Logo
    Search

    #YearOfTheVet

    #YearOfTheVet is a veteran podcast dedicated to bring on vets from different backgrounds who've already gone through the ups-and-downs of the transition process, and share their lessons learned on the journey so the veterans that follow in their footsteps don't have to make their own mistakes in order to successfully transition into their new lives.

    You are a Hero. Live Like One!
    enRobert Graves33 Episodes

    Episodes (33)

    The Return of Huesing - #1 Best Selling Author of “Echo in Ramadi”

    The Return of Huesing - #1 Best Selling Author of “Echo in Ramadi”
    Retired Marine Major, and #1 Best Selling author of Echo in Ramadi reached out to me to touch base with the #YearOfTheVet family, and fill us in on what he’s been up to since the last conversation between us!

    Echo in Ramadi, describes Scott’s account during the winter of 2006 through the spring of 2007, where two-hundred-fifty Marines from Echo Company, Second Battalion, Fourth Marines fought daily in the dangerous, dense city streets of Ramadi, Iraq during the Multi-National Forces Surge ordered by President George W. Bush. The Marines' mission: to kill or capture anti-Iraqi forces. Their experience: like being in Hell.

    During his career spanning ten deployments, he operated in over 60 countries worldwide. Throughout his numerous deployments to Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Horn of Africa he planned, led, and conducted hundreds of combat missions under some of the most austere and challenging conditions.

    Scott is a published author since 2005. Echo in Ramadi is a snapshot in time that changed the face of operations on the battlefield; a captivating story of Echo Company, 2nd Battalion, 4th Marines during the Second Battle of Ramadi in support of the Multi-National Forces (MNF) Surge Strategy in 2006. His true-life account provides keen insights into what may be an unfamiliar world to readers, but very familiar to those, like Scott, who lived it and endured this historic fight.

    Travis Collier - Transition Coach

    Travis Collier - Transition Coach
    On this episode of #YearOfTheVet, we welcome Travis Collier to the show! Travis joins us as a Keynote Speaker, a Transition Coach/Advisor, and Organizational Performance Consultant, and most recently the author of, "Command Your Transition: Declare Your Intent, Craft Your Mission, Make it on the Outside."


    Travis brings a unique perspective on transition, being that Lieutenant Commander Collier is still active duty in the Coast Guard, during the time of this conversation. Thinking that he was going to accept early retirement, Travis had gone through the mental and physical motions of military to civilian transition, and through his process—he was able to notice some key elements missing in the generic exit classes, and decided to write the book that he wishes he could have during transition.

    Show Notes
    During this conversation we hit some key elements of his book such as:
    - When is the right time to start thinking about your transition back into to the civilian world
    - How to set yourself up for success in both the military and the civilian side
    - Networking
    - How long you should take to unwind from the service, and
    - How long you should expect to be on your job search for the salary you believe you are worth.

    There is so much more spoken about in this conversation, and I expect that everyone will pull something from it.

    Andrew N. Pierce. ESQ. - Legislative | Executive Assistant

    Andrew N. Pierce. ESQ. - Legislative | Executive Assistant
    I'm honored to introduce the first non-Marine to the show, and a hero on and off the proverbial battlefield—Andrew Nathan Pierce, Esq..

    Andrew served his country in a time of war and continues to serve his country, by serving his community as a Legislative/Executive Assistant to the City Council of Edmonds, Washington. No more than 45 days into his new position, he was recognized for his hard work and dedication to his craft, and he credits that to his military mindset, but most of all—the support from his family to chase the fight.

    Andrew served his country in a time of war, and continues to serve his country, by serving his community as a Legislative/Executive Assistant to the City Council of Edmonds, Washington. No more than 45 days into his new position, he was recognized for his hard work and dedication to his craft, and he credits that to his military mindset, but most of all—the support from his family to chase the fight.

    Our conversation can be summed up in two words, and that's... Process Improvement—for he mentions it as a term to label his profession, however the term itself has a home in the overall theme of all that is introduced in this episode of #YearOfTheVet!

    In our conversation we venture into a quick discussion on voting responsibilities, marijuana use, mentorship, and learning to 'Fail Fast' in order to succeed.

    Ozzy Ramirez - Founder & CEO of Detonate Productions | Actor | Writer | Producer

    Ozzy Ramirez - Founder & CEO of Detonate Productions |  Actor | Writer | Producer
    From a 19D Calvary Scout Recon in the Army, to pursuing his dream in the City of Angeles, Ozzy Ramirez joins the #YearOfTheVet family to deeply share his experiences leading into the man he’s become today.

    Life has always been a journey for Oz, literally, as Ozzy recounts hiding in a truck driven by hired smugglers, across the border into a life away from corrupted government and the cartel. Moving all across California in his youth, Oz found himself finally settling down in Riverside in the 6th grade, only to find himself becoming the man of the house and the mentor to 3 young men at the age of 16—when his father walked away from his family.

    The Guadalajaran—and self-proclaimed nerd, found himself teaching himself Jujitsu via VHS (remember those), and from those moments, he learned what it meant to be confident.

    That confidence carried over into the Army, where he held his own in hand-to-hand combat, as well as behind the rifle—and then into casting calls and in the spotlight in theatrical shows like “Basketball Diaries.”

    Ozzy shares his passions and his goals with me in this conversation, and has a call for action for those looking to get out the military soon: Prepare if you can, Start a business if you can, and Separate yourself from the pack, by starting fresh in a new place… if you can.

