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What motivates a religious man to use God as a tool in his divorce kit as he withholds the gett? Today we learn that while we are all human and prone to improper conduct, we must never drag God into the fight.

Why do birds fly south? Why do we say they fly south when they eventually also fly north? Today we learn that birds protect us and never question God when He sweeps them away from their natural habitat. Ultimately, they realize that God is carrying them to a better place.

How much FEAR OF GOD should you instill in your children? Today we learn that parents give their children wings to bring their mitzvos to heaven. Mother gives the love and father gives the fear. But each must give the right amount. Otherwise the mitzvah bird will be lopsided. (li”n Joar bat Yehuda)

How would you react if you found a piece of hair or a fly in your soup? Today we learn to avoid letting tiny disturbances ruin our relationships.

Do chemistry and attraction make any sense? Should rationalists believe in such superstitious magic? Today we learn that chemistry is a gift from Heaven to help you identify your spouse.

How do you make your guests feel welcome when they arrive? How do you accompany them when they leave? Today we learn that the true test of love and care is accompanying your guests even after the novelty has worn off.

May one donate one’s organs? Should one donate one’s organs? Today we learn that it all depends on where life begins and where life ends.

Should all kids finish school at 18? Or should we allow kids to finish at their own pace, some quicker, some slower? Today we learn that the current western cultural norms do not align with our Torah needs.

Does wearing a head covering feel like an honor or a hassle? Today we learn that tzitzis aren’t a hassle, they’re a tassle. And upon your reflection, the kippah grants protection.

If you were to describe the Shema in one word, what would that be? Powerful? Awesome? Enigmatic? Today we learn that the key word is PROTECTIVE.

Will FLATTERY get you ANYWHERE or NOWHERE? Today we learn that false flattery is an excuse for not taking the time to appreciate the other person’s true qualities.

How much does someone need to do for you to warrant an expression of gratitude? Today we learn that each of us naturally sits somewhere different along the appreciation spectrum. Like all character traits, we must constantly strive to improve our attitude of gratitude and learn to thank people for even the tiniest nice gestures they do for us.

How do you keep yourself busy during the Torah reading? Today we learn that even Torah can be a distraction from Torah!

Why do people envy others? What’s the meaning of having a good eye? Today we learn that the key to rid yourself of jealousy is to think in terms of absolute prosperity instead of relative prosperity. When that’s your mindset, you won’t envy your neighbor’s success, you’ll rejoice!

Have you ever dreamed of life as a princess or prince? Today we learn that you ARE a child of the Supreme King of Kings, making you a supreme prince or princess. Are you living up to the expectations of your exalted position?

Why should you never cast stones up at God when you feel He’s let you down? Today we learn that those who cast stones at Heaven are only making things more difficult for themselves. Sadly, thanks to Newton, those rocks end up landing back on your head. Life is filled with ups and downs, but Hashem is always in control.

When things aren’t going well in your life, do you ask God for a sign He’s still in control? Today we learn that “emunah” means recognizing all the signs He’s already given you, all the blessings and good times in your life!

Is it better to pray in Hebrew or a language you understand? Today we learn the importance of praying in the original. If you’re not there yet, it’s something you must strive to attain!

What’s one obvious way to identify a haughty person? Today we learn that arrogant people get upset at the smallest irritations. When you realize that God fills the universe, there’s never any reason to lose your cool.