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    The Sovereign Man Podcast

    “A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he’s stuck in a jail cell, because they’ll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack.” — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You’ll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today’s world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.
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    Episodes (134)

    EP114: Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Ernest Emerson Podcast Panel - In Search Of The Uncommon Man

    EP114: Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Ernest Emerson Podcast Panel - In Search Of The Uncommon Man

    Ryan Michler, founder of the Order of Man Movement; Larry Hagner, founder of the Dad Edge movement; and Ernest Emerson, inventor of the tactical folding knife for the United States Navy SEALs discuss the concept of the uncommon man, the challenges men face in today's society, and the importance of positive role models. They emphasize the need for men to embrace their masculinity while fostering authentic relationships and guiding the next generation of young men toward responsible, righteous, and masculine values.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP113: Zack Blakeney - Is Porn A Tool For Societal Control?

    EP113: Zack Blakeney - Is Porn A Tool For Societal Control?

    Zach and Nicky Discuss the often-overlooked and sensitive issue of pornography addiction among men. Zach bravely shares his personal journey of battling a 16-year-long addiction, shedding light on the challenges and destructive impacts it had on his life. He highlights the importance of personal responsibility and the need for open conversations about this issue to help men regain control of their lives and relationships, ultimately striving for self-improvement and empowerment. This episode delves into the societal aspects, including the rampant availability of online pornography and its potential role as a tool for societal control by elites, causing harm and fostering addictive behavior in countless men.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP112: Erik Everhard - Confessions Of A Former Porn Star, Part 1

    EP112: Erik Everhard - Confessions Of A Former Porn Star, Part 1

    Sharing his inspiring journey from being the "fattest kid" in school to achieving success and discussing his unexpected entry into the adult entertainment world is Erik Everhard, a former professional in the adult entertainment industry turned author and men's coach. He discusses topics such as the changing landscape of the industry, online pornography, consent issues, and the need for better accountability. Erik also delves into the impact of modern society on masculinity, family bonds, and the influence of feminist movements. Erik advocates for men reclaiming their masculinity and women embracing their femininity.

    Want to be confident again? Visit Erik Everhard’s website to learn more including his sexual mastery secrets for men: https://www.everhardacademy.com/.

    Also mentioned:

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    EP111: Michael D Butler - Men As Protectors - Saving Kids From Sex Slavery

    EP111: Michael D Butler - Men As Protectors - Saving Kids From Sex Slavery

    “It’s just wisdom to be cautious. It takes all of us making a difference, showing up in our kids' lives, having conversations.”

    Michael Butler, founder of 1040 Impact, shedding light on the harrowing issue of child sex trafficking. He emphasizes that this problem is not limited to distant countries; it's occurring in our own communities, with children being groomed online. He shares the story of 1040 Impact, an organization dedicated to rescuing and rehabilitating children from trafficking, highlighting their recent operations and the desperate circumstances that lead parents to sell their children. This episode stresses the importance of prevention, with tips for parents and guardians, and calls for action and support to protect children from this horrific reality.

    Please visit 1040 Impact and Beyond Publishing to learn more about how you can make a difference and join the fight against child sex slavery. Remember, our children are not for sale, and it's our responsibility to protect them

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP110: Lieutenant Colonel Oakland McCulloch - The 95% Rule

    EP110: Lieutenant Colonel Oakland McCulloch - The 95% Rule

    “If you can't do something better than 75% of the people doing it then you need to do 1 of 2 things you either need to figure out how to get better at it or you need to go do something else.”

    “The minute you think you can't learn anything else, go do something else because you're not going to be any good at that.”

    “Great leadership handed down from generation to generation is what develops great nations. - David Powell”

    Joining Nicky in today’s episode is a special guest, Lieutenant Colonel Oakland McCulloch, to delve into the essence of servant leadership. They unpack the timeless wisdom of mentoring, setting high standards, and instilling an unwavering commitment to excellence in young men. Colonel McCulloch's profound insights underscore the pivotal role of character, values, and attitude in cultivating the next generation of leaders, emphasizing that leadership is ultimately about people, trust, and producing more leaders. In a world filled with conflicting messages on masculinity, this episode serves as a guiding beacon for those seeking to uplift and empower men to embody true leadership in the modern age.

