behind the scenes of this chilling tale.

    With the stage set, we transition into a pressing issue – the changing dynamics of relationships and domestic violence. We've all seen and perhaps experienced the negative impact of manipulation and the distorted reality harbored by certain individuals. In our attempt to shed light on this, we delve into the evolution of traditional gender roles, the unfair expectations placed on single mothers, and the need for equal participation from both parents. As we navigate the complex maze of relationships, we question - can we combat the glorification of single parenthood?

    Capping off our gritty rollercoaster ride, we confront the elephant in the room - the lack of accountability in today's society and the menace of 'simping'. It's time to face the music and take responsibility for our actions. And what's more, let's question the societal expectations around who should pay on dates. This journey is an eye-opener, a reality check, and a call for introspection. So, gear up, and let's ride this rollercoaster together.

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    enDecember 18, 2023

    Breaking Free: A Journey Through Family Manipulation

    Breaking Free: A Journey Through Family Manipulation

    Ever found yourself wrestling with complicated family relationships, manipulation, and misunderstandings? Well, you're not alone. I've faced similar struggles and it's high time we as a society openly discuss these often-ignored issues. I share personal stories of strained family relationships and manipulation, my experiences of being asked for help by family members who've wronged me, and how money and government benefits often play a tricky role in these situations. 

    If you've ever felt belittled, manipulated, or simply disrespected by a family member, you're in good company. I wouldn't wish these feelings on anyone, but they're a harsh reality for many of us. I open up about my personal frustrations, disappointments, and conflicts with a family member who seems determined to disrespect me and shows little interest in my daughter's life. Amidst all these, I also share my experiences with criminal activity within the family, painting a realistic picture of my struggle to keep the peace while working for the police.

    Joining me in this conversation is a special guest who shares their experiences on this delicate subject. We tackle difficult topics such as the acceptance of disrespect in family relationships, especially prevalent in Western culture. We discuss personal battles with family members who seem indifferent, the importance of establishing boundaries, and prioritizing personal well-being. This conversation reminds us all that not every family relationship is healthy, and it's perfectly fine to distance oneself from toxic family members. So, hang tight and let’s navigate these tricky waters together.

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    enDecember 08, 2023

    Episode 156: Just In Case You Want Smoke

    Episode 156: Just In Case You Want Smoke

    Mike and Tara discuss the lack of support they receive from friends and family on social media. They express their frustration with people who don't acknowledge their achievements and success. They also touch on the issue of self-hatred within the black community and the tendency for some individuals to be unhappy for others' success. The conversation then shifts to the topic of women choosing "bad boys" over good guys and the idea of victimhood as a flex. They discuss the importance of personal accountability and the need to break free from negative patterns. The episode ends with a reflection on the negativity and hate that some people carry, and the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences.


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    enNovember 17, 2023

    The Myth of the Sole Provider: Rethinking Masculine Roles

    The Myth of the Sole Provider: Rethinking Masculine Roles

    In a recent episode of the Big podcast, the hosts engaged in a candid conversation about toxic masculinity and its impact on relationships. Toxic masculinity refers to a set of attitudes and behaviors associated with traditional male stereotypes that can have negative effects on men and society as a whole. The hosts delved into the complexities of toxic masculinity, discussing its influence on power dynamics, respect, and the expectations placed on men in relationships.

    In conclusion, toxic masculinity is a multifaceted issue that requires ongoing discussion and reflection. By redefining masculinity and embracing a more inclusive and equitable approach to relationships, we can create a future where individuals are empowered to be their authentic selves and build fulfilling partnerships based on mutual respect and support.


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    Episode 154: Closing Time

    Episode 154: Closing Time

    This week we cover the DJ Envy Cesar Pena real estate scandal, the internet dividing men and women, and more!

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    [5] https://www.vulture.com/2023/10/dj-envy-real-estate-ponzi-scheme.html
    [6] https://hiphopdx.com/news/dj-envy-real-estate-partner-arrested

    Episode 153: Helmets For All The Dogs

    Episode 153: Helmets For All The Dogs

    Mike starts off the pod by honestly reviewing Drake's latest effort "For All The Dogs", the cast reviews Blac Chyna's financial fall off, and more!



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    "Lord Knows I'm Wrong'

    "Lord Knows I'm Wrong'

    Jeezy leaves Jeanie, the culture needs more than entertainment, and Mike goes off on women trying to force men to choose passed-around chicks



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    Don't Be Vulnerable #5: Don't Let 'Family' Be Used to Force You To Do Anything

    Don't Be Vulnerable #5: Don't Let 'Family' Be Used to Force You To Do Anything

    In the most vulnerable episode of Don't Be Vulnerable series, Mike opens up about his recent struggles with family respecting boundaries!

     

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    Episode 152: For The Mandem

    Episode 152: For The Mandem

    Mike advocates for men to the upmost this week!

     

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    Episode 150: Food Fight

    Episode 150: Food Fight

    A one on one food fight story, Mike makes T sign the 2k24 contract and more!

     

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    Episode 149: Rule Breakers

    Episode 149: Rule Breakers

     

    Fresh & Fit were demonitized, but doies it have to be the end? Is meeting friends on the internet ever worth it, and more?

     

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    Episode 148: Uninfluenced

    Episode 148: Uninfluenced

    Mike tells a crazy story time, the cast speaks on calling people on their sht, why the family structure is needed and more!

     

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    Adjacent To The Streets: Don't Be Vulnerable Episode 4

    Adjacent To The Streets: Don't Be Vulnerable Episode 4

    Story time about growing up poor, being introduced to street life, and quickly realizing that it was not for me

     

     

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    Episode 147: Digging A Hole

    Episode 147: Digging A Hole

    Torey Lanez sentenced to 10 years, Mia Khalifa the new marriage influencer, story time, and more!

    Torey Lanez sentenced to 10 years, Mia Khalifa the new marriage influencer, story time, and more!

     

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