    --------------------
    Show Notes
    --------------------

     Pre-Army Oz (7:15)

     Working on “The American Accent” (9:06)

     The Dojo of Riverside (9:58)

     Immigrating to America (17:33)

     Having to become the Man of the House (21:03)

     All roads lead to the Army (23:33)

     Oz apologizes to his mother (26:14)

     Role-modeling to 3 younger brothers (27:47)

     Life in Green (29:41)

     Oz confirms that the DMZ is one of the craziest fucking places, EVER! (30:33)

     The Transition: All roads leave to… Barstow??? (32:51)

     Battling the Bottle (41:48)

     How Life stopped Death (45:44)

     Opening Pandora’s Box (48:05)

     Sticking with vulnerability (50:09)

     All-in (52:35)

     I could be the serial… rapist (54:53)

     My personal stint in “THE INDUSTRY” (56:27)

     The difference(s) between theatre and film (58:57)

     Hollywood is embracing the veteran community right now… but you’re not entitled to success (1:01:03)

     Becoming an overnight success (1:00:00)

     An actor’s struggle with “no” (1:05:03)

     Taking the suit off and being in your own skin (1:09:18)

     They’re just human beings who have a job (1:15:23)

     Ozzy Ramirez: Making Nerds Sexy… (1:15:49)

     We got to Mars… (1:19:08)

     For those getting out… (1:22:14)

    --------------------
    Shout Outs:
    --------------------

    Entrepreneur Bootcamp for Veterans

    Rommel Dunbar

    Suzanne Kent

    Anthony Montez

    Hector

    American Legion Post 43

    Joe Sapien - Veteran Service Officer Living Legend | DAV Chapter Commander

    Joe Sapien - Veteran Service Officer Living Legend |  DAV Chapter Commander
    Joe Sapien joins the #YearOfTheVet family to seemingly just have a good time on the mic! I brought Joe in to talk purely about veteran benefits and to break some myths, but before record was even pressed, Joe and I had already had about 20-30 minutes of quality off-air time that felt like two friends meeting up after a long weekend to fill each other in; and I feel that as you listen, you’ll begin to feel the same way.

    Joe is a Veteran Service Officer with California Vet (that’s a VSO for CALVet if you’re hip with the lingo), and he has made a name for himself as one of the go-to guys in the system, that will be upfront with you, work hard for you… but most importantly—really give a shit about whether or not you leave his office satisfied (or at least with the next step to satisfaction).

    Outside of the show notes below, there isn’t much more to pre-load you with—but I do want to let you know… TAKE HIM UP with reaching out to him to have your questions answered about anything veteran benefits. BUT ALL I ASK OF YOU if you do take him up on the offer of reaching out to him… Please please please send an email with as much information as you can provide… as much and as honest information as you can, because the easier you make it for him to help you, I promise the process will go easier than if you don’t.

    Here’s the show notes of our conversation and his contact info hidden in there somewhere so that you have to read it all!

    AND...I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

    Show Notes
    Costa is THE DUDE… I’m just the “co-host.” (5:25)

    The ripples involved with getting people their claims no matter the era of vet, or backstory of the past. (6:05)

    “We’re talk suck it up deal with it, I believe 80% of the stuff hasn’t been reported” Tying the dots of a undocumented past. (6:35)

    Signed up with the Army on April’s Day 2001. “Where are all these drunk pilots coming from?” (8:15)

    Joe’s thoughts on Operation Iraqi Freedom. (11:55)

    Joe’s outlook on people. (14:05)

    The wild wild of transition. (15:56)

    How I got my birthday shoes…(19:45)

    Joe’s gripe with suits. (21:09) (1:56:06)

    Judging a book by its cover. (22:02)

    Conversations I’m bringing back from the California DAV conference. (25:00)

    Vets taking care of vets, “the only way we can keep the VA on a straight line, is if we keep ourselves in a straight line. (26:45)

    The VA Benefit talk starts… listen to this if you’re not receiving VA benefits. (27:24)

    Why it’s important to go get seen for certain issues like sleep apnea, and now in the news… Anthrax. (29:28)

    Joe’s good and all… but he has some flaws too. (32:30)

    “I’m Good to Go…” (36:07)

    Joe’s case load, and success rate… (37:45)

    Joe talks about pushing through and filing your claims, getting out of the mindset of “give it to somebody that deserves it.” (40:20)

    Joe’s call to action: Let’s link up as veterans and be as big as the NRA, where we will stand up as one veteran in times where vets need support. (43:12)

    I’m really just “Joe.” Joe starts to talk about how he became the guy, who like Madonna, people know solely by first name basis. (46:11)

    The one grudge that Joe holds dear to his heart… (49:17)

    “Why not? Let them say no.” Joe talks about applying to jobs he wasn’t qualified for… ultimately landing his county job (50:52)

    **Always do the right thing, because you never know who know’s who… it’s a small world… the same thing happened to me with Mark Manculich…”

    The time when Joe was the Veteran of the Game at Dodger stadium (56:45)

    Humble beginnings living in Modesto, California (1:00:39)

    Finding gratitude in the shittiest moments in your life (1:02:04)

    “If I tell you, come back tomorrow… I’m afraid you won’t come back for 6 years…" (1:04:45)

    How to help homeless vets: (1:05:00)
    - Volunteers of America - https://www.voa.org/veterans
    - P.A.T.H (People Assisting the Homeless) - www.epath.org/site/PATHServices/VeteranConnections/home.html
    - US Vets - https://www.usvetsinc.org/programs-services/
    - New Directions - https://www.ndvets.org

    Branching out for growth. (1:10:15)


    ******PART TWO*******


    “I have a giant head…” (2:30)

    Benefits you never hear about. (4:45)

    Benefit: Myth Breaking (11:10)

    Conspiracy…? (22:15)

    Lessons learned from misreading situations when it comes to vets (24:43)

    Always pay attention to changes in politics, and explore some of the rumors to see if there’s truth behind them. (28:10)

    VocRehab (31:25)

    Joe’s approach on how we should live a day-to-day life. (40:43)

    I ask Joe about his favorite or best success story as a VSO. (50:25)

    What would you tell vet’s who are struggling today? What’s your best advice for those transitioning? (55:55)

    Joe’s Podcast: VET2VET (Veto if you’re looking for it on youtube) (1:00:06)

    Jimmy Guevara - USC Master of Social Work | UCLA Family Readiness and Resilience Counselor

    Jimmy Guevara - USC Master of Social Work | UCLA Family Readiness and Resilience Counselor
    Episode #20 features Marine Corps veteran Jimmy Guevara; but what it REALLY features is a mirror for a lot of the vets I’ve met. A mirror that shows the struggle of trying to fit in to a world—whether it’d be a professional, educational, social, or any other society that you try to slip in to without understanding that you are not the same type of person that you once were.

