The Inner Experience with Sam Asser

Victoria Redbard - Somatic Sexologist from the UK.

Victoria is a counsellor, speaker, author, researcher, open relating expert and fonder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. She has studied tantra and sexuality in many countries and now resides in the Gold Coast Australia helping people access flow states through tantric practices. Her Sexuality School The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy offers deep learning into the psycho-social and somatic aspects of cutting edge sexuality education, that is impacting the globe and creating cultural change world wide.

In this episode we discuss;

• Pleasure and why it’s confronting for people
• The feeling body and why everything we want in life comes back to a feeling, so what you need to do to come back to your body and actually feel.
• What the heck sex magic is and why it might just be the most powerful, pleasurable and life changing tactic to active in your life and body to manifest a life that you desire.

Guest: @victoriaredbard

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Sofa Session is where we wrap up a season and move onto the next. I invite 2 people onto the show to chat and ask questions about it.

My guests to wrap up season 2 "Masculine and Feminine" and move into season 3 "Sexuality" are two of the most epic humans, I have the pleasure of calling my friends. 

Alisha Smith - a hot mess.

With 15 years of experience in events as a program curator, event producer, and speaker, Alisha Smith is known for her ability to craft personal and professional development events that deliver unparalleled energy, connection, and content. Co-founder of the FUEL Women's Fitness Business Summit and ONE Corporate Design, Alisha lives to unlock human potential.

Josh Dittmer -

Host of Live more Regret less Podcast, the place to go for career, health and leadership advice relevant to the world.

He Believes - When you have the right purpose, the power to pursue it and the drive to go out every day and sustain it then you'll have everything you need to be the leader you dreamed of and the leader everyone needs you to be"  and everything he does helps you become that person."

In this episode we discuss; 

• Womens confusion around Men and receiving mixed signals, what to do when you feel like them pull away.
• Mens perspective and womens perspective on a range of different topics, from what men need to understand about women from a man’s perspective, the yearn for freedom in men which may be why you feel dropped or lack of commitment, perspective on love, dating and sex.
• Being consistent and putting in the inner work in ultimately the only way you will have an epic life and an epic relationship.

Guest: @itsalishasmith

@thejoshdittmer

Host: @samasser 

Podcast:@theinnerexperience

Kevin Oroszlan - Bridging modern psychology and ancient philosophy, Kevin began his pathway as a seeker abandoning the path to Phd. Psychology leading to traveling the world as a digital nomad. Driven by mythology, the hero's journey, and masculine initiation as guiding lights, this has been his primary quest in business & art.

He is a flowstate hunter and mixed magical artist, combining transformation in tantra, breathwork, bioenergetics, & ritual. Kevin is a high performance coach, retreat & mastermind activator, and host of the (R)Evolution Podcast.

In this episode;

• Understanding what masculine presence looks and feels like and why its so important to cultivate epically as a modern day man.
• How to evoke surrender in a feminine being in sex, intimacy and during the emotional storms
• Understanding women and polarity.

Guest: @kev_oroszlan

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Theora is a dating and relationship expert, founder of the Truly Chosen brand, and creator of the Epic Love Club - an international membership community for women who have fully owned their desire to live and create epic love. She helps women CEOs, entrepreneurs, and public figures find and attract the man who will look at them like they are magic.

In this episode;

• We explore bringing intentionality to dating like we do with every other area of our life.
• We unravelling the belief that “there are no good men out there” and how walking around with energetic boundaries could be keeping the good men at bay.
• Why the “honeymoon phase” ends, expressing your truth, getting it dropped and knowing who to share your vulnerable heart with.

Guest @trulychosen.co

Host @samasser

Podcast @theinnerexperience

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Noelle Cordeaux is CEO and co-founder of JRNI. She is a sexologist who specializes in the relationship with the self. Noelle has carved out a unique niche in the world of coaching, combining positive psychology with clinical sexology to help her clients gain true progress. 

Noelle holds a B.A. in Literature from Rutgers University and a Graduate Certificate in Executive and Professional Coaching from the University of Texas at Dallas.

In this episode;

-We look at the positive and negative impact of technology and how it is directly tired to hormones.

-We gently discuss the overwhelm that comes with change and trusting uncertainty.

-Importance of community and connecting human to human and how it links directly to the turn of the industrial revolution.

Guest: @kindnessgangsta

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Susana Frioni is a podcaster, personal coach and embodiment teacher igniting women through erotic empowerment via her brand LOVE SEX DESIRE. With an audience in over 190 countries, Susana produces and hosts a weekly podcast series alongside her Sacred Dance events and online program, Dance Yourself Free.

In this episode;

• We unravel what it means to be an erotic woman.
• We discuss sexual awakenings and exploring polarity in same sex relationships.
• And the power of sacred dance, attracting the love you want and embracing pleasure.