    Discover how the 95% rule becomes a mantra for success and how nurturing the desire for excellence can pave the way for a brighter future. Colonel McCulloch's wisdom reminds us that regardless of gender, embracing these principles can inspire a generation of leaders who make a lasting impact.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP109: Rob Arpa - The Bull Versus The Oxen

    EP109: Rob Arpa - The Bull Versus The Oxen

    Masculinity is often undervalued and under attack, men's teams offer a positive environment where men can help each other thrive. They provide a crucial support system that helps men face unforeseen challenges, strengthen their resolve, and navigate the complexities of modern life. So, if you're wondering why you should be part of a men's team, remember that it's like insurance—you may not need it every day, but when you do, it can make all the difference in the world. Don't wait until you're in dire straits to seek the camaraderie and support of a men's team; join Nicky and Rob today and embrace the power of genuine, masculine relationships.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP108: Angelo Martinez - Honoring Those Who Fight & Die For Our Freedom

    EP108: Angelo Martinez - Honoring Those Who Fight & Die For Our Freedom

    Angelo Martinez, a military veteran and advocate for veterans' well-being, shares his deeply personal journey from serving eight years in the Marine Corps infantry to confronting the traumatic aftermath of his service. He vividly describes the physical and mental toll he endured, including a traumatic brain injury sustained in battle and the invisible scars of PTSD. His candid account reveals the stark realities that many veterans face upon returning home, from sleepless nights to the profound impact on their daily lives. Angelo's remarkable transformation and dedication to helping his fellow veterans through organizations like the Barracks Legend Foundation and his pursuit of a medical career as a chiropractor, demonstrate the power of resilience and the importance of brotherhood in healing and shaping a meaningful future.

    This episode underscores the critical role that strong male mentorship and brotherhood play in navigating life's challenges. Angelo's story highlights the transformative power of faith and community, emphasizing the need for men to uplift one another and provide support, especially during times of emotional struggle and trauma. His advocacy for veterans and dedication to helping them find their path to recovery serve as a powerful testament to the importance of compassion and camaraderie in building resilience and reclaiming one's life.

    Barracks Legend Foundation - https://www.barrackslegendfoundation.com/

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP107: Max Borders - The 5 Ms Of Masculinity

    EP107: Max Borders - The 5 Ms Of Masculinity

    Max Borders shares his insightful perspective on modern masculinity, drawing from his philosophical background and his journey into entrepreneurship. He introduces The 5 Ms of Masculinity, a set of principles aimed at guiding men through the challenges of today's world. Max underscores the importance of cultivating an entrepreneurial spirit and creativity, while highlighting the need for men to take action and not just engage in talk.

    Max and Nicky engage in a meaningful conversation about how men can overcome cultural messages and embrace The 5 Ms of Masculinity to become more sovereign in their thinking and actions.

    Check out Max’s books: Underthrow: How Jefferson's Dangerous Idea Will Spark a New Revolution and The Decentralist: Mission, Morality, and Meaning in the Age of Crypto available on Amazon.

    You can also visit Max’s website to learn more of his works: underthrow.org.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP106: David Menzies - The True Measure Of A Man

    EP106: David Menzies - The True Measure Of A Man

    In this episode, Nicky and David engage in a candid conversation about the challenges men face in today's society, urging listeners to resist the erosion of traditional values and embrace a sense of responsibility and integrity in defining what it truly means to be a man.

    This episode highlights the importance of men standing up for their rights and values, while also addressing issues related to government funding in the media and the hijacking of the LGBTQ+ community by activists. David provides insightful advice for young men and encourages them to be true to themselves and stand up against societal pressures.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP105: George Bruno - The High Virtue Man

    EP105: George Bruno - The High Virtue Man

    In this episode, special guest George Bruno talks about the dynamic shifts of masculinity in a world that challenges traditional norms. They explore the "high virtue man," emphasizing virtues, ethics, and wisdom over mere success and charisma. The talk covers moving from game to charisma and excelling in human interaction.

    George Bruno's candid insights highlight the intricacies of modern masculinity. He advocates for a blend of emotions and self-discipline, drawing inspiration from Stoic principles. The discussion navigates relationship challenges in a changing gender landscape, urging men to embrace masculinity and women to nurture femininity for genuine connections. The significance of holistic personal growth takes center stage, underscoring the path to balanced well-being. Ultimately, George's wisdom encourages authentic leadership and collaborative efforts toward a more harmonious world.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP104: Andrew & John Demko - How To Build Your Dream Career

    EP104: Andrew & John Demko - How To Build Your Dream Career

    Andrew Demko, the founder of Demko Knives, and John Demko, his brother and collaborator, share their story of how they got into knife making and how Demko Knives evolved into a prominent name in the cutlery industry. From childhood fascination with knives to creating innovative locking mechanisms, they discuss their passion, challenges, and the growth of their business.