    Jimmy shares his story (that turns into a two-part episode) about his journey into and through the Marine Corps. He shares very personal moments that, if you knew Jimmy… these moments he shares… really had to be pulled out over a period of time after having established a trust with him. But why I think they are important and urged him to share—is because I have a very similar story, and if I have that story… many other people do too!

    Stories like losing his grandfather who was murdered over political views, being in an abusive home, having alcoholic role models, joining ROTC because he had a feeling that he needed a stable structure. Stories like leaving the Marine Corps he loved so much, to take care of external obligations… for him, his mom. Stories that he has about himself from being a college dropout and what seemed to employers as “stubborn” and “insubordinate,” into an extremely relevant and trustworthy key player in the advocacy movement for the student veteran at two (going on three) colleges! But it’s not that he was stubborn or defiant, he is a Marine; A Marine that tried to assert a higher level of standard—one of quality vs. quantity—in the places he sought employment, which sometimes (as most of us have experienced) doesn’t fit well in a place that isn’t looking to let go of some of the qualities keeping them from being exceptional.


    Yes I’m biased.

    Jimmy is a storyteller, so my intention was to give Jimmy the platform, and let him go! Jimmy throughout this conversation talks about his troubled high school career that was primarily a gap filler of time that was a hurdle between he and the Corps; he talks about his deployments and almost being a casualty to “friendly-fire,” and his short-yet-much-needed career in the Corps. We talk about legacy, and what it takes to rebuild oneself from the moments that seemed like failure.

    As a student veteran, Jimmy found himself creating a college that he wished he had the first time around. Not knowing anything about the red tape of most programs, or even programs in general, Jimmy found himself becoming knowledgeable on all the benefits available for the veterans in college and created a team to take care of all the veterans looking for financial aid, a place to stay, study help, VA benefit enrollment, and even found himself advocating for vets to have a safe haven where vets can come and be around people who wouldn’t judge us for our personalities that don’t quite fit in other groups around campus.

    Jimmy gives a theory about why vets don’t do well in school, and mentions that “there is actual power in being a student instead of sitting in the background.”

    I love this conversation because Jimmy is the epitome of “if there’s a will there’s a way…” From forging signatures to change his education programs in order to be able to go into the Marine Corps, dropping 75 lbs to become a Marine, and then realizing that just because you’ve failed once at something does not mean you’re a failure… only that the way you tried it before, wasn’t the way that works to see success!

    “I worked too hard to quit!”

    Jimmy’s last note… “The More Veteran’s we help, the more support we’re gonna get!

    ----------------------
    Show Notes
    ----------------------

    Some other key points to the conversation were:

    •Networking

    •How we should get out of the mindset of “transitioning…” and change the mindset to “acclimatizing” or “adapting,” (which is actually an interesting thought)

    •Feeling stuck

    •Finding your identity

    •What it’s like being an only child in a service that becomes family

    •How leadership comes from watching leadership be leaders

    •Learning from your teaching mistakes to become a better instructor

    •Putting on a Mask to fit in with the Marines who couldn’t wait to get out

    •Taking “One Class at a Time!”

    •How to advocate for veterans… “Bring what you know!”



    Most importantly we talk about Jimmy’s Call to Action! Give Back! Stand up for your vets!

    Shout outs to Boogie (Alfred Wilson) and Carter

    Lorenzo McNulty - Entrepreneur | Author | Founder of Keep it Hemple

    Lorenzo McNulty - Entrepreneur | Author |  Founder of Keep it Hemple
    My Very First Podcast, I introduce, my friend... my brother... My Guide.... Marine Corps Veteran....

    Lorenzo McNulty joins us today as the very first guest of the #YearOfTheVet podcast, to talk about his transition from the service, to where his is today!
    Founder of The Wealth Academy, and author of "A Girl's Gotta Have Her Own Money: Pretty | Powerful | Profitable," McNulty has focused his energy into providing both men & women the information and tools, to become financially independent, and not have to struggle the way he did on his journey to his children's independence.

    McNulty started from the bottom of sales, all the way to the corner offices—training Fortune 500 CEO's... this is a "wealth" of knowledge to listen to... pun intended.

    *I have to apologize for the dissonance of the two mic levels and the first few couple of minutes of tech problems, but WHEN YOU GO LIVE, YOU'RE LIVE BABY!

    Keep listening... because it was such a great conversation that may help you in some way, shape, or form!

    Shannon Corbeil - We Are The Mighty | Actress | Producer | Writer | Performer | (fill in the blanks)

    Shannon Corbeil - We Are The Mighty | Actress | Producer | Writer | Performer | (fill in the blanks)
    The #YearOfTheVet family welcome Shannon Corbeil… that’s Corbeil like Sorbet. An Air Force veteran who answered the call to service after 9/11, Shannon joins us to talk about her road to the silver screen.

    Right off the bat, you notice that Shannon’s ability to create a calm, fun, and enjoyable environment breaks through, and that same energy is held throughout our conversation.

    In her past life, she served as an Intelligence Officer… but luckily for her, while stationed in Maryland she rekindled with her passion and fell into her future—one she had memories of starting as early as 8 years old.

    A LOT is talked about, and sometimes we go on tangents… well… sometimes, I go on tangents, but one thing’s for sure—Shannon is the real deal. She gives guidance to aspiring artist, she shares stories of advice that was given to her—in order for her to be able to make film her career. She shares a little about the not-so-glorifying aspect of fighting to get noticed, yet still in all that—we tell each other jokes. Like… actual jokes.

    Shannon makes time to give back to our community, and not just by being a guest on the show… but by involving herself in the world that was created to give back to the veterans. She shares about her involvement with the phenomenal Architecture in Motion group, Diavolo… and also her connection with Pin-Ups For Vets—a non-profit that uses the money it raises to provide the VA and other facilities aiding veterans, with new, updated, or missing medical equipment that would help provide better care for our brothers- and sisters-in-arms.

