Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant

The "honeymoon" phase of relationships inevitably wanes and you're left to deal with REAL love. Real love is not always easy and it takes a lot of work. From feelings of loneliness to one person chasing the other to toxic partners - there are some very brutal truths that are often learned the hard way, by living (and learning) through them. Ask anyone you know who's been together a long time and they'll probably agree that these 5 things are true in most successful relationships. Or, they learned them in previous relationships. In this episode, the Trufants discuss these harsh truths and how they made it through.

From "liking" someone's old pics to sliding in their DMs - what is considered flirting and what is considered just being friendly? In this episode, the Trufants discuss what is going too far on Instagram, when to steer clear of an "admirer" (or stalker) or when to get your flirt on (if you're single, that is)

Are you jealous AF over the pettiest things? Maybe they're not "petty" to YOU, but they feel silly to your spouse...in this episode, the Trufants talk about the top 6 things that make partners jealous in a relationship and if it's even appropriate to feel jealous in those situations. 

After 14 years of marriage, we’ve made it through so much together. On our anniversary we like to reflect on our lives together and celebrate all that we have accomplished. In the episode, we let you in on some of the funny moments, personal stories, and best advice we’ve learned over the years. 

Disney with kids is supposed to be a magical experience! LOL! Disneyland is the happiest place on earth, but let's be real it can get overwhelming fast. Hear all about The Trufant's trip to Disneyland with 5 kids and two grandmas. Will they ever make that trip again? Listen to find out. 

True or false: all women can orgasm from penetration? Pounding equals more pleasure, right? WRONG! For your safety and sexual satisfaction, Sexologist Tiffynee Terry-Thomas debunks some of the most common sex myths. She joins the Trufants in a hilarious, candid discussion about sex myths that you probably believe to be true and drops some sex-truth bombs for you to use tonight (wink wink)

Marriage ain't easy! Here are the 5 "hot button" issues plaguing couples today and what to do about it. 

If you've ever lived with someone of the opposite sex you've probably noticed that men and women react totally differently to "colds" or the flu. Usually, men are DOWN FOR THE COUNT with any little ache or sniffle. Women, on the other hand, will suck that shit up and go about their life. Where's the lie? In this episode, the Trufants discuss the "Man Flu" phenomenon. Do the stereotypes ring true in their household or is it all a myth? 

s your spouse super selfish? Or, maybe you're the selfish one in the relationship? If so, it's time to nip that sh*t in the bud! Do you know "someone" who ALWAYS has to be right?! Who is QUICK to react? Who always takes control of the conversation. When it comes to healthy, happy relationships, it's important to be selfLESS, understanding, and flexible.  In this episode, the Trufants discuss what it means to be selfish, who is the selfish one in their marriage, and how to overcome your selfish ways. 

Welcome to episode 50! If you're looking for a way to reconnect, laugh, and get to know your significant other even deeper here are 8 questions you must ask - tonight! Take notes, because Marcus and Jessica get real deep and funny with these questions. 

Maybe you convinced yourself that your partner would never find out about your side-piece. Of course, your partner DID find out and now you're about to lose your family over some fling. Do marriages survive infidelity? Short answer - yes. But, if you're the cheater, you have to realize that you made the decision to RISK. IT. ALL. Now you have to do absolutely everything you can to rebuild your partner's trust, to make your partner feel safe with you again, to convince your partner that you are not only reliable but that you are also credible. In this episode, the Trufants discuss the emotional journey toward healing that takes place after infidelity. Cheating doesn't always lead to divorce. But, cheating does 100% lead to some uncomfortable moments that, if you overcome them, can help you rebuild a strong, trusting, loving marriage. 

From stepping outside your marriage to intense arguments and just pure exhaustion - if you're thinking about calling it quits and are considering divorce this episode is for you. Sure, relationships are hard and go through ups and downs, but how do you know when it's definitely time to divorce? Let's talk about how to know when it's for sure time to get out.

If you're having money problems in your marriage, you're not alone. At some point, most marriages encounter financial stress. From student loans to overspending and financial secrets - money issues can kill a happy marriage. In this episode, the Trufants discuss the top money issues that impact marriages (according to experts). We dive into questions like, 

- How do you resolve money issues in a marriage? 

- Can a marriage survive money problems?

- Should you put your spouse on an allowance? 

- How to deal with debt in marriage? 

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Do you get mad that your significant other has friends of the opposite sex? Or, is it no-big-deal? What’s appropriate and what’s inappropriate when you have friends of the opposite sex and are married or in a committed relationship? When could these relationships be seen as a threat to your marriage? What are some things you should NEVER do with a friend of the opposite sex? In this episode, we talk about what relationship experts say and how Marcus and Jessica feel about these relationships.


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Do you tell your friends and family about your relationship problems? You probably are (and you don't even know it). There are times when you might feel like you're venting, but the experts say that oversharing is toxic. It can break your partner's trust, cause your friends/family to think differently about your partner, and cause a ton of other problems in your marriage. 

In this episode, we reveal 5 ways you're oversharing and how to stop. 

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We asked sex expert Tiffynee Terry-Thomas all the juicy questions to keep a relationship fresh, sexy, and exciting. We talked about experimenting and trying new things between the sheets, the idea of "open relationships" (and if it can really work), and what GOOD sex even is. If you're ready to have the best sex of your life this year, listen on!

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As 2021 closes out, it's important to reflect on your relationship together and ask some important questions to make the next year, the best year. In this episode, the Trufants open up about 2021 and share answers to some questions - like, Jessica buying a puppy (without Marcus). 


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Life can get hard when a man has a wife and also a baby mama. From insecurities, disrespect, attention, personalities, and taking responsibility - it's a lot to juggle. Sometimes there are issues between all parties involved. So, where do you draw the line? Can wives and baby-mamas ever get along? What exactly is a baby mama? In this episode, we dive into the nitty-gritty of this sometimes complicated family dynamic. 

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Times have changed - in the past, men have usually been the breadwinners while in today's marriages more wives are out-earning husbands. Women are doing it all - raising careers and babies! And, we're HERE FOR IT. But, does this shift in dynamics affect a marriage? What does science say? And, more importantly, what do Marcus and Jessica have to say about it? Find out in this episode. 

BODY SHAMING IN A RELATIONSHIP: is it ever OK to comment on your spouse's insecurities? What to do if you feel fat-shamed by your partner

We came across a video on Instagram of a husband fat-shaming his wife after having their children. We all agree that this man was doing his wife dirty on so many levels. This video sparked a much deeper conversation on fat-shaming (or body shaming) in relationships and what to do about it. Plus, how partners can support their significant others who are going through body changes.