autism love

Today's episode is about revealing that even if your child has a diagnosis that doesn't define them, judging them just doesn't help. The secret is your child not broken. 

We go deep on the concept that judging your child as 'broken' doesn't help you support them. Parents can accept their children as they are and move with determination to support them as best they can.

We've broken down the path of helping your child into five actionable steps. They are comprised of beliefs and messaging that you must adopt if you are committed to becoming a Warrior Parent. The truth is you cannot help someone until you accept them as they are. 

Thinking about step number one, understand that judging your child is broken weakens your ability to help. Step number two is to know that your child can sense your level of acceptance. And we're very fortunate that our son remembers everything, even from the time that he had no words. You absolutely have to be playing on the same team as your child. 

Three, Other people's judgment of your child doesn't define your child. Everyone has an opinion. That does not mean you should listen to them all. Don't allow outside influences to overstep their boundaries. You know them best. 

 Four, trust that every child does have opportunities to grow. Growth might not look the way you imagined, and that's okay! Embrace the steps forward your child is making. All progress is good progress.

And finally, the last step is really, and truly your child needs support that's right for them. There is no one size fits all. Once you realize that, you'll increase your connection by dropping that judgment. Please tune in to this week's episode as we dive into these important and necessary steps.

You got this!

Key Takeaways

• A diagnosis is just one piece of data (2:49)
• Broken is a judgment (5:00)
• Autism is a part of your child (6:30)
• The shift from fixing to supporting and loving (10:00)
• Your child needs support(14:05)
• How to connect with your child (17:09)
• Find the moments of positivity (20:37)
• The power of YET (23:30)
• Only compare your child to themselves (26:03)

In this episode, we teach you how to confidently step in your new role as a warrior parent. Being a warrior parent is not something you need a degree for. All you need is to trust yourself and believe that you are what is best for your child.

Knowing when to trust your own instinct over advice from a professional is challenging. You are battling with what you feel and what you are told. I am going to share one of the first moments I gave into what I felt. It was something as simple as sitting on the floor with Ry and playing the way he wanted to.

It was that moment that my husband and I saw the light in Ry’s eyes and felt a real connection with him. We saw potential in trusting our intuitions. Not because professionals are wrong, but simply because we know what is best for our son. We are going to talk about our switch to the Son-Rise Program and what we learned from taking the leap to becoming warrior parents.

Take the leap with us. Len and I developed five steps to taking the leap. We are going to talk about what it means to acknowledge reality, trust yourself, make the bold decisions and take inventory. Taking these steps helped Len turn his anxiety into energy and helped both of us feel empowered to be the warrior parents we were capable of all along.

It’s in you too. Listen and let us help you discover your inner superhero.

Key Takeaways

• You already have what it takes to be a warrior parent (1:15)
• Embracing what you feel is best, Cass connects to Ry in a special way (3:07)
• Making the switch to the Sunrise Program (5:37)
• Realization that what we needed was to let him lead (6:37)
• Take the leap to become a warrior parent (5 steps) (7:27)
• How to deal with judgement (14:36)
• Be prepared to let go (16:20)
• Our energy serge (17:17)
• Testimonial from another mom (20:14)
• Three actions you can take today (21:33)

Additional Resouces

• Son-Rise Program 

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Let’s talk about what it means to be a warrior parent and how that transformation means BIG WINS for your child with autism. 

You may be wondering, what exactly is a warrior parent?

So, let’s clear that up now. It’s a parent that is always…

• being the best that they can be
• taking courageous action
• and navigating the day to day with skill, proficiency, and ease

They refuse to stay stuck and are determined to overcome any obstacle that is in the way of the life they want for their child.

A warrior parent knows that progress is possible. We’ve even narrowed it down to a list of 10 habits that every warrior should have in their arsenal. Habits such as being the CEO of their child and providing their child with the most healing environment possible. 

These fantastic parents are continually doing hard and inconvenient things. But they don’t expect perfection from themselves; instead, they strive for excellence. Warrior parents understand that self-care is vital to the wellness of their family and make it a priority. 

And above all else-- they NEVER give up! 

Setbacks are seen as learning opportunities and a chance to learn, grow, and become stronger. Stay tuned because, in this episode, we’re discussing what you need to do to become a warrior parent so you can show up for yourself and for your child! 

Key Takeaways

• What we mean when we say warrior parent (1:34)
• 10 habits that a warrior parent has and uses (2:49)
• The importance of trusting ourselves as our child’s expert (4:52)
• Why the little bold steps forward are so transformative (6:25)
• Taking back power and questioning authority (9:16)
• A support network is absolutely essential (11:34)
• What actions to take to operate as a warrior parent (12:44)
• Take a step to take control (15:48)

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Learn more about becoming a Warrior Parent at: https://bit.ly/warriorparent

Be sure to follow us on Instagram: https://bit.ly/wpc-ig