    In fact, if you would like to pre-order your copy of the newest Calendar to be released next year, please visit www.PinUpsForVets.com, and reserve your copy today! Shannon can be found in November—so after listening to today’s conversation, you can tell people, “I know her… kinda…”

    I highly encourage you to reach out to Shannon, regarding any questions covering breaking into show business, classes to start out with, We Are The Mighty, Diavolo, Pinups For Vets… or anything we’ve covered in the show. I had a blast with the soon to be household name, and I hope you do too!

    ----------
    Show Notes

     Corbeil like Sorbet (04:22)

     Pre-Air Force Shannon (08:14)

     Shannon’s pivoting point into patriotism (10:57)

     Slightly off-topic conversation about Moorpark, Ca. (12:15)

     She REALLY hates frozen things… like really hates them (13:43)

     The time my best friend wanted me to punch him in the face (14:57)

     We Are the Mighty (16:23)

     Back to business… more ROTC talk (17:43)

     Why Shannon said enough to the service (20:11)

     Going for it! (22:00)

     Why not military contractor? (23:50)

     Has Hollywood paid off? (26:36)

     Gratitude & Gratefulness (29:03)

     How the military helped prep for the life of an artist? (32:45)

     Shannon’s extensive theatrical training (35:53)

     ATTENTION GAME OF THRONES & STAR WARS!!!!

    Need look no further for your next superstar to kill off at some point down the line right when you just start to enjoy their character… (38:29)

     Shannon’s advice for seeking out quality training in a flooded industry (41:30)

     Diavolo: Architecture in Motion (43:24)

     Miss November, or one of… (47:08)

     Branding yourself as an actor (51:08)

     I made a shitty reference to Jurassic World that I’m sure nobody listening got… so here’s a Tumblr link to redeem myself https://www.tumblr.com/search/jurassic%20world%20heels (55:05)

     If you don’t have the job, create it (55:15)

     #YearOfTheVet turns Comedy Hour with Heroes (59:31)

     HOLLYWOOD… City of Angels, or Broken Dreams? (1:08:57)

     Shannon’s advice to vets who are struggling (1:10:32)

     Is acting for you? (1:11:50)

     Advice for her younger self… TRUST. (1:19:32)

     Wrapping up with Cosmic Pole Dancing and Fire Eating (1:26:08)

    *Put in your dues… the best thing is to learn both sides of the camera*

    ----------
    Shout Outs:

    The Actors Center in Maryland

    Gina Elise

    Self-Management for Actors (book)

    Diavolo

    Pin-Ups For Vets

    Dennis Baker

    SAG AFTRA

    Matt Pearce

    Hi Mom, Hi Dad! (1:22:50)

    Monica Kay & Amy King

    Fire Groove Entertainment

    Rachel Hetzel - Founder of OnPATH LLC

    Rachel Hetzel - Founder of OnPATH LLC
    Rachel Hetzel, Founder of “OnPATH LLC,” joins the show to wrap up this year’s Women’s History Month.

    This conversation I had with Rachel was so good, that we ended up talking for a half hour after we finished recording, and then even more into the next week. Rachel talks about how one day, she “woke up,” found herself unemployed, and literally accidentally drove into her newfound purpose of her new life. That drive changed her “path” to focus her to where she is today!

    OnPATH LLC, Rachel’s consulting firm, I learned—is an acronym for Purpose, Action, Transformation, Health, which makes a lot of sense after listening to how Rachel has used the lessons learned through her “mentors” in life, to help her personal growth… but in this sense, she explains “mentors,” as being experiences in life—as well as individual people she comes across on her daily journeys.

    She explains that, “everything you experience is preparing you for something,” and when you’re feeling stuck in life, “you need to step up your game or step out,” because it’s the moment you step out of your comfort zone, that change in your life can be facilitated.

    “When the Discomfort outweighs the fear, you’re going to make a change.”

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Some other topics we talk about:

    • Growth Mindset: learning from your successful and or failed situations

    • Taking a more deliberate approach with each stage of your decision-making process

    • Modeling successful people to become successful in your own life

    • Knowing what your skill set, your experience, and what your potential is valued at

    • Negotiation tips for job interviews.

    • Intentional resume writing.

    • Post Traumatic Growth (PTG)…

    And much more fit into one hour of conversation. One thing that I hope the female vet get from this conversation is that, “on average females come in and ask for a pretty significant percentage less than most male because they don’t think that they’re worth it,” therefore Rachel stresses to recognize what your worth is and be prepared to advocate from it.

    If you’ve found anything Rachel said interesting, and would like to contact Rachel for more conversation, or even individual work, her contact information is:

    Lastly she definitely made sure to make me include the link to the Boulder Crest Retreat team. I’ve taken a look at the website and read through everything they have to offer. And Believe I will be taken advantage of this for both myself and my family! I ask you to visit their site and see what they have to offer, for yourself!

    http://www.bouldercrestretreat.org/

    Max Lopez - Lead System Engineer | Contractor

    Max Lopez - Lead System Engineer | Contractor
    Maximilian Lopez, a Marine Corps veteran, joins us today on the #YearOfTheVet podcast to talk about his transition from the service to where his is today!

    Nerd of the Marine Corps (5948 - Radar Technician) turned civilian Engineer, Lopez shares with us his continued journey of transition—and we're talking life... not just military!

    Born into poverty, Lopez found a way out—HIS way out... and from that moment on, the only reason he looked back was to remember why he was moving forward.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Some topics of interest? Loyalty, gratitude, family, resilience, and most important of all—mental and personal preparation for forward process toward your goals! Lopez brings to the table that ALL transition isn't BAD transition—and that transitioning out of the service doesn't have to be a headache... which is something that we all should know!

    I urge you to give yourself the opportunity to listen to this conversation, even if it has to be in smaller chunks, because the quality of the words that Max brings to the table almost made me forget I was hosting the podcast—because I could listen to his story in depth all day!

    PLEASE ENJOY, SHARE, LIKE, and COMMENT!

