#94 In this episode, John and Jackie address common misconceptions about consensually non-monogamous relationships. 

They explore the misunderstanding that such relationships are solely about sex, debunking this notion and emphasizing that they encompass much more than physical intimacy.

John and Jackie also discuss the stereotype that people in the lifestyle have exceptionally high sex drives.

#93 Question from a viewer for today: 

We're thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things we're not ready yet.

#92 In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of threesomes, offering guidance on how to introduce the idea to your partner and ensure that everyone has an amazing experience. 

They share their own experiences and offer insights on building trust, communication, and making the transition from fantasy to reality.

#91

So you've proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what? We've had a couple of guest speakers at our webinars talk about this subject and now it's our turn! :)

90 

The pineapple is a commonly recognized symbolism for swingers, but are there more "signs" out there we're not aware of?

What about garden gnomes or flamingos? Red ball caps or loofahs?

We share our insight on which signs are legitimate, and which signs may just be misconceptions.

You won't want to miss today's episode!

#89

How do you best navigate your relationship if one partner has more experience than the other?

How do you go about in your relationship if your partner is on a (much) different experience level as you?

To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit httyp://www.openlove101.com

#88 Have you ever started a conversation about your relationship in a civil and cordial manner... And then things quickly took a turn for the worst and escalated to the point of anger and maybe bad words?

Well, you're not alone because we've had those types of "conversations" before. So how do you navigate through that? Let's discuss! 

#87 - At our colette lifestyle clubs, we're starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term "swinger" and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it's a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship model is continuously evolving. So which "label" are you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#86 - John & Jackie discuss various aspects of ethical non-monogamy, including different forms and labels. We also dive into the importance of creating a relationship model that works for you, and the undercurrent of consensual non-monogamy growing among younger people. Don’t miss as they share experiences from promoting swinger clubs to open-minded individuals and discuss the topic of threesomes. This is an important chat about communication and creating judgement-free zones in relationships that reminds us that successful open relationships involve both autonomy and partnership. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#85 - Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle...We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes quite debilitating in the lifestyle journey. We want to express ourselves and feel authentic to who we are, but we can easily encounter that old tape replaying in our head about how we're supposed to behave based on our childhood upbringing, background, and religion - and that's when shame likes to rears its ugly head. So what do you do about it? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#84 - In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of ethical non-monogamy and its impact on relationships. Our guest, a filmmaker working on the documentary "Open: A Journey Through Love," shares their personal journey and the importance of authenticity in relationships. They reveal their autism diagnosis and how it influences their filters and social expectations. Join us as we delve into the challenges, growth, and transformative power of ethical non-monogamy, and learn about the upcoming documentary project that aims to de-stigmatize this lifestyle. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#83 - Being in an open relationship can be difficult. You've got time management, societal repercussions if others find out, dealing with stereotypes, finding other open-minded couples, trying new things out of your comfort zone, and more. The list just goes on... But that's not to say don't check out swinging because we believe it's well worth. Just some challenges to be aware of as you go along this journey and that's what we talk about today in the episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#82 - We continue on from the previous episode to explore the world of polyamory with a focus on the significance of authentic communication and personal growth within polyamorous relationships. Our guests, Kenya and Carl from Progressive Love Academy, share their experiences and insights, highlighting the foundational aspects of polyamory and the transformative power it holds. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, empathy, and utilizing relationships as tools for personal development. Additionally, they delve into the challenges faced and the deepening of love that occurs through open communication and mutual growth. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#81 - Our special guests, Kenya and Carl of Progressive Love Academy, are here to discuss their experiences in open relationships and polyamory - the importance of effective communication, personal growth, and taking accountability within relationships with a firsthand account of their journey, from their decision to open their relationship to the development of tools and protocols that have strengthened their bond over the years. We talk about navigating jealousy, addressing societal misconceptions, and finding empowerment in embracing multiple partners. They share valuable insights into building a solid foundation for open relationships and emphasize the significance of understanding one's own desires and needs. Gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics of open relationships, the challenges faced, and the rewards that come with personal growth and exploration in today's episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#80 - As swingers, we can be judged by other people about our lifestyle choices. We certainly have received a good amount of backlash in news articles written about us and our relationship model. Yes it's important we develop thick skin to be able to handle it, but it can be difficult sometimes due to our human desire to belong to a group and the challenges we face when we step outside of societal norms. So why do people judge so negatively and what do we do about it? Especially as it can impact our ability to be open and honest with others about our lifestyle. To learn more about the lifestyle and open relationships, visit https://openlove101.com

#79 - John and Jackie discuss the importance of communication in playing with another couple. Especially when it comes to setting boundaries and discussing preferences. Now compare that to a playing solo scenario where you have less people to be aware of and can just focus on one person, along with other things you need to know when doing this in an open relationship. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#78 - Today we answer three rapid fire questions: 1) Would you consider posing nude? 2) Where can I meet other couples? 3) My partner doesn't want to play in the lifestyle. What do I do? Fun question, serious question, and serious serious question! To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#77 - Has a partner ever cheated on you? Or been dishonest and not trustworthy about other people they're seeing? "Well, how about we have an open relationship because that'll solve things!" But will it really? Today we discuss if a swinger lifestyle can save a relationship! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#76 - We explore the world of consensual non-monogamy and share our personal experiences and insights on exploring relationships outside of the traditional monogamous structure. From navigating emotional attachment to finding support and community in non-monogamous clubs, we provide a perspective on what it means to practice consensual non-monogamy. We also dive into the growing popularity of this relationship model among younger generations and the importance of maintaining open communication and growth in any relationship. Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on consensual non-monogamy and its place in modern society. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#75 - I'm sure you're aware that harboring resentment can tear your relationship apart and do devastating damage. This is not just for romantic relationships, but any relationship. But how do you let it go? Why is it so difficult to talk about it (in a loving way) that doesn't punish your partner and make it harder? Let's talk about that today! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com