This episode dives deep into why women feel the need to ‘test’ their men. And why trying to be a ‘nice guy’ doesn’t make a woman feel safe. 

Here’s some of what we chat about… 

• Getting a puppy 
• How our families are complete opposites 
• What is Feminine testing & why do women do it? 
• Why it’s incredibly sexy when a man is unwavering in his belief 
• The power of playfulness in moments of Feminine testing 
• Asking for respect vs. Commanding respect 
• The risk of bringing play & lightness to these moments 
• Stubbornness vs. Being unwavering as a man 
• The Masculine art of holding a deeper level of consciousness 
• You can be a powerful woman AND enjoy the experience of being led & deeply supported by your man 
• Meg trying to tell Jacob what to wear. And why it NEVER works 
• Why the NICE GUY isn’t a safe guy 
• The Nice guy is trying to please his Mother & not upset his Father
• And much more 

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The Desire Date: A sexy date night experience for couples ready to re-ignite passion & deepen intimacy.

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One of the biggest challenges inside longterm partnerships… ‘Mismatched libidos’. When one partner feels like they could have sex ALL THE TIME! And the other… well, feels like sex is a bit of a chore. 

Meg & Jacob dive deep into how to navigate differing sex drives in relationship & why it can actually be a portal to deeper intimacy & connection. 

In this episode we explore… 

• How health & hormones directly affects libido 
• Why Meg doesn’t like the term ‘mismatched libidos’ 
• The common pattern of ‘shaming’ our partner for their high/ low libido 
• The power of curiosity when navigating differing sexual desire 
• The truth about a woman’s libido & desire 
• How lack of safety & attunement locks up a woman’s libido & desire 
• Men - Are you creating a safe environment for her to tap into her sexual desire? 
• How taking sex off the table can lead to MORE SEX!!! 
• The first time Meg & Jacob mutually masturbated 

 And much, much more! 

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Before sitting down to record this episode… 

Meg cried & cried & cried whilst having sex with Jacob. 

It was a deeply healing experience for her. 

And so, we decided to have a whole conversation about the healing power of making love. 

Cause here’s the truth… 

Sex isn’t just about two (or more) bodies rubbing up against each other.

Sex is here to liberate us!

When we truly let the full spectrum of emotions be welcome in sex… 

When we truly allow whatever is ALIVE to be felt & met… 

Sex shifts from being simply about ‘getting off’... 

To a powerful tool for healing & liberation. 

In this episode we dive deep into… 

• Meg’s experience with crying during sex 
• Welcoming the full spectrum of emotions during sex 
• Why you might be experiencing numbness in your Pussy/ vagina 
• How the Pussy holds & stores unfelt emotions/ experiences    
• Trauma & the importance of meeting it in the body 
• The power of a self pleasure practice in healing & integrating trauma 
• Meg’s journey with self pleasure as a healing tool 
• How making love can be a portal to deep healing 
• Why you cannot BYPASS your emotions on the way to deeper pleasure & orgasm 
• How a man can show up for a woman in the bedroom 
• The Masculine practice of holding space & pressing your awareness into your partner 
• What is means to live a tantric life 
• And much, much more 

Big love,

Meg & Jacob

In this episode entitled, My ovaries, my decision, Withney Sabino, founder of Mañas, the first Mozambican social and feminist magazine, chats with Graça Samo, the International Secretary of The World´s Women March. A free-flowing conversation around body autonomy and how even a piece of clothing, the capulana, was a symbol of power. We won’t tell you more but will leave you to listen. The conversation is held in Portuguese, but you can read the full transcript in English on our website: https://houseofafricanfeminisms.org