    Manny Garcia - Marine Veteran | Student Administration Support Assistant

    Manny Garcia - Marine Veteran | Student Administration Support Assistant
    Manny Garcia finally joins the #YearOfTheVet family to open up about his transition journey from his past life of 9-years in the Marine Reserves, to the life of a Student Veteran...itching to re-enlist.

    But don't let the "R" word fool ya. He wasn't just a weekend warrior looking to fight for college credits. Manny lived, breathed, and engulfed himself into the life of an active duty Marine; volunteering for as many deployments as possible—finding himself walking on the same path as many active duty Marines find themselves after falling in the rabbit hole... looking for himself in all the wrong spots.

    Getting Manny to be as socially vulnerable as he was in this conversation, was a gift... and I hope this episode is able to connect with you and convey the reasons why I coerced him to join me.

    I met Manny at California State University Northridge, in the CSUN Veterans Resource Center—where Manny aides veterans map their way through college and into their new lives as student veterans into life outside of the schoolhouse as the Student Administration Support Assistant. As a natural leader, Manny found himself taking on the role as President of the Veteran fraternity Sigma Tau Alpha (ΣΤΑ), where working with a skeleton crew, he still managed to create and implement an annually hosted 5K that supports The Soldiers Project, a 501(c)(3) devoted to helping the veteran and their families by providing free counseling services.

    Manny and I talk about the road the lead him from HMLA-775 to the Intel community. We also explore the mindset of going back into the service after separating... but more importantly we talk about purpose, identity, and how easy it is to find yourself not being true to yourself.

    The conversation between the two of us takes us into an area of solution... more-so for Manny, but a solution that could possibly help others get past their demons, and get out of their own way. For Manny, this absolutely requires discipline, routine, as well as a thirst for knowledge.

    Once again... from this conversation I hope that you pull, that like many others who've served, Manny is a veteran who does not often share emotions—nor venture far outside of his circle of trust. And to have Manny come on to #YearOfTheVet, I am honored that this is the platform that a veteran of this caliber can come and open up for others that follow behind him to potentially learn from, by relating to.


    ----------
    Show Notes

     Pre-Marine Corps Manny (11:09)

     Keeping a small circle (12:54)

     Joining the Corps… in a Mexican family (13:28)

     The road from Aviation Mechanic Technician to Intel guy (18:00)

     That moment when you thought you knew someone, and then they blow your mind with “let’s scratch that” (20:57)

     Just because you’re a reservist… (22:34)

     Reserve/Life Balance (23:46)

     The end of an era (24:48)

     The “Break Up” (26:46)

     Hey HQMC, I know you’re listening… (27:49)

     Leaders are Magnetic (30:19)

     Identity (32:23)

     Shout out to Tim Ferris (35:16)

     Books, Books, Books (35:37)

     You can take the boy out the Corps (40:58)

     Manny’s Daily Routine (42:26)

     I don’t read so good…(43:53)

     “Of Mice and Men” Spoiler Alert… (45:02)

     Explaining “Work Study” (45:48)

     The Veteran Resource Center East Coast WORLD TOUR… (47:00)

     The reason you should EAS and move to Connecticut (47:32)

     The Birth of the Beard, and the Re-Birth of Manny (49:10)

     “Who is that person in the mirror?” (52:48)

     Tipping back the bottle (55:35)

     The next big thing (1:02:01)

     Manny’s advice to those separating from the service (1:05:36)

     Guidance to Recruit Garcia (1:09:43)

     Ask those that have been in your shoes…(1:12:33)

    ----------
    Shout Outs:

     Jimmy Guevara

     HMLA-775

     John Bui

     Jun

     Tim Ferris

     Capt. Timothy Jones

    Scott Huesing - Author of Echo in Ramadi | Echo Company, 2d Battalion, 4th Marines

    Scott Huesing - Author of Echo in Ramadi | Echo Company, 2d Battalion, 4th Marines
    "In war, destruction is everywhere. It eats everything around you. Sometimes it eats at you." —Major Scott Huesing, Echo Company Commander

    From the winter of 2006 through the spring of 2007, two-hundred-fifty Marines from Echo Company, Second Battalion, Fourth Marines fought daily in the dangerous, dense city streets of Ramadi, Iraq during the Multi-National Forces Surge ordered by President George W. Bush. The Marines' mission: to kill or capture anti-Iraqi forces. Their experience: like being in Hell.

    During his career spanning ten deployments, he operated in over 60 countries worldwide. Throughout his numerous deployments to Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Horn of Africa he planned, led, and conducted hundreds of combat missions under some of the most austere and challenging conditions.

    Scott is a published author since 2005. Echo in Ramadi is a snapshot in time that changed the face of operations on the battlefield; a captivating story of Echo Company, 2nd Battalion, 4th Marines during the Second Battle of Ramadi in support of the Multi-National Forces (MNF) Surge Strategy in 2006. His true-life account provides keen insights into what may be an unfamiliar world to readers, but very familiar to those, like Scott, who lived it and endured this historic fight.

    Echo in Ramadi is a firsthand account of the U.S. Marines as they fought in the deadliest city of Iraq. He conducted over 75 interviews with his Marines, soldiers and Gold Star families to honor their sacrifices both on and off the battlefield. His story shares not only the firefights and friction but also the tragic aftermath of war and healing of those that continue to battle with the effects of Post Traumatic Stress.

    The foreword, written by Major General James Livingston (Medal of Honor Recipient), Vietnam Veteran and former Echo Company Commander, speaks volumes. Praise for Echo in Ramadi includes LtCol Oliver North, political commentator and host of War Stories on the Fox News Channel. Dale Dye, Actor, and decorated Vietnam Veteran. Best-selling authors Bing West, Jack Coughlin, Robin Hutton, Charles Sasser. Most important to Scott are the endorsements from his Marines and Chris Libby, Gold Star brother of Corporal Dustin J. Libby (KIA 6 December 2006). Echo in Ramadi was written to honor the sacrifices and spirit of his Marines and the families they supported - it is his tribute to them and honor to tell this great story. Readers will no doubt feel the pain, emotion, laughter, intensity, and friction that Scott describes in unvarnished detail.

