costofdivorce

The "Rainwater Trap" is a story, and an example, of how a man can easily get trapped in "divorce scarcity" and lose time, money and energy. In this episode, Steve shows how the scarcity mindset exists on various levels outside the divorcee. He also talks about what divorce really is, "a separation from something", and how other divorces relating to things like disability, illness, death and job loss all operate under a framework that supports, rather than fights.

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There are baseline, "unavoidable", costs in every divorce that tie directly to the amount of time and money necessary to divorce. Then, there are the "avoidable" costs, or cost we can manage, but often don't. These costs go on longer than they should and are the reasons are why your divorce sucks to any degree. In this episode, Steve talks about adding on avoidable costs, and the importance of using tools to lower their impacts."A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon Page gives listeners access to a wide range of support.
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In this episode, Steve explains how our own nature prevents us from properly handling the difficulties with divorce. As a result, we introduce "avoidable"costs, which are the very costs that cause the divorce to suck more-so than it should.

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Some costs with divorce are clear, while others are unclear. Steve outlines the costs within an amicable divorce, and explains how the costs compound as the divorce becomes more contentious. He introduces the "Scale of Suckiness" as he explains how unclear costs compound overall costs (Money, Time, Energy and Health) as one experiences higher levels of "suckiness" in their divorce.

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https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-consulting/
https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/

Why divorce is so expensive? Adelola and Stephanie talk about why and how divorces can cost you a pretty penny. Many know that attorney fees are a big factor in final expenses but there are so many other situations that can drive up the total bill. Topics covered on today's episode:

- how do lawyers charge?

- why don’t lawyers have fixed pricing for divorce?

- why are custody cases expensive?

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