cosplay relationships

The time we spend with people online, isn’t really spending time with them – it’s more the time we spend dwelling on their content.  This actually sounds a lot like the kinds of unhealthy relationships that we tend to find in high school or middle school when you ‘crush’ on someone.  You don’t know them, talk to them, or really interact with them at any level, but you think you know them, and you WANT them to like you.

But the question of being able to keep up with 1000 or more people either that you follow online or that follow you is quite impossible.  You really have to pick among these people which you really want to keep up with, and even then, you might narrow it down to hundreds or your top people (see MySpace) and then all the other people who want to be your friend will see that and…well that’s where it goes.

So why do we try to do it?  Because we’re told by the online gurus that if we want to gain attention – which apparently is the most important thing in web 2.0 and on earth right now…or at least that’s the thought process – if we want the attention, we need to interact.

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There’s a line we need to discuss in Cosplay – and it’s when we begin to harm ourselves in order to remain relevant in the Cosplay space – financial, physical, social hurt.  It can burn us out.  It can make us broke.  It can become an obsession, and we can dwell on what the trolls are telling us about ourselves that isn’t true.

Draw a line.  Do not kill your relationships for Cosplay. Do not alienate people and destroy lives in the name of Cosplay.  Don’t be that Karen that has to circulate rumors and talk about people behind their back in the DMs and advocate positivity on the surface and then break people down behind the scenes.

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