    We discuss his career path from enlisted Marine to an officer as he led Echo Company through the bloody streets of Ramadi - and the qualities that ultimately shaped his leadership style and decisions to write about this historic battle.

    He shares his process of writing. Describing how putting pen to paper can serve as an outlet for others to heal - helping veterans cope with and share the unnatural acts they faced on the battlefield.

    Scott describes with humility how he learned from his examples of leadership over the span of his career - both good and bad. Listeners will also gain perspective on the importance of learning from the living warriors from the past battles and how to tap into those of the Greatest Generation while they are still alive. He shares his network skills and how to leverage tools and programs available to veteran artists, such as The Veterans Writer’s Project to help move forward with personal goals in writing, speaking, and life.

    Finally, Scott talks about his charity, Save the Brave, a certified 501(c)3 serving as the Executive Director. Connecting veterans through outreach bringing service members together to share camaraderie long after they leave the service and no longer wear the uniform. Providing outreach programs provided by Stoked on Fishing hosted by Fox West Sports.

    Along with his selfless work with Save the Brave, he is also the President of the 2nd Battalion, 4th Marines Association, a non-profit that helps Veterans and active duty Marines and is the Vice President on the Board of the KD Poynter Legacy Foundation to provide funds and support to all Veterans. He is a sought-out public speaker and a member of Bravo 748, a military speaking consortium and a featured author with Patriot Authors Unsung online magazine.

    I had a great conversation with Scott, and from it—I can easily see why if anyone can show the world that heroes are real… he is the one to do it.

    ----------
    Show Notes

     Pre-Marine Corps Huesing (08:39)

     I try to get Scott’s recipe for leadership (10:50)

     Filling voids (12:48)

     Scott’s decision to go to college (15:00)

     A calling to serve (15:57)

     Learning how to and how NOT to lead from the environment around you (19:49)

     Leading from the front: “It’s not just a bumper sticker” (21:32)

     Leading up to leading the Marines of Echo, in Ramadi…(23:12)

     Chemistry (25:08)

     Experiencing Ramadi over 75 times (28:42)

     Scott’s advice on writing your own story (36:00)

     The Veterans Writer’s Project; The Writers Guild of America (WGA) (38:22)

     Finding a way to maintain the high-tempo life outside the service (39:52)

     “It’s acceptable to struggle” (42:25)

     Scott talks about the process of starting a/his business after the service (44:56)

     Learning from Veteran Warriors: Lunch with PFC Jim Skinner (48:08)

     Save The Brave! (52:28)

     A sneak peek into book number two (55:15)

     Scott’s advice for those struggling to find themselves today (55:57)

     20-year Hindsight (59:05)

     The “Major” Legacy (1:00:00)

    ----------
    Shout Outs:

    Save the Brave Foundation

    Nick Velez

    Ernesto “Ernie” Delgado

    Stoked on Fishing

    Fox Sports - West

    Shea McIntee

    Andrew Pereira

    PFC Jim Skinner

    The Veterans Writer’s Project; The Writers Guild of America (WGA)

    The Marines of Echo Company 2nd Bt, 4th Marines

    The Soldiers of Task Force 1-9 infantry

    The warriors of 77th armored Steel Tigers

    The Gold Star families that sacrificed their families to protect ours

    Major General James Livingston

    Colonel Oliver North

    Dale Dye

    Bing West

    Jack Coughlin

    Dustin Libbey (KIA)

    Leland Shultz - Account Manager | Software Sales

    Leland Shultz - Account Manager | Software Sales
    Wanting to be Maverick, Leland Schulz knew he was going to go to the Naval Academy after high school. Leland, a Combat Engineer Marine Officer, joins the #YearOfTheVet family to talk about his transition from being an advisor to the Army’s of Iraq and Afghanistan, into an Account Manager—or as he simplified it… software salesman.

    I mention it earlier, but my conversation with Leland was simply insightful.

    We talk a lot about giving yourself a shot at anything you want to do—and we talk about it in different ways. And you can see what I mean from some of my favorite quotes from the conversation!

    “Don’t short change the skills you have, because it’s not JUST what your MOS is. There are underlying skillets that you can extract from your experience in the Marine Corps”

    “The biggest lesson I learned in transition is to not be afraid! This implication of failure in the Marine Corps is measured in lives, most things aren’t the serious in the corporate world. It’s ok to try something and fail!”

    Don’t try to replicate the past!

    Leland talks about his experience with utilizing the headhunters like Lucas Groups, Bradley Morris, or Orion, similarly to how I had (don’t wait till they contact you… reach out and let them know you’re interested in their help).

    We also talk the awkward moment when people “Thank you for your service!” We talk about a separation of Enlisted vs. Officers as it pertains to employment, and how career progression is not outlined in the civilian world isn’t like it is in the service…You now have the control of your destiny… USE IT!

    Shout out to Arleen Graves for setting this up!

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Some tips you may want to take into consideration pulled from the conversation:

    • Learn humility

    • You need a good balance of leadership and rapport

    • Get out before your stop having fun

    • Use the veteran LinkedIn benefits and used the allowed LinkedIn Job Seeker badge

    • Use your terminal leave as a buffer between the military and getting back into the job force

    • Taking chances on opportunities, in aspects to employment

    • “You have a right to get a feel where they want you to work!”

    • “If you can, don’t sign anything till you have the opportunity to feel what the company culture is like”

    • You CAN make demands as it pertains to accepting a job offer! BUT they must be statements and not “wishy washy” mentions…

    • Take the time to break down your roles in the military instead of you’re overall MOS. The small things such as maintaining your own inventory, can turn into a resume bullet point of something along the lines of, “Responsible of $780,000 of government owned gear. most civilians have never been in charge of that kinda of price tag.

    • Be Ambitious, but be realistic…”

    Landy Cordero - Owner of SD Moto | Motorcycle Test Engineer

    Landy Cordero - Owner of SD Moto |  Motorcycle Test Engineer
    Episode 12 introduces one of my best friends, Marine veteran, and owner of SD Moto—Landy Cordero.