    Andrew Demko and John Demko's journey through the world of knife making offers insights into the passion, innovation, and determination required to build a successful business. Their commitment to quality, design, and functionality has made Demko Knives a respected name among knife enthusiasts. As men's tools with a rich history, knives continue to serve as symbols of capability, empowerment, and craftsmanship.

    Visit Andrew and John’s website to learn more about Demko Knives: https://demkoknives.com/

    Expert advice:

    Andrew

    1. Put your phone down for a while.
    2. Go to church.
    3. Eat a steak.
    4. Go to bed early and get up early.

    John

    1. Take responsibility for yourself and stop making excuses.
    2. Read a lot.
    3. Spend time in nature.
    4. Respect people even when you don’t agree with them.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP103: Domenick DiBenedetto - What Makes You A High Value Man - Your Word & Your Loyalty

    EP103: Domenick DiBenedetto - What Makes You A High Value Man - Your Word & Your Loyalty

    “That's the definition of greatness affecting the people around you."

    Domenick, a bodybuilder, shares his journey into the sport and the impact of mentors on his life. While serving in the Navy, he was inspired by Jerome Whitaker's discipline and physique, which led him to embrace bodybuilding as a passion. Later, he found his coach, Mike Kawasaki, who mentored him for a decade, helping him rise from humble beginnings to competing against some of the world's best athletes.

    Emphasizing the importance of loyalty and keeping one's word, which Domenick and Nicky believe defines true masculinity. They also discuss the value of ego as a healthy source of pride and motivation when balanced with humility. Domenick shares his experience of handling heartbreak with integrity, transforming it into a driving force for self-improvement and inspiring others. Finally, a man is defined more by his character than his material achievements.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP102: Billou, Arpa, & Richmond - The Misguided Man: Why You Should Marry The Right Woman & Have A Family

    EP102: Billou, Arpa, & Richmond - The Misguided Man: Why You Should Marry The Right Woman & Have A Family

    While some gurus advise men against marriage due to potential risks, our hosts - Nicky, Rob, & Steve - argue that family formation is crucial for society's well-being. They emphasize the need for teaching men how to find the right partner and create successful marriages, rather than avoiding commitment altogether. Delaying gratification, seeking mentorship, and building strong relationships are essential for long-term fulfillment and societal success.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP101: Richmond & Billou - The Misguided Man - Dating & Marriage

    EP101: Richmond & Billou - The Misguided Man - Dating & Marriage

    Learn the importance of being cautious about the advice men follow from so-called men's gurus. We explore how some of their teachings can be dangerous and harmful, particularly in relation to women. Steve and Nicky’s goal is to shed light on these misconceptions and offer a more balanced perspective on dating, relationships, and masculinity. They emphasize the need for men to seek guidance from experienced individuals with successful long-term relationships instead of relying on popular gurus or short-term shortcuts. True growth and meaningful connections require introspection, empathy, and a commitment to personal development. By rejecting harmful ideologies and embracing a balanced approach, men can navigate relationships with respect and integrity, contributing to the betterment of society.

    Steve Richmond is a professional relationship and men’s coach with 30 years of experience, specializing in men's work. He empowers men to step outside their comfort zones, overcome barriers, and take charge of their lives through action and responsibility. With a focus on listening intuitively and transforming obstacles into opportunities, Steve brings his personal growth journey and desire for a fulfilling life to his coaching practice. Since 1994, he has dedicated himself to men's work, supporting both individuals and couples.

    To learn more about Steve or to work with him:

    https://www.steverichmond.ca/about

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP100: MJ Durkin - The Misguided Man - Why MGTOW Is Wrong For Men

    EP100: MJ Durkin - The Misguided Man - Why MGTOW Is Wrong For Men

    Men need guidance and mentorship from other men. But some men are false gurus whose true motivation is fame and profit. They say extreme things mixed with some truth, misleading boys and men and causing nothing but harm. MJ Durkin joins us today to help make this situation known and to offer some insight into how to identify and avoid these false gurus. And more importantly, Durkin and Billou talk about how to establish the foundation for true mentorship, how to find it as well as offering some of their own mentorship.

