attachment disorder

Welcome back!  Thanks for joining the podcast once again where we continue to discuss attachment traumas!  In this episode your host, Manny, addresses self-sabotage, what it is, and why people develop the need to self-sabotage.   Trauma-blocking behaviors are also discussed and why these behaviors are connected to attachment and our attachment styles and relationships!  Have a listen and please share this very informative podcast with your friends and family!

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Greetings all!  In this episode we dive into the Psychological Symptoms of Attachment Trauma.  We go into depth on the tendencies to feel guilt, shame, and humiliation from our childhood trauma(s) and we discuss why individuals may experience hyper-reactive stress, and we barely scathe the surface on Enmeshment and the incessant need to please others no matter what!  Ultimately people need to understand that trauma, in all its forms, are the bleeding.  Our coping mechanisms and choice of addictions are merely the band aid over the bullet hole.  We need to learn to address our issues and seek help and recovery to really heal from our past.  I hope you find great insights and help from this episode today.   

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This is an excellent awareness and "FYI" talk with Dr. LaToya Geter, a Human Services Practitioner and Phenomenologist about the ins and outs of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD).  Take a listen and she gives us a great overview of this fairly new diagnosis.  This is Part 2 of a 2-Part talk; so, make sure you also catch Part 1!
TW: Some discussion of abuse and neglect

Teresa Janzen is talking with Jodi Thomas, a health and wellness coach, author, and adoptive mom. Jodi had a vision of how her family would look, but that’s not what happened. She soon had to face the reality of attachment disorder and other family challenges. God gave her a vision of a bird with broken wings. Listen in as we see God work more than one miracle in this family.

Jodi Thomas is familiar with life’s challenges. She and her husband, Peter, of over 30 years have faced many. They have stories of heartbreak to heart mending from adoption, infertility, illness, incarceration, and more. Despite life not working out the way she planned, she is passionate about sharing God’s hope, health and the abundant life available to women.  

Connect with Jodi at: https://jodithomas.net

Connect with Teresa at https://teresajanzen.com

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Teresa Janzen is your host. She ignites a passion for abundant living through radical service. Teresa is an international speaker, author, and coach of speakers and writers. Her experience in leadership and global ministry drives her to share inspiring stories with wit and insight. Her candid and personable style is sure to capture the heart of any audience.

Adverse Childhood Experiences can have long-lasting negative effects on us as adults. If you have had ACEs in your own life, this episode will give you some help in overcoming those negative effects. 

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Abducted as a teen from Canada to the United States by a father figure and kept in domestic violence captivity for 15 years, Jessica Faught escaped but the impact of that trauma on herself and her children followed her back to Windsor, Ontario. Jessica shares her journey back to healing and her sacrificial collaboration with the child welfare system to give her daughter a new lease on life. 

Her story highlights the harrowing effect of domestic violence on our children and why every mother should have zero tolerance for domestic violence. 

To learn more about Jessica’s work with Attachment Disorders and raising children with PTSD, follow her on Canadians Raising Children With Attachment Disorders or join her Facebook Community at Families raising children diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

Thank you so much for listening!

References in this episode

Mirror Neurons: How We Reflect on Behavior

Red flag

The Bloomfield House

Teajai Travis

Jessica’s Story on brokenandbraced.blogspot.com

Attachment Disorders in Children: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment

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Latter-day Saints may best recognize Russell Osguthorpe's name from his time as Sunday School general president. But they may not know he has a background in psychology and was serving as a stake president when he noticed that healthy attachment could be developed in relationships as long as a desire for improvement existed. Since then, he has been devoted to better understanding attachment theory from an academic, clinical, and spiritual perspective. In this week's episode, in honor of Valentine's Day, we'll discuss the importance of developing healthy attachments with God and with those around us.

"We need to come to know God as He knows us. And we need to come to know His children as He knows His children. When we do that, we will be attached and [that attachment is] stronger than a relationship or a connection."

Show Notes

2:19- Attached?
9:05- Hope for Change
12:42- Initial Interest
14:25- Parent-children Relationships and Ability to Attach
19:52- Covenants and Attachment
22:29- Sibling Relationships
27:20- Words That Give Life
30:49- Physical Health Effects
32:52- God’s Plan for His Children
37:01- Desire To Relate in Healthy Ways
39:45- What Does It Mean To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

Find the full episode transcript at ldsliving.com/allin.

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Today on 10 Minute Mindset, Lacy Bentley returns to reveal her best advice for creating balance between your passion for work and passion for relationships. She also shares tips and strategies for creating boundaries and staying focused on the tasks at hand when distracted by feelings of joy.

Lacy Bentley has been mentoring women in overcoming compulsive behaviors and obsessive thought patterns since 2000. She stared working with women in eating disorder recovery, and now also works with women seeking to overcome relationship and sexually compulsive behaviors. A passionate guest blogger and dedicated Professional Recovery Coach, Lace takes addiction recovery seriously. She brings gentle, but no-nonsense accountability, compassionate mentorship, and her own solid recovery habits to the table. Ever learning, Lace stays up to date on research based recovery tools, current trends, and what women really want in a recovery program. As requested, Lace also speaks publicly on topics related to female addiction recovery, relationship healing, and healthy sexuality. She is currently developing a recovery program for women, written and tested by women.

You can learn more about Lacy at https://www.claritypointcoaching.com/lacy-bentley

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Today on 10 Minute Mindset, Lacy Bentley shares how she identified and overcame her attachment disorder as well as how she’s helping other women do the same.

Lacy Bentley has been mentoring women in overcoming compulsive behaviors and obsessive thought patterns since 2000. She stared working with women in eating disorder recovery, and now also works with women seeking to overcome relationship and sexually compulsive behaviors. A passionate guest blogger and dedicated Professional Recovery Coach, Lace takes addiction recovery seriously. She brings gentle, but no-nonsense accountability, compassionate mentorship, and her own solid recovery habits to the table. Ever learning, Lace stays up to date on research based recovery tools, current trends, and what women really want in a recovery program. As requested, Lace also speaks publicly on topics related to female addiction recovery, relationship healing, and healthy sexuality. She is currently developing a recovery program for women, written and tested by women.

You can learn more about Lacy at https://www.claritypointcoaching.com/lacy-bentley

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