    Landy joined the Marine Corps a year exactly prior to 9/11 and even though he served honorably, like many who leave the service in a hurry after their first enlistment, Landy found himself trying to separate himself from the Corps as far as possible... until his motorcycle wreck had him viewing the big picture, a little more clearly.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Landy talks about:


    -The hard work it takes to achieve your goals

    -Taking care of your paperwork first and foremost, immediately after the service

    -The type of demeanor experienced from others, that helped him easily decide to leave the Corps, and...

    -How one's hobby can turn into a business

    Kevin "Kris Kringle" Boughan - Santa

    Kevin "Kris Kringle" Boughan - Santa
    Kevin Boughan had hopes to serve honorably in the military the same as his brother, uncle, father, and father's father, only to have it end one day from a motorcycle accident that he would never remember, and one that turned him into 4-year old all over again as a 20 year old man. A vet that never made it, and an alcoholic who progressively crawls his way out of rock bottom, he still has time to find his way to celebrate the Christmas spirit!

    Since the age of 17, Kevin has been a certified Santa, and he brings the gift of Wisdom on this episode of #YearOfTheVet.

    Justin Jones - Marine Corps Veteran | SpaceX Chef | Playboy Chef

    Justin Jones - Marine Corps Veteran | SpaceX Chef | Playboy Chef
    Justin Jones joins us as the newest #YearOfTheVet family member to drop a little bit of transition knowledge. When I met Justin, I was JUST transitioning out of the Corps, and after having this conversation with him, I now understand why he always seemed so elevated compared to the rest of us.
    Learning his way to the top, Justin shares stories about what it's like to land a job in the the kitchen, and what it takes to become and stay successful when it gets too hot in the kitchen.

    Justin also brings the element of family life and work life balance
    to the conversation, which I know for a lot of veterans... is one of the hardest things to figure out.

    Seriously, one of the most down to earth guys... who can tell you that nothing comes easy from taking the shortcuts in life. Read through the show notes below and throw this episode on, and just chill all the way through, till the end of the conversation.

    Show Notes
    Hear the excitement in Justin’s excitement to be on the show (4:07)

    Pre-Marine Corps Justin (4:47)

    We talk about the little Filipino inside of Justin (7:00)

    The road to the literal chopping block (7:39)

    The recruiter lies to the Chefs too! (8:30)

    “Working at the prisons…didn’t speak to me…” (11:13)

    The GI Bill… “back in the day” (13:03)

    Starting over at 22 (15:31)

    Esprit de… Kitchen (18:00)

    California Culinary Academy on Polk Street (19:01)

    The energy in a kitchen—the kitchen high (21:10)

    Does Justin have a “Top Gun” of cooking movies? (25:00)

    Justin’s culinary resume (27:18)

    How children can ruin a job as Chef to the Playboy Bunnies! (29:38)

    Becoming the feeder of nerds! Culinary master to the one of the greatest brains this generation has seen, and his employees that will send us all to space… Space-X (31:44)

    Maintaining discipline in the kitchen (34:35)

    What it takes to become successful in the food business (36:52)

    Passing on knowledge (40:36)

    Burritos and Rosemary! (41:37)

    Chitterlings aka the “poo trap” (43:58)

    Justin’s dreams (46:08)

    Balancing family vs food (47:35)

    Justin’s advice to struggling veterans (51:48)

    “Shut up and Listen” (54:33)

    Final advice for aspiring chefs (55:10)

    Josh Heath - Entrepreneurial Peacebuilder | Game Developer

    Josh Heath - Entrepreneurial Peacebuilder | Game Developer
    Josh Heath joins the #YearOfTheVet family to share his journey in, through, and out of the service—into his current day-to-day life.

    Josh is an Entrepreneurial Peace builder, a Freelance Writer and Editor at High Level Games, Game Developer, and this summer he launched his company, Reach-Out Roleplaying Games, as well as his website www.keepontheheathlands.com.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Josh and I talk about how setting small realistic goals has been an important tool in helping get to his next highest point. We talk about his path of advocacy, not only for student veterans, but also for an under-recognized religious culture, Heathenism.

    Last, we talk about using the hobbies you have to act as a transition buffer in order to have something to break the ice into your new life. Apart from some other common themes we hear on #YearOfTheVet such as networking, and working hard for what you want, Josh introduces a solid lesson on using your future endeavors, to not only choose the schools you apply to, but more importantly choose the specific professors you should study under--in order to help advance your career.

    Josh is also the author of Old Don: A Heathens Tale, and the founder/co-founder of The Open Halls Project, which I highly suggest you look into.

    Jose Roman - Founder of Networking Veterans Group (NVG) | Student Vet Advocate at Regent University

    Jose Roman - Founder of Networking Veterans Group (NVG) | Student Vet Advocate at Regent University
    Jose Roman pulls in the 16th episode of #YearOfTheVet, and when I asked Jose how he would like to be introduced—he said, “Veteran Advocate at the Military Resource Center at Regent University and NVG, Networking Veterans Group,” however I want to label him… Jack-of-All-Trades-Master-of-None!

    Fresh off the streets of Anaheim, California while presenting at the 2017 Student Veteran of America National Conference, where about1800 Student Veterans talk about issues and solutions revolving around student vets, and vets in general. There—corporate sponsors such as Google, Raytheon, Disney, and many other companies work together, and engage with these vets to support and touch on topics such as: How to connect with student vets on campus, how to get the most out of networking, how to use your job experience, building your resume, how to get into grad school, law school, and as far as hire students ON THE SPOT to large fortune 500 and smaller companies. Ultimate, Jose mentions that the goal is to take this information back to YOUR campus.

    Having both his parents pass away while in high school, Jose had to make some big boy choices for his future, and even as a student in high school, he knew to keep his options open and find the best option for his future when it came to which service he would enlist in. In a similar mind, just to get the hell out of dodge—right before Jose signed his life away to the Army to drive tanks and blow shit up, a Navy recruiter who’d seen him earlier during community service asked the right question to get him focused on his future: What are you going to do when you’re done driving tanks?