    MJ Durkin is a professional speaker, author, host of the Men of Honour podcast, and he’s been involved in men’s work for over years.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP99: Billou-Arpa-Richmond - The Misguided Man - Macho Vs Masculine

    EP99: Billou-Arpa-Richmond - The Misguided Man - Macho Vs Masculine

    “This message of macho… of have big muscles and making a lot of money is not remotely enough to teach a man how to be a man.”

    Boys naturally want to become good men, and in a perfect world, they’d be guided there through parenting and good mentorship. But too many boys take more influence from women in their lives and the mixed and extreme messaging that comes through social media. Today we hear about where boys and men can turn to find good mentorship and the need to go deep into conversations that matter to men.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

     

    EP98: Curtis lovito - Why Every Man Needs to Have Knives and Learn to Use Them

    EP98: Curtis lovito - Why Every Man Needs to Have Knives and Learn to Use Them

    A knife is a tool, first and foremost. There are hundreds of ways you can use a knife day to day. Anything from preparing food to chopping down trees. Curtis lovito is co-founder of  Spartan Blades, an award winning knife manufacturer in Southern Pines, North Carolina. He walks us through various designs like multi-tools, pocket knives, and fixed blades while suggesting how to decide which one is right for you.

    Curtis is a former Special Forces member. During his time in the military, he played many roles including weapons sergeant. He and Mark Carey founded Spartan Blades fourteen years ago.

    https://spartanbladesusa.com/

    Also in this episode:

    Chris Reeve Knives https://chrisreeve.com/

    The Mnandi Knife https://chrisreeve.com/collections/mnandi

    Rick Hinderer Knives https://www.rickhindererknives.com/

    Victorinox Knives https://www.victorinox.com/

    Greg Medford Knife & Tool http://www.gregmedford.com/

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP97: Greg Medford - Why Men Need To Stand Up To Evil

    EP97: Greg Medford - Why Men Need To Stand Up To Evil

    “It’s not simple, freedom is not simple and it’s not given to you. If it’s given to you it’s not freedom. You gotta take it.”

    Greg Medford is a US Marine Corps veteran, skilled knife and tool designer, host of the Greg Medford Show podcast, and a patriot. He doesn’t hesitate speaking his truth and some consider him controversial. But I think you’ll find his delivery refreshing and insightful, whether you agree with him or not. Topics covered include the fallacy of wokeism and its attack on freedoms, the boys running the tech industry, and sovereignty through integrity.

    Check out Greg’s podcast, The Greg Medford Show on iTunes, Spotify and Rumble. And checkout his uncut episodes on YouTube.

    You can find Greg's knife designs at https://medfordknife.com/.

    Also in this episode:

    Great Patriot Buycott Book

    Coming soon to Audible.

    Robert Green book, The 48 Laws of Power

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    SMP EP96: Billou & Arpa - The 3 Reasons Men Engage In A Masculine Relationship With Other Men

    SMP EP96: Billou & Arpa - The 3 Reasons Men Engage In A Masculine Relationship With Other Men

    “The source of your power as a man is masculine relationships with other men.”

    Men should be clear on what it looks like to be in masculine relationship. It shouldn’t be confused with the type of relationships we had as boys. Boys have the kind of relationship boys need to have at that stage of their lives while men have graduated. Their source of power and fulfilment mostly comes from challenge, a sense of work and competition. There’s a very natural way to approach these things and this episode makes it very clear along with what you stand to gain by taking advantage of or creating opportunities for masculine relationships in your life.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    EP95: Ryan Michler - Why Men Need Other Men To Grow & Heal Their Pain

    EP95: Ryan Michler - Why Men Need Other Men To Grow & Heal Their Pain

    “I’m a grown-ass man. So at some point we need to let go of the excuses like, ‘Oh, my father wasn’t around…’ Well, how long are you going to lean on your father not being around for you to not be a man? At some point that excuse expires.”

    Ryan Michler has been supporting men and masculinity for almost 10 years. He’s the founder of the Order Of Man and The Iron Council which is more than answering the call for creating community and leadership among men. He’s a friend of Sovereign Man and he’s here to help remind us why this work needs to be done. Topics covered include fatherless homes, disengaged and confused fathers, empowering your ability to serve your family and community through economic success, and of course, how important it is to find your community of men.

    To learn more about Order Of Man and The Iron Council, go to https://www.orderofman.com/

    And look for the Order of Man podcast on all podcast players.

    You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.