Guest: @susanafrioni

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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One of the themes Leighann Amanda keeps present in her life is the precious, swift flight of our time here on this planet. Her urgency maintains a 'now' approach to life and coaching process with her clients. Her unique relationship to mortality was further engrained when her fiancé passed away without warning in 2017, from which she has birthed an even stronger will to create, serve, live, and lead. Ultimately, many people live their lives going unfulfilled in their fullest expression of self, and Leighann has made it her mission to bring these people to the mirror to see who they REALLY are. Listen to Leighann for a new way to look in the mirror, and relate to death in a way that awakens the divine feminine, and more.

In this episode;

• we dissect grief, what is it, the process of grieving and how to support someone in grief.
• We look at how to utilise pain as a way to initiate into a new version of yourself
• What it looks and feels like to deal with grief not just in the logical mind (masculine) but accessing it deep in your body (feminine).

Guest; @leighann.amanda

Host; @samasser

Podcast; @theinnerexperience

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Mike is a Men’s coach, author, & founder of The School of Personal Mastery coaching program for men. He is also the creator of the interview show and events, Beyond The Beers. Bringing easy to implement and effective personal development to everyday men who want to break free of the ordinary and achieve greater success in their career, relationships, and life – without the guilt and hang-ups.

We explore some hard truths in this episode that is SO beneficial for both men and women to hear, like:

• Unpacking commitment issues, why so many men are afraid to commit and how you can support this process instead of push it away.
• Inspiring a man into greatness and not trying to fix him, the process that comes with this and not settling for potential.
• We discuss integrity, dependability, follow through and the secret hack to men, that’s not so secret but more so simple.. appreciation.

Guest: @mikecampbellmc 

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Mark Groves is a Human Connection Specialist and Speaker whose purpose is to help individuals and companies step into their most authentic, effective, loving selves by way of his bold, no-BS relationship guidance. 

Mark brings complex, academic concepts and research to life in a fun & relatable way, empowering teams and companies to transform the way they work, produce, and relate.

He loves tacos, hiking, and making people laugh so hard they can't help but pee their pants a little.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why we attract certain people in relationships and that going purely off chemistry may not be whats good for you.
• The invitation that comes with ghosting, red flags and friends with benefits.
• In depth discussion on boundaries, walls and self abandonment.

Guest: @createthelove

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Alyssa Kuzins is a yoga teacher based in Pittsburgh, PA where she leads women’s retreats and runs her product business, The Journal Deck, a line of 52 card decks full of soulful journal prompts. She also hosts its highly praised podcast, the Self Care Spotlight. Alyssa currently leads workshops & speaking engagements across the country, spreading her message of journaling, self care in a busy world, and living from your Feminine power. Alyssa is celebrated for her ability to help others rediscover, feel and express their own radiance from the inside out. 

In this episode we dive into one of my favourite things ever...dance.

• Seeing yourself and allowing yourself to be seen through intuitive dance.
• How to actually get into our feeling body, if we have been shut down and numb and have no idea how.
• Finding the dance (literally) in your days between the masculine and feminine to enhance creativity, aha moments and effortlessness.

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Guest: @alyssakuzins

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Nadine Lee is a Tantra Yoga Teacher; Feminine Embodiment Coach & Nutritionist and founder of Tantric Alchemy. At the core of her work, she is here to expand your mind body & soul. She helps you break down conditionings & stories that bind you & hold you back from living your truest potential.

In this episode;

• We discuss the importance of embodiment work and taking a concept and turning it into your reality.
• We look at the tantric arts and archetypes that help you to tap into your sexuality.
• And we discuss other tantric tools and practises to unlock sexuality in women and what environmental things are influencing us.

Guest: @tantric.alchemy

Host: @samasser

@theinnerexperience

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Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on men’s health, wellness, success, and fulfillment. Connor is also an international speaker, podcast host, CEO, and leader of ManTalks mission to build a global brotherhood. business coach and lifestyle entrepreneur.

In this episode;

• Where the classic nice guy comes from.
• What needs to happen for men to feel deep self worth and become the best version of themselves.
• Debunk the one rule of men made popular by fight club, where you don’t talk about it and overall discuss if you want better sex you have to face your shadow.

Guest; @mantalks 

Host: @samasser

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Tom Cronin is an international wellness expert and founder of the stillness project. Passionate about reducing stress in people's lives, he is someone who knows first-hand the power of meditation in overcoming mental health issues and the importance of personal healing and human transformation.

In this episode we discuss;

• The benefits and fears of sitting in meditation
• How powerful the combination of yin and yang really is to live in a more purposeful and conscious world
• Realising that what we want to experience and often search for, isn’t from external outcomes or things, it’s from our inner world and meditation helps you to access that.

Guest: Tom Cronin @thestillnessproject

Host: @samasser 

Podcast: @theinnerexperience

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Founder of The Collective: A Global Web of Women Devoted to Embodied Wholeness, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and (most importantly) practicing Authentic Relating, Embodiment Practices & Deep Intimacy Work for over fifteen years.

Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women & couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication & full self-expression.

She co-founded Authentic World & Fierce Grace, as well as The Embodied Relationship Training Salon (with John Wineland), and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relation work on the planet.

We talk about some juicy, controversial and mind blowing topics throughout this conversation.

• We discuss where we are sitting right now with feminism and what is needed from both men and women. Plus why men may be struggling in this post feminist world.
• We look at Structures/containers in conversations and relationships that will help relax the nervous system and make relating to others so much more effective.
• Also removing people pleasing and Honouring the yes and no in relationships and dating. She shares some epic life changing information for men in feeling into the womens yes and no.

Guest: @kendra_cunov

Host: @samasser

Instagram: @theinnerexperience 

Victoria Bauman is a leadership coach and breathwork facilitator on a mission to redefine leadership and awakening for this new era.

As a sought-after healer for humans on a mission, Victoria brings an on-point mix of depth, intuitive wisdom, and integrity to her work.

Aside from her private practice and active online presence, Victoria also leads global breathwork workshops as co-founder of The O2 Awakening.

Main points in this episode;

• Power of breath work for balancing the yin and yang and allowing you to live at your natural state.
• How breath work can heal the masculine concept of hustling and allow for more depth, flow and creative ideas
• Feeling pain

Guest @victoria_bauman

Host @samasser

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Nick Sol is a coach, group facilitator, public speaker and writer based in Vancouver, BC. He is the CEO of a non-profit called the “Samurai Brotherhood” which encourages Men to develop healthy, empowered relationships with themselves and each other. 

Nick has trained extensively in experiential groups with an emphasis on Jungian shadow work. He believes that getting to know ourselves at all our depths is an extremely important piece of cultivating self-acceptance and aligning our desires with our reality.

In this episode we talk;

• All about mens work and the power of mens group.
• Resistance around men coming together, the curiosity that leads them there and the benefits that they will experience.
• Importance of surrounding influences, role models and having people and places where you can feel safe to have important conversations.

Guest: @nicksolconsulting

Madelyn Moon is a walking permission slip, soul igniter and devoted teacher. Her mission is to help you unify all the pieces that make you you including your Feminine with your Masculine, Light with your Dark, Introvert with your Extrovert and your Doing with your Being -she is the host of Mind Body Musings Podcast and joins me for a fun conversation where we kinda forgot it was recording.

Main Points In this Episode;

• What it means to feel safe to be in your feminine essence as a modern day woman.
• Why receiving help can be so hard and how mainstream society plays a huge part in this struggle.
• How to let go of perfection and soften your edges physically to begin to create change and a deeper connection to yourself.

Guest: @madelynmoon

Host: @samasser

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Londin Angel Winters and Justin Patrick Pierce are co-authors of Amazon best-selling book, The Awakened Woman’s Guide To Everlasting Love, acclaimed spiritual intimacy coaches, and leaders of transformative high-end retreats including their signature training, Yoga of Intimacy.

In this episode:

• We get real on the fear of intimacy and why we are afraid to surrender to the present moment.
• Why you feel alone or lack fulfilment in yourself and in your romantic relationships.
• Why there is nothing more powerful, potent and sexy that can enhance your relationships and your sex life , than your authentic, embodied, open hearted expression of the present moment.

Guests: @londinangelwinters and @justinpatrickpierce.

Shownotes: https://www.samasser.com/podcast

Andrew Horn is a Brooklyn based social entrepreneur, writer and speaker/facilitator. He was recently called "Dale Carnegie for the Digital Age" by Forbes. 

He spends most of his time running the startup he Co-Founded, Tribute.co. 

He is also the founder of a community for men called Junto. The organization curates resources and hosts events for men that want to become better men. Andrew currently leads a bi-monthly men's retreats that empowers guys to practice emotional mastery and reconstruct their relationship with masculinity on their own terms. 

Main Points of this Episode:

• Speak your truth - Moving from struggling to express your needs to having the confidence to say what you need to say.
• How to ask for what you want and why we fear it
• Understanding emotions and how women can support men.

Guest: Andrew Horn @itsandrewhorn 

Host: Sam Asser @samasser

Shownotes: https://www.samasser.com/podcast

LAST CALL - That Feminine Flow Online Course for Women: https://www.samasser.com/feminineflow

Jake Woodard is an author, speaker and spiritual healer, who is passionate about helping others live a more spiritually connected and heart centered life. His inspiring story of overcoming his own struggles and challenges led him to finding his souls calling. He believes that the darkness he experienced helped him to find his light within.

What to expect;

• What is a wound and why is it important to heal
• Allowing the feminine heart to be seen and felt
• Feelings, in a busy world why we need to slow down and actually feel.

Guest; Jake Woodard @_jakewoodard

Website; https://www.samasser.com/podcast

Host; @samasser

That Feminine Flow Course Applications: - https://www.samasser.com/feminineflow