    Look… I could write a small book on all we talked about… from his background in martial arts—having started kickboxing in high school “… before it was cool—before UFC 1,” and even though at the time it was just his outlet or a hobby, he never knew that it would turn into his first created, and failed company that he opened with his friends, and shares the hard lessons of what it takes to be a business owner… the right way.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Other topics we hit on:

     We talk A LOT about veteran advocacy, and how you can get involved, or open up your own.

     What it means to be a veteran

     “VOW OF POVERTY”

     Being “The old man on campus,” as a student veteran.

     Work Study

     3 phases of how the public views veterans: Appreciation/Indifference/Resentment

     Being a Good leader, as well as a good follower

     The WIFM (what’s in it for me) for why he advocates

     The reason why you shouldn’t burn your DD-214

     Paying it forward

     Looking at starting a business as a cautionary tale of taking ownership of your “thing” whatever it is, from beginning to end… you have to Ride or Die with it

     “The post-deployment hangover”

     … and the fact you need to start looking for a job on day one of school!

    Seriously that looks like a lot, but this Navy vet and mentor talks about so much more, and its SO freaking interesting.

    ----------

    Jose wanted me to make sure to give props where props are due to:

    • Ron Capps & Veterans Writing Project

    • Operation Motown Muster via Mission Continues

    • Outward bound via Sierra Club

    • Vice president of Diversity: Kevin Preston for your work with the SVA

    • The SVA itself

    • Phillip Wyman

    • Mike Stack

    • Jared Lions

    • … and last but not least, the Military Resource Center, Regent University

    Please reach out to Jose if anything in this conversation piques your interest and you have any questions comments or concerns!

    Don’t forget to leave a comment on the page, and thanks for tuning back into #YearOfTheVet

    James Klarenbach - Navy Veteran | Hypnotherapist | Proud Grandpa | Self-Proclaimed Nomad

    James Klarenbach - Navy Veteran | Hypnotherapist | Proud Grandpa | Self-Proclaimed Nomad
    James Klarenbach joins the #YearOfTheVet family and brings a conversation full of the mental side of achieving your goals.

    A recently retired Chief Petty Officer and a self-proclaimed "nomad," James really does hit the key thoughts and emotions of what it's like to start over—whether starting over means starting over at a new duty station, or starting over after the service. Lessons learned from noticing he wasn't a good match for a company and vice versa due to the atmosphere, and the people surrounding him in his workplace... to learning and practicing "Intentional Focus," in order to work toward your visions, as well as letting your visions work for you, James comes to the show to share all that valuable gold here with you.

    James, also being a Certified Hypnotherapist and Veteran advocate, talks about how he uses his trade to help those individuals suffering from battle fatigue, depression, body syndromes, pain, cancer, and PTSD, by using tools a "scripting," law of attraction, guided imagery, and a whole tool bag full of mental tools.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Some key takeaway points from our conversation is to:

     “Plan Better…Your chances of greater success, come from planning longer and further out and looking at what you want do and coming up with a solid plan”

     “Where attention goes, energy flows”

    ----------

    Email:

    InWordsHypnosis@gmail.com
    James.Klarenbach@gmail.com

    Eric DeVries - Author | Peak Performance Coach | Vet Advocate | Air Force veteran

    Eric DeVries - Author | Peak Performance Coach | Vet Advocate | Air Force veteran
    Eric DeVries (Dev rEs) is an Author, Peak Performance Coach, Vet Advocate, and most admirably—an Air Force veteran. Born into that role through “The War Generation,” Eric’s dad is a Vietnam vet, his grandpa fought in WW2 … and he can trace family all the way back to both sides of the revolutionary war. But instead of joining the service immediately after high school, he waited till he felt that he was mature enough before enlisting, stating that “I wanted to be willing to give my life away, instead of irrationally following directions.”

    After a first term as an Air Force Helicopter mechanic, he lat moved into computer programming, and then forced into intel to finish his time in the service.

    ----------
    Show Notes

    Eric talks about the rigidness of the system saying “if I had been in control of my own destiny… there would’ve been different opportunities and different options available there for me and therefore there would’ve been different decisions…”

    In 2012, he found himself in a military that “wasn’t recognizable,” and knew he “didn’t want to do this for 20 years and started thinking about what jobs were out in the civilian world that I can translate this trade to.” Simultaneously he started fundraising for those suffering with PTSD, which at the time 18 suicides per day and there was a “calling,” which helped the transition from the Air Force to APEX, where he worked a lot in mental training (concentration, focus, guided imagery, etc…) where he was helping clients learn to focus on the task at hand, and helping teach ways to filter out the noise in order to focus on the moment.

    In our conversation he gives tips on Lat Moving. He says to “look for MOS’s that are undermanned… if you have flexibility… because then you don’t run into being placed into a place that they’ll place you where Uncle Sam wants you.”

    He talks about active listening. Saying that “we spend more time listening to people in order to RESPOND, than we do in order to UNDERSTAND,” and that we can get away from that by realizing that we don’t have to fix everyone’s problems and just need to” listen sometimes and respond only when needed, show empathy, and ask how we can help… instead of offering advice.”

    Eric talks about Breaking the mindset that these already set organizations that are already established (such as the Legions, VFW, etc…) won’t accept you because you are a veteran of a different era. He mentions it’s important to get involved in a peer groups because they are a great alternative to seeing a one-on-one therapist. “You get around those individuals that share similar interest, or similar problems… and through active listening, healing happens…” and in case one isn’t near you or you’re not comfortable with the ones around, he reminds us that all you all you need is to get 2 people to meet up, and you have a peer support group.

    We talk about scholarships, reverse engineering the brain, the profession of counseling, LinkedIn, biofeedback, CSF2, the concept of who you know, the process of writing a book, but most importantly—his book, Control it, Influence it, or dump that S**it, his first of a three part series in which the first book is about the things you control, the things you can influence, how you respond to the inevitable that will happen, and how your influences have affect on other people. The second book would cover military transition: moving from a flexible machine to a different type of chaos, and book number three, would focus on the spouses.

    -----------

    Nothing is wrong with your radios around 45 minutes… its my